wife for 11 years-tonight is my first "open relationship" date

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MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:07:20 PM #1:	80/80 I feel weird because its different than what I'm used to but holy crap am I excited because I have a huge crush on this girl. My wife knows all about it and the date. We have had the open relationship conversation several times but its never really come up until now. What should I expect going forward? Anybody else had a similar experience? Feels so weird to be so excited and so nervous / frightened at the same time. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907648113] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>80/80 I feel weird because its different than what I'm used to but holy crap am I excited because I have a huge crush on this girl. My wife knows all about it and the date. We have had the open relationship conversation several times but its never really come up until now. What should I expect going forward? Anybody else had a similar experience? Feels so weird to be so excited and so nervous / frightened at the same time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Chicken 08/27/18 5:08:37 PM #2:	She will get more action than you --- https://youtu.be/jGbI0P4hh3o <cite>Chicken posted [p:907648184] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>She will get more action than you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yillin 08/27/18 5:08:41 PM #3:	Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble. --- There's a calm before the storm and the western front is quiet. I've got Rembrandt as my right hand and Solo as my pilot. <cite>yillin posted [p:907648188] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Frostshock 08/27/18 5:09:56 PM #4:	Your marriage is over. --- Got questions about schoolwork? Want to share answers, or discuss your studies? Come to Homework Helpers! http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/1060-homework-helpers <cite>Frostshock posted [p:907648259] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Your marriage is over.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadSite 08/27/18 5:10:34 PM #5:	Ours was pretty ez <cite>DeadSite posted [p:907648290] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Ours was pretty ez</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoundNetwork 08/27/18 5:10:43 PM #6:	My wife is the only one I've had a sexual relationship with and these thoughts do cross my mind. How did you approach her about it?I feel like I've missed out. I've always wanted to have sex with an Asian woman and I'll never get the chance. I don't want to fetishize a whole race but kpop videos are basically porno now --- https://imgur.com/HcKBWZ6 <cite>SoundNetwork posted [p:907648299] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>My wife is the only one I've had a sexual relationship with and these thoughts do cross my mind. How did you approach her about it?I feel like I've missed out. I've always wanted to have sex with an Asian woman and I'll never get the chance. I don't want to fetishize a whole race but kpop videos are basically porno now</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Megaman50100 08/27/18 5:12:27 PM #7:	A moment of silence for the future of this man's marriage. --- move all remaining groundhog mercenaries to the front lines. Have sheep troopers squadrons A and B flank the cows. They're using DC-17 hoof blasters. <cite>Megaman50100 posted [p:907648416] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>A moment of silence for the future of this man's marriage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:12:32 PM #8:	yillin posted... Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble. She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that. So really it kind of is the first instance. I am a little worried it will change things but we have a strong relationship and have been through worse. We have set boundaries and the like already. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907648419] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>yillin posted...</cite> <quote>Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble.</quote> She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that. So really it kind of is the first instance. I am a little worried it will change things but we have a strong relationship and have been through worse. We have set boundaries and the like already.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tupacrulez 08/27/18 5:13:05 PM #9:	Have fun with the divorce. --- Suck less, Rock Moar Have I licked butt hole before? All the time. --r4xor <cite>Tupacrulez posted [p:907648450] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Have fun with the divorce.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metro2 08/27/18 5:13:43 PM #10:	Just remember. Communicate, communicate, communicate with all parties. That is the key. If you can keep that up, then I hope you enjoy the experience! Open dates are fun and can bring back new excitement. <cite>Metro2 posted [p:907648491] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Just remember. Communicate, communicate, communicate with all parties. That is the key. If you can keep that up, then I hope you enjoy the experience! Open dates are fun and can bring back new excitement.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yillin 08/27/18 5:14:17 PM #11:	MildMannerdPate posted... yillin posted... Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble. She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that. So really it kind of is the first instance. I am a little worried it will change things but we have a strong relationship and have been through worse. We have set boundaries and the like already. Well, people tend to have laid out beliefs in their head until they are actually faced with them in real life and then it all comes crashing down. This is a dangerous thing your doing but if it works then more power to you I guess. --- There's a calm before the storm and the western front is quiet. I've got Rembrandt as my right hand and Solo as my pilot. <cite>yillin posted [p:907648520] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>yillin posted...