Board 8 > So my relationship is over...

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foolm0r0n 05/05/21 7:30:47 PM #302:	Metal_DK posted... dating apps have always and still are absolutely fucking stupid. Less internet the better should be the trends You don't think there was a particular time when the apps were especially bad? --- _foolmo_ he says listen to my story this maybe are last chance <cite>foolm0r0n posted [p:953598209] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Metal_DK posted... </cite> <quote>dating apps have always and still are absolutely fucking stupid. Less internet the better should be the trends</quote>You don't think there was a particular time when the apps were especially bad? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Peace___Frog 05/05/21 9:38:09 PM #303:	ChaosTonyV4 posted... I dont think hes sleeping around, it reads like hes hatefucking her every day. --- ~Peaf~ <cite>Peace___Frog posted [p:953602590] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChaosTonyV4 posted... </cite> <quote>I dont think hes sleeping around, it reads like hes hatefucking her every day.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metal_DK 05/06/21 11:17:03 AM #304:	foolm0r0n posted... You don't think there was a particular time when the apps were especially bad? Honestly, they are at their worst now probably. The problem with them started you know when though --- Casual Revolution 2007 - 2016 <cite>Metal_DK posted [p:953618956] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>foolm0r0n posted... </cite> <quote>You don't think there was a particular time when the apps were especially bad?</quote> Honestly, they are at their worst now probably. The problem with them started you know when though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/07/21 5:02:29 PM #305:	She still hasn't left. Keeps making excuses and moving back the date. She has moved most of her stuff out. I noticed over the past few days she literally just took a shopping spree through my house and took all kinds of shit out of it that wasn't hers or was food and stuff from my kitchen. She says she cooks so she needed the stuff so she didn't have to rebuy it. I was like, yeah, it doesn't work that way. She took literally over $150 in spices if not more. And, was vindictive about it. Like, if there was salt that was low and another that was full... she didn't just take the one that was low to have some and left the full one... she took it all. My kitchen went from stocked up to literally barely anything in it. All sides besides a box of macaroni and cheese was taken. Almost all of my canned goods. Most of my plates, bowls, etc, which doesn't matter because she keeps using the ones I have and leaving them unwashed. Won't leave but won't clean or anything either. Just making more and more of a disaster. Like, you can just look around the house and notice how vindictive she was across the whole thing. Now, I know why she made a big deal that I be out of the house and she pack herself. I shoulda just tossed her things on the porch and called it a day. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953667368] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>She still hasn't left. Keeps making excuses and moving back the date. She has moved most of her stuff out. I noticed over the past few days she literally just took a shopping spree through my house and took all kinds of shit out of it that wasn't hers or was food and stuff from my kitchen. She says she cooks so she needed the stuff so she didn't have to rebuy it. I was like, yeah, it doesn't work that way. She took literally over $150 in spices if not more. And, was vindictive about it. Like, if there was salt that was low and another that was full... she didn't just take the one that was low to have some and left the full one... she took it all. My kitchen went from stocked up to literally barely anything in it. All sides besides a box of macaroni and cheese was taken. Almost all of my canned goods. Most of my plates, bowls, etc, which doesn't matter because she keeps using the ones I have and leaving them unwashed. Won't leave but won't clean or anything either. Just making more and more of a disaster. Like, you can just look around the house and notice how vindictive she was across the whole thing. Now, I know why she made a big deal that I be out of the house and she pack herself. I shoulda just tossed her things on the porch and called it a day. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
