wife for 11 years-tonight is my first "open relationship" date

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Darmik 08/29/18 6:41:05 PM #203:	marthsheretoo posted... Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case. A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:907773342] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>marthsheretoo posted...</cite> <quote>Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case.</quote> A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
marthsheretoo 08/29/18 6:43:16 PM #204:	REMercsChamp posted... Probably because it's not the 1700s any more where people get married for obligation, transferring of property etc but rather love, commitment to their partner and things like that. REMercsChamp posted... Come check out my community board for NEET discussions: --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro <cite>marthsheretoo posted [p:907773453] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote>Probably because it's not the 1700s any more where people get married for obligation, transferring of property etc but rather love, commitment to their partner and things like that.</quote> <cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote>Come check out my community board for NEET discussions:</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RoboLaserGandhi 08/29/18 6:50:16 PM #205:	This sounds like an awful idea <cite>RoboLaserGandhi posted [p:907773845] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>This sounds like an awful idea</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chrono625 08/29/18 7:04:12 PM #206:	Darmik posted... marthsheretoo posted... Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case. A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though. Studies show open marriages dont end well. Either because the woman gets jealous or feels abandoned or the guy cant get over the fact that getting a one night stand as a guy isnt as easy as it is for a woman. We dont want TC to come 6 months later wallowing in self pity because his wife left him or got tired of an open relationship. --- https://imgur.com/Rqk1DYV - Super Bowl XXI/XXV/XLII/XLVI Champions - NY Giants Eli Manning SB tracker: 2/2 Superbowls 2/2 SBMVP's <cite>chrono625 posted [p:907774593] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>marthsheretoo posted...</cite> <quote>Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case.</quote> A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though.</quote> Studies show open marriages dont end well. Either because the woman gets jealous or feels abandoned or the guy cant get over the fact that getting a one night stand as a guy isnt as easy as it is for a woman. We dont want TC to come 6 months later wallowing in self pity because his wife left him or got tired of an open relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 08/29/18 7:10:31 PM #207:	chrono625 posted... Darmik posted... marthsheretoo posted... Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case. A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though. Studies show open marriages dont end well. Either because the woman gets jealous or feels abandoned or the guy cant get over the fact that getting a one night stand as a guy isnt as easy as it is for a woman. We dont want TC to come 6 months later wallowing in self pity because his wife left him or got tired of an open relationship. He's not asking for advice like that and he has clearly made up his mind. Studies don't summarize every single relationship. For all we know there are a whole lot of open relationships out there who keep it secret from their friends and family. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:907774862] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>chrono625 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>marthsheretoo posted...</cite> <quote>Why are people itt so triggered and threatened by the possibility of a healthy open marriage? And before anyone says "because it's impossible", some quick googling will make it clear that's not the case. Hell, the happy people in the open marriages among my friends tell me it's not the case.</quote> A lot of people here have a very closed mind and refuse to acknowledge other people's perspectives. It's weird how outright offended and angry people get over this though.</quote> Studies show open marriages dont end well. Either because the woman gets jealous or feels abandoned or the guy cant get over the fact that getting a one night stand as a guy isnt as easy as it is for a woman. We dont want TC to come 6 months later wallowing in self pity because his wife left him or got tired of an open relationship.</quote> He's not asking for advice like that and he has clearly made up his mind. Studies don't summarize every single relationship. For all we know there are a whole lot of open relationships out there who keep it secret from their friends and family.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Syntheticon 08/31/18 12:34:44 AM #208:	Chicken posted... She will get more action than you Frostshock posted... Your marriage is over. Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol --- Mod me? You don't even know me! <cite>Syntheticon posted [p:907851342] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Chicken posted...</cite> <quote>She will get more action than you</quote><cite>Frostshock posted...</cite> <quote>Your marriage is over.</quote>Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/31/18 11:26:40 AM #209:	Syntheticon posted... Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907869089] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Syntheticon posted...</cite> <quote>Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol</quote> Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 08/31/18 11:41:18 AM #210:	MildMannerdPate posted... Syntheticon posted... Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:907869714] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Syntheticon posted...</cite> <quote>Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol</quote> Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great</quote> Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/31/18 11:51:48 AM #211:	KINDERFELD posted... Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex. My wife and I both have bachelor's degrees with high paying jobs and good benefits, we both have strong hobbies and close circles of friends, life goals and we constantly take steps to move close to those goals, we spend great quality time together, travel, try new things. But if you want to keep making brash assumptions over the internet about people you know nothing about, that's fine. I've said several times that sex wasn't the goal or ultimate intention of this endeavor. But it's clear you see what you want to see and will never change your mind. Not sure who is more sad here but considering you are spending several days on the internet trying to bring someone down who you don't even know for trying something new, who's the one with no drive or ambition, really? --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907870221] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote>Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex. </quote> My wife and I both have bachelor's degrees with high paying jobs and good benefits, we both have strong hobbies and close circles of friends, life goals and we constantly take steps to move close to those goals, we spend great quality time together, travel, try new things. But if you want to keep making brash assumptions over the internet about people you know nothing about, that's fine. I've said several times that sex wasn't the goal or ultimate intention of this endeavor. But it's clear you see what you want to see and will never change your mind. Not sure who is more sad here but considering you are spending several days on the internet trying to bring someone down who you don't even know for trying something new, who's the one with no drive or ambition, really?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 08/31/18 11:57:34 AM #212:	MildMannerdPate posted... KINDERFELD posted... Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex. My wife and I both have bachelor's degrees with high paying jobs and good benefits, we both have strong hobbies and close circles of friends, life goals and we constantly take steps to move close to those goals, we spend great quality time together, travel, try new things. But if you want to keep making brash assumptions over the internet about people you know nothing about, that's fine. I've said several times that sex wasn't the goal or ultimate intention of this endeavor. But it's clear you see what you want to see and will never change your mind. Not sure who is more sad here but considering you are spending several days trying to bring someone down for trying something new who you don't know, who's the one with no drive or ambition, really? No you both do not. Also, you have great sex with your wife but you're so stuck in the mud mentally using sex to find happiness. So you think running after other women with your wife's permission somehow changes that you're acting like a dog in heat, using sexual conquests to try and find fulfillment in life. Why not realistically try and earn a degree or do something worthwhile with your time other than stepping out on your wife who you already have great sex with, to run after strange women in the streets. You're a disappointment and embarrassment captured on gamefaqs for the world to see. You're not a man but a little boy still trying to figure out life. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:907870499] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KINDERFELD posted...</cite> <quote>Instead of acting like a dog in heat, use your time like a productive adult, developing other aspects of your life. But you're probably an individual of a certain calibre, with very little ambition and very little accomplishments in life, so, you remain functional on a surface level, seeking satisfaction in life through sexual conquests. Gamefaqs take a note of what a man can become when he has no drive or ambition to do anything with his life but glean happiness through sex. </quote> My wife and I both have bachelor's degrees with high paying jobs and good benefits, we both have strong hobbies and close circles of friends, life goals and we constantly take steps to move close to those goals, we spend great quality time together, travel, try new things. But if you want to keep making brash assumptions over the internet about people you know nothing about, that's fine. I've said several times that sex wasn't the goal or ultimate intention of this endeavor. But it's clear you see what you want to see and will never change your mind. Not sure who is more sad here but considering you are spending several days trying to bring someone down for trying something new who you don't know, who's the one with no drive or ambition, really?</quote> No you both do not. Also, you have great sex with your wife but you're so stuck in the mud mentally using sex to find happiness. So you think running after other women with your wife's permission somehow changes that you're acting like a dog in heat, using sexual conquests to try and find fulfillment in life. Why not realistically try and earn a degree or do something worthwhile with your time other than stepping out on your wife who you already have great sex with, to run after strange women in the streets. You're a disappointment and embarrassment captured on gamefaqs for the world to see. You're not a man but a little boy still trying to figure out life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 08/31/18 11:58:40 AM #213:	Glad kinder finally showed up to school this cuck. :v --- https://imgur.com/RrnQVUg <cite>Abyssea posted [p:907870544] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Glad kinder finally showed up to school this cuck. :v</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MildMannerdPate 08/31/18 12:00:44 PM #214:	"we both have degrees" "no you do not, maybe you should get a degree" Haha perfect CE mentality --- Oh, hogwash. <cite>MildMannerdPate posted [p:907870639] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>"we both have degrees" "no you do not, maybe you should get a degree" Haha perfect CE mentality</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guerrilla Soldier 08/31/18 12:00:51 PM #215:	people still believe this is true? --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>Guerrilla Soldier posted [p:907870648] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>people still believe this is true?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pepys Monster 08/31/18 12:03:02 PM #216:	MildMannerdPate posted... lol so many trolls here... go ahead and keep believing my wife wants to turn me into a cuck lol. I'm living this experience, sucks that most of you can't get even one woman but hey that's life. Hope life gets better for you. I have a fiance and she only wants me. --- House music owns. <cite>Pepys Monster posted [p:907870740] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>lol so many trolls here... go ahead and keep believing my wife wants to turn me into a cuck lol. I'm living this experience, sucks that most of you can't get even one woman but hey that's life. Hope life gets better for you.