Poll of the Day > Sexual Consent Situational Poll

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This Hinge girl from Normandy France kept consenting to everything I said and this Omegle Hungarian girl consented for all of my future sexual requests. I rejected both girls because they're insane since I think you have to consent individually every time.

Here's the cup of tea video to help your decision https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=165&v=pZwvrxVavnQ&feature=emb_title


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They're just consent signalling 'cuz teh SJWs

Real people just, y'know, hang out and get comfortable and then sex it up if the mood strikes.

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get the form notarized

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It's best to draw up a contact and ask for I.D before doing anything sexual.

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Mead posted...

get the form notarized

triple stamped, no take backs
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In the #metoo era, a woman can remove consent whether she tells you or not.

Good luck proving the contrary.

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The_tall_midget posted...

In the #metoo era, a woman can remove consent whether she tells you or not.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intercourse_(book)
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This is so hot baby, we've gotta get lawyers involved!

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LOUDDOG777 posted...

This Hinge girl from Normandy France kept consenting to everything I said and this Omegle Hungarian girl consented for all of my future sexual requests. I rejected both girls because they're insane since I think you have to consent individually every time.

This happened.
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https://youtu.be/Q-gu6s0eGOk

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You should have some idea of what he or she considers appropriate.

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General rule of thumb is that consent should be both enthusiastic and expressed both before and during intercourse, which is not hard to do provided you aren't a complete moron.

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Gaawa_chan posted...

General rule of thumb is that consent should be both enthusiastic and expressed both before and during intercourse, which is not hard to do provided you aren't a complete moron.

That's what I get from my sex slaves when I take them off the hook they've been hanging on for two days in my basement.

General rule of thumb is that if they're like fucking a dead fish, it's no good for either of you. If they're actively engaging with you then it's probably consenting.
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https://youtu.be/HslbuwTMhrw

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I just respect a woman's wishes in regards to sex.

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You need consent each time, but it's usually pretty easy to tell if it's there without needing to explicitly ask. Just make sure you're creating an environment where your partner feels comfortable saying no, and you should be good.

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Better record her saying that, because she could change her mind. Us women love to do that.

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Gaawa_chan posted...

and during intercourse

"yeah gal keep riding it's ok I promise!"....


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Yeah, I feel like any woman that consents to "anything" either has no imagination or wants to die. Possibly both. Ya definitely need it every time no matter what they say.

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YoukaiSlayer posted...

Yeah, I feel like any woman that consents to "anything" either has no imagination or wants to die. Possibly both. Ya definitely need it every time no matter what they say.

Yeah somebody is going to murder somebody just because they said they consented to sex.
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the easiest way to establish and maintain consent is to establish boundaries ahead of time and not be afraid to tell your partner to stop if youre not into it (safe words arent just for BDSM you know). sometimes the mood just gets away from you

people (especially dudes) who try to argue that consent is more vague than it is are extremely sus

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Revelation34 posted...

Yeah somebody is going to murder somebody just because they said they consented to sex.

I meant in general, as in they don't care what happens to them cause they just wanna die, not that they would get murdered during sex.

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"I am now entering you with my wiener, is that okay?"

"yeh"

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WOW does no one, I repeat absolutely everyone forget we have more then just verbal communication? Body language is a form of communication.
Facial expressions, body positioning, gestures, even breathing is a form of physical communication.

No you shouldnt have to ask permission every time but just because you got permission once or twice means you can just plug her whenever you want. We look for consent every time even if it isnt verbal, theres obvious clues like "a shit-eating grin" is a good indicator that she wants it, a bad indicator would be an exasperated sigh or pulling their-selves back.

The video like most sexual consent educationals is forgetting non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication needs to be taught as part of sexual advances as well, not just spoken permission.
As for unconscious people, unless its your girlfriend/wife I wouldnt do that unless you specifically outlined this scenario to them earlier and got permission (then this becomes a lot of fun :)

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deoxxys posted...

The video like most sexual consent educationals is forgetting non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication needs to be taught as part of sexual advances as well, not just spoken permission.

I think people also forget the subconscious and mind-reading. I mean, those two should be rather obvious for everyone.

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In a sane world that would be enough. In the real world you basically need to make a notorized contract.

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The_tall_midget posted...

I think people also forget the subconscious and mind-reading. I mean, those two should be rather obvious for everyone.

I know you are joking but hopefully you arent trying trying to dismiss this.

I have mild Autism and even I can interpret non-verbal cues when I am paying attention.
Being attentive to non-verbal cues is very important as sometimes they say yes but arent feeling it.

Surface-level mind reading would be nice though, especially when it comes to new people.
People could get laid a lot more then.

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Unbridled9 posted...

In a sane world that would be enough. In the real world you basically need to make a notorized contract.

I have had over a dozen partners (only two were one night stands) and its worked just fine having a mix of types of consent. Obviously most of the time you will verbally get permission for a first time experience but asking like you are trying to get permission to go on the school field trip can kill the mood, which is why we have body language.

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Susan, I noticed that you did not sign the anal form in triplicate. Is there a reason for this?

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TC needs to stop picking up hookers.

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deoxxys posted...

just because you got permission once or twice means

*Doesnt mean

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deoxxys posted...

WOW does no one, I repeat absolutely everyone forget we have more then just verbal communication? Body language is a form of communication.
Facial expressions, body positioning, gestures, even breathing is a form of physical communication.

No you shouldnt have to ask permission every time but just because you got permission once or twice means you can just plug her whenever you want. We look for consent every time even if it isnt verbal, theres obvious clues like "a shit-eating grin" is a good indicator that she wants it, a bad indicator would be an exasperated sigh or pulling their-selves back.

