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TopicTrump's lawyer claims he paid Stormy Daniels with his own personal funds
BigSLM1993
02/14/18 7:46:56 PM
#9
DippinSauce posted...
Totally normal.
TopicI don't understand how Christians over in the US can approve of Trump.
BigSLM1993
02/10/18 5:16:45 AM
#9
Rob Cesternino posted...
And Hillary, a woman who surrounds herself with sinful men like Harvey Weinstein, Anthony Weiner, and Bill Clinton, is better?


No. Who even said she was?
TopicOwner files $75K lawsuit after being forced by cops to decapitate own dog
BigSLM1993
02/02/18 3:07:45 PM
#59
Unnecessarily cruel on the behalf of law enforcement.
TopicReminder that Disney KILLED the Extended Universe
BigSLM1993
01/01/18 3:15:50 PM
#41
To be honest, they could never have satisfied the EU fanbase if they tried adapting it. They're better off making their own canon.

I just consider the EU as an alternate universe.
Topicif 2 bisexual guys date, is that considered a gay couple?
BigSLM1993
12/30/17 10:53:52 AM
#11
Choco posted...
Parappa09 posted...
is this with the guy youre speaking to choco?

i'm asking for a friend

TheCurseX2 posted...
Bisexuals are gay people that are cowards.

lmao go fuck yourself


Even if they're joking (I'm hoping they are), it's annoying how much actual flack Bisexual people get in the LGBT community. It's like the "B" is never supposed to really exist to these people.
TopicMilo Yiannopoulos' manuscript is so fucking bad
BigSLM1993
12/29/17 5:23:38 PM
#84
I honestly dont respect for what he is. I don't feel his role as a provocateur is really changing minds or adding to the conversation. He intentionally just wants to troll and trigger people.

I can at least respect someone like Ben Shapiro, who may ruffle feathers but that's not his main intention. Case in point, we hear Christina Hoff Sommers speak about feminism, the different waves and present good cases against third wave feminism. Then Milo goes up and calls it cancer and walks off.

How "edgy" of him.
TopicTrump's website is coded with a broken server message that blames Obama
BigSLM1993
12/29/17 2:22:26 PM
#22
Giant_Aspirin posted...
BigSLM1993 posted...
What is with the vendetta ? Did Obama bang his wife or something?


worse, Obama made fun of him one time.

http://time.com/4756751/donald-trump-white-house-correspondents-dinner/

ever since this happened Trump has been hellbent on doing as much damage to Obama as possible. yes, he is that insecure.


Even though he was already attacking Obama with the birther conspiracy LOL. Jeez he's gonna take the vendetta to the grave.
TopicTrump's website is coded with a broken server message that blames Obama
BigSLM1993
12/29/17 2:10:57 PM
#19
What is with the vendetta ? Did Obama bang his wife or something?
TopicDoes liking penis make you "gay"?
BigSLM1993
12/25/17 11:20:46 AM
#15
quinntotheflinn posted...
BigSLM1993 posted...
I'm gay but love twinks

*vomits*


BLASPHEMER! lol
TopicDoes liking penis make you "gay"?
BigSLM1993
12/25/17 11:00:51 AM
#13
quinntotheflinn posted...
Are you attracted to this?

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kBMULTn


Well in all fairness, you should give a better spectrum. I'm gay but love twinks, those guys are attractive but I wouldn't touch them.
TopicImagine falling in love with someone but they never told you they were trans
BigSLM1993
12/23/17 9:46:41 AM
#40
Choco posted...
solosnake posted...
Duncanwii posted...
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
NibeIungsnarf posted...
Okay you have a long-ass relationship with someone and never knew they were trans. How would finding out be different from any other massive thing that person has lied to not told you about?


It might be interesting to him because the reactions can vary so much from person to person. Some people are more or less Ok with being lied to, others never get over it and some will even kill the liar because of their dishonesty. Like you said, it doesn't even have to be the trans issue. Any signifcant deception could be a catalyst for an unpredictable reaction.

They aren't being lied to though. Transwoman are woman. It's up to the boyfriend to accept that fact.


nah, if they cant have children they arent real women imo

TIL old women don't exist


Obviously if a woman is infertile she's still a woman. I'd say that if talks come up about being pregnant and raising a biological family of the same genes comes up, then the transwoman needs to fess up. Much like how I feel if a cisgender woman in advance knows she's incapable of having kids, then needs to be honest.

