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TopicTipping is not required, it's optional.
_Rinku_
07/23/18 12:05:28 AM
#34
ImCallingYouOut posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
ImCallingYouOut posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
ImCallingYouOut posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
If you dont tip, youre robbing the service staff. Plain and simple.

nah cause then the restaurant has to make up the difference

nah cause the server has to tip out a percentage of the bill to busboys and the boh.

If you completely stiff a server on the tip, they pay money to serve you.

wrong once again

Nope. This is a common practice.

proof?

http://www.restaurantbusinessonline.com/advice-guy/bartender-tip-out-standards
TopicTipping is not required, it's optional.
_Rinku_
07/22/18 11:49:04 PM
#16
ImCallingYouOut posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
ImCallingYouOut posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
If you dont tip, youre robbing the service staff. Plain and simple.

nah cause then the restaurant has to make up the difference

nah cause the server has to tip out a percentage of the bill to busboys and the boh.

If you completely stiff a server on the tip, they pay money to serve you.

wrong once again

Nope. This is a common practice.
TopicTipping is not required, it's optional.
_Rinku_
07/22/18 11:45:47 PM
#11
ImCallingYouOut posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
If you dont tip, youre robbing the service staff. Plain and simple.

nah cause then the restaurant has to make up the difference

nah cause the server has to tip out a percentage of the bill to busboys and the boh.

If you completely stiff a server on the tip, they pay money to serve you.
TopicYou're at a restaurant...do you use a straw or drink from the glass?
_Rinku_
07/20/18 3:33:19 PM
#17
HiddenLurker posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Straw. I don't trust that the rim of the cups have been washed well enough to put my mouth directly on it.

If the Rim might be dirty what makes you think the rest of the glass is clean?

Attention to details. Even the dimmest bulb knows to wash the inside of the glass. Lazy people will not wash the rim.
TopicYou're at a restaurant...do you use a straw or drink from the glass?
_Rinku_
07/20/18 3:17:15 PM
#6
Straw. I don't trust that the rim of the cups have been washed well enough to put my mouth directly on it.
TopicWhat's with all the new genders these days?
_Rinku_
07/20/18 1:54:32 AM
#8
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Yawn
Topicluxury brands burn millions worth of clothing so the "wrong" people
_Rinku_
07/19/18 9:22:32 PM
#42
It seems like the type of people who would pay close to $2k for an item wouldn't give a shit if it were sold for $20 at the end of the season. By then, it's trash to them and replaced with the new season's $2k item.
TopicWhy do millennials HAVE to live in coastal states
_Rinku_
07/18/18 3:02:08 PM
#10
That's where all the tech jobs are. You know, the jobs you need a college education for?
TopicSo this crazy bitch is accusing me of rape and is trying to steal my firearm
_Rinku_
07/17/18 8:29:32 PM
#34
Orthopox12 posted...
Id report the gun in the off chance she does something stupid with it at least they know it wasnt in your possession. But yeah giving someone a firearm registered in your name is pretty irresponsible. That said hope you get the gun back and miss the rape charge.

This is the really important thing, TC.

If she does something with that gun, and you haven't reported it stolen? You will be legally/criminally liable. If she kills someone, you could be looking at an accessory to murder charge and that will ruin your life worse than a false rape accusation.
TopicPeople who say "African American" instead of black
_Rinku_
07/17/18 4:17:35 PM
#49
hollow_shrine posted...
EndOfDiscOne posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
"People of color" is a preferred term now.


Funny because people get mad if you say "colored people" instead. It's like the same thing.

