Board 8 > So my relationship is over...

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ChainLTTP 04/12/21 5:05:13 PM #101:	Peace___Frog posted... It's your house, she should be the one staying at a hotel. oh god, I don't think you have been married... <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952758711] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Peace___Frog posted... </cite> <quote>It's your house, she should be the one staying at a hotel.</quote>oh god, I don't think you have been married... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leafeon13N 04/12/21 5:10:29 PM #102:	Corrik apparently has no spine and if she gets a lawyer hes probably not going to have any possessions or money either. That said, in most states you cant just throw someone out of your house that you have a living agreement with. There is usually a process you have to undertake. A process Corrik should be looking into and enacting but that we all know he wont. <cite>Leafeon13N posted [p:952758885] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik apparently has no spine and if she gets a lawyer hes probably not going to have any possessions or money either. That said, in most states you cant just throw someone out of your house that you have a living agreement with. There is usually a process you have to undertake. A process Corrik should be looking into and enacting but that we all know he wont. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/12/21 5:16:04 PM #103:	Men don't kick out their wives, even if they are terrible. Men get their own hotel rooms, go on benders, and bang bar hags to cope. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952759049] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Men don't kick out their wives, even if they are terrible. Men get their own hotel rooms, go on benders, and bang bar hags to cope. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr Lasastryke 04/12/21 5:17:19 PM #104:	i think by "men" you mean "idiots" --- Geothermal terpsichorean ejectamenta <cite>Mr Lasastryke posted [p:952759101] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>i think by "men" you mean "idiots" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/12/21 5:27:51 PM #105:	Leafeon13N posted... Corrik apparently has no spine and if she gets a lawyer hes probably not going to have any possessions or money either. That said, in most states you cant just throw someone out of your house that you have a living agreement with. There is usually a process you have to undertake. A process Corrik should be looking into and enacting but that we all know he wont. A lot of this post is grossly uninformed. Corrik, a divorce court isn't going to completely fuck you if you take steps to be the bigger person in it, when it's clear she's being unreasonable. The best thing you can do is take the high road throughout this and the Judge will notice and appreciate that, especially if she tries to make things difficult. But you should start the divorce process now so this can be resolved ASAP. Get a lawyer, listen to what they say, and be overly reasonable to accommodate her during this. If she at any point keeps you from entering your house, call the cops and they'll take care of letting you back in. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952759460] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Leafeon13N posted... </cite> <quote>Corrik apparently has no spine and if she gets a lawyer hes probably not going to have any possessions or money either. That said, in most states you cant just throw someone out of your house that you have a living agreement with. There is usually a process you have to undertake. A process Corrik should be looking into and enacting but that we all know he wont.</quote>A lot of this post is grossly uninformed. Corrik, a divorce court isn't going to completely fuck you if you take steps to be the bigger person in it, when it's clear she's being unreasonable. The best thing you can do is take the high road throughout this and the Judge will notice and appreciate that, especially if she tries to make things difficult. But you should start the divorce process now so this can be resolved ASAP. Get a lawyer, listen to what they say, and be overly reasonable to accommodate her during this. If she at any point keeps you from entering your house, call the cops and they'll take care of letting you back in. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingButz 04/12/21 5:32:32 PM #106:	ChainLTTP posted... Men don't kick out their wives, even if they are terrible. Men get their own hotel rooms, go on benders, and bang bar hags to cope. He's not married to begin with. Also he can do whatever he wants --- rip imgcake <cite>KingButz posted [p:952759620] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted...</cite> <quote>Men don't kick out their wives, even if they are terrible. Men get their own hotel rooms, go on benders, and bang bar hags to cope.</quote> He's not married to begin with. Also he can do whatever he wants</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/12/21 5:49:39 PM #107:	Oh wait, you aren't married? Yeah you should evict her then. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952760216] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Oh wait, you aren't married? Yeah you should evict her then. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr Lasastryke 04/12/21 6:00:27 PM #108:	they're engaged. --- Geothermal terpsichorean ejectamenta <cite>Mr Lasastryke posted [p:952760597] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>they're engaged. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/12/21 6:08:51 PM #109:	Oh, what the fuck. Okay, screw what everyone is saying. What I say still stands: be the bigger person in this issue so you don't get fucked on child support and custody and the judge looks at you favorably. The car payments will be factored into it as well, so don't even worry about that. Don't kick her out. Go to a hotel, offer to pay for a hotel for her. Do whatever you need to. Get a lawyer right now though. Like talk to one today. Any lawyer will tell you to take the high road on all of this, even when she doesn't deserve it. The Judge won't care about what she did vs. what you did as much as what you're doing right now for the betterment of her and your family. But you need a lawyer for this. Get one. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952760901] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Oh, what the fuck. Okay, screw what everyone is saying. What I say still stands: be the bigger person in this issue so you don't get fucked on child support and custody and the judge looks at you favorably. The car payments will be factored into it as well, so don't even worry about that. Don't kick her out. Go to a hotel, offer to pay for a hotel for her. Do whatever you need to. Get a lawyer right now though. Like talk to one today. Any lawyer will tell you to take the high road on all of this, even when she doesn't deserve it. The Judge won't care about what she did vs. what you did as much as what you're doing right now for the betterment of her and your family. But you need a lawyer for this. Get one. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/12/21 6:21:22 PM #110:	PrivateBiscuit1 posted... But you need a lawyer for this. Get one. We've told him this already. He wont. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952761372] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>PrivateBiscuit1 posted... </cite> <quote>But you need a lawyer for this. Get one.</quote> We've told him this already. He wont. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/12/21 6:24:00 PM #111:	Corrik's thing is making advice topics and then ignoring all of the advice he's given, so this is going well for him. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952761497] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik's thing is making advice topics and then ignoring all of the advice he's given, so this is going well for him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosTonyV4 04/12/21 6:29:18 PM #112:	PrivateBiscuit1 posted... Don't kick her out. Go to a hotel, offer to pay for a hotel for her. Do whatever you need to. Get a lawyer right now though. Like talk to one today. I have a friend who is both a lawyer and got fucked by divorce court, and even if he bought the house, if he moves out or goes to a hotel and doesnt immediately get his lawyer to say otherwise, hes going to lose the high ground when it comes to divvying up assets, including that house. I know you feel bad Corrik, but if youre going to keep living after this, you need to stand up for yourself in this, she sounds like the kind of person who is going to take you for everything she can get. --- Phantom Dust. "I'll just wait for time to prove me right again." - Vlado <cite>ChaosTonyV4 posted [p:952761733] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>PrivateBiscuit1 posted... </cite> <quote>Don't kick her out. Go to a hotel, offer to pay for a hotel for her. Do whatever you need to. Get a lawyer right now though. Like talk to one today.</quote> I have a friend who is both a lawyer and got fucked by divorce court, and even if he bought the house, if he moves out or goes to a hotel and doesnt immediately get his lawyer to say otherwise, hes going to lose the high ground when it comes to divvying up assets, including that house. I know you feel bad Corrik, but if youre going to keep living after this, you need to stand up for yourself in this, she sounds like the kind of person who is going to take you for everything she can get. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr Lasastryke 04/12/21 6:36:47 PM #113:	ChainLTTP posted... Corrik's thing is making advice topics and then ignoring all of the advice he's given, so this is going well for him. he's trying to make us nostalgic for the old smartmuffin "asking for advice" topics --- Geothermal terpsichorean ejectamenta <cite>Mr Lasastryke posted [p:952762009] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>Corrik's thing is making advice topics and then ignoring all of the advice he's given, so this is going well for him.</quote> he's trying to make us nostalgic for the old smartmuffin "asking for advice" topics </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MZero 04/12/21 7:44:04 PM #114:	How many times is someone going to have to point out that they aren"t married in this topic? Over/under 10 --- MZero, to the extreme I never saw azuarc coming, but he won the Guru! <cite>MZero posted [p:952764281] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>How many times is someone going to have to point out that they aren"t married in this topic? Over/under 10 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/12/21 8:10:38 PM #115:	Well if they aren't married then I don't understand what the question is. He just pays child support for the next 18 years or whatever and moves on. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952765288] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Well if they aren't married then I don't understand what the question is. He just pays child support for the next 18 years or whatever and moves on. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/12/21 8:42:52 PM #116:	ChainLTTP posted... Well if they aren't married then I don't understand what the question is. He just pays child support for the next 18 years or whatever and moves on. Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952766470] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>Well if they aren't married then I don't understand what the question is. He just pays child support for the next 18 years or whatever and moves on.