</cite> <quote>Has your wife dated/been with someone else in that time? Is this the first instance of this for either of you? If it is, this could be trouble.</quote> She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that. So really it kind of is the first instance. I am a little worried it will change things but we have a strong relationship and have been through worse. We have set boundaries and the like already.</quote> Well, people tend to have laid out beliefs in their head until they are actually faced with them in real life and then it all comes crashing down. This is a dangerous thing your doing but if it works then more power to you I guess.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 08/27/18 5:14:53 PM #12:	Chicken posted... She will get more action than you this is true, btw, without sarcasm women always get the better deal from an open relationship, if you conceptualize the upside as you being able to bang more people --- But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:907648562] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Chicken posted...</cite> <quote>She will get more action than you</quote> this is true, btw, without sarcasm women always get the better deal from an open relationship, if you conceptualize the upside as you being able to bang more people</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:15:38 PM #13:	SoundNetwork posted... My wife is the only one I've had a sexual relationship with and these thoughts do cross my mind. How did you approach her about it?I feel like I've missed out. I've always wanted to have sex with an Asian woman and I'll never get the chance. I don't want to fetishize a whole race but kpop videos are basically porno now I don't remember how the conversations started but it was basically just talking along the lines of the future of our relationship. We have been together since we were 18 so we both knew that we had limited romantic experience outside of our own relationship. I guess it just led to the topic of "what happens when one of us has a crush on another person?" Which led to the discussion that its much healthier to address these situations as they come but being open with each other about it, rather than secret affairs and lies and all that. Which is funny because I bet a good number of people saying "your marriage is over" etc would have little qualms about having a secret affair on their SO lol Honesty and communication is the best policy --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907648599] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>SoundNetwork posted...</cite> <quote>My wife is the only one I've had a sexual relationship with and these thoughts do cross my mind. How did you approach her about it?I feel like I've missed out. I've always wanted to have sex with an Asian woman and I'll never get the chance. I don't want to fetishize a whole race but kpop videos are basically porno now</quote> I don't remember how the conversations started but it was basically just talking along the lines of the future of our relationship. We have been together since we were 18 so we both knew that we had limited romantic experience outside of our own relationship. I guess it just led to the topic of "what happens when one of us has a crush on another person?" Which led to the discussion that its much healthier to address these situations as they come but being open with each other about it, rather than secret affairs and lies and all that. Which is funny because I bet a good number of people saying "your marriage is over" etc would have little qualms about having a secret affair on their SO lol Honesty and communication is the best policy</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
21WIVES_CHILL 08/27/18 5:16:01 PM #14:	Simp <cite>21WIVES_CHILL posted [p:907648618] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Simp</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeuralLaxative 08/27/18 5:16:05 PM #15:	The average wife gets blasted my limitless chad dick --- https://imgur.com/rPJnWhf <cite>NeuralLaxative posted [p:907648624] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>The average wife gets blasted my limitless chad dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metro2 08/27/18 5:17:31 PM #16:	She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that. Well, you can always try out polyamory if she wants to get an additional partner, but polyamory is really tricky to navigate and should ONLY be attempted if your current relationship is stable, open-minded, and everyone agrees to it. Poly relationships will fall if you use it as a form of escapism or try to run away from an ongoing problem. <cite>Metro2 posted [p:907648701] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><quote>She has been asked on dates and said along the lines of, "Yes but I'm in an open relationship so I can't be your gf" and the guys always get turned off by that.</quote> Well, you can always try out polyamory if she wants to get an additional partner, but polyamory is really tricky to navigate and should ONLY be attempted if your current relationship is stable, open-minded, and everyone agrees to it. Poly relationships will fall if you use it as a form of escapism or try to run away from an ongoing problem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ALIEN_WORK2HOP 08/27/18 5:18:43 PM #17:	pretty sure it's not a good idea to see someone you have a crush on. I thought feelings shouldn't be involved when seeing other people in an open relationship. --- If you have selfish, ignorant citizens, you're going to get selfish, ignorant leaders. <cite>ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted [p:907648752] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>pretty sure it's not a good idea to see someone you have a crush on. I thought feelings shouldn't be involved when seeing other people in an open relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sada_Pop 08/27/18 5:19:09 PM #18:	Metro2 posted... Just remember. Communicate, communicate, communicate with all parties. That is the key. If you can keep that up, then I hope you enjoy the experience! Open dates are fun and can bring back new excitement. This guy gets it --- People would have you believe that the accusation of racism is more offensive than ACTUAL racism. <cite>Sada_Pop posted [p:907648771] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Metro2 posted...