charmander6000 05/07/21 5:39:33 PM #306:	Give her a deadline (in writing) and change the locks on that day. Hopefully you have something in writing on her giving you a previous date she will leave on just in case it gets messy. She clearly has a place to stay (or at the very least store her stuff). The day is already going to be hard on you mentally already best not to prolong it any more than you need to. --- Congratulations to azuarc for winning the guru challenge <cite>charmander6000 posted [p:953668486] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Give her a deadline (in writing) and change the locks on that day. Hopefully you have something in writing on her giving you a previous date she will leave on just in case it gets messy. She clearly has a place to stay (or at the very least store her stuff). The day is already going to be hard on you mentally already best not to prolong it any more than you need to. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/07/21 5:45:55 PM #307:	Well, i know why she is doing this. She is living here for free and they keep prorating her rent until she actually resides there. So, she is saving money at my expense the more she can put it off. The fact she ransacked almost my entire kitchen besides the refrigerator stuff tells me that she probably doesn't have a refrigerator running atm. (She also is trying to delay until she has internet set up). --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953668715] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Well, i know why she is doing this. She is living here for free and they keep prorating her rent until she actually resides there. So, she is saving money at my expense the more she can put it off. The fact she ransacked almost my entire kitchen besides the refrigerator stuff tells me that she probably doesn't have a refrigerator running atm. (She also is trying to delay until she has internet set up). </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CaptainOfCrush 05/07/21 5:56:50 PM #308:	I fear what you're going through as a "worst case scenario" if I ever break up with my gf (though you've likely got it 100x harder because of the kid/custody). She's kindhearted by nature and has never seemed vindictive, but she does live in my place, and who knows how anyone will react if you trigger their survivalist instincts. --- Yoblazer https://imgur.com/gByqgPg <cite>CaptainOfCrush posted [p:953669060] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I fear what you're going through as a "worst case scenario" if I ever break up with my gf (though you've likely got it 100x harder because of the kid/custody). She's kindhearted by nature and has never seemed vindictive, but she does live in my place, and who knows how anyone will react if you trigger their survivalist instincts. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/07/21 6:06:02 PM #309:	CaptainOfCrush posted... I fear what you're going through as a "worst case scenario" if I ever break up with my gf (though you've likely got it 100x harder because of the kid/custody). She's kindhearted by nature and has never seemed vindictive, but she does live in my place, and who knows how anyone will react if you trigger their survivalist instincts. shrug I just figured you know her dipping out on me with a flush bank account wouldn't have triggered the survivalist instincts so much! --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953669371] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>CaptainOfCrush posted... </cite> <quote>I fear what you're going through as a "worst case scenario" if I ever break up with my gf (though you've likely got it 100x harder because of the kid/custody). She's kindhearted by nature and has never seemed vindictive, but she does live in my place, and who knows how anyone will react if you trigger their survivalist instincts.</quote>shrug I just figured you know her dipping out on me with a flush bank account wouldn't have triggered the survivalist instincts so much! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanglicious 05/07/21 6:19:03 PM #310:	charmander6000 posted... Give her a deadline (in writing) and change the locks on that day. don't change the locks. talk to a lawyer first. be very, very cautious about any eviction processes because that will come up later in the divorce. document everything. figure out what's okay to record or not, i think PA's a two party consent state. lock changing is often a bad idea so steer clear of that unless you've got a lawyer who knows his shit what circumstances that may be okay. especially if you two are fucking, that'd look horrible. --- "Maybe it's a tentacle, molesting the planet itself. - Aschen Brodel. <cite>Wanglicious posted [p:953669772] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>charmander6000 posted... </cite> <quote>Give her a deadline (in writing) and change the locks on that day.</quote> don't change the locks. talk to a lawyer first. be very, very cautious about any eviction processes because that will come up later in the divorce. document everything. figure out what's okay to record or not, i think PA's a two party consent state. lock changing is often a bad idea so steer clear of that unless you've got a lawyer who knows his shit what circumstances that may be okay. especially if you two are fucking, that'd look horrible. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/07/21 10:26:10 PM #311:	She gone. A lot of insults were hurled to get her gone, but she gone for good. That's good, I suppose. I do feel bad for being so mean to her, but she wasn't leaving otherwise. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953677426] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>She gone. A lot of insults were hurled to get her gone, but she gone for good. That's good, I suppose. I do feel bad for being so mean to her, but she wasn't leaving otherwise. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosTonyV4 05/07/21 10:32:09 PM #312:	ok now change the locks --- Phantom Dust. "I'll just wait for time to prove me right again." - Vlado <cite>ChaosTonyV4 posted [p:953677605] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ok now change the locks </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/07/21 10:38:09 PM #313:	Alrdy being done. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953677807] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Alrdy being done. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GoldSlime35 05/08/21 2:32:27 AM #314:	It might be a good idea to install some security cameras too. <cite>GoldSlime35 posted [p:953683228] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>It might be a good idea to install some security cameras too. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tom Bombadil 05/09/21 12:53:23 PM #316:	Corrik7 posted... She gone --- https://imgtc.com/i/uWMMlnN.png Radiant wings as the skies rejoice, arise, and illuminate the morn. <cite>Tom Bombadil posted [p:953725159] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>She gone</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/09/21 1:42:26 PM #317:	UltimaterializerX posted... Dunno how I missed this post. MMORPGs are all dog shit. I recently had to break off a 20 year friendship with a buddy because he was addicted to Final Fantasy 14 (this after being addicted to 11 and failing out of college because of it), to the point where even though he has a wife, he got married in-game to a dude and convinced his wife that they should meet the man he married in-game and turn an in-game marriage into this weird three-way relationship in real life. This would only be a thing with a girl that has ZERO self worth, because no woman worth being with would put up with that shit. If youre straight up emotionally abusing and cheating on your wife over a fuckin MMO, Im out. That entire genre and everyone who enjoys it can burn, because Im convinced everyone who plays those games is a nutjob addict. Have you ever actually gone on Twitch and looked up the people who stream this junk? They all look like theyve been on psychotropic drugs for their entire life. Lol what --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953726632] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>UltimaterializerX posted... </cite> <quote>Dunno how I missed this post. MMORPGs are all dog shit. I recently had to break off a 20 year friendship with a buddy because he was addicted to Final Fantasy 14 (this after being addicted to 11 and failing out of college because of it), to the point where even though he has a wife, he got married in-game to a dude and convinced his wife that they should meet the man he married in-game and turn an in-game marriage into this weird three-way relationship in real life. This would only be a thing with a girl that has ZERO self worth, because no woman worth being with would put up with that shit. If youre straight up emotionally abusing and cheating on your wife over a fuckin MMO, Im out. That entire genre and everyone who enjoys it can burn, because Im convinced everyone who plays those games is a nutjob addict. Have you ever actually gone on Twitch and looked up the people who stream this junk? They all look like theyve been on psychotropic drugs for their entire life.</quote>Lol what </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
foolm0r0n 05/09/21 1:43:33 PM #318:	He's not talking about his friend --- _foolmo_ he says listen to my story this maybe are last chance <cite>foolm0r0n posted [p:953726666] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>He's not talking about his friend </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RaidenGarai 05/09/21 3:52:56 PM #319:	Hes talking about himself. --- Epic Seven IGN ZeroThe13th <cite>RaidenGarai posted [p:953730324] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Hes talking about himself. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Waluigi1 05/09/21 3:55:22 PM #320:	Good lord lmao. --- PSN, and GT: Waluigi1 Switch FC: SW-6848-3841-9099 <cite>Waluigi1 posted [p:953730399] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Good lord lmao. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlAcK TuRtLe 05/14/21 10:27:09 AM #321:	UltimaterializerX posted... Dunno how I missed this post. MMORPGs are all dog shit. I recently had to break off a 20 year friendship with a buddy because he was addicted to Final Fantasy 14 (this after being addicted to 11 and failing out of college because of it), to the point where even though he has a wife, he got married in-game to a dude and convinced his wife that they should meet the man he married in-game and turn an in-game marriage into this weird three-way relationship in real life. This would only be a thing with a girl that has ZERO self worth, because no woman worth being with would put up with that shit. If youre straight up emotionally abusing and cheating on your wife over a fuckin MMO, Im out. That entire genre and everyone who enjoys it can burn, because Im convinced everyone who plays those games is a nutjob addict. Have you ever actually gone on Twitch and looked up the people who stream this junk? They all look like theyve been on psychotropic drugs for their entire