Poll of the Day > My roommate called to scream at and intimidate me last night

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Blightzkrieg 10/11/22 2:17:45 PM #102:	As a liberal, it's hypocritical for Jen to own land to begin with. Especially so if she's exploiting that land for personal wealth taken from her homeless ex. Landlord? More like good fucking lord. --- http://i.imgur.com/1XbPahR.png <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:968644198] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>As a liberal, it's hypocritical for Jen to own land to begin with. Especially so if she's exploiting that land for personal wealth taken from her homeless ex.Landlord? More like good fucking lord. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 2:19:51 PM #103:	Blightzkrieg posted... As a liberal, it's hypocritical for Jen to own land to begin with. Especially so if she's exploiting that land for personal wealth taken from her homeless ex. Landlord? More like good fucking lord. God that last sentence is right. I never wanted to do this to begin with and it's been a nightmare lol <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968644245] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Blightzkrieg posted... </cite><quote>As a liberal, it's hypocritical for Jen to own land to begin with. Especially so if she's exploiting that land for personal wealth taken from her homeless ex.Landlord? More like good fucking lord.</quote>God that last sentence is right. I never wanted to do this to begin with and it's been a nightmare lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VampireCoyote 10/11/22 3:48:09 PM #104:	He trashed your garage? --- She/her <cite>VampireCoyote posted [p:968646010] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>He trashed your garage?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 4:13:46 PM #105:	VampireCoyote posted... He trashed your garage? Not trashed. Just looks like he moved stuff around and didn't care about putting it back. Makes me feel like he's not interested in using the garage again. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968646563] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>VampireCoyote posted... </cite><quote>He trashed your garage?</quote>Not trashed. Just looks like he moved stuff around and didn't care about putting it back. Makes me feel like he's not interested in using the garage again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 4:23:34 PM #106:	Well the garage probably isn't interested in using him again, so I guess that's fair. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968646767] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Well the garage probably isn't interested in using him again, so I guess that's fair.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 4:36:10 PM #107:	Well I guess I'll find out tomorrow if the alarm is still set <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968647016] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Well I guess I'll find out tomorrow if the alarm is still set </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 10/11/22 5:00:54 PM #108:	Jen0125 posted... She's also not allowed to have her cat there per the lease agreement What about a dog? --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:968647516] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>She's also not allowed to have her cat there per the lease agreement</quote>What about a dog?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:03:35 PM #109:	Ferarri619 posted... What about a dog? No additional pets is what his lease says. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968647560] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>What about a dog?</quote>No additional pets is what his lease says. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 10/11/22 5:14:58 PM #110:	Krow_Incarnate posted... As someone who's currently homeless Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious. --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:968647827] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Krow_Incarnate posted... </cite><quote>As someone who's currently homeless</quote>Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:17:53 PM #111:	Ferarri619 posted... Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious. What else would you be doing if you're homeless? Homeless people have smart phones. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968647890] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious.</quote>What else would you be doing if you're homeless? Homeless people have smart phones. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 5:21:30 PM #112:	Jen0125 posted... Homeless people have smart phones. It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live. And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968647987] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>Homeless people have smart phones.</quote>It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live.And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 10/11/22 5:23:01 PM #113:	adjl posted... It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live. And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing. For the record I've never owned a smartphone. Aren't there monthly fees and such? --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:968648028] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live.And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing.</quote>For the record I've never owned a smartphone.Aren't there monthly fees and such?