Poll of the Day > Why would anyone move out their parents home before marrying if you get along?

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yourDaddie 10/09/18 4:18:16 PM #1:	I lived with my parents until I was 29 a couple of months before I got married. It allowed me to save tons of money and since I always got along great with my parents and they respected my privacy and time I didn't see a reason to move out.. And no women don't care if you are atractive. And if you are not atractivewhy would you marry someone who cares so much about your money anyway? --- I am your father <cite>yourDaddie posted [p:910243460] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I lived with my parents until I was 29 a couple of months before I got married. It allowed me to save tons of money and since I always got along great with my parents and they respected my privacy and time I didn't see a reason to move out.. And no women don't care if you are atractive. And if you are not atractivewhy would you marry someone who cares so much about your money anyway?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lihlih 10/09/18 4:22:53 PM #2:	I moved out because I joined the Army. Kind of hard to stay in yoir parents' house if you're in the armed forces, except those stupid weekend warriors.(Guard and Reserves) --- There are more than two genders, try to change my mind <cite>lihlih posted [p:910243716] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I moved out because I joined the Army. Kind of hard to stay in yoir parents' house if you're in the armed forces, except those stupid weekend warriors.(Guard and Reserves)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VixYW 10/09/18 4:26:17 PM #3:	No reason, unless you want to have your own home. the thing is, it usually gets difficult to keep getting along with them over time if you live under the same roof. <cite>VixYW posted [p:910243893] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>No reason, unless you want to have your own home. the thing is, it usually gets difficult to keep getting along with them over time if you live under the same roof.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronicFool 10/09/18 4:36:07 PM #5:	I intend to live with my parents until they die and then use squatters rights to get the house. <cite>IronicFool posted [p:910244437] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I intend to live with my parents until they die and then use squatters rights to get the house.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kangolcone 10/09/18 5:00:45 PM #6:	Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents. --- Annoy a Conservative, punch a Nazi. <cite>kangolcone posted [p:910245726] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WastelandCowboy 10/09/18 5:11:11 PM #7:	I get along with my mom, pay rent that goes to utilities and mortgage. I pay my own cell bill and pay for food that we may end up ultimately sharing. I cook, clean, do yard work, and just altogether help out around the house. I cant live alone because, even with budgeting my money and expenses, I cant afford to live alone. I could move into an apartment with a roommate, but I dont know anyone whose looking. And frankly, I dont know how my mom would manage without me and I dont want her to suffer or go into a midlife crisis over it. <cite>WastelandCowboy posted [p:910246311] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I get along with my mom, pay rent that goes to utilities and mortgage. I pay my own cell bill and pay for food that we may end up ultimately sharing. I cook, clean, do yard work, and just altogether help out around the house. I cant live alone because, even with budgeting my money and expenses, I cant afford to live alone. I could move into an apartment with a roommate, but I dont know anyone whose looking. And frankly, I dont know how my mom would manage without me and I dont want her to suffer or go into a midlife crisis over it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kangolcone 10/09/18 5:14:56 PM #8:	Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest. --- Annoy a Conservative, punch a Nazi. <cite>kangolcone posted [p:910246503] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Monopoman 10/09/18 5:15:21 PM #9:	VixYW posted... No reason, unless you want to have your own home. the thing is, it usually gets difficult to keep getting along with them over time if you live under the same roof. --- BF ID: Birck #1559845599 Leads: Elaina, Nia, Tsovinar <cite>Monopoman posted [p:910246522] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>VixYW posted...</cite> <quote>No reason, unless you want to have your own home. the thing is, it usually gets difficult to keep getting along with them over time if you live under the same roof.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WastelandCowboy 10/09/18 5:41:24 PM #10:	kangolcone posted... Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest. I have no idea. We split the cost of everything. <cite>WastelandCowboy posted [p:910247839] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>kangolcone posted...</cite> <quote>Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest.</quote> I have no idea. We split the cost of everything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rogerskg1979 10/09/18 5:44:48 PM #11:	I moved out because I want independence. I never plan on getting married. I'm a loner, and don't like being around people much, so I definitely don't want to spend my life married to another person. I do however want my independence to do what I want when I want, and you can't do that if you are still living with your parents. <cite>rogerskg1979 posted [p:910248017] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I moved out because I want independence. I never plan on getting married. I'm a loner, and don't like being around people much, so I definitely don't want to spend my life married to another person. I do however want my independence to do what I want when I want, and you can't do that if you are still living with your parents.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