life. While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life. --- Props to azuarc, the current Guru of the Decade. Wear this title with pride! <cite>BlAcK TuRtLe posted [p:953895180] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>UltimaterializerX posted... </cite> <quote>Dunno how I missed this post. MMORPGs are all dog shit. I recently had to break off a 20 year friendship with a buddy because he was addicted to Final Fantasy 14 (this after being addicted to 11 and failing out of college because of it), to the point where even though he has a wife, he got married in-game to a dude and convinced his wife that they should meet the man he married in-game and turn an in-game marriage into this weird three-way relationship in real life. This would only be a thing with a girl that has ZERO self worth, because no woman worth being with would put up with that shit. If youre straight up emotionally abusing and cheating on your wife over a fuckin MMO, Im out. That entire genre and everyone who enjoys it can burn, because Im convinced everyone who plays those games is a nutjob addict. Have you ever actually gone on Twitch and looked up the people who stream this junk? They all look like theyve been on psychotropic drugs for their entire life.</quote>While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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charmander6000 05/14/21 12:47:42 PM #323:	BlAcK TuRtLe posted... While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life. I mean you can also enjoy drugs and alcohol without them consuming your life. Addiction comes in many different forms and the sooner people begin recognizing gaming addiction as something real, the better. --- Congratulations to azuarc for winning the guru challenge <cite>charmander6000 posted [p:953899564] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>BlAcK TuRtLe posted... </cite> <quote>While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life.</quote> I mean you can also enjoy drugs and alcohol without them consuming your life. Addiction comes in many different forms and the sooner people begin recognizing gaming addiction as something real, the better. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
foolm0r0n 05/15/21 11:33:22 AM #324:	BlAcK TuRtLe posted... While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life. Did you not read his story though? How could his story be true and not apply to 100% of MMO players? And really, why does the story even need to be true? If you made it all up but feel it's true, isn't that good enough? --- _foolmo_ he says listen to my story this maybe are last chance <cite>foolm0r0n posted [p:953931286] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>BlAcK TuRtLe posted... </cite> <quote>While Ulti is correct that there's a certain level of degeneracy and mental deficiency involved with a sizable portion of the MMO playing community, it is in fact possible to play and enjoy these games casually without them consuming your life. I've been casually playing FF14 since ARR with 3 of my friends and we are all successful in both career and family life.</quote>Did you not read his story though? How could his story be true and not apply to 100% of MMO players? And really, why does the story even need to be true? If you made it all up but feel it's true, isn't that good enough? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/17/21 11:24:55 AM #325:	Filed for 50/50 custody today --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:953997975] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Filed for 50/50 custody today </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/20/21 3:12:26 PM #326:	I got a Xbox Series X. She is refusing to agree to anything. Refused to be served the court paperwork. Made me pay for a certified letter to serve her. Refuses to agree on a custody agreement. Making me pay for mediation. Refusing on anything across the board. Not because she wants something different. But, because she just refuses to agree on anything I say! Literally has not stated anything she wants besides "I want my kids to both go on the same weekend so I can have weekends without kids". Nothing else (which also is not at odds with what I proposed). --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954119217] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I got a Xbox Series X. She is refusing to agree to anything. Refused to be served the court paperwork. Made me pay for a certified letter to serve her. Refuses to agree on a custody agreement. Making me pay for mediation. Refusing on anything across the board. Not because she wants something different. But, because she just refuses to agree on anything I say! Literally has not stated anything she wants besides "I want my kids to both go on the same weekend so I can have weekends without kids". Nothing else (which also is not at odds with what I proposed). </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 05/20/21 3:15:18 PM #327:	Corrik7 posted... I got a Xbox Series X. You're doing the right thing man! <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:954119329] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>I got a Xbox Series X.</quote>You're doing the right thing man! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