</cite> <quote>Just remember. Communicate, communicate, communicate with all parties. That is the key. If you can keep that up, then I hope you enjoy the experience! Open dates are fun and can bring back new excitement.</quote> This guy gets it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:19:14 PM #19:	Metro2 posted... Well, you can always try out polyamory if she wants to get an additional partner, but polyamory is really tricky to navigate and should ONLY be attempted if your current relationship is stable, open-minded, and everyone agrees to it. Poly relationships will fall if you use it as a form of escapism or try to run away from an ongoing problem. Definitely not escapism here. My wife and I have a really good sex life. Its more just trying new things. Hell if I can get my wife and her together in bed I would be in heaven. But that's not my ultimate goal here. Just looking to have a little fun, no long term dedications with this new girl --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907648778] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Metro2 posted...</cite> <quote>Well, you can always try out polyamory if she wants to get an additional partner, but polyamory is really tricky to navigate and should ONLY be attempted if your current relationship is stable, open-minded, and everyone agrees to it. Poly relationships will fall if you use it as a form of escapism or try to run away from an ongoing problem.</quote> Definitely not escapism here. My wife and I have a really good sex life. Its more just trying new things. Hell if I can get my wife and her together in bed I would be in heaven. But that's not my ultimate goal here. Just looking to have a little fun, no long term dedications with this new girl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 08/27/18 5:20:01 PM #20:	Frostshock posted... Your marriage is over. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac/wishlist/ <cite>Esrac posted [p:907648816] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Frostshock posted...</cite> <quote>Your marriage is over.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:20:23 PM #21:	ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted... pretty sure it's not a good idea to see someone you have a crush on. I thought feelings shouldn't be involved when seeing other people in an open relationship. I mean I'm not going to date someone I'm not attracted to. I barely know this person so it's not like my crush is based on "Oh I love this girl" or anything like that. She is super cute and fun but I'm not about to throw away my marriage on a random girl I barely know. My wife is amazing. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907648831] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...</cite> <quote>pretty sure it's not a good idea to see someone you have a crush on. I thought feelings shouldn't be involved when seeing other people in an open relationship.</quote> I mean I'm not going to date someone I'm not attracted to. I barely know this person so it's not like my crush is based on "Oh I love this girl" or anything like that. She is super cute and fun but I'm not about to throw away my marriage on a random girl I barely know. My wife is amazing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
green butter 08/27/18 5:20:31 PM #22:	what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this --- https://imgur.com/LhwwG <cite>green butter posted [p:907648838] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoundNetwork 08/27/18 5:20:39 PM #23:	My wife and I always "joke" about banging other guys. She always "jokes" about black men and me about Asian women. But I think that is just an indirect way of letting each other know we want to fuck other people. But at the same time she's extremely jealous and if ever make a comment about another woman in real life she destroys. --- https://imgur.com/HcKBWZ6 <cite>SoundNetwork posted [p:907648847] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>My wife and I always "joke" about banging other guys. She always "jokes" about black men and me about Asian women. But I think that is just an indirect way of letting each other know we want to fuck other people. But at the same time she's extremely jealous and if ever make a comment about another woman in real life she destroys.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yillin 08/27/18 5:21:51 PM #24:	green butter posted... what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this Tax breaks --- There's a calm before the storm and the western front is quiet. I've got Rembrandt as my right hand and Solo as my pilot. <cite>yillin posted [p:907648909] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>green butter posted...</cite> <quote>what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this</quote> Tax breaks</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:25:45 PM #26:	green butter posted... what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this You could say the same about people having secret affairs built on lies but people do that all the time How about the fact that I love my wife and we are a great duo? We have built a strong relationship and a comfortable home together? But realize that we are just mammals and not some idealized version of some god's offspring? People want to f* other people. That's a fact. You can approach that in a healthy, honest, communicative fashion, you can have devastating affairs, or you can repress your basic human instincts which leads to depression and resentment. I prefer the first option. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907649114] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>green butter posted...</cite> <quote>what is even the point of getting married if youre going to do something like this</quote> You could say the same about people having secret affairs built on lies but people do that all the time How about the fact that I love my wife and we are a great duo? We have built a strong relationship and a comfortable home together? But realize that we are just mammals and not some idealized version of some god's offspring? People want to f* other people. That's a fact. You can approach that in a healthy, honest, communicative fashion, you can have devastating affairs, or you can repress your basic human instincts which leads to depression and resentment. I prefer the first option.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Krave_ 08/27/18 5:39:09 PM #28:	Sorry about the divorce, man. This coming from another married man with his girl of 11 years. --- Am I seducing or being seduced? <cite>_Krave_ posted [p:907649790] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Sorry about the divorce, man. This coming from another married man with his girl of 11 years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 08/27/18 5:40:25 PM #29:	Having one partner is enough. Having multiple basically means you don't have any hobbies. --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:907649860] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Having one partner is enough. Having multiple basically means you don't have any hobbies.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:40:55 PM #30:	Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907649890] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Krave_ 08/27/18 5:42:57 PM #31:	Because if you think you're secure, she's likely already thinking of exchanging mates. --- Am I seducing or being seduced? <cite>_Krave_ posted [p:907650004] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Because if you think you're secure, she's likely already thinking of exchanging mates.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:45:11 PM #33:	_Krave_ posted... Because if you think you're secure, she's likely already thinking of exchanging mates. I mean that's part of the deal, so that's fine. We have boundaries set and neither one of us is keen to break them. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907650133] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>_Krave_ posted...</cite> <quote>Because if you think you're secure, she's likely already thinking of exchanging mates.</quote> I mean that's part of the deal, so that's fine. We have boundaries set and neither one of us is keen to break them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:45:30 PM #34:	TheGoldenEel posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women Different poster. Not me. Hell when I told her the girl gave me her number her exact words were, "Oh, THAT girl? S*, you can't pass that up" --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907650150] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women</quote> Different poster. Not me. Hell when I told her the girl gave me her number her exact words were, "Oh, THAT girl? S*, you can't pass that up"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 08/27/18 5:45:39 PM #35:	TheGoldenEel posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women wait is TC and dude you quoted the same person? --- But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:907650159] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women</quote> wait is TC and dude you quoted the same person?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SageHarpuia 08/27/18 5:45:40 PM #36:	haha what a story mark --- "You will pay dearly for your futile resistance!" <cite>SageHarpuia posted [p:907650160] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>haha what a story mark</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 08/27/18 5:46:19 PM #37:	MildMannerdPate posted... TheGoldenEel posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women Different poster. Not me. Oh duh --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:907650188] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> You just said shes extremely jealous and gets pissed if you talk about other women</quote> Different poster. Not me.</quote> Oh duh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadSite 08/27/18 5:49:37 PM #38:	MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship <cite>DeadSite posted [p:907650378] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:51:01 PM #39:	DeadSite posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship Yeah to be fair I expected that. Every now and then you get a nugget of genuine advice so I figured it would be worth sorting through the incels lol --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907650461] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship</quote> Yeah to be fair I expected that. Every now and then you get a nugget of genuine advice so I figured it would be worth sorting through the incels lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadSite 08/27/18 5:53:10 PM #40:	MildMannerdPate posted... DeadSite posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship Yeah to be fair I expected that. Every now and then you get a nugget of genuine advice so I figured it would be worth sorting through the incels lol My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation. <cite>DeadSite posted [p:907650565] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship</quote> Yeah to be fair I expected that. Every now and then you get a nugget of genuine advice so I figured it would be worth sorting through the incels lol</quote> My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