streamofthesky 10/09/18 5:48:27 PM #12:	Getting laid. Even if your parents are the chillest parents ever and 100% respect your privacy (good for you, mine were nothing like that), you're...still living with your parents. Maybe now that 1/3 of people post-college and into their early 30's are doing it, there's less of a stigma. But I definitely would've felt embarrassed and uncomfortable bringing a date to mom and dad's house.... I guess w/ the money you save living w/ them, you could just get a hotel on those occasions and lie about your living arrangements if you were ok w/ that... Usually "going back to my/your place" is the starting point, not outright, "let's go have sex," though. <cite>streamofthesky posted [p:910248209] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Getting laid. Even if your parents are the chillest parents ever and 100% respect your privacy (good for you, mine were nothing like that), you're...still living with your parents. Maybe now that 1/3 of people post-college and into their early 30's are doing it, there's less of a stigma. But I definitely would've felt embarrassed and uncomfortable bringing a date to mom and dad's house.... I guess w/ the money you save living w/ them, you could just get a hotel on those occasions and lie about your living arrangements if you were ok w/ that... Usually "going back to my/your place" is the starting point, not outright, "let's go have sex," though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MacrossSpecial 10/09/18 5:55:41 PM #13:	I moved out at 17 because that is just what kids in my family do after high school, ended up going the military route due to 9/11. I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space. --- ...Dude, you're a ****ing douche. Get off my god damn internets. - RX7Infinitilll <cite>MacrossSpecial posted [p:910248603] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I moved out at 17 because that is just what kids in my family do after high school, ended up going the military route due to 9/11. I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kangolcone 10/09/18 6:11:01 PM #14:	WastelandCowboy posted... kangolcone posted... Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest. I have no idea. We split the cost of everything. How much are your property taxes? --- Annoy a Conservative, punch a Nazi. <cite>kangolcone posted [p:910249378] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>WastelandCowboy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kangolcone posted...</cite> <quote>Is the rent you pay fair for the space you occupy? Lets say it wasnt your Moms house, would you be charged more, less, or the same? Be honest.</quote> I have no idea. We split the cost of everything.</quote> How much are your property taxes?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eli_loves_ddr 10/09/18 6:18:52 PM #15:	I moved out to get out of a small town. I'd rather live in a big city where I can further my education or get a job other than a factory or fast food. --- CFN: DDRgasm (FANG) DBFZ: GlutenFreeKrilln (Gohan, Frieza, Krillin) <cite>eli_loves_ddr posted [p:910249777] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I moved out to get out of a small town. I'd rather live in a big city where I can further my education or get a job other than a factory or fast food.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOExHIGASHI 10/09/18 6:26:50 PM #16:	IronicFool posted... I intend to live with my parents until they die and then use squatters rights to get the house. You won't inherit the house? --- Next Xbox will be named Xbox1 2 <cite>JOExHIGASHI posted [p:910250181] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>IronicFool posted...</cite> <quote>I intend to live with my parents until they die and then use squatters rights to get the house.</quote> You won't inherit the house?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 10/09/18 6:35:05 PM #17:	Primary reason is Sex and LOTS of sex, and loud sex, and sex with multiple people and did i mention Sex? But seriously (ok that was actually serious), you also can: Run around your house naked if you want, and not worry about flashing anyone. Have your own space/home etc to return to without needing to interact with anyone if you don't want to (before getting a live in gf/wife etc of course). Play your music etc as loud as you want, set up the living room as a gaming center etc. Have sex as much and as loud as you want (what did I mention this already?!). Honestly though, it's nice to have your own place if you can afford it. Honestly I think saving money early on (having roomates if you need to) makes more sense, and roomates often won't care i fyour having loud sex (especially if they are having loud sex, or if your having loud sex with them, or if your having loud sex with them and other people at the same time). I mean, you can still live pretty cheap with roomates, so get a few friends together and rent a 2 bedroom wherever you live, convert the living room into a 3rd bedroom and split the cost 3 ways. Each of you has your own love pad to bring chicks/guys