charmander6000 05/20/21 3:21:03 PM #328:	Corrik7 posted... I got a Xbox Series X. She is refusing to agree to anything. Refused to be served the court paperwork. Made me pay for a certified letter to serve her. Refuses to agree on a custody agreement. Making me pay for mediation. Refusing on anything across the board. Not because she wants something different. But, because she just refuses to agree on anything I say! Literally has not stated anything she wants besides "I want my kids to both go on the same weekend so I can have weekends without kids". Nothing else (which also is not at odds with what I proposed). Sadly this isn't uncommon. It's best to keep going down this route for the very least to get closure. --- Congratulations to azuarc for winning the guru challenge <cite>charmander6000 posted [p:954119519] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>I got a Xbox Series X. She is refusing to agree to anything. Refused to be served the court paperwork. Made me pay for a certified letter to serve her. Refuses to agree on a custody agreement. Making me pay for mediation. Refusing on anything across the board. Not because she wants something different. But, because she just refuses to agree on anything I say! Literally has not stated anything she wants besides "I want my kids to both go on the same weekend so I can have weekends without kids". Nothing else (which also is not at odds with what I proposed).</quote> Sadly this isn't uncommon. It's best to keep going down this route for the very least to get closure. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/20/21 3:34:10 PM #329:	What I proposed is this... In case interested at any point in an agreement, I would like something like this. 2-2-3 Mon Tues You - Wed Thurs Me - Fri Sat Sun You - and alternate the following week. Pick ups would be the DAY of 6:30PM. Pickups responsible by party taking over custody that day. So Mon Tuesday would be pick up at 6:30PM Monday. Picked up by other parent 6:30PM Wednesday for their time. And then picked up 6:30PM Friday by the other parent. If not already having the child on parents birthday, the parent can pick an 8 hour window to pick up the child that day unless otherwise agreed upon. If parent for Mother's/Father's Day respectively doesn't have the child, they can pick an 8 hour window that day to pick up the child unless otherwise agreed upon. If time cannot be agreed upon, it will be noon-8PM. Parent that does not have the child on Easter, New Years Day, Memorial Day, Labor Day, 4th of July, Thanksgiving, Child"s Birthday, and Christmas Day can try to arrange a 5 hour window with the other parent to pick up that child that day. If time can't be agreed upon it will be noon-5. Each Parent can request 2 weeks upon which they already have the child Mon Tues and Fri Sat Sun that week to become a full week Mon-Sun in the summer (defined as months school is out of session). I think it's pretty fair. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954119951] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>What I proposed is this... In case interested at any point in an agreement, I would like something like this. 2-2-3 Mon Tues You - Wed Thurs Me - Fri Sat Sun You - and alternate the following week. Pick ups would be the DAY of 6:30PM. Pickups responsible by party taking over custody that day. So Mon Tuesday would be pick up at 6:30PM Monday. Picked up by other parent 6:30PM Wednesday for their time. And then picked up 6:30PM Friday by the other parent. If not already having the child on parents birthday, the parent can pick an 8 hour window to pick up the child that day unless otherwise agreed upon. If parent for Mother's/Father's Day respectively doesn't have the child, they can pick an 8 hour window that day to pick up the child unless otherwise agreed upon. If time cannot be agreed upon, it will be noon-8PM. Parent that does not have the child on Easter, New Years Day, Memorial Day, Labor Day, 4th of July, Thanksgiving, Child"s Birthday, and Christmas Day can try to arrange a 5 hour window with the other parent to pick up that child that day. If time can't be agreed upon it will be noon-5. Each Parent can request 2 weeks upon which they already have the child Mon Tues and Fri Sat Sun that week to become a full week Mon-Sun in the summer (defined as months school is out of session). I think it's pretty fair. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
charmander6000 05/20/21 3:53:43 PM #330:	What was her reaction? Did she say it was too complicated or is she accusing you of trying swindle her? --- Congratulations to azuarc for winning the guru challenge <cite>charmander6000 posted [p:954120609] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>What was her reaction? Did she say it was too complicated or is she accusing you of trying swindle her? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/20/21 4:11:42 PM #331:	Accused me of trying to trick her when it came to serving her with papers. She kept stating a ton of things that was absolutely not true. Her reaction to the proposal is simply "not agreeing on anything". She actually was agreeable to this proposal before we got to me filing. lol --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954121185] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Accused me of trying to trick her when it came to serving her with papers. She kept stating a ton of things that was absolutely not true. Her reaction to the proposal is simply "not agreeing on anything". She actually was agreeable to this proposal before we got to me filing. lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
