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DirtBasedSoap
08/21/17 11:56:35 PM
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than a nice way of saying 'I don't want to date YOU.'?

Probably not.

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Serras
08/22/17 12:01:53 AM
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Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.
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DocDelicious
08/22/17 12:52:56 AM
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Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.

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Smarkil
08/22/17 1:00:28 AM
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Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.
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mooreandrew58
08/22/17 1:07:41 AM
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Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.


no I honestly don't want a relationship, i'm uncompromising on who I am and the things I do. it would be a million to one odds I find someone who doesn't ask me to change a single thing about myself, and I also like them exactly for who they are.
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DocDelicious
08/22/17 3:20:41 AM
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Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.

A relationship is an investment of time. My time is spoken for. Not even my perfect partner can add more hours to the day.
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Metal_Mario99
08/22/17 3:31:38 AM
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People in here are emo.
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ZBug_
08/22/17 3:33:32 AM
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DocDelicious posted...
Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.

A relationship is an investment of time. My time is spoken for. Not even my perfect partner can add more hours to the day.


This.

I mean, I have a partner whom I adore, so it's not how I personally feel but it is a perfectly valid reason.
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mooreandrew58
08/22/17 3:43:18 AM
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Metal_Mario99 posted...
People in here are emo.


i'm not. i'm just a person who feels love just isn't for everyone and i'm perfectly happy with that. I have more freedoms single than I do in a relationship, if I could just move closer to my best friend life would be perfect as I do crave social interaction here and there, but I don't want it everyday.
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What_The_Chris
08/22/17 4:42:37 AM
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there are often times when I wonder why do I even bother looking for a relationship but then I remember like ah right, there's the that entire "boobs" thing
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Peterass
08/22/17 9:15:25 AM
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Yes, it has. Sometimes people don't have or want to devote time to someone else.

Nothing wrong with that.
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Jiggy101011
08/22/17 9:55:14 AM
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What_The_Chris posted...
there are often times when I wonder why do I even bother looking for a relationship but then I remember like ah right, there's the that entire "boobs" thing


If what you are looking for is boobs then what you want is sex, not a relationship.
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OhhhJa
08/22/17 9:57:10 AM
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Probably about 90% of the time that's what it means
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keyblader1985
08/22/17 11:10:43 AM
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lol @ spider face
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Funkdamental
08/22/17 11:12:41 AM
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keyblader1985 posted...
lol @ spider face


He's just using a finger of speech.
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Kyuubi4269
08/22/17 11:17:37 AM
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Funkdamental posted...
keyblader1985 posted...
lol @ spider face


He's just using a finger of speech.

I'm glad somebody saw that.
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adjl
08/22/17 11:20:08 AM
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For all intensive purposes, he got it right, so I could care less.
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keyblader1985
08/22/17 11:28:10 AM
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adjl posted...
For all intensive purposes, he got it right, so I could care less.

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faramir77
08/22/17 11:29:41 AM
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Irregardless of his weird expression, I still don't think he had a point.
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Zeus
08/22/17 1:45:41 PM
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DocDelicious posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


This.

Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.


There a lot of situations -- such as a spouse recently dying -- where the average person wouldn't be interested in just jumping into a new relationship.
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ungubby
08/22/17 1:52:11 PM
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DocDelicious posted...
A relationship is an investment of time. My time is spoken for. Not even my perfect partner can add more hours to the day.


I like this perspective.
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mooreandrew58
08/22/17 4:32:55 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Funkdamental posted...
keyblader1985 posted...
lol @ spider face


He's just using a finger of speech.

I'm glad somebody saw that.


I did I just chose to ignore it. assumed maybe he was on cell phone and auto correct struck again. sometimes my phone will change a word into something no where near similar to what I was trying to type.
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Serras
08/22/17 11:23:08 PM
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Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.


That's like saying if someone put my favorite meal out, I'd want to eat it no matter what. What if I'm not hungry? I'm not going to stuff myself just because the opportunity presents itself.

It's pretty common not to have the time or energy to be in a relationship. One could also feel like they aren't ready to have a relationship at the moment (perhaps they're going through a lot emotionally, or they're trying to improve themselves), or they could simply prefer being alone. Not everyone's ideal life features a partner.
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ZBug_
08/23/17 4:33:26 AM
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keyblader1985 posted...
adjl posted...
For all intensive purposes, he got it right, so I could care less.

*internet explodes*

Actually he said "intensive purposes"
It's intents AND purposes. As in the INTENT to do something.
Illiterate scum
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mipond
08/23/17 8:27:30 AM
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I don't want to be in a relationship. I had a great relationship, once a few years ago. I felt loved and cherished and I loved and cherished him. Stuff happens and I lost him (death). I feel the love still and choose to be alone. I've accepted that and I'm content with it. I go out with friends all the time, I travel with friends, work a full time job, run/exercise daily. I don't sit around and feel sorry for myself. It's just the way I feel. I've had the best love of "my" life so why should I try and top it?

Recently I met a guy who asked me if I was in a relationship and I said "no" but I didn't explain any further as to why I didn't want to be in one as I consider it my private thing (private, and that's why I'm posting it on a public game board lol). I've taken to not answering his calls and I feel bad about it. I've decided I should probably try and explain to him because I don't want him thinking that I don't like him or any other crazy thing.