back to, and you have your own life without parental units watching over you. You don't really SAVE that much living with your parents, unless they are paying utilities and food for you as well. You can live fairly well on $500 a month with friends if you want, and even min wage jobs pay for that in most areas in 1 week (still leaving you 3 weeks of income to do with as you will). So yeah..... TLDR: Sex --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:910250632] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Primary reason is Sex and LOTS of sex, and loud sex, and sex with multiple people and did i mention Sex? But seriously (ok that was actually serious), you also can: Run around your house naked if you want, and not worry about flashing anyone. Have your own space/home etc to return to without needing to interact with anyone if you don't want to (before getting a live in gf/wife etc of course). Play your music etc as loud as you want, set up the living room as a gaming center etc. Have sex as much and as loud as you want (what did I mention this already?!). Honestly though, it's nice to have your own place if you can afford it. Honestly I think saving money early on (having roomates if you need to) makes more sense, and roomates often won't care i fyour having loud sex (especially if they are having loud sex, or if your having loud sex with them, or if your having loud sex with them and other people at the same time). I mean, you can still live pretty cheap with roomates, so get a few friends together and rent a 2 bedroom wherever you live, convert the living room into a 3rd bedroom and split the cost 3 ways. Each of you has your own love pad to bring chicks/guys back to, and you have your own life without parental units watching over you. You don't really SAVE that much living with your parents, unless they are paying utilities and food for you as well. You can live fairly well on $500 a month with friends if you want, and even min wage jobs pay for that in most areas in 1 week (still leaving you 3 weeks of income to do with as you will). So yeah..... TLDR: Sex</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nightengale 10/09/18 6:40:58 PM #18:	I'm almost 23 and live with my mom, we are close and get along well. I'm a full-time student and I don't have a job right now so it wouldn't make sense to leave anyway. My mom works so it's not like I'm never alone. I date and have friends and get enough privacy. I will probably move out sometime after I graduate though. --- She just wants attention / We all want attention She just wants it more than she'd have you believe <cite>Nightengale posted [p:910250963] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I'm almost 23 and live with my mom, we are close and get along well. I'm a full-time student and I don't have a job right now so it wouldn't make sense to leave anyway. My mom works so it's not like I'm never alone. I date and have friends and get enough privacy. I will probably move out sometime after I graduate though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FuriousFox 10/09/18 6:43:47 PM #19:	My parents live in a small town and I have a degree in computer science. I had to leave home in order to find work. --- What the hell, when did GameFAQs clear my signature and quote? <cite>FuriousFox posted [p:910251102] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>My parents live in a small town and I have a degree in computer science. I had to leave home in order to find work.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOExHIGASHI 10/09/18 6:45:04 PM #20:	In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. --- Next Xbox will be named Xbox1 2 <cite>JOExHIGASHI posted [p:910251171] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green dragon 10/09/18 7:09:20 PM #21:	JOExHIGASHI posted... In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. When and where do you have sex? --- Just because you're trash doesn't mean you can't do great things. It's called garbage can, not garbage cannot. <cite>green dragon posted [p:910252591] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> When and where do you have sex?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InfestedAdam 10/09/18 7:10:30 PM #22:	JOExHIGASHI posted... You won't inherit the house? Sometimes I wonder what if my mother donate the house to some Buddhist monks instead of passing it on to my sister and me. I'll be surprise but actually wouldn't be upset since it is within her right. She has done a lot for us already as we were growing up. I wouldn't feel like she owe us to give us the house. JOExHIGASHI posted... The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. Funny enough my up until my sister got married, my mother was actually against her moving out to live with her at the time, boyfriend. She wasn't against it due to cultural reasons or not trusting her son-in-law but rather she just felt it was a waste of money. Though I think my sister and brother-in-law still stay apart as respect to his parents of not living together till married. --- "You must gather your party before venturing forth" "Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!" <cite>InfestedAdam posted [p:910252645] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>You won't inherit the house?