charmander6000 05/20/21 4:18:50 PM #332:	Things become a lot more real when it becomes legally binding. Do you think getting her a lawyer might help ease her doubts? --- Congratulations to azuarc for winning the guru challenge <cite>charmander6000 posted [p:954121435] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Things become a lot more real when it becomes legally binding. Do you think getting her a lawyer might help ease her doubts? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/20/21 4:35:40 PM #333:	charmander6000 posted... Things become a lot more real when it becomes legally binding. Do you think getting her a lawyer might help ease her doubts? I would die a thousand deaths before I get her a lawyer. If she wants a lawyer (which she should probably get since she is wrong on everything she says), then she can use her money on it. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954122050] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>charmander6000 posted... </cite> <quote>Things become a lot more real when it becomes legally binding. Do you think getting her a lawyer might help ease her doubts?</quote>I would die a thousand deaths before I get her a lawyer. If she wants a lawyer (which she should probably get since she is wrong on everything she says), then she can use her money on it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 05/20/21 4:45:38 PM #334:	I would definitely just follow your lawyer's lead on everything, including paying for a lawyer for her or not. She's being unreasonable enough that any judge would outright notice that and see you as the reasonable one without a doubt. Just let your lawyer handle correspondence with her. It's not worth you even talking to her unless entirely necessary. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:954122391] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I would definitely just follow your lawyer's lead on everything, including paying for a lawyer for her or not. She's being unreasonable enough that any judge would outright notice that and see you as the reasonable one without a doubt. Just let your lawyer handle correspondence with her. It's not worth you even talking to her unless entirely necessary. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/20/21 11:58:45 PM #335:	If my lawyer ever suggested to pay for her lawyer, I would drop them on the spot. That's asinine. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954135895] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>If my lawyer ever suggested to pay for her lawyer, I would drop them on the spot. That's asinine. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kevwaffles 05/21/21 1:26:06 AM #336:	My entirely philistine opinion is that getting a lawyer for the other person in this situation applies more when you're the one who ended things and the other person is completely shellshocked by the whole situation. Neither applies here. --- "One toot on this whistle will take you to a far away land." -Toad, SMB3 <cite>kevwaffles posted [p:954137744] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>My entirely philistine opinion is that getting a lawyer for the other person in this situation applies more when you're the one who ended things and the other person is completely shellshocked by the whole situation. Neither applies here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Waluigi1 05/21/21 1:10:50 PM #337:	Corrik7 posted... If my lawyer ever suggested to pay for her lawyer, I would drop them on the spot. That's asinine. So why even hire a lawyer if you clearly know better than them? Lol --- PSN, and GT: Waluigi1 Switch FC: SW-6848-3841-9099 <cite>Waluigi1 posted [p:954150941] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>If my lawyer ever suggested to pay for her lawyer, I would drop them on the spot. That's asinine.</quote>So why even hire a lawyer if you clearly know better than them? Lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/21/21 2:21:16 PM #338:	Waluigi1 posted... So why even hire a lawyer if you clearly know better than them? Lol No lawyer had said to do that. So that makes sense. And just because someone is a lawyer doesnt mean they can't suggest something dumb. Otherwise there would be no cases of negligence and malfeasance ever. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954153340] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Waluigi1 posted... </cite> <quote>So why even hire a lawyer if you clearly know better than them? Lol</quote>No lawyer had said to do that. So that makes sense. And just because someone is a lawyer doesnt mean they can't suggest something dumb. Otherwise there would be no cases of negligence and malfeasance ever. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 05/21/21 4:50:35 PM #339:	I'm sure are cases where it would make sense (if you were married and she didn't work, for example). But doesn't sound like you'd really need to here. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:954158016] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>I'm sure are cases where it would make sense (if you were married and she didn't work, for example). But doesn't sound like you'd really need to here. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosTonyV4 05/21/21 4:52:52 PM #340:	If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses? --- Phantom Dust. "I'll just wait for time to prove me right again." - Vlado <cite>ChaosTonyV4 posted [p:954158088] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 05/21/21 5:03:10 PM #341:	ChaosTonyV4 posted... If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses? One of my closest friends paid for the lawyers in the divorce because of a financial discrepancy between him and his ex and because it was reasonably amicable and they had an idea of what they wanted already, and Judges look favorably towards that. I had suggested it only when Corrik was saying she was being reasonable. Because she's clearly doesn't want to make this easy and simple, I would say don't pay for her lawyer, and I feel as though a lawyer wouldn't have any reason to recommend it at this stage either. But your lawyer should absolutely be the one doing all conversation about the custody proceedings and you should just direct her to speak with your lawyer if she attempts to talk to you about it. It'll probably motivate her to get a lawyer as well and make the entire thing less of a headache. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:954158417] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChaosTonyV4 posted... </cite> <quote>If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses?</quote>One of my closest friends paid for the lawyers in the divorce because of a financial discrepancy between him and his ex and because it was reasonably amicable and they had an idea of what they wanted already, and Judges look favorably towards that. I had suggested it only when Corrik was saying she was being reasonable. Because she's clearly doesn't want to make this easy and simple, I would say don't pay for her lawyer, and I feel as though a lawyer wouldn't have any reason to recommend it at this stage either. But your lawyer should absolutely be the one doing all conversation about the custody proceedings and you should just direct her to speak with your lawyer if she attempts to talk to you about it. It'll probably motivate her to get a lawyer as well and make the entire thing less of a headache. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/21/21 5:58:32 PM #342:	ChaosTonyV4 posted... If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses? There isn't any paperwork to coordinate anyways. If she literally just signed an agreement, it would already be over with. She said outright she intends to do all she can to bleed more and more money from me in the process. Which I don't know why! All the money I spend can't be used on our child! --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954160159] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChaosTonyV4 posted... </cite> <quote>If it was amicable and you wanted to pay for her lawyer so someone could coordinate the completion of paperwork, that's one thing, but in a disputed split, paying for her lawyer is just paying for someone to turn the shitty things she wants to do to you into actions, de facto paying for your own losses?</quote>There isn't any paperwork to coordinate anyways. If she literally just signed an agreement, it would already be over with. She said outright she intends to do all she can to bleed more and more money from me in the process. Which I don't know why! All the money I spend can't be used on our child! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PrivateBiscuit1 05/21/21 6:14:07 PM #343:	Corrik7 posted... There isn't any paperwork to coordinate anyways. If she literally just signed an agreement, it would already be over with. She said outright she intends to do all she can to bleed more and more money from me in the process. Which I don't know why! All the money I spend can't be used on our child! I'm sure you've been told this, but if there's anything tangible like texts saying as much, forward it to your lawyer. Judges have no patience for this petty shit, which only helps you out. --- I stream sometimes. Check it out! www.twitch.tv/heroicbiz/ <cite>PrivateBiscuit1 posted [p:954160643] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Corrik7 posted... </cite> <quote>There isn't any paperwork to coordinate anyways. If she literally just signed an agreement, it would already be over with. She said outright she intends to do all she can to bleed more and more money from me in the process. Which I don't know why! All the money I spend can't be used on our child!