</quote> I have a fiance and she only wants me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Abyssea 08/31/18 12:03:46 PM #217:	Pepys Monster posted... MildMannerdPate posted... lol so many trolls here... go ahead and keep believing my wife wants to turn me into a cuck lol. I'm living this experience, sucks that most of you can't get even one woman but hey that's life. Hope life gets better for you. I have a fiance and she only wants me. that's what love is after all. :o Hopefully TC can experience that one day. --- https://imgur.com/RrnQVUg <cite>Abyssea posted [p:907870777] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Pepys Monster posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote>lol so many trolls here... go ahead and keep believing my wife wants to turn me into a cuck lol. I'm living this experience, sucks that most of you can't get even one woman but hey that's life. Hope life gets better for you.</quote> I have a fiance and she only wants me.</quote> that's what love is after all. :o Hopefully TC can experience that one day.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KINDERFELD 08/31/18 12:14:34 PM #218:	Unproductive man with no real avenues to acquire and feel true sense of accomplishment in life. So, he chases skirts in the streets and uses his sexual conquests as an indication of happiness and fulfillment. May we other men never get mental stuck like TC, and lets hope we make the right choices in life that will afford us productive and relevant opportunities for us to gain a sense of purposeful fulfillment in our lives. At the end of the day,TC's high point is probably coming on here to tell you about how much awesome sex he had with another woman who wasn't his wife. What a sad sad man. --- the polyfilla way look strong in the weakness of the gaps <cite>KINDERFELD posted [p:907871303] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>Unproductive man with no real avenues to acquire and feel true sense of accomplishment in life. So, he chases skirts in the streets and uses his sexual conquests as an indication of happiness and fulfillment. May we other men never get mental stuck like TC, and lets hope we make the right choices in life that will afford us productive and relevant opportunities for us to gain a sense of purposeful fulfillment in our lives. At the end of the day,TC's high point is probably coming on here to tell you about how much awesome sex he had with another woman who wasn't his wife. What a sad sad man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DanHarenChamp 08/31/18 12:29:03 PM #219:	God, wat a cuck --- literally the pacers <cite>DanHarenChamp posted [p:907872087] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>God, wat a cuck</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 08/31/18 12:29:45 PM #220:	MildMannerdPate posted... Syntheticon posted... Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great You'll be singing a different tune after she gets blasted by limitless Chad dick --- Oda break tracker 2018- 5 (3) \| THE Ohio State: 0-0 \| Oakland Raiders: 0-0 Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:907872128] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>MildMannerdPate posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Syntheticon posted...</cite> <quote>Sadly, this is the way it usually works. The vast majority of couples seem to try this to get the spice back when they should actually try banging and talking to each other more lol</quote> Not sure if you missed the part where we have a great sex life and great communication but yeah... this isn't about getting spice back or mending a failing relationship. We are in a great place. We are still in a great place even after all this has transpired. We are both just open minded and open to the idea of exploring other exciting areas of life. She knows I really enjoyed the date and that made her happy. Second date incoming. So far everything is working great</quote> You'll be singing a different tune after she gets blasted by limitless Chad dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking 08/31/18 1:05:49 PM #221:	There doesn't seem to be any middle ground in this topic between "Everyone in an open relationship is getting cucked" and "The only reason not to be in an open relationship is that you're close minded". --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg <cite>Anteaterking posted [p:907874013] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote>There doesn't seem to be any middle ground in this topic between "Everyone in an open relationship is getting cucked" and "The only reason not to be in an open relationship is that you're close minded".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
marthsheretoo 09/01/18 1:24:43 AM #222:	Anteaterking posted... There doesn't seem to be any middle ground in this topic between "Everyone in an open relationship is getting cucked" and "The only reason not to be in an open relationship is that you're close minded". I have nothing but respect for folks like Darkman who say open relationships aren't for them. It's a fine mindset to have. I only call people closed-minded if they can't fathom the possibility of a healthy, fulfilling non-monogamous relationship (ANY relationship, not just theirs) and feel a strange compulsion to trash other peoples' relationships because of that. I don't feel as if this is an extreme position to take. --- "Even MarthKoopa has jumped on the MarthKoopa hate wagon." -DevsBro <cite>marthsheretoo posted [p:907908522] in Been w/ wi... [t:76942230]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anteaterking posted...</cite> <quote>There doesn't seem to be any middle ground in this topic between "Everyone in an open relationship is getting cucked" and "The only reason not to be in an open relationship is that you're close minded".</quote> I have nothing but respect for folks like Darkman who say open relationships aren't for them. It's a fine mindset to have. I only call people closed-minded if they can't fathom the possibility of a healthy, fulfilling non-monogamous relationship (ANY relationship, not just theirs) and feel a strange compulsion to trash other peoples' relationships because of that. I don't feel as if this is an extreme position to take.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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