The video like most sexual consent educationals is forgetting non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication needs to be taught as part of sexual advances as well, not just spoken permission.
As for unconscious people, unless its your girlfriend/wife I wouldnt do that unless you specifically outlined this scenario to them earlier and got permission (then this becomes a lot of fun :)

What if they have asthma?
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darcandkharg31 posted...

"I am now entering you with my wiener, is that okay?"

"yeh"

Kek

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Metalsonic66 posted...

https://youtu.be/Q-gu6s0eGOk

Holy crap, I remember when this was first doing the rounds. I'm so very old lol

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Revelation34 posted...

This happened.

Revelation34 posted...

LOUDDOG777 posted...
This Hinge girl from Normandy France kept consenting to everything I said and this Omegle Hungarian girl consented for all of my future sexual requests. I rejected both girls because they're insane since I think you have to consent individually every time.

This happened.

Yes everything, since I spend way too much time on these sites and apps. I think foreign woman do whatever you want, since they probably want a green card so it's a trap.

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So many virgins in here. Like literally, not insultingly.

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Veedrock- posted...

So many virgins in here. Like literally, not insultingly.

You are probably right, so we're getting a virgin's view on consent.

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Make sure she ain't "tipsy" unless you 100% KNOW her. No drunken party hookups. Don't get with a crazy. Don't be a dirtbag/creeper. I think that covers it? Good luck...

darcandkharg31 posted...

"I am now entering you with my wiener, is that okay?"

"yeh"

wiener is offensive please only say noodle

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Casually suggest the Chili-Dog during the first date to really push them boundaries

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wordscansay posted...

Make sure she ain't "tipsy" unless you 100% KNOW her. No drunken party hookups. Don't get with a crazy. Don't be a dirtbag/creeper. I think that covers it? Good luck...

The correct answer is never fuck a drunk person. Even if you know them.
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Revelation34 posted...

The correct answer is never fuck a drunk person. Even if you know them.

No and No.

Drinking with a love interest is the best way to get to know them on a deep level and share a level of intimacy you cant always reach unless you know them really well.

People always acting like drinking is a predatory tool used by dbags to bag women but yet usually both are drinking and both are responsible for their actions. Why is the man always the one thrown under the bus? I think its kind of sexist to always think this way and not only that but it seems kind of degrading to infantilize women as if their decision to get drunk and have sex is any less valid then the man's drunk decision.

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Is this where you tell her it's a surprise but stick it in the wrong hole? sounds kinda dodgy to me? might want to tell her before you do something like that?
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My problem with women is does she have the mental faculties to give meaningful consent. The jury must decide whether the person had the mental faculties to give meaningful consent for incompetent girls. However the girls I'm with are emotional, insecure, etc. so I'm not sure if I'm getting meaningful consent if she is completely emotionally unstable mental state when considered under a court of law.

Should I have expert witnesses and a notarized contract when having sex with Tinder girls? #metoo https://www.shouselaw.com/is-it-rape-to-have-sex-with-a-"offensivename GFAQs doesn't let me say"-person
Tinder and dating apps are my new porn, but I'm trying to meet women organically.

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TheWitchMorgana posted...

(safe words arent just for BDSM you know).

But really, they are. You don't need a "safe word" if there isn't some sort of overt control involved. Under anything but BDSM, Sub/Dom and forced play scenarios a simple "stop", "no" or "I'm not into this" is all that you need. A "safe word" is just silly and unnecessary in ordinary sexual situations. It's just people being lame and wanting to say "tee hee, we have a safe word"

TentacleDemon posted...

But really, they are. You don't need a "safe word" if there isn't some sort of overt control involved. Under anything but BDSM, Sub/Dom and forced play scenarios a simple "stop", "no" or "I'm not into this" is all that you need. A "safe word" is just silly and unnecessary in ordinary sexual situations. It's just people being lame and wanting to say "tee hee, we have a safe word"

You would be needing to be doing some kind of crazy shit in order to want a safe word for a "normal" sexual situation anyway.
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deoxxys posted...

WOW does no one, I repeat absolutely everyone forget we have more then just verbal communication? Body language is a form of communication.
Facial expressions, body positioning, gestures, even breathing is a form of physical communication.

The video like most sexual consent educationals is forgetting non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication needs to be taught as part of sexual advances as well, not just spoken permission.
As for unconscious people, unless its your girlfriend/wife I wouldnt do that unless you specifically outlined this scenario to them earlier and got permission (then this becomes a lot of fun :)

Body language means the opposite in some cultures like the ok hand gesture means the opposite whereas verbal communication means the same thing in all cultures. So verbal is always the right way to go and safe words are a waste of time, ironically it's less safe having safe words since you could forget.

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TentacleDemon posted...

Under anything but BDSM, Sub/Dom and forced play scenarios a simple "stop", "no" or "I'm not into this" is all that you need.

this isn't at odds with what i said? those are safe words too. they are words/phrases you can use to put an immediate stop to it

TentacleDemon posted...

It's just people being lame and wanting to say "tee hee, we have a safe word"

oh ok you're just one of those weird kink gatekeepers ok got it

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LOUDDOG777 posted...

ironically it's less safe having safe words since you could forget.

That's a movie/tv show joke. You're not going to forget some simple word.
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TheWitchMorgana posted...

this isn't at odds with what i said? those are safe words too. they are words/phrases you can use to put an immediate stop to it

I see. You just don't understand what a "safe word" actually is.