You know it's not. One of those terms has a bad history in America. Also, one of those terms was chosen by a group of people of a variety of racial backgrounds to describe themselves as a group. The other one was chosen by an oppressive racial majority to describe a minority, and its use was echoed constantly from water fountains, to legal proceedings, to propaganda ti reiterate the nature of that oppression. Self-determination is key. These things aren't the same at all.
TopicPeople who say "African American" instead of black
_Rinku_
07/17/18 2:55:24 PM
#12
"People of color" is a preferred term now. I think you're confusing it for the last two letters of the NAACP.
TopicIs this worse than "Pokemon Go to the polls?"
_Rinku_
07/16/18 9:23:02 PM
#4
It's cute. You need to loosen up.
TopicRemember Snakes on a Plane?
_Rinku_
07/16/18 9:21:44 PM
#12
Zikten posted...
I used to really be into the theme song. So much that I used the Xbox feature of installing music from a CD to import off the soundtrack I had into Grand Theft Auto 3 and I made a custom radio station that was just this song playing over and over


I still jam to this song sometimes. I was so into as a teen who was really into bands like this.
TopicIf someone with Down Syndrome attacked you out of nowhere, would you fight back?
_Rinku_
07/16/18 6:59:56 PM
#2
Yes.

Their brain is likely still thinking "hurt the other person." My right to live and not be crippled isn't trumped by theirs.
TopicYour favorite fast food chain
_Rinku_
07/15/18 5:56:29 PM
#5
ACHEEKSMALLOY posted...
Taco Bell
TopicIdea for a thing Millennials can kill next: lawns
_Rinku_
07/15/18 5:30:38 PM
#77
EffectAndCause posted...
Okay, lets remove kidnappings done by people the kid knows because that can be done anywhere since the kid knows them, where is a kid more likely to be kidnapped by a stranger?

Honestly, in their own front yard is more likely than the park. There are almost certainly going to be other parents at the park that will notice a non-familial kidnapping. But, if it's just from the yard, there aren't guaranteed to be other parents around or even their own.

That said, both are pretty rare.
TopicIdea for a thing Millennials can kill next: lawns
_Rinku_
07/15/18 5:08:49 PM
#68
EffectAndCause posted...
Bio1590 posted...
EffectAndCause posted...
Fuck, I have no comeback, hes right.

You don't even have statistics to back up your claims lol.

Not to mention a ridiculous majority of all child disappearances in the US are the result of the child being taken by someone they know.


You need statistics to believe kids are more likely to be kidnapped at the park than in their own yard?

Yes, you do, almost entirely due to the fact that most kidnappings are done by someone the child knows (often a non-custodial parent).
TopicIdea for a thing Millennials can kill next: lawns
_Rinku_
07/15/18 5:05:09 PM
#65
Yeah, lawns suck. Growing up, my house's lawn was hideous and patchy due to like a decade's worth of unraked leaves killing almost everything underneath. By the time I was old enough to rake, the damage had been done and it never recovered.
TopicHow many Jury Summons have you received?
_Rinku_
07/14/18 7:56:13 PM
#19
Just one and it ended up getting cancelled.
TopicWhat is a manageable number of credit hours for college?
_Rinku_
07/14/18 3:32:41 PM
#7
14-16. 5 classes at most.
TopicSomeone left some kittens near our house and I have no idea what to do.
_Rinku_
07/14/18 12:44:24 AM
#54
I love the look of disdain on the bigger cat's face as he looks down on the kitten.
TopicAnti-smoking campaigns don't work.
_Rinku_
07/13/18 10:27:50 PM
#6
Verdekal posted...
Heck, maybe some anti smoking stuff is secretly funded by tobacco companies for that reason.


It is, actually. That "Truth" ad campaign is funded by tobacco companies.
TopicHow old were you when the thong song released?
_Rinku_
07/13/18 10:09:47 PM
#14
Like elementary school age.
TopicWhy wouldn't you date certain races?
_Rinku_
07/13/18 7:08:19 PM
#45
Family pressure.

Take for instance, the fact that my father would have, no lie, either beat me within an inch of my life or outright killed me if I ever brought a black girl home. I grew up with tons of people, men and women, who faced similar threats from their families.

I'm lucky in that I live far enough away and essentially cut him out of my life, that it's a non-issue for me. Many people are not that lucky. They're stuck living at home with their folks for various reasons and being beholden to their bigotry.
TopicDo you still have access to a working VCR?
_Rinku_
07/13/18 7:01:53 PM
#7
Yes, sort of.