</quote>I'm sure you've been told this, but if there's anything tangible like texts saying as much, forward it to your lawyer. Judges have no patience for this petty shit, which only helps you out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/21/21 6:54:26 PM #344:	She is very, very, very tedious in making sure she texts nothing. She calls and says anything like that via voice. She entered my house when I was at work and took some of my kids stuff the other day. Every last part of it she made sure she called. She also called me a psycho for pointing out that was two different crimes she committed lol. Not that I am the person who is going to use texts and shit against someone. But it does amuse me realizing she has been acting this way for years, and I only realized it now. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954161982] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>She is very, very, very tedious in making sure she texts nothing. She calls and says anything like that via voice. She entered my house when I was at work and took some of my kids stuff the other day. Every last part of it she made sure she called. She also called me a psycho for pointing out that was two different crimes she committed lol. Not that I am the person who is going to use texts and shit against someone. But it does amuse me realizing she has been acting this way for years, and I only realized it now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kevwaffles 05/21/21 7:08:36 PM #345:	So you didn't change the locks? --- "One toot on this whistle will take you to a far away land." -Toad, SMB3 <cite>kevwaffles posted [p:954162468] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>So you didn't change the locks? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 05/21/21 7:15:10 PM #346:	Start recording your phone calls brah <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:954162648] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>Start recording your phone calls brah </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordoftheMorons 05/21/21 7:19:07 PM #347:	ChainLTTP posted... Start recording your phone calls brah Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time) --- Congrats to azuarc, GotD2 Guru champ! <cite>LordoftheMorons posted [p:954162759] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>ChainLTTP posted... </cite> <quote>Start recording your phone calls brah</quote>Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/21/21 7:20:26 PM #348:	kevwaffles posted... So you didn't change the locks? I forget to lock my door a lot. = / --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954162796] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>kevwaffles posted... </cite> <quote>So you didn't change the locks?</quote>I forget to lock my door a lot. = / </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lopen 05/21/21 7:20:59 PM #349:	LordoftheMorons posted... Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time) I think starting every phone conversation with a notice that the conversation is being recorded would make discussions with her more productive (even if she just immediately hangs up every time) so maybe that option is okay! --- No problem! This is a cute and pop genocide of love! <cite>Lopen posted [p:954162810] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>LordoftheMorons posted... </cite> <quote>Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time)</quote> I think starting every phone conversation with a notice that the conversation is being recorded would make discussions with her more productive (even if she just immediately hangs up every time) so maybe that option is okay! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Corrik7 05/21/21 7:21:43 PM #350:	LordoftheMorons posted... Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time) Yeah, unless you consent to a recording on private property, it is illegal. Lopen posted... I think starting every phone conversation with a notice that the conversation is being recorded would make discussions with her more productive (even if she just immediately hangs up every time) so maybe that option is okay! This doesn't constitute her consenting to being recorded. --- Xbox Live User Name - Corrik PSN User Name - Corrik7 Currently playing: Control (X1) <cite>Corrik7 posted [p:954162827] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>LordoftheMorons posted... </cite> <quote>Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time)</quote>Yeah, unless you consent to a recording on private property, it is illegal. <quote>Lopen posted... </cite>I think starting every phone conversation with a notice that the conversation is being recorded would make discussions with her more productive (even if she just immediately hangs up every time) so maybe that option is okay!</quote> This doesn't constitute her consenting to being recorded. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChainLTTP 05/21/21 7:33:15 PM #351:	LordoftheMorons posted... Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time) So one can screenshot text messages but recording a phone call is off limits? That's pretty dumb. <cite>ChainLTTP posted [p:954163110] in So my rela... [t:79367124]...</cite> <quote>LordoftheMorons posted... </cite> <quote>Do not do this; PA is a two party consent state so this would be illegal (unless you informed her that you were recording ahead of time)</quote>So one can screenshot text messages but recording a phone call is off limits? That's pretty dumb. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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