eston 08/27/18 5:54:21 PM #41:	My wife and I have been married 9 years, together for 12, and I can't really imagine this being beneficial to our relationship. I've also known several couples who tried it and had varying degrees of bad results. Haven't really known anybody it worked for tbqh --- http://i73.photobucket.com/albums/i215/estonc/grizzly_bear_chairs_2.jpg https://imgur.com/8kjZU <cite>eston posted [p:907650632] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>My wife and I have been married 9 years, together for 12, and I can't really imagine this being beneficial to our relationship. I've also known several couples who tried it and had varying degrees of bad results. Haven't really known anybody it worked for tbqh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 5:55:05 PM #42:	DeadSite posted... My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation. That's my plan. I want to be open. I will probably see where this first date goes without telling the new chick I'm in an open relationship. If she never wants to hang out again, no harm no foul. Second date though is probably prime time to be honest about my situation. If she's cool with it, awesome. If not, at least we had one fun date. Is that fine or should I just be open first thing? --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907650674] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote>My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation.</quote> That's my plan. I want to be open. I will probably see where this first date goes without telling the new chick I'm in an open relationship. If she never wants to hang out again, no harm no foul. Second date though is probably prime time to be honest about my situation. If she's cool with it, awesome. If not, at least we had one fun date. Is that fine or should I just be open first thing?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadSite 08/27/18 5:56:12 PM #43:	MildMannerdPate posted... DeadSite posted... My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation. That's my plan. I want to be open. I will probably see where this first date goes without telling the new chick I'm in an open relationship. If she never wants to hang out again, no harm no foul. Second date though is probably prime time to be honest about my situation. If she's cool with it, awesome. If not, at least we had one fun date. I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways. <cite>DeadSite posted [p:907650750] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote>My personal experience with an open relationship: obviously just be open. Don't hide things about the relationship with the person you're going on a date with and definitely not your wife. If something serious comes up with the other person, stop them there and let them know the situation.</quote> That's my plan. I want to be open. I will probably see where this first date goes without telling the new chick I'm in an open relationship. If she never wants to hang out again, no harm no foul. Second date though is probably prime time to be honest about my situation. If she's cool with it, awesome. If not, at least we had one fun date.</quote> I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlephZero 08/27/18 5:56:21 PM #44:	the average man is unfuckable the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick --- "life is overrated" - Seiichi Omori 01001100 01010101 01000101 00100000 00110100 00110000 00110010 <cite>AlephZero posted [p:907650754] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>the average man is unfuckable the average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 08/27/18 5:56:22 PM #45:	MildMannerdPate posted... What should I expect going forward? the end of your relationship --- https://imgur.com/RrnQVUg <cite>Abyssea posted [p:907650755] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>What should I expect going forward?</quote> the end of your relationship</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Axiom 08/27/18 5:57:05 PM #46:	DeadSite posted... MildMannerdPate posted... Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date. Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship Bingo. TC seems like a well-adjusted guy that could probably handle this type of thing <cite>Axiom posted [p:907650796] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>Haha why does everyone jump to divorce? Even if it doesn't work out I highly doubt it will amount to anything more than "I didn't like how that made me feel, let's not do that again". Seriously. Strong relationship here. It would take a lot to fall apart over a date.</quote> Because CE is overly insecure and struggles to even get in a monogamous relationship</quote> Bingo. TC seems like a well-adjusted guy that could probably handle this type of thing</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 6:00:33 PM #47:	DeadSite posted... I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways. That's fair. However I don't want to wait for a conversation either because that doesn't always happen. Sometimes romantic / intimate situations occur organically and I'd rather nip it in the bud right then, rather than have casual sex and bring it up after. Extreme point there, but that's a bad idea. --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907651012] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote>I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways.</quote> That's fair. However I don't want to wait for a conversation either because that doesn't always happen. Sometimes romantic / intimate situations occur organically and I'd rather nip it in the bud right then, rather than have casual sex and bring it up after. Extreme point there, but that's a bad idea.