And I think it's better to be honest upfront. Transwoman & Cisgender women are not the same, hence the distinction. To act like relationship dynamics between dating either are the same is being willfully blind. Even things like never having to worry about sex around menstruation or avoiding sex when they're ovulating are things that will never happen while dating a Transwoman.

I think people should date who they want but they should be transparent about their backgrounds. I personally wouldn't mind dating a transgender man (Im bi but date gay ), but I think I'd lean on the side of wanting them to keep their vagina. I think I'd be more turned off my a surgically created penis than a regular vagina. And them having a vagina obviously changes our relationship dynamics
TopicInternet enraged because of Dave Chappelle attacking poor white people.
BigSLM1993
12/23/17 2:47:34 AM
#55
Wow I could've sworn all these anti-SJW people cheered for Dave when he made fun of Trans people. Now we'll see them flip flop. People are so phony, everything is funny until it pertains to them.
TopicLet's build a functional government one left and one right policy at a time
BigSLM1993
12/23/17 2:44:00 AM
#12
Declaring war on Christmas is a crime.
TopicUS ambassador calls his own words fake news, then denies saying 'fake news'
BigSLM1993
12/22/17 8:45:04 PM
#7
What a dope.
TopicIs a transgender person obligated to come out before date/sex?
BigSLM1993
12/22/17 7:32:54 PM
#118
I think it's definitely something more important to bring up for dating versus sex. If you're a man building a life with a transwoman you should be informed that you two won't have biological children together. And to some men that means the world to them. Same goes for any other routes. Since it's long term, all parties should be informed of what their relationsihp dynamics are.

I think for sex it's something courteous to do, particularly if you still have your biological parts.
TopicHillary Clinton will be on the Steve Harvey show next week.
BigSLM1993
12/22/17 5:27:19 PM
#17
tremain07 posted...
Wow, two terrible people together, Fuck Steve Harvey and his shit views on gays and fuck Clinton for refusing to disappear, not even Obama is in the news every week anymore


Honestly the amount of times I've seen her name brought up randomly on Trump's twitter is what's keeping her in the spotlight.

Like I'd wager money that the name "HIlary" has come up over 100 times on Trump's twitter.
Even more than Obama's.
TopicHillary Clinton will be on the Steve Harvey show next week.
BigSLM1993
12/22/17 5:08:10 PM
#8
Yuck, watch them laugh at all of her "jokes" like she's a headliner. Some radio shows get unlistenable when they do that.
TopicI'm 24, is it weird that I have my tinder age range minimum at 18?
BigSLM1993
12/21/17 11:04:29 AM
#16
I think expecting a serious mature relationship with an 18 yr old when you're 24 is a bit foolish. You both should be in different places in life. Sex is obviously a different story if you're using tinder for hookups.
TopicHow in the world is TLJ "SJW" (The Last Jedi spoilers abound)
BigSLM1993
12/19/17 10:07:43 PM
#16
Zero_Destroyer posted...
This is boiling itself down to

"Is there a male villain? Yes."

"Is there a female villain of equivalent repute? No."

"Okay, so the film is biased against men."

This is all I can make of the argument. Because the gender composition is a certain way, and not even completely disparate (e.g. all good characters are female/all bad characters are male) somebody's going to find a way to assume it's an attack on their gender even though it's a mediocre space fantasy movie with wizards and people blowing shit up


It's honestly ridiculous how far folks are reaching. Like complaints about Finn being Black, even though there are no references to his race. And it's not like he's treated on a pedestal, dude is constantly fighting inner fear and cowardice.

I guess having Lando was also "pandering" back in the day.
TopicHow in the world is TLJ "SJW" (The Last Jedi spoilers abound)
BigSLM1993
12/19/17 10:04:16 PM
#15
masticatingman posted...
hortanz posted...
the person in charge had a dumb hair color its OBVIOUSLY tumblr sjw pandering /s

masticatingman posted...
which doesn't make sense anyway.

?


They have the only female stormtrooper anybody has seen in the series yet also be the most elite fighting stormtrooper possible lol.