I bought a DVS/VHS player combo at a thrift store a few years ago. I know it still works. However, I don't think it is technically a Video Cassette Recorder. It only plays VHS, afaik, and can't record anything to a blank tape.
TopicI don't get people that cry or get broken up when their pets die.
_Rinku_
07/13/18 6:42:44 PM
#23
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User Since: Jun 2018
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Whose alt is this?
TopicWho even eats at Subway anymore?
_Rinku_
07/13/18 6:41:40 PM
#8
I still do, occasionally. My shit-taste friends refuse to eat at the objectively superior Jersey Mike's.
TopicJapanese women's university to accept trans women in 2020.
_Rinku_
07/11/18 11:56:50 PM
#6
Good!
TopicYou have to live with only men or only women for 3 years. What would you pick?
_Rinku_
07/09/18 9:18:47 PM
#67
The people picking all men are ignoring a key detail:

At least one guy on that crew is going to be desperate for sex. Unless you're big and strong, the odds of you being able to fight him off aren't great.

On the all women crew, even a scrawny guy can fend off a moderately strong woman.
TopicUgh... Wife wants another kid, I'm dead set against it. What to do?
_Rinku_
07/08/18 10:27:17 PM
#22
masticatingman posted...
Your age argument isnt a good one. Men have new kids all the time in their late 30s and thru their 40s. The expectation is youll take care of yourself reasonably well. You probably wont depart until the new kid is in their 30s or 40s themselves. You really only have an argument as a guy to not have kids in your 50s on up...although you can still do it then too if you want. So yeah, hate to break it to ya but you got a long shelf life.

Also, it's kind of presumptuous to say "your argument isn't good" when it's based off what he wants at that stage in his life. If he doesn't want to be dealing with college road trips and such at 51, he's fine to feel that way. And, believe it or not, there is a pretty significant difference in how well most people feel at 41 vs 51. I'm watching that happen with my folks now.
That being said, I feel for you I guess but having kids while possible is a pretty crucial aspect to hetero relationships and theres no easy answer.

Actually, new studies are showing that men's sperm isn't as... "good," for lack of a better term, as they get up in age. It's not as bad as it is with women and eggs, but the quality you produce definitely declines.

Also,
TopicUgh... Wife wants another kid, I'm dead set against it. What to do?
_Rinku_
07/08/18 10:15:20 PM
#14
Lord_Wombat posted...
_OujiDoza_ posted...
Just say you don't think it a good idea. Simple.

I mean, it's not really that I have a good reason to not want one, I just... Don't. I'm 32, if she got pregnant today I'd be 33 when she had it, which means I'd be 51 when it's 18. That's pretty damn old to be trying to keep up with a teenager.

I also don't want to go through the bullshit that newborns/babies bring, which I admit is pretty selfish. We do pretty well financially, but holy shit does it take a lot of money to keep a baby supplied with it's needs...

I brought up adopting a slightly older child, but "it's not the same". I explained that it would be good for her, great for the kid getting a stable home, etc, but it's a no go.

*Sigh*

Anyone who would say "it's not the same" is not in the right headspace to raise any child, biological or adopted. Set your foot down about what you want and how this will affect the whole family.
Topicjust noticed that naughty dogs logo on their twitter page is the rainbow flag
_Rinku_
07/08/18 1:28:02 PM
#40
The_Scarecrow posted...
shockthemonkey posted...
The_Scarecrow posted...
Its obvious that Naughty Dog has an agenda. Theres no real arguing against that one.

The agenda being?


Im not the type to spoon feed. Youre already aware of what I mean just by being in this topic. Just look up everything Niel Druckmann has said about diversity within the last 5 years if you truly do not know.