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EpicMickeyDrew 08/27/18 6:00:55 PM #48:	So how cute is this new girl? Is she younger than your wife? Are you just looking to bang her? How did you meet? Does she know you're in an open relationship? --- Just how, pray tell, does your dick "take life"? How could a dick take a life? - XciteMe <cite>EpicMickeyDrew posted [p:907651030] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>So how cute is this new girl? Is she younger than your wife? Are you just looking to bang her? How did you meet? Does she know you're in an open relationship?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Krave_ 08/27/18 6:02:03 PM #49:	It just seems weird. I could never fuck another chick, then come home to my happy wife, even if she orchestrated the hookup. I just don't have it in me. --- Am I seducing or being seduced? <cite>_Krave_ posted [p:907651093] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>It just seems weird. I could never fuck another chick, then come home to my happy wife, even if she orchestrated the hookup. I just don't have it in me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 08/27/18 6:03:36 PM #50:	he's gonna end up getting cucked. you guys are setting him up by being so nice about it. :v though maybe he'll be into cuckoldry, who knows? his wife's boyfriend might even buy him a switch. --- https://imgur.com/RrnQVUg <cite>Abyssea posted [p:907651187] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>he's gonna end up getting cucked. you guys are setting him up by being so nice about it. :v though maybe he'll be into cuckoldry, who knows? his wife's boyfriend might even buy him a switch.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeadSite 08/27/18 6:04:34 PM #51:	MildMannerdPate posted... DeadSite posted... I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways. That's fair. However I don't want to wait for a conversation either because that doesn't always happen. Sometimes romantic / intimate situations occur organically and I'd rather nip it in the bud right then, rather than have casual sex and bring it up after. Extreme example there, but that's a bad idea either way. Maybe. The way I see it if y'all have sex before the talk it means she doesn't require you to establish a relationship before getting that intimate <cite>DeadSite posted [p:907651229] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeadSite posted...</cite> <quote>I typically didn't bring it up unless "the talk" came up. The way I see it dates are no strings attached and you shouldn't force the conversion anyways.</quote> That's fair. However I don't want to wait for a conversation either because that doesn't always happen. Sometimes romantic / intimate situations occur organically and I'd rather nip it in the bud right then, rather than have casual sex and bring it up after. Extreme example there, but that's a bad idea either way.</quote> Maybe. The way I see it if y'all have sex before the talk it means she doesn't require you to establish a relationship before getting that intimate</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/27/18 6:06:59 PM #52:	EpicMickeyDrew posted... So how cute is this new girl? Is she younger than your wife? Are you just looking to bang her? How did you meet? Does she know you're in an open relationship? If I had to describe it, the new girl is super cute and friendly but my wife is gorgeous and sexy. If I had to choose one its my wife every day of the week. But I just want to try something new if only temporarily. And new girl's personality is quite attractive so there's that. I think she is a bit younger than both of us (wife and I both 29) but I'm not sure her exact age. Guessing around 25. Not really looking to bang her. If that happens organically, awesome. I'd be happy with just a couple dates and maybe some nookie lol I met her at a coffee shop she works at. My wife had seen her previously when we went in together and often told her she was cute, liked her hair, etc. and several times after leaving would say something like "That girl is way too cute!". Asked her for her number a couple of months ago but at the time she said she had a boyfriend. Then last Saturday I went to get some coffee and she just gave it to me without me asking. Threw me off because I had written her off so to speak lol She doesn't know but I plan on telling her before anything gets remotely serious. Honesty and Communication first --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907651353] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>EpicMickeyDrew posted...</cite> <quote>So how cute is this new girl? Is she younger than your wife? Are you just looking to bang her? How did you meet? Does she know you're in an open relationship?</quote> If I had to describe it, the new girl is super cute and friendly but my wife is gorgeous and sexy. If I had to choose one its my wife every day of the week. But I just want to try something new if only temporarily. And new girl's personality is quite attractive so there's that. I think she is a bit younger than both of us (wife and I both 29) but I'm not sure her exact age. Guessing around 25. Not really looking to bang her. If that happens organically, awesome. I'd be happy with just a couple dates and maybe some nookie lol I met her at a coffee shop she works at. My wife had seen her previously when we went in together and often told her she was cute, liked her hair, etc. and several times after leaving would say something like "That girl is way too cute!". Asked her for her number a couple of months ago but at the time she said she had a boyfriend. Then last Saturday I went to get some coffee and she just gave it to me without me asking. Threw me off because I had written her off so to speak lol She doesn't know but I plan on telling her before anything gets remotely serious. Honesty and Communication first</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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