I love my close friends and my social groups. I love being alive. I can't change what happened and I have to deal with it, which I feel I am, in my own way. I just don't want to be in a relationship.
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InfestedAdam
08/23/17 10:14:56 AM
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Funny enough my friend and I was talking about this some weeks ago over lunch. She asked if I was looking and I said I wasn't. That I wasn't 100% sure if I was even interested in a relationship. She responded that I am and probably just doesn't know it yet. That I can't let Fate lead me to the "perfect" women and must put in the effort myself.

The thing is, I do find some women attractive and possibly interesting but deep down I can't help but question if such a life is for me. I also jokingly said I plan to be a crazy cat man which could be a reality.
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Clench281
08/23/17 10:42:13 AM
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Deciding whether to be in a relationship with someone, or not to be in a relationship, is a decision when weighing the value of the two choices. It boils down to,

"Do I value what I can gain from entering a relationship with this person more than what I will potentially lose from entering a relationship?"

This rarely is an absolute. That is, you will be hard-pressed to find someone who would agree with the statement:

"There is no such person or circumstance that would provide benefit enough that I would consider being in a relationship with them."

Instead, it boils down to exactly what you said, when applied to specific people.

"I do not value the benefits of entering a relationship with this specific person more than what I will potentially lose from being in a relationship with them."
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Nasada19
08/23/17 10:47:15 AM
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Some people just want to sleep around. They don't want a relationship. TC isn't very worldly.
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wolfy42
08/23/17 10:52:46 AM
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Smarkil posted...
Serras posted...
Yes? Some people genuinely don't want a relationship.


Bullshit.

If the right person came along and was perfect in every way for you, you would obviously want to be in a relationship with them.

Otherwise it'd be cutting off the nose to spider face.



There are lots of reasons to not want to be in a relationship, for both genders.

What if you just got out of an intense one that ended badly and you don't wanna go down that road for awhile?

What if the last person the loved died suddenly and they are not ready to move on?

What if they are just not ready to share their life with someone right now and want to focus on themselves?

What if they are just not feeling sexual in any way towards anyone currently?

What if they just don't find you attractive, or already are attracted to someone else (or even in a relationship with someone else?).

I mean, there are tons of reasons people wouldn't want to be in a relationship, in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if more people don't want to be in one, then do.
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Doctor Foxx
08/23/17 11:21:39 AM
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InfestedAdam posted...
Funny enough my friend and I was talking about this some weeks ago over lunch. She asked if I was looking and I said I wasn't. That I wasn't 100% sure if I was even interested in a relationship. She responded that I am and probably just doesn't know it yet. That I can't let Fate lead me to the "perfect" women and must put in the effort myself.

The thing is, I do find some women attractive and possibly interesting but deep down I can't help but question if such a life is for me. I also jokingly said I plan to be a crazy cat man which could be a reality.

Don't worry I plan on being a crazy cat person and probably don't have time to humor another human. It's not that I don't like some people, I just don't really care. So I probably haven't met the right kind of person. The other big factor is time. Currently the time it takes for a relationship is really taking a toll and forcing me to put other things on the back burner and I don't really like that at all
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Bligh_with_no_T
08/23/17 11:25:13 AM
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I don't want a relationship but I'd really like some puss.
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Lightning Bolt
08/23/17 11:36:32 AM
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ZBug_ posted...
keyblader1985 posted...
adjl posted...
For all intensive purposes, he got it right, so I could care less.

*internet explodes*

Actually he said "intensive purposes"
It's intents AND purposes. As in the INTENT to do something.
Illiterate scum
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Bligh_with_no_T
08/23/17 11:37:12 AM
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Lightning Bolt posted...
*exploding continues*

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DesertPenguin09
08/23/17 12:20:57 PM
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Same thing with "my life is complicated". If you want to have someone in your life you make it work.
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RCtheWSBC
08/23/17 12:25:03 PM
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Damn TC stop it with the feels plz, I wasn't ready
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Dikitain
08/23/17 12:35:28 PM
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"I don't want to be in a relationship right now"

"But you wan't to be friends with benefits?"

so no.
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Smarkil
08/23/17 1:18:15 PM
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DocDelicious posted...
A relationship is an investment of time. My time is spoken for. Not even my perfect partner can add more hours to the day.


I mean, you can just say you're biting your time but are you really? I think if Ryan Gosling or Scarlett Johansson or whatever you're into came up and said, "I wanna be with you" you could probably tune. I think you'd nip it in the butt and make a last stitch effort to be with them. It'd be worth the time investment. It's not exactly a mute point.
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keyblader1985
08/23/17 8:31:31 PM
#38:


Dikitain posted...
"I don't want to be in a relationship right now"

"But you wan't to be friends with benefits?"

so no.

Dikitain posted...
wan't

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mooreandrew58
08/24/17 1:01:12 PM
#39:


Dikitain posted...
"I don't want to be in a relationship right now"

"But you wan't to be friends with benefits?"

so no.


not interested in friends with benefits either. I have a hand that works just fine. plus i've only seen one case of friends with benefits (that went on for some time atleast) that didn't become more complicated than the two originally intended. that girl was just psychic it seemed, she'd drop off the face of the earth anytime my best friend had a girlfriend, but as soon as he was single again she'd reemerge. and anytime they'd start to develop feelings for each other she'd drop off the face of the earth.
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DirtBasedSoap
08/24/17 2:00:25 PM
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well, we still fuckin in case anyone was wondering


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