And a man beat her and bashed her face. Is the film mysoginist now? What should she have been instead? Mediocre at fighting?
TopicWhat are your honest thoughts on trans people?
BigSLM1993
12/19/17 8:11:43 AM
#112
I think it's some form of a disorder. It's literally people having a mental disassociation with their physical bodies.I think understand the drive to not want to consider it such by the community but it prevents us from discussing or handling it honestly.

I'm a stutterer, i have a neurological / communicative disorder, that's not gonna change regardless of how i feel. Either cases don't diminish our humanity. And it kind of bugs me we see people say that having a disorder or mental illness is fine, but then they never want to be roped into the disorder category they say it's fine to be in.

I support them serving in the Armed forces, i sure as heck am not brave enough. For the most part I dont care what bathroom they use either. I do get bugged at radical activists though who use shame as a tactic. You can't shame people into dating you by calling them transphobic.
TopicBREAKING: Amtrak train derails in Washington state
BigSLM1993
12/18/17 11:37:17 AM
#13
Cheeze_E_Breath posted...
I knew that would trigger some people, lol.

Congrats
TopicWere you turned off in the last jedi by them casting more minorites and women..
BigSLM1993
12/16/17 8:26:41 AM
#6
Smallville posted...
BigSLM1993 posted...
Their race or gender didn't even make it a relevant part of their character, people would've complained if it did.

So if it didn't impact anything, why does it matter if we had minorities or not? Should we have just made them white?

exactly, but i read a lot of people screamed "sjw bullshit". And i think this is even worse as it applies to asians than to black people


Which is what mystifies me about the outrage. Like I'd be on board with people being bugged if Finn was taking knees to protest the anthem or had a "hands up dont shoot moment" or if we had a girls are better than boys moment with Rey, but none of that happened.

Having competent females doesn't make a movie misandrist, if you argue Rey is a mary sue then that's more of a symptom of bad writing. The mere inclusion of other ethnic actors doesn't make a movie "SJW," race doesn't even matter in the Star Wars verse either. But I guess it was also pandering when Lando was Black right?
TopicWere you turned off in the last jedi by them casting more minorites and women..
BigSLM1993
12/16/17 8:18:48 AM
#2
Their race or gender didn't even make it a relevant part of their character, people would've complained if it did.

So if it didn't impact anything, why does it matter if we had minorities or not? Should we have just made them white?
TopicThe Last Jedi. It should be called Star Wars The SJW Chronicles
BigSLM1993
12/15/17 4:08:17 PM
#11
ColdOne666 posted...
I just seen it and while I won't give any spoilers but if you where expecting a movie full of heroic strong women who are always right and can do no wrong then this is the perfect movie. Add in a bunch of minorities that don't add anything to the film so you can fill your quota and you have the perfect desert.

White guys are evil etc etc.


If their races added to their character then folks would cry pandering. So tell me, what race should they have made these minority characters to not be "pandering"

You have to pander some sort of audience to sell tickets. What should these characters have been to correctly "appeal" to the star wars audience?
TopicI know SJW representation and all that gets mocked, but (Star Wars, no spoilers)
BigSLM1993
12/15/17 3:55:36 PM
#28
The SJW representation complaints bug me sometimes.

Like I remember those claims when the first trailer for Ep 7 came out and we saw the Protag was a woman and Finn was Black. We had no details on their story or characters yet people cried pandering.

Like I'd understand if Finn had a scene where he's harassed in a hoodie, took a knee to protest the empire, or he had a shoe horned "hands up don't shoot scene" but his race had literally no impact on his character, so does it matter if he's Black or not?

Because if it's still pandering that he's Black, then what race SHOULD he have been then for things to not be pandering? White?

End of the day, to make a movie you have to pander to some sort of audience for tickets to be bought. What race should they have made Finn or what gender should Rey be for it to no longer be "Pandering"?

(Note: I wouldn't say Rey being Mary Sue isn't necesarily a feminist thing.That's more of a writing problem. It's not like she said something like how much better woman are at the force than men. Is having a Gary Stu inherently misogynist or is it also bad writing?)
TopicRoy Moore refuses to concede, says sodomy and abortion dominates America
BigSLM1993
12/14/17 8:56:27 PM
#28
I'm really curious about when he think America was this "bastion" of morality, or when our soul was clean? He speaks as if our soul is now corrupted. Was it before or after slavery / segregation? Or us giving syphilis to the Guatemalans? Or *insert atrocity / corrupt act we've done*.