You have no real response outside of regurgitation of the word "agenda."
TopicNew rule in Australia: all sexual partners must say "yes"
_Rinku_
07/08/18 1:01:26 AM
#32
That seems like a bit much.
TopicWhen TLJ came out, all the critics were saying it was the best Star Wars movie
_Rinku_
07/07/18 9:43:05 PM
#4
boxington posted...
they were correct
TopicGuy kept his relationship secret because girlfriend was trans
_Rinku_
07/05/18 4:33:36 PM
#27
I wouldn't keep it a secret, assuming she was open about it.
TopicTwo people desperately want to suck your dick. Who do you let suck it?
_Rinku_
06/29/18 6:14:18 PM
#33
The obese woman probably smells bad, so I'll go with the guy.
TopicSaw that Hollywood actress Maitland Ward promoting porn videos she is doing.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 6:00:21 PM
#29
RoboLaserGandhi posted...
She's gross

Big tits and nothing else

"Pointy elbows 3/10 would not bang"
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 5:07:46 PM
#68
spanky1 posted...

Wait...what?

I get the concept that I can be taking up space in a full restaurant and that because of that a busy restaurant may be annoyed with me. I get that concept. A bigger spender could have been in my place.

But you're saying even when business is slow, a restaurant is literally losing money on a table of one? If just a couple tables are taken and waiters are kinda sittin' around waiting for business, they don't want a table of one coming in to dine?

I...don't think that's correct. They're making a profit on my order.

Yeah. The profitability is calculated off of a table ordering a minimum amount of food. Especially if you're only ordering a loss-leader item. The labor cost (the cooks, dishwashers, etc.) might not even be offset by the cost of your meal.

I know it seems like the restaurant should be grateful for getting any business, but I've gotten enough bad service to learn otherwise. I mostly go to places where they give me my food and I do everything else. Way less confusion and mind games.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:51:09 PM
#65
spanky1 posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
spanky1 posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
the_rowan posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Also, it sounds like you're not tipping the minimum, which is pretty sleazy.


$3 on a $9 meal is perfectly sufficient. I don't hog the table; I eat and then I'm out.

It's not, really. You're occupying the table, but not spending enough money to make it worth the restaurant's time. Unless you are literally out in ten minutes every single time, you are putting them in the negative for opportunity cost.

Restaurants run on razor-thin margins. I don't like it/the pressure they put on you to order more/the pressure they put on employees, so I just get it to-go if I'm not having a drink, app, and entree.

Wait, what? 33% tip isn't high enough? Wtf?

The general rule is: 20% or at least $5, whichever is higher. There's an opportunity cost of taking up the table and the restaurant can "lose" money on someone who doesn't spend "enough."

I don't know anyone that tips a minimum of five bucks. If I get a 8 dollar meal, I'd probably tip 2 bucks max.

Anyways, the rest of your argument, the whole restaurant losing money thing, only works if the place is at max capacity. Majority of restaurants aren't, or at least the ones I go to.

Prices aren't calculated for max capacity because, as you said, they're almost never at max capacity.

I'm just telling you guys what I know so you can get good service. Going to a restaurant in the US is a very adversarial encounter.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:43:22 PM
#59
the_rowan posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
I don't like the game, but I understand the rules. It wouldn't be nearly so complicated if restaurants would pay the regular minimum wage and just charge a buck or two extra for every item.


Do. You. Not. Understand. That. Tips. Do. Not. Go. To. The. Restaurant?

You argue over and over and over again that the restaurant is losing money because I don't tip $5 on an entree even though the restaurant sees no benefit from that. The server is literally just seeing pure profit at no opportunity cost since there's maybe six to ten tables to take care of at the hours I'm there.

What you seem to actually be trying to say is that the tip has absolutely nothing to do with it and you just shouldn't be allowed to order less than $20 of food at a restaurant, in which case you're out of your fucking mind.

You are really angry about this.

And, you do know that many restaurants require their servers to tip out a percentage to the back of the house and,yes, even the restaurant itself?

It's a two-fold issue: you're costing the restaurant money by not spending enough and you're costing the server by not tipping enough to justify their time spent on you (which goes beyond the minute-minute and a half they're physically at your table).

And, honestly, yeah, it's a bit rude to not order at least $15 worth of food if you're expecting service. I don't like it, so I don't go out to eat if I'm not down for spending that much. It's really simple.