</quote> Sometimes I wonder what if my mother donate the house to some Buddhist monks instead of passing it on to my sister and me. I'll be surprise but actually wouldn't be upset since it is within her right. She has done a lot for us already as we were growing up. I wouldn't feel like she owe us to give us the house. <cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> Funny enough my up until my sister got married, my mother was actually against her moving out to live with her at the time, boyfriend. She wasn't against it due to cultural reasons or not trusting her son-in-law but rather she just felt it was a waste of money. Though I think my sister and brother-in-law still stay apart as respect to his parents of not living together till married.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DPsx7 10/09/18 7:58:26 PM #23:	I don't see what the big deal is. If you get along then why not? I'm sure your parents did a lot for you so it's only fair to return the favor. <cite>DPsx7 posted [p:910255061] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I don't see what the big deal is. If you get along then why not? I'm sure your parents did a lot for you so it's only fair to return the favor.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DPsx7 10/09/18 7:59:33 PM #24:	green dragon posted... JOExHIGASHI posted... In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. When and where do you have sex? Why is that important? <cite>DPsx7 posted [p:910255120] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> When and where do you have sex?</quote> Why is that important?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JOExHIGASHI 10/09/18 8:17:27 PM #25:	DPsx7 posted... green dragon posted... JOExHIGASHI posted... In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. When and where do you have sex? Why is that important? Because I'm a very sexy man --- Next Xbox will be named Xbox1 2 <cite>JOExHIGASHI posted [p:910256167] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>DPsx7 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> When and where do you have sex?</quote> Why is that important?</quote> Because I'm a very sexy man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DPsx7 10/09/18 8:40:47 PM #26:	JOExHIGASHI posted... DPsx7 posted... green dragon posted... JOExHIGASHI posted... In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money. When and where do you have sex? Why is that important? Because I'm a very sexy man Gross... <cite>DPsx7 posted [p:910257665] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DPsx7 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JOExHIGASHI posted...</cite> <quote>In my culture it's normal to to live with your parents, grand parents, etc. The family is one unit so if you move out you're spending more money which is the family's money.</quote> When and where do you have sex?</quote> Why is that important?</quote> Because I'm a very sexy man</quote> Gross...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronicFool 10/09/18 8:47:07 PM #27:	wolfy42 posted... Primary reason is Sex and LOTS of sex, and loud sex, and sex with multiple people and did i mention Sex? But seriously (ok that was actually serious), you also can: Run around your house naked if you want, and not worry about flashing anyone. Have your own space/home etc to return to without needing to interact with anyone if you don't want to (before getting a live in gf/wife etc of course). Play your music etc as loud as you want, set up the living room as a gaming center etc. Have sex as much and as loud as you want (what did I mention this already?!). Honestly though, it's nice to have your own place if you can afford it. Honestly I think saving money early on (having roomates if you need to) makes more sense, and roomates often won't care i fyour having loud sex (especially if they are having loud sex, or if your having loud sex with them, or if your having loud sex with them and other people at the same time). I mean, you can still live pretty cheap with roomates, so get a few friends together and rent a 2 bedroom wherever you live, convert the living room into a 3rd bedroom and split the cost 3 ways. Each of you has your own love pad to bring chicks/guys back to, and you have your own life without parental units watching over you. You don't really SAVE that much living with your parents, unless they are paying utilities and food for you as well. You can live fairly well on $500 a month with friends if you want, and even min wage jobs pay for that in most areas in 1 week (still leaving you 3 weeks of income to do with as you will). So yeah..... TLDR: Sex I really think this guy has a lot of sex and is undercompensating if anything. <cite>IronicFool posted [p:910258060] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>wolfy42 posted...</cite> <quote>Primary reason is Sex and LOTS of sex, and loud sex, and sex with multiple people and did i mention Sex? But seriously (ok that was actually serious), you also can: Run around your house naked if you want, and not worry about flashing anyone. Have your own space/home etc to return to without needing to interact with anyone if you don't want to (before getting a live in gf/wife etc of course). Play your music etc as loud as you want, set up the living room as a gaming center etc. Have sex as much and as loud as you want (what did I mention this already?!). Honestly though, it's nice to have your own place if you can afford it. Honestly I think saving money early on (having roomates if you need to) makes more sense, and roomates often won't care i fyour having loud sex (especially if they are having loud sex, or if your having loud sex with them, or if your having loud sex with them and other people at the same time). I mean, you can still live pretty cheap with roomates, so get a few friends together and rent a 2 bedroom wherever you live, convert the living room into a 3rd bedroom and split the cost 3 ways. Each of you has your own love pad to bring chicks/guys back to, and you have your own life without parental units watching over you. You don't really SAVE that much living with your parents, unless they are paying utilities and food for you as well. You can live fairly well on $500 a month with friends if you want, and even min wage jobs pay for that in most areas in 1 week (still leaving you 3 weeks of income to do with as you will). So yeah..... TLDR: Sex</quote> I really think this guy has a lot of sex and is undercompensating if anything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yourDaddie 10/09/18 9:33:40 PM #28:	kangolcone posted... Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents. No the house was already paid so we didn't pay rent. I paid for utilities because even thought they didn't want me too I felt bad not helping. On myfirst check I brought them a trip to Europe for their 25 year anniversary. They are the best parents I could ever had --- I am your father <cite>yourDaddie posted [p:910260931] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>kangolcone posted...</cite> <quote>Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents.</quote> No the house was already paid so we didn't pay rent. I paid for utilities because even thought they didn't want me too I felt bad not helping. On myfirst check I brought them a trip to Europe for their 25 year anniversary. They are the best parents I could ever had</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
funbot 10/09/18 10:15:12 PM #29:	Some of us want a little more independence. --- PSN:defTommo <cite>funbot posted [p:910263093] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Some of us want a little more independence.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 10/09/18 10:34:07 PM #30:	Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house <cite>teddy241 posted [p:910264038] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 10/09/18 10:38:43 PM #31:	I got / get along great with my parents! I only just moved out (30 years old) and Im loving having my own place. It was great saving money all those years, but Im so happy to be on my own too. Independence is a wonderful thing. --- These pretzels are making me thirsty! <cite>rexcrk posted [p:910264284] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I got / get along great with my parents! I only just moved out (30 years old) and Im loving having my own place. It was great saving money all those years, but Im so happy to be on my own too. Independence is a wonderful thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocDelicious 10/09/18 11:32:23 PM #32:	Because I like to fuck without worrying about my parents listening in. Also, can't smoke or get obliterated drunk with them around. --- o7 Let strength be granted so the world might be mended. <cite>DocDelicious posted [p:910266986] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Because I like to fuck without worrying about my parents listening in. Also, can't smoke or get obliterated drunk with them around.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/09/18 11:42:34 PM #33:	I live on my own and sometimes wish I could move back in with my mom. Haha. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:910267584] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I live on my own and sometimes wish I could move back in with my mom. Haha.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 10/09/18 11:45:19 PM #34:	My sister moved out and went to live with her BF's parents for a bit as it was cheaper, they save cash and got a house together now. My brother moved out and in with roomates because it's cheaper to do so. Both my bro and sister worked before moving out(my bro still does my sis has kids with the BF now), my dad didn't and we live in a council house. This means that they had to pay a lot when it came to rent as rent increased when someone worked in the household. When I worked for a while I too paid quite a bit in rent. Fast forward to now though I still live with my dad, I don't work at the moment and it's a hell of a lot cheaper living at home in a three bedroom house then not. My dad does his own thing and I do mine so it works well. Of course I want to get a job and move out one day. Moving out would actually be cheaper if I was working a full time job. Also if I ever met a girl and wanted to settle down with her moving out would be a must. I doubt that'll ever happen though so eh. kangolcone posted... Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents. Not the case for everyone though. I pay my way, the phone bill and the internet bill. I've not "leached" off my dad since the age of 16 when I starting my work life. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:910267698] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>My sister moved out and went to live with her BF's parents for a bit as it was cheaper, they save cash and got a house together now. My brother moved out and in with roomates because it's cheaper to do so. Both my bro and sister worked before moving out(my bro still does my sis has kids with the BF now), my dad didn't and we live in a council house. This means that they had to pay a lot when it came to rent as rent increased when someone worked in the household. When I worked for a while I too paid quite a bit in rent. Fast forward to now though I still live with my dad, I don't work at the moment and it's a hell of a lot cheaper living at home in a three bedroom house then not. My dad does his own thing and I do mine so it works well. Of course I want to get a job and move out one day. Moving out would actually be cheaper if I was working a full time job. Also if I ever met a girl and wanted to settle down with her moving out would be a must. I doubt that'll ever happen though so eh. <cite>kangolcone posted...