I'm not saying that America is a bad place to live, but I roll my eyes at people trying to input their religion into the morality of our country, when our country from it's beginning had institutions / laws that should repulse Christians. I'd rather hear him bash us for being anti-constitution than anti-christian.
TopicMerry Christmas or Happy Holidays?
BigSLM1993
12/14/17 1:28:12 PM
#12
As someone who was never raised to celebrate Christmas, I never say "merry christmas"
TopicLast nights voting results would have produced a 6-1 GOP win in the House
BigSLM1993
12/13/17 10:53:45 AM
#24
Eevee-Trainer posted...
Tropicalwood posted...
Darkman124 posted...
the point is just, gerrymandering is a fucked practice and shouldn't be allowed

You act as if California doesn't have a crap load of gerrymandering.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/California%27s_congressional_districts

I'm curious as to the mental gymnastics you'll have to go to in order to justify that implication from the post you quoted.


LMAO right? It sounds like he condemned the practice of gerrymandering outright, and didn't even specify that it was only red states that do it >_>
TopicTrump sends 12 year old supporter to interview Roy Moore
BigSLM1993
12/11/17 11:50:34 AM
#28
Newsweek is clickbait garbage.

Still a weird story though.
TopicSo let me get this right ... (Trump's new tax plan)
BigSLM1993
12/07/17 2:53:30 PM
#10
southcoast09 posted...
If Hillary or Bernie proposed this plan, you guys would be all for it


What does this have to do with how the current tax plan will impact us? Let's stop dealing with "what if" deflections or scenarios that haven't happened in reality.
TopicWhat do people think about Milo?
BigSLM1993
12/04/17 6:17:23 PM
#34
I lean more toward Ben Shapiro's take on Milo

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eioRmh9xlU4&t=1s
TopicThis girl wants to do stuff with me but she's 17 and I'm 22
BigSLM1993
11/29/17 11:10:56 AM
#27
Not worth risking your future over some teenager.
TopicPresident Trump Now Says That Wasn't Him on Access Hollywood Tape
BigSLM1993
11/27/17 1:10:20 PM
#93
So was Trump lying when he apologized?
TopicDo you consider yourself to be a feminist?
BigSLM1993
11/27/17 11:00:21 AM
#95
Gamer99z posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
scar the 1 posted...
Rika_Furude posted...
scar the 1 posted...
A lot of people ITT:

"Of COURSE women and men should be equal, but I won't even attempt to entertain the notion that there might be some patriarchal structures in our society!"

What about the matriarchal structures? Patriarchal structures and matriarchal structures are equally bad and both need to be taken down

Incredible deflection. You're an incredible person, though, so I'm not surprised.

God you people are so unreasonable. Theres no pleasing you. Every time i attempt to give a sjw a chance you smack my face with the fish of sjw stupidity

I mean, you did just deflect though.
It's like if you were asked "do you personally believe there are any patriarchal structures?" and your response was "but what about men?"
It doesn't mean that isn't a valid subject to discuss in it's own right, but doesn't really answer the question or anything and having a group who's special interest focus is specifically on women and patriarchal structures doesn't mean those people don't care about men or matriarchal structures as well, just that they're involved with doing stuff on the female side of things.

I don't personally believe we have any real notable patriarchal or matriarchal structures here in America at least for the most part, but you still gave a shitty deflection to his point. One of the native American tribes out here is in the middle of doing their annual drive to raise money to preserve their land and history, that doesn't mean those people don't care about anyone else's land and history rights too, that's just not what they're doing at that time....


THANK YOU. Jesus Christ, it's as if people can't have a discussion on a SINGLE topic. Focusing on one special interest doesn't mean other topics aren't important or warrant discussion.

But discussing two things at once makes it impossible to get as in depth as you would at one topic. People just want to hijack and take over the direction of a conversation to whatever suits them.
TopicImagine going from dating Scarlett Johansson to Lena Dunham
BigSLM1993
11/27/17 10:08:09 AM
#34
creativerealms posted...
Dubman017 posted...
What a downgrade. He cucked himself

People shouldn't use words when they don't know what they mean.