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zenithian_Legend 10/11/22 5:23:28 PM #114:	Definitely use one of those apps that records conversations, and start any future phone calls with, "Just so you know I'm recording this." Who knows maybe saying that will trigger him and you'll have more evidence! Crappy situation, I've always thought about getting into real estate and renting out a property, but stuff like this makes me quickly reconsider. --- FFRK ID: 24F2 - Tyro DVG <cite>Zenithian_Legend posted [p:968648036] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Definitely use one of those apps that records conversations, and start any future phone calls with, "Just so you know I'm recording this." Who knows maybe saying that will trigger him and you'll have more evidence! Crappy situation, I've always thought about getting into real estate and renting out a property, but stuff like this makes me quickly reconsider. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:28:19 PM #115:	adjl posted... It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live. And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing. Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968648123] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live.And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing.</quote>Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:28:39 PM #116:	Ferarri619 posted... For the record I've never owned a smartphone. Aren't there monthly fees and such? Of course. Homeless doesn't always mean zero money. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968648128] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>For the record I've never owned a smartphone.Aren't there monthly fees and such?</quote>Of course. Homeless doesn't always mean zero money. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zenithian_Legend 10/11/22 5:28:44 PM #117:	adjl posted... It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live. And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing. This is also a misunderstanding, as there are many programs to get a smartphone affordably, in addition to some much cheaper options. My Dad uses one of the real cheap smart phones, sort of... I don't think he's actually used any of the internet features, because he really doesn't care. --- FFRK ID: 24F2 - Tyro DVG <cite>Zenithian_Legend posted [p:968648132] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>It's funny how many people seem to think owning one $200-300 device that all but single-handedly solves all communication and entertainment needs people have somehow means they shouldn't have any difficulty paying $1500 a month for a place to live.And by funny, I mean callously misanthropic and depressingly myopic, but they're basically the same thing.</quote>This is also a misunderstanding, as there are many programs to get a smartphone affordably, in addition to some much cheaper options. My Dad uses one of the real cheap smart phones, sort of... I don't think he's actually used any of the internet features, because he really doesn't care. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:29:24 PM #118:	Zenithian_Legend posted... Definitely use one of those apps that records conversations, and start any future phone calls with, "Just so you know I'm recording this." Who knows maybe saying that will trigger him and you'll have more evidence! Crappy situation, I've always thought about getting into real estate and renting out a property, but stuff like this makes me quickly reconsider. I don't even need to let him know. AZ is a one party consent state for recordings. I never wanted to rent at all especially to someone like this but I had to do what I had to do. I'm still doing what I need to do to get this house. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968648143] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Zenithian_Legend posted... </cite><quote>Definitely use one of those apps that records conversations, and start any future phone calls with, "Just so you know I'm recording this." Who knows maybe saying that will trigger him and you'll have more evidence! Crappy situation, I've always thought about getting into real estate and renting out a property, but stuff like this makes me quickly reconsider.</quote>I don't even need to let him know. AZ is a one party consent state for recordings. I never wanted to rent at all especially to someone like this but I had to do what I had to do. I'm still doing what I need to do to get this house. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 10/11/22 5:39:28 PM #119:	Jen0125 posted... Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job. Just hit the bricks sport --- http://i.imgur.com/1XbPahR.png <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:968648335] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job.</quote>Just hit the bricks sport</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 5:44:18 PM #120:	Ferarri619 posted... For the record I've never owned a smartphone. Aren't there monthly fees and such? Any monthly fee you pay is for service, and there are pay-as-you-go options that only require you to spend money to top up your minutes as needed instead of having to pay monthly (and satisfies the basic requirement of "have a phone number" that most jobs carry). Other than that, you don't need to pay a cent to use any public wifi you can find, and if you do want a phone/data plan, you're generally going to be paying about as much for that as you would for Internet alone (maybe a bit more, depending on how expensive your local providers are), which again is going to be a tiny fraction of what rent costs such that eschewing it probably isn't going to make it any easier to stop being homeless. If you have nothing else, a smartphone is by far the most cost-effective improvement you can make to your quality of life and ability to continue functioning in society despite being homeless, especially given that it fits easily in your pocket and therefore doesn't required you to own anything else to store it. As much as people like to see it as an expensive luxury item and think that no "real" refugee or homeless person would have one, it's comparatively not that expensive and is incredibly useful if you don't have anything else that can perform its functions. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968648446] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>For the record I've never owned a smartphone.Aren't there monthly fees and such?