</cite> <quote>Because I didnt want to be a leech. The reason you save money is you leech off your parents. You likely arent paying rent, electricity, water, insurance, hell maybe you dont even pay for food. Sure you saved money, at the expense of your parents.</quote> Not the case for everyone though. I pay my way, the phone bill and the internet bill. I've not "leached" off my dad since the age of 16 when I starting my work life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rogerskg1979 10/10/18 6:20:59 AM #35:	teddy241 posted... Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house Where do you live that you can't live on 55k? I make 45k and I live quite comfortably on my own. I am planning to buy a house within the next year or so. <cite>rogerskg1979 posted [p:910277981] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>teddy241 posted...</cite> <quote>Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house</quote> Where do you live that you can't live on 55k? I make 45k and I live quite comfortably on my own. I am planning to buy a house within the next year or so.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 10/10/18 6:27:10 AM #36:	wwinterj25 posted... Not the case for everyone though. I pay my way, the phone bill and the internet bill. I've not "leached" off my dad since the age of 16 when I starting my work life. Being unemployed and a regular drinker, I don't think you're paying your way now. --- Doctor Foxx posted... The demonizing of soy has a lot to do with xenophobic ideas. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:910278096] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Not the case for everyone though. I pay my way, the phone bill and the internet bill. I've not "leached" off my dad since the age of 16 when I starting my work life.</quote> Being unemployed and a regular drinker, I don't think you're paying your way now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Action53 10/10/18 6:48:44 AM #37:	I moved out at 18, mostly because my dad is a jerk. I have 4 kids and I wouldn't mind if any/all of them wanted to stay at home as long as they helped out with chores/bills. Not a lot, but at least something. I enjoy having a full house and we usually have a transient relative staying in our spare room --- Plsbemeantome.sarahah.com <cite>Action53 posted [p:910278533] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I moved out at 18, mostly because my dad is a jerk. I have 4 kids and I wouldn't mind if any/all of them wanted to stay at home as long as they helped out with chores/bills. Not a lot, but at least something. I enjoy having a full house and we usually have a transient relative staying in our spare room</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VixYW 10/10/18 11:00:49 AM #38:	MacrossSpecial posted... I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space. Smart move. But the thing about investments is that you have to have something to invest first. When you start from zero, this is not an option. <cite>VixYW posted [p:910286925] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>MacrossSpecial posted...</cite> <quote>I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space.</quote> Smart move. But the thing about investments is that you have to have something to invest first. When you start from zero, this is not an option.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/10/18 11:38:13 AM #39:	VixYW posted... MacrossSpecial posted... I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space. Smart move. But the thing about investments is that you have to have something to invest first. When you start from zero, this is not an option. This is true. Not many people can do this. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:910288776] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>VixYW posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MacrossSpecial posted...</cite> <quote>I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. People on the level of thinking about investments at least pay attention to what is happening in the world instead of just saving paychecks while living with their parents I think. It doesn't seem like itt we are talking more about investments, rather younger dudes talking about having their own space.</quote> Smart move. But the thing about investments is that you have to have something to invest first. When you start from zero, this is not an option.</quote> This is true. Not many people can do this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InfestedAdam 10/10/18 12:26:02 PM #40:	MacrossSpecial posted... I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later. Assets aside, how did you got about making decisions like this? Prior experience? Reading it up? Given advice by a family member/friend? What investments I've been doing are just piecemealing to Franklin Templeton. I've kinda been treating it as fire-n-forget but I do check occasionally the status. --- "You must gather your party before venturing forth" "Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!" <cite>InfestedAdam posted [p:910291254] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>MacrossSpecial posted...</cite> <quote>I bought a couple houses when the market bottomed out and magically got a half million in value across the three of them when the recovery started a couple years later.