That's not even getting into establishments that actively punish their employees when customers don't order drinks, appetizer, entree, and dessert. I overheard a manager threatening a new employee with how this affected her "statistics" and I made it a point not to go there any more. That said, that's mostly an issue with big corporate chains, and not your local Thai place.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:26:22 PM
#55
1337toothbrush posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Re: tipping: you should always tip either 20% or $5, whichever is higher, assuming the service is good.

So you would seriously tip $5 on a $9 meal? That's more than 50%. This tipping bullshit is fucking moronic. Fuck that rule and fuck the assholes who came up with such an idiotic rule. Yet another reason I make all my own meals, so I don't accidentally piss off an asshole who thinks he deserves more than 50% of the cost of a meal for dropping a plate off at a table and interrupting my meal by asking how it is. I wouldn't want "special sauce" or whatever "revenge" for daring to not follow such imbecilic and arbitrary rules.

I wouldn't order a $9 meal at a sit-down restaurant. I'd get it to-go and not tip at all, as I said before.

I don't like the game, but I understand the rules. It wouldn't be nearly so complicated if restaurants would pay the regular minimum wage and just charge a buck or two extra for every item.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:21:53 PM
#54
the_rowan posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Sounds like that restaurant isn't doing too well then. If they are, in spite of having four open tables every time you go, they must be making their money in to-go orders or other tasks. In which case, you're taking up resources that could be more profitably used for food prep, taking phone orders, etc.


No, it's because I'm eating at either 11 in the morning or 2-3 in the afternoon.

Can you get your head out of your ass for one second to maybe consider you don't know everything about everything?

Again: the time could be better used for something other than waiting on you.

It seems I touched a nerve with you? It's not an attack on your character. I'm just stating facts about the restaurant industry. There's no need to get so upset.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:19:36 PM
#52
1337toothbrush posted...
spanky1 posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
the_rowan posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
Also, it sounds like you're not tipping the minimum, which is pretty sleazy.


$3 on a $9 meal is perfectly sufficient. I don't hog the table; I eat and then I'm out.

It's not, really. You're occupying the table, but not spending enough money to make it worth the restaurant's time. Unless you are literally out in ten minutes every single time, you are putting them in the negative for opportunity cost.

Restaurants run on razor-thin margins. I don't like it/the pressure they put on you to order more/the pressure they put on employees, so I just get it to-go if I'm not having a drink, app, and entree.

Wait, what? 33% tip isn't high enough? Wtf?

LOOOOOOOOOL!! No wonder this guy thinks $12.50 is too low for a meal. He must be tipping 200% like a sucker. We could avoid that by doing take-out, which would actually be a more fair comparison to fast food (the original point), but I'm sure this guy tips 100% for take-out because, he, the customer dared to stand there and breathe in the restaurant's precious air for a couple of seconds.

Actually, I don't tip on takeout. I've had people in the industry scream at me over this and say that you should tip just as much as if you sat in and ate, but that's silly. I probably should tip a little bit for them putting the food in the containers and bags, but I don't tip at McDonald's for that.
TopicAverage American spends $1200 on fast food each year.
_Rinku_
06/29/18 4:15:40 PM
#50
the_rowan posted...
_Rinku_ posted...
It's not, really. You're occupying the table, but not spending enough money to make it worth the restaurant's time. Unless you are literally out in ten minutes every single time, you are putting them in the negative for opportunity cost.

Restaurants run on razor-thin margins. I don't like it/the pressure they put on you to order more/the pressure they put on employees, so I just get it to-go if I'm not having a drink, app, and entree.


First of all, there literally isn't a damn opportunity cost for the table when I'm in there. There's always at least four open tables. The server spends a total of maybe one minute to ninety seconds at my table through the whole meal.

Second, why the hell does the tip have anything to do with any of that?

Sounds like that restaurant isn't doing too well then. If they are, in spite of having four open tables every time you go, they must be making their money in to-go orders or other tasks. In which case, you're taking up resources that could be more profitably used for food prep, taking phone orders, etc.

It's an opportunity cost because when you sit at the table, a more profitable customer could be sitting at the table. It doesn't have much to do with how long the server is there.

Re: tipping: you should always tip either 20% or $5, whichever is higher, assuming the service is good.
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