</quote> Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/12/21 8:54:31 PM #117:	red13n posted... Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does. Yes it absolutely does unless he's in a state with common law marriage. Custody is certainly going to be an issue, but she is not going to be entitled to any of his "stuff." <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952766968] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>red13n posted... </cite> <quote>Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does.</quote>Yes it absolutely does unless he's in a state with common law marriage. Custody is certainly going to be an issue, but she is not going to be entitled to any of his "stuff." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/12/21 9:36:52 PM #118:	red13n posted... Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does. Jesus red. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952768503] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>red13n posted... </cite> <quote>Being married does not mean as much from a legal standpoint as you think it does.</quote>Jesus red. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
neonreaper 04/12/21 9:41:18 PM #119:	Its PA so unless they got engaged 16 years ago then they cant be common law. --- Donny: Are they gonna hurt us, Walter? Walter: No, Donny. These men are cowards. <cite>neonreaper posted [p:952768652] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Its PA so unless they got engaged 16 years ago then they cant be common law. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/12/21 9:50:11 PM #120:	ChainLTTP posted... Yes it absolutely does unless he's in a state with common law marriage. Custody is certainly going to be an issue, but she is not going to be entitled to any of his "stuff." Hes still got to be able to prove that stuff is his if things are going to get ugly. And shes going to have a lawyer and he will not. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952768930] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>Yes it absolutely does unless he's in a state with common law marriage. Custody is certainly going to be an issue, but she is not going to be entitled to any of his "stuff."</quote> Hes still got to be able to prove that stuff is his if things are going to get ugly. And shes going to have a lawyer and he will not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/13/21 12:41:19 AM #121:	red13n posted... Hes still got to be able to prove that stuff is his if things are going to get ugly. And shes going to have a lawyer and he will not. red, the things of actual value are going to be under his name like the car and house. They're safe. It's other things that will be up for grabs and usually just worked on by both parties unless they're worth appraising for value. Usually they just say "You can have this but give me this, this, and this." And no, common law marriage isn't a thing in PA. But yes, Corrik needs to get a lawyer yesterday for the sheer fact that you just fucking want one and if he's serious about custody--guess what? You're not going to win over a single judge to show how responsible you are without a lawyer. Get a lawyer. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952773859] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>red13n posted... </cite> <quote>Hes still got to be able to prove that stuff is his if things are going to get ugly. And shes going to have a lawyer and he will not.</quote>red, the things of actual value are going to be under his name like the car and house. They're safe. It's other things that will be up for grabs and usually just worked on by both parties unless they're worth appraising for value. Usually they just say "You can have this but give me this, this, and this." And no, common law marriage isn't a thing in PA. But yes, Corrik needs to get a lawyer yesterday for the sheer fact that you just fucking want one and if he's serious about custody--guess what? You're not going to win over a single judge to show how responsible you are without a lawyer. Get a lawyer. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/13/21 2:33:45 AM #122:	PrivateBiscuit1 posted... red, the things of actual value are going to be under his name like the car and house. They're safe. It's other things that will be up for grabs and usually just worked on by both parties unless they're worth appraising for value. Usually they just say "You can have this but give me this, this, and this." I've seen these things get pretty ugly, especially with a kid involved. But we also know corrik's fiance is basically insane. We know shes not particularly rational now either. I can't stress enough that Corrik really needs to just get a lawyer to advise him on exactly what he should be doing. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952775792] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>PrivateBiscuit1 posted... </cite> <quote>red, the things of actual value are going to be under his name like the car and house. They're safe. It's other things that will be up for grabs and usually just worked on by both parties unless they're worth appraising for value. Usually they just say "You can have this but give me this, this, and this."</quote> I've seen these things get pretty ugly, especially with a kid involved. But we also know corrik's fiance is basically insane. We know shes not particularly rational now either. I can't stress enough that Corrik really needs to just get a lawyer to advise him on exactly what he should be doing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mnkboy907 04/13/21 2:34:13 AM #123:	Corrik, do you think your kid would be better off with you or with her as a primary parent? If you think it's you but you're still not gonna fight for it, then that's just really shitty. --- Change is weird. <cite>mnkboy907 posted [p:952775802] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik, do you think your kid would be better off with you or with her as a primary parent? If you think it's you but you're still not gonna fight for it, then that's just really shitty. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 12:59:21 PM #124:	1. We are not married. 2. Been engaged give or take about 9 years. 3. The point you are all missing here is that I poured my entire life into one woman for a third of my life. Who I care for more than anything in the world. And my life feels like it is crashing around me. Like sure. Hit the gym and lawyer up is fine advice. But, it doesn't help the state I am in. I am going to lose my child. The woman I love. The entire world I created for my family is going to be for nothing. It sucks. I am sure I can maybe get over it. But, I can't hurt the person I love and do half the things you say. If that means I have no spine, then so be it. I have no spine then. Because she is going to take whatever she wants and do whatever she wants. And I am going to let her do whatever because I won't want to hurt her no matter how much she hurts me. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952787977] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>1. We are not married. 2. Been engaged give or take about 9 years. 3. The point you are all missing here is that I poured my entire life into one woman for a third of my life. Who I care for more than anything in the world. And my life feels like it is crashing around me. Like sure. Hit the gym and lawyer up is fine advice. But, it doesn't help the state I am in. I am going to lose my child. The woman I love. The entire world I created for my family is going to be for nothing. It sucks. I am sure I can maybe get over it. But, I can't hurt the person I love and do half the things you say. If that means I have no spine, then so be it. I have no spine then. Because she is going to take whatever she wants and do whatever she wants. And I am going to let her do whatever because I won't want to hurt her no matter how much she hurts me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 1:02:23 PM #125:	And I have already lost my shit and said things that will ensure I will never win custody of my child if I even fought for it so that is all moot. She had evidence that I could try to match but can't erase. While I have been saving sweet texts that were very sporadic and dwindling in time. She has been saving texts, out of context videos, and so on for years to use. There is no fighting against that. She could have done whatever. But I didn't document any of it. Because I think that's a terrible thing to do to someone. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952788082] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>And I have already lost my shit and said things that will ensure I will never win custody of my child if I even fought for it so that is all moot. She had evidence that I could try to match but can't erase. While I have been saving sweet texts that were very sporadic and dwindling in time. She has been saving texts, out of context videos, and so on for years to use. There is no fighting against that. She could have done whatever. But I didn't document any of it. Because I think that's a terrible thing to do to someone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Drakeryn 04/13/21 1:05:13 PM #126:	Corrik7 posted... She has been saving texts, out of context videos, and so on for years to use. geez. rip but also the main bad thing is that this didn't happen sooner. I know that sounds like a terrible thing to say in the moment but it's true --- another place and time, without a great divide, and we could be flying deadly high <cite>Drakeryn posted [p:952788177] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted...</cite> <quote> She has been saving texts, out of context videos, and so on for years to use.</quote> geez. rip but also the main bad thing is that this didn't happen sooner. I know that sounds like a terrible thing to say in the moment but it's true</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/13/21 1:36:05 PM #127:	Corrik, if you're going to read anything anyone says here, read what I've said in this topic. You need a lawyer. That isn't to punish your wife. It's not to attack her. It's not to take advantage of her or anything. You need a lawyer because they protects YOU and YOUR interests in this. They will help guide you through this difficult process and make sure you don't get hurt more than you have to. If you don't get a lawyer, your chances of being able to see your child as often as you'd like after this plummet. I know it hurts. And I'm sorry you're in so much pain right now, but it's very important you get a lawyer to talk you through this process now before things get out of hand. Because their advice is going to be a million times more important than any advice we can give you right now. Please get a lawyer for your sake, your wife's sake, and your child's sake. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952789232] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik, if you're going to read anything anyone says here, read what I've said in this topic. You need a lawyer. That isn't to punish your wife. It's not to attack her. It's not to take advantage of her or anything. You need a lawyer because they protects YOU and YOUR interests in this. They will help guide you through this difficult process and make sure you don't get hurt more than you have to. If you don't get a lawyer, your chances of being able to see your child as often as you'd like after this plummet. I know it hurts. And I'm sorry you're in so much pain right now, but it's very important you get a lawyer to talk you through this process now before things get out of hand. Because their advice is going to be a million times more important than any advice we can give you right now. Please get a lawyer for your sake, your wife's sake, and your child's sake. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Llarian 04/13/21 3:13:22 PM #128:	PrivateBiscuit1 posted... Corrik, if you're going to read anything anyone says here, read what I've said in this topic. You need a lawyer. That isn't to punish your wife. It's not to attack her. It's not to take advantage of her or anything. You need a lawyer because they protects YOU and YOUR interests in this. They will help guide you through this difficult process and make sure you don't get hurt more than you have to. If you don't get a lawyer, your chances of being able to see your child as often as you'd like after this plummet. I know it hurts. And I'm sorry you're in so much pain right now, but it's very important you get a lawyer to talk you through this process now before things get out of hand. Because their advice is going to be a million times more important than any advice we can give you right now. Please get a lawyer for your sake, your wife's sake, and your child's sake. This right here. Also, sorry for your loss - even if it hasn't been good, you love her and wanted the best for all of you. Looking out for yourself and your kid is your best bet though. The reality is this level of pain is not a good environment for making decisions. Get a legal professional to advise you on next steps. --- Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself...: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize? -Marcus Aurelius <cite>Llarian posted [p:952792536] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>PrivateBiscuit1 posted... </cite> <quote>Corrik, if you're going to read anything anyone says here, read what I've said in this topic. You need a lawyer. That isn't to punish your wife. It's not to attack her. It's not to take advantage of her or anything. You need a lawyer because they protects YOU and YOUR interests in this. They will help guide you through this difficult process and make sure you don't get hurt more than you have to. If you don't get a lawyer, your chances of being able to see your child as often as you'd like after this plummet. I know it hurts. And I'm sorry you're in so much pain right now, but it's very important you get a lawyer to talk you through this process now before things get out of hand. Because their advice is going to be a million times more important than any advice we can give you right now. Please get a lawyer for your sake, your wife's sake, and your child's sake.</quote>This right here. Also, sorry for your loss - even if it hasn't been good, you love her and wanted the best for all of you. Looking out for yourself and your kid is your best bet though. The reality is this level of pain is not a good environment for making decisions. Get a legal professional to advise you on next steps. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 3:15:15 PM #129:	I don't understand how she can just take my kid from his house. And that's just acceptable. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952792599] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand how she can just take my kid from his house. And that's just acceptable. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lopen 04/13/21 3:22:21 PM #131:	UltimaterializerX posted... Welcome to why men arent getting married anymore bro. Youre about to see how much privilege you actually have. Zero. Divorce proceedings don't really favor men or women anymore-- they favor the have nots because obviously every marriage is 50/50. Man being the breadwinner is the cliche but if it's the woman they get wrecked all the same these days. --- No problem! This is a cute and pop genocide of love! <cite>Lopen posted [p:952792810] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>UltimaterializerX posted... </cite> <quote>Welcome to why men arent getting married anymore bro. Youre about to see how much privilege you actually have. Zero.</quote> Divorce proceedings don't really favor men or women anymore-- they favor the have nots because obviously every marriage is 50/50. Man being the breadwinner is the cliche but if it's the woman they get wrecked all the same these days. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Corrik7 04/13/21 3:26:00 PM #133:	I'm not married... --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952792937] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I'm not married... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lopen 04/13/21 3:28:52 PM #134:	I'm just saying I personally know women with deadbeat husbands who have lost multiple divorce hearings in the past 10 years. Maybe New Mexico just really really favors men though! (despite having all the indications of being a place that doesn't) --- No problem! This is a cute and pop genocide of love! <cite>Lopen posted [p:952793014] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I'm just saying I personally know women with deadbeat husbands who have lost multiple divorce hearings in the past 10 years. Maybe New Mexico just really really favors men though! (despite having all the indications of being a place that doesn't) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/13/21 3:33:21 PM #135:	Lopen posted... Divorce proceedings don't really favor men or women anymore-- they favor the have nots because obviously every marriage is 50/50. Man being the breadwinner is the cliche but if it's the woman they get wrecked all the same these days. It greatly depends on if a child is involved. And then the disparity in income from both parties. What helps in this case is that Corrik never got married to her, and everything is under his name. We're assuming he is allowing the mother to have primary custody here, which means he'll also have to pay child support. From there, and I know for a fact this is how it works in PA, if girlfriend lives in the house, the payments there will be taken out of child support, and if he gives her the car, that will also be taken out of it. I am assuming that she also isn't making enough on her own that she wouldn't be able to get either signed into her name yet either (as they will reject it unless you can make enough money) which is why the continual payments will be taken from his child support payment. But they literally do dumb it down to equations between the two, to avoid anyone getting screwed over in this situation nowadays. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952793161] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Lopen posted... </cite> <quote>Divorce proceedings don't really favor men or women anymore-- they favor the have nots because obviously every marriage is 50/50. Man being the breadwinner is the cliche but if it's the woman they get wrecked all the same these days.</quote>It greatly depends on if a child is involved. And then the disparity in income from both parties. What helps in this case is that Corrik never got married to her, and everything is under his name. We're assuming he is allowing the mother to have primary custody here, which means he'll also have to pay child support. From there, and I know for a fact this is how it works in PA, if girlfriend lives in the house, the payments there will be taken out of child support, and if he gives her the car, that will also be taken out of it. I am assuming that she also isn't making enough on her own that she wouldn't be able to get either signed into her name yet either (as they will reject it unless you can make enough money) which is why the continual payments will be taken from his child support payment. But they literally do dumb it down to equations between the two, to avoid anyone getting screwed over in this situation nowadays. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/13/21 3:39:44 PM #136:	UltimaterializerX posted... You need a family lawyer on your side, and preferably a female lawyer at that. If you find one that isnt white, even better. I love you Ulti lmao <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952793377] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>UltimaterializerX posted... </cite> <quote>You need a family lawyer on your side, and preferably a female lawyer at that. If you find one that isnt white, even better.</quote>I love you Ulti lmao </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Corrik7 04/13/21 3:47:20 PM #138:	I don't see the point in a lawyer. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952793665] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I don't see the point in a lawyer. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 04/13/21 3:52:25 PM #139:	Corrik7 posted... I don't see the point in a lawyer. Are you mental. I could not have explained it to you any clearer. Holy shit dude. I'm done in this topic. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:952793829] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>I don't see the point in a lawyer.</quote>Are you mental. I could not have explained it to you any clearer. Holy shit dude. I'm done in this topic. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 3:59:57 PM #140:	PrivateBiscuit1 posted... Are you mental. I could not have explained it to you any clearer. Holy shit dude. I'm done in this topic. Cool You haven't read shit because you still in all your posts think I am married. A lawyer can't win anything. She isn't going to a lawyer herself. If I do, it forces her hand to do so in which I am in an unwinnable situation already. So what's the point? To spend a few grand to lose anyways and force the situation into a legal one? --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952794102] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>PrivateBiscuit1 posted... </cite> <quote>Are you mental. I could not have explained it to you any clearer. Holy shit dude. I'm done in this topic.</quote>Cool You haven't read shit because you still in all your posts think I am married. A lawyer can't win anything. She isn't going to a lawyer herself. If I do, it forces her hand to do so in which I am in an unwinnable situation already. So what's the point? To spend a few grand to lose anyways and force the situation into a legal one? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/13/21 4:05:46 PM #141:	Corrik7 posted... A lawyer can't win anything. She isn't going to a lawyer herself. If I do, it forces her hand to do so in which I am in an unwinnable situation already. So what's the point? To spend a few grand to lose anyways and force the situation into a legal one? The point is so you don't get taken to the cleaners for child support. Which you will if you don't have an attorney. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952794266] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>A lawyer can't win anything. She isn't going to a lawyer herself. If I do, it forces her hand to do so in which I am in an unwinnable situation already. So what's the point? To spend a few grand to lose anyways and force the situation into a legal one?</quote>The point is so you don't get taken to the cleaners for child support. Which you will if you don't have an attorney. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/13/21 4:07:32 PM #142:	Also, it already is a legal situation. You will have to go to family court to formalize custody rules. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952794315] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Also, it already is a legal situation. You will have to go to family court to formalize custody rules. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Corrik7 04/13/21 4:11:16 PM #144:	ChainLTTP posted... The point is so you don't get taken to the cleaners for child support. Which you will if you don't have an attorney. It's literally a formula. An attorney can't change a formula. I can go on there and tell you exactly how much it would be right now. Hell, she has done it a few times and told me how much she COULD get from me. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952794425] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>The point is so you don't get taken to the cleaners for child support. Which you will if you don't have an attorney.</quote>It's literally a formula. An attorney can't change a formula. I can go on there and tell you exactly how much it would be right now. Hell, she has done it a few times and told me how much she COULD get from me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/13/21 4:11:52 PM #145:	I'm not saying spend anything right now. But there are definitely going to be lawyers offering free consultation. Just enough to get you prepared in the event you do need to hire one. Just get yourself prepared and not setup to be blindsided. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952794448] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I'm not saying spend anything right now. But there are definitely going to be lawyers offering free consultation. Just enough to get you prepared in the event you do need to hire one. Just get yourself prepared and not setup to be blindsided. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 4:12:31 PM #146:	ChainLTTP posted... Also, it already is a legal situation. You will have to go to family court to formalize custody rules. Thats not true. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952794474] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>Also, it already is a legal situation. You will have to go to family court to formalize custody rules.</quote>Thats not true. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 4:13:56 PM #147:	A consultation probably couldn't hurt. But, generally avoiding lawyers unless she goes that route or does some stupid shit seems smart also. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952794517] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>A consultation probably couldn't hurt. But, generally avoiding lawyers unless she goes that route or does some stupid shit seems smart also. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 04/13/21 4:15:00 PM #148:	When you are unanimously being given the same advice by a dozen people, don't you think that you might just be mistaken on this? <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:952794547] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>When you are unanimously being given the same advice by a dozen people, don't you think that you might just be mistaken on this? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
red13n 04/13/21 4:17:38 PM #149:	Corrik7 posted... A consultation probably couldn't hurt. But, generally avoiding lawyers unless she goes that route or does some stupid shit seems smart also. Yeah, you don't need to necessarily spend anything right now. But there are a ton of lawyers that pile on divorce/custody/whatever cases. They'll happily talk to you in the event you are a future client. You just need to have one prepared to be hired in the event things do get ugly. If things become amicable and you have a reasonable custody/child support/whatever arrangement, great. But you need to be prepared to save yourself from being screwed over if you have to. --- "First thing that crosses my mind: I didn't get any GameFAQs Karma yesterday." Math Murderer after getting his appendix removed. <cite>red13n posted [p:952794625] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>A consultation probably couldn't hurt. But, generally avoiding lawyers unless she goes that route or does some stupid shit seems smart also.</quote> Yeah, you don't need to necessarily spend anything right now. But there are a ton of lawyers that pile on divorce/custody/whatever cases. They'll happily talk to you in the event you are a future client. You just need to have one prepared to be hired in the event things do get ugly. If things become amicable and you have a reasonable custody/child support/whatever arrangement, great. But you need to be prepared to save yourself from being screwed over if you have to. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 04/13/21 4:20:28 PM #150:	Right now she wants the following. 1. To take the car I just bought her and me to make the payments. (She has mentioned possibly paying it herself). 2. Me to not move out of my house and continue living where I am. 3. Our child to be able to go back and forth whenever he pleases. 4. I assume continue providing medical. And I guess car insurance. 5. Give him money when he needs it. I guess. 6. Let her use the pool in the summer?? Lol wtf??? 7. Have custody of the child be agreement. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:952794703] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Right now she wants the following. 1. To take the car I just bought her and me to make the payments. (She has mentioned possibly paying it herself). 2. Me to not move out of my house and continue living where I am. 3. Our child to be able to go back and forth whenever he pleases. 4. I assume continue providing medical. And I guess car insurance. 5. Give him money when he needs it. I guess. 6. Let her use the pool in the summer?? Lol wtf??? 7. Have custody of the child be agreement. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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