</quote> Assets aside, how did you got about making decisions like this? Prior experience? Reading it up? Given advice by a family member/friend? What investments I've been doing are just piecemealing to Franklin Templeton. I've kinda been treating it as fire-n-forget but I do check occasionally the status.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 10/10/18 1:46:22 PM #41:	rogerskg1979 posted... teddy241 posted... Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house Where do you live that you can't live on 55k? I make 45k and I live quite comfortably on my own. I am planning to buy a house within the next year or so. Minneapolis/St Paul I have no student loan debts but i pay 330 on a car payment and 230 for health insurance. Along with other average bills like cell phone internet gym <cite>teddy241 posted [p:910295792] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>rogerskg1979 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>teddy241 posted...</cite> <quote>Iv saved about 12 grand over 2 years of living with my rents. Kind of want to move out but i cant afford cost of living at 55k salary. Id move out if i was making 80k. Probably buy a house</quote> Where do you live that you can't live on 55k? I make 45k and I live quite comfortably on my own. I am planning to buy a house within the next year or so.</quote> Minneapolis/St Paul I have no student loan debts but i pay 330 on a car payment and 230 for health insurance. Along with other average bills like cell phone internet gym</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dikitain 10/10/18 1:58:05 PM #42:	Originally I moved out because my job after college was over 100 miles away from home. Once I switched to a job closer to my family, I stayed with my father for a few months, but after a while it seemed better to just move out on my own since we were both introverts and wanted more privacy. Now I love living alone even if I have to pay for my 3 bedroom house by myself. --- I am a senior software engineer. If you see me post here, I am tired of writing TPS reports. <cite>Dikitain posted [p:910296387] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Originally I moved out because my job after college was over 100 miles away from home. Once I switched to a job closer to my family, I stayed with my father for a few months, but after a while it seemed better to just move out on my own since we were both introverts and wanted more privacy. Now I love living alone even if I have to pay for my 3 bedroom house by myself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 10/10/18 1:58:07 PM #43:	Too much random crap happens in life. Car is in the shop so thats 350 there. Dog needs surgery which im chipping in 200. Iv already spent 2k this year on medical related trips/meds etc <cite>teddy241 posted [p:910296390] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Too much random crap happens in life. Car is in the shop so thats 350 there. Dog needs surgery which im chipping in 200. Iv already spent 2k this year on medical related trips/meds etc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Firewood18 10/10/18 3:17:49 PM #44:	It may have been mentioned already but the main reason for me was sex. My mom didn't really mind my friends being over all the time smoking and drinking but whenever I had a girl over there was always some mini lecture. --- (edited 1 second ago) <cite>Firewood18 posted [p:910301113] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>It may have been mentioned already but the main reason for me was sex. My mom didn't really mind my friends being over all the time smoking and drinking but whenever I had a girl over there was always some mini lecture.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 10/10/18 3:25:17 PM #45:	Some people grow up in really troubled or turbulent households If you get along with your parents though and its a good environment then I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood <cite>Mead posted [p:910301566] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>Some people grow up in really troubled or turbulent households If you get along with your parents though and its a good environment then I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InfestedAdam 10/10/18 3:35:36 PM #46:	Mead posted... I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays I do wonder how many are in good relationship with their family but still move out because they feel it is a "rite of passage". If one can afford it, sure, but at the same time making smart financial decisions is kinda also part of that "rite of passage" of being an adult. --- "You must gather your party before venturing forth" "Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!" <cite>InfestedAdam posted [p:910302163] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays</quote> I do wonder how many are in good relationship with their family but still move out because they feel it is a "rite of passage". If one can afford it, sure, but at the same time making smart financial decisions is kinda also part of that "rite of passage" of being an adult.