Cuck is honestly the most misused word of 2017
TopicNew epic Dawkins meltdown
BigSLM1993
11/25/17 6:31:21 PM
#7
:( This is honestly sad
TopicTo those who've attended LGBT Pride, what's your opinion?
BigSLM1993
11/24/17 9:32:05 PM
#1
I make this topic as a Gay man that has attended pride twice. I'm not much of a fan.

I think the idea of it is fine. It's a great chance for everyone LGBT to unite and feel comfortable in their own skin, show solidarity, show mainstream America that we're as normal as everyone else.

But in the two times I've gone, I don't understand the hypersexuality of it all. Like with LA Pride, there's a certain section where you pay to enter. At this section they have places for dancing and tents where they sell sex toys / DVD's (unless they've changed in recent years). What stood out to me the most was a public exhibition where a guy volunteered to gag himself and be whipped.

Coupled with "models" from porn studios walking around, or people dressed rather indecently.

I'm really for people having their fetishes or kinks, but I feel that if we want to show modern America that we're "normal" like them, why are we so brazen with sexuality? Or why is that we're attributing that with LGBT "culture"? I know gay men who get excited to dress in fish nets or dress like Dr Frankenfurther for Pride, but we wouldn't be doing that normally in public.

I do admit i have biases because I come from a rather conservative background. I'm sure there are good counterpoints / reasons for why things are the way they are. So I'd like everyone else's take.
Topic"ben shapiro is a good debater"
BigSLM1993
11/21/17 5:34:18 PM
#68
Romes187 posted...
The Admiral posted...
UncleBourbon33 posted...
Andrew Breitbart is alt-right now? The site might now be but I don't think the person was.


No, he wasn't.


its because people want simple answers to things so they have zero nuance in their thinking

its very low resolution


Breibart going under Bannon after Breibart's death is what got Ben to leave anyhow.
Topic"ben shapiro is a good debater"
BigSLM1993
11/21/17 5:20:02 PM
#57
Ben for sure is a traditional conservative, but that doesn't mean he's alt-right. I think alt-right is becoming much of a buzzword that people use but can't entirely define anymore. Like cuck.
TopicWho is worse, Thanos or Dr Doom?
BigSLM1993
11/21/17 10:57:08 AM
#16
Wasn't Doom a god a few yrs ago? Isn't he stronger?
TopicTrans Day of Remembrance
BigSLM1993
11/20/17 6:22:33 PM
#147
Funkydog posted...
gunplagirl posted...
Anyone can say "I support trans people" but if their arguments run contrary to that? They don't. They really, really don't. "I support trans people but wouldn't date one" shows that they don't consider us on equal footing to our cis counterparts. And that's the most common "but" that's used.

And calling out oppressors isn't mocking or comparable to being dehumanized.

You aren't just calling them out however. You are mocking and trying to dehumanise them.

And eh, I don't see someone not wanting to date someone the same as not considering them equal. Do I think they are silly if it is regards to someone post op? Sure. But people can't always stop what their preferences and comforts are for these things and trying to shame people for that isn't going to help people become more accepting of (whatever it happens to be)


Jeez the attitude sounds like they're demanding / entitled to sex.

End of the day a trans person IS different than a Cis gender person. In the long term you may want to spend the rest of your life with a person and cis & trans people are going to bring different dynamics to a relationship. What if a cis man wants to have biological children with a partner, so they aren't up for dating infertile women or trans women. Does that make them transphobic if that's their metric for not wanting to date?

Obviously not all men want kids, so great good for them. I prefer dating men myself, so I expect to not have biological children. But I understand that some men naturally do, and not go through processes like surrogates or adopt.

This is directed at @gunplagirl
TopicIs "Black Privilege" a thing?
BigSLM1993
11/18/17 12:45:02 AM
#26
Black people have an easier time commenting on race. Like look at the typical hack "white people do this, black people do this" comedy routine black comics back in the day did. White comics had to tow a thinner line on that issue.
TopicLmao when you Google Michael Brown it's his school graduation picture
BigSLM1993
11/16/17 7:15:03 PM
#95
Wow this topic to a huge split from Michael Brown >_> I was expecting arguments over BLM. Not marxism / communism.
TopicAlabama might go blue
BigSLM1993
11/16/17 11:03:37 AM
#21
I have a game now where I predict when someone will try to change the topic or divert to somebody on the "other side."

I predicted in under 10 messages but we made it to 14
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