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VixYW 10/10/18 3:51:08 PM #47:	InfestedAdam posted... Mead posted... I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays I do wonder how many are in good relationship with their family but still move out because they feel it is a "rite of passage". If one can afford it, sure, but at the same time making smart financial decisions is kinda also part of that "rite of passage" of being an adult. Doing that for this said "rite" sounds like a waste of time and money. I would like to move out because the our current home is too small for all of us. If it wasn't for that, I would probably stay there forever... or until I get kicked out, tho I doubt that would ever happen. Not a lech here btw, I do pay for my water and electricity (and for everyone when we eat out, because we would never do it otherwise...), and I'm almost never at home anyway because of work and studies so it's not that much. I also find rental to be a waste on the long run, it's better to save enough money to buy a place and never ever having to pay to stay there even though it takes longer to actually being able to do that. <cite>VixYW posted [p:910303048] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>InfestedAdam posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>I dont see any reason why someone should be pressured to leave home, especially considering how expensive everything is nowadays</quote> I do wonder how many are in good relationship with their family but still move out because they feel it is a "rite of passage". If one can afford it, sure, but at the same time making smart financial decisions is kinda also part of that "rite of passage" of being an adult.</quote> Doing that for this said "rite" sounds like a waste of time and money. I would like to move out because the our current home is too small for all of us. If it wasn't for that, I would probably stay there forever... or until I get kicked out, tho I doubt that would ever happen. Not a lech here btw, I do pay for my water and electricity (and for everyone when we eat out, because we would never do it otherwise...), and I'm almost never at home anyway because of work and studies so it's not that much. I also find rental to be a waste on the long run, it's better to save enough money to buy a place and never ever having to pay to stay there even though it takes longer to actually being able to do that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
InfestedAdam 10/10/18 3:53:19 PM #48:	VixYW posted... Doing that for this said "rite" sounds like a waste of time and money. That was my mom's reasoning to discourage my sister from moving out. "Rite of passage" be damn, it's a waste of money like you said. VixYW posted... I also find rental to be a waste on the long run, it's better to save enough money to buy a place and never ever having to pay to stay there even though it takes longer to actually being able to do that. Aye. Friend of mine is looking to get a condo since a house is overkill for him and his apartment rates just keep going up. Oddly enough, I think he said his mortgage and HOA fees will somehow be less than his rent but he isn't satisfy with the condos he has seen thus far. --- "You must gather your party before venturing forth" "Go for the eyes Boo! Go for the eyes!" <cite>InfestedAdam posted [p:910303145] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote><cite>VixYW posted...</cite> <quote>Doing that for this said "rite" sounds like a waste of time and money.</quote> That was my mom's reasoning to discourage my sister from moving out. "Rite of passage" be damn, it's a waste of money like you said. <cite>VixYW posted...</cite> <quote>I also find rental to be a waste on the long run, it's better to save enough money to buy a place and never ever having to pay to stay there even though it takes longer to actually being able to do that.</quote> Aye. Friend of mine is looking to get a condo since a house is overkill for him and his apartment rates just keep going up. Oddly enough, I think he said his mortgage and HOA fees will somehow be less than his rent but he isn't satisfy with the condos he has seen thus far.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 10/10/18 10:59:23 PM #49:	I would buy if I was back in my hometown. But not where I currently am... So, I rent here... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:910325955] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>I would buy if I was back in my hometown. But not where I currently am... So, I rent here...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 10/10/18 11:07:25 PM #50:	This is why it's not as great for people just getting out of school as it was for those of us graduating in the 80's. Mind you, of all the people I know (and it was alot) I was the ONLY person anywhere within a decade of my age that invested in these bonds. This was the interest rate of goverment EE bonds, calculated semi-anually (basically matured (doubled) every 7 years). MAY 1, 198511.17% NOV 1, 198412.87% MAY 1, 198411.71% NOV 1, 198311.04% MAY 1, 198310.17% NOV 1, 198213.05% They actually went up significantly in 2018 to 2.42%....in the preceeding 5 years they averaged about 1.2% (which would take your whole life to mature). --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:910326333] in Why would ... [t:77082633]...</cite> <quote>This is why it's not as great for people just getting out of school as it was for those of us graduating in the 80's. Mind you, of all the people I know (and it was alot) I was the ONLY person anywhere within a decade of my age that invested in these bonds. This was the interest rate of goverment EE bonds, calculated semi-anually (basically matured (doubled) every 7 years). MAY 1, 198511.17% NOV 1, 198412.87% MAY 1, 198411.71% NOV 1, 198311.04% MAY 1, 198310.17% NOV 1, 198213.05% They actually went up significantly in 2018 to 2.42%....in the preceeding 5 years they averaged about 1.2% (which would take your whole life to mature).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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