</quote>Any monthly fee you pay is for service, and there are pay-as-you-go options that only require you to spend money to top up your minutes as needed instead of having to pay monthly (and satisfies the basic requirement of "have a phone number" that most jobs carry). Other than that, you don't need to pay a cent to use any public wifi you can find, and if you do want a phone/data plan, you're generally going to be paying about as much for that as you would for Internet alone (maybe a bit more, depending on how expensive your local providers are), which again is going to be a tiny fraction of what rent costs such that eschewing it probably isn't going to make it any easier to stop being homeless.If you have nothing else, a smartphone is by far the most cost-effective improvement you can make to your quality of life and ability to continue functioning in society despite being homeless, especially given that it fits easily in your pocket and therefore doesn't required you to own anything else to store it. As much as people like to see it as an expensive luxury item and think that no "real" refugee or homeless person would have one, it's comparatively not that expensive and is incredibly useful if you don't have anything else that can perform its functions.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 5:46:56 PM #121:	Jen0125 posted... Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job. Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968648495] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>Yeah and similarly funny how people think someone jobless or homeless should be dedicating every second of the day looking for a job.</quote>Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 5:50:38 PM #122:	adjl posted... Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices. I certainly had a job when I was homeless lol. People think homeless people should literally have nothing. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968648552] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices.</quote>I certainly had a job when I was homeless lol. People think homeless people should literally have nothing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 5:58:35 PM #123:	And cling to the fantasy that people that are working hard can't possibly be homeless. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968648721] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>And cling to the fantasy that people that are working hard can't possibly be homeless.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 10/11/22 6:06:23 PM #124:	ZangsBeard posted... I love all of these absolutely qualified landlord/tenant lawyers we have up in this topic. @Transmanasaurus @IronBornCorps @Dodo-bird Dont one of you have a law degree? Even if Im mistaken, Id still love to hear your thoughts on some girl being thrown out her BFs home. --- Century: Age Of Ashes is the greatest dragon riding game to ever exist and it's FREE. <cite>HornedLion posted [p:968648862] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>ZangsBeard posted... </cite><quote>I love all of these absolutely qualified landlord/tenant lawyers we have up in this topic.</quote>@Transmanasaurus @IronBornCorps @Dodo-birdDont one of you have a law degree? Even if Im mistaken, Id still love to hear your thoughts on some girl being thrown out her BFs home.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 6:17:42 PM #125:	It's completely legal if she's stayed longer than visitors are allowed per the lease, which seems to be the most salient point here. I'm not about to pretend it was an entirely impersonal decision on Jen's part, and there's potentially room to debate the morality of it, but it seems to be quite legal. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968649081] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>It's completely legal if she's stayed longer than visitors are allowed per the lease, which seems to be the most salient point here.I'm not about to pretend it was an entirely impersonal decision on Jen's part, and there's potentially room to debate the morality of it, but it seems to be quite legal.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:25:48 PM #126:	HornedLion posted... Even if Im mistaken, Id still love to hear your thoughts on some girl being thrown out her BFs home. I mean.. He's a tenant but it's also MY home where I'm supposed to live. Do you think no one should ever have a say about other people in their home that don't live there? Lol <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649238] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>HornedLion posted... </cite><quote>Even if Im mistaken, Id still love to hear your thoughts on some girl being thrown out her BFs home.</quote>I mean.. He's a tenant but it's also MY home where I'm supposed to live. Do you think no one should ever have a say about other people in their home that don't live there? Lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:26:55 PM #127:	adjl posted... It's completely legal if she's stayed longer than visitors are allowed per the lease, which seems to be the most salient point here. I'm not about to pretend it was an entirely impersonal decision on Jen's part, and there's potentially room to debate the morality of it, but it seems to be quite legal. I mean it was impartial insofar as I wasn't asking her to leave because of the relationship between me and my roommate. I just wanted an unattended guest to leave so I could have the house to myself. I don't like my ex but I'm not trying to punish anyone or else I wouldn't be bending over backwards to constantly accommodate this person for two years post break up. Like I'm a private person. I like to wear no pants when I'm home alone. I like to be home alone or with just my boyfriend. I don't think it's an issue to ask an unattended house guest to leave just because they're dating my ex boyfriend. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649273] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>It's completely legal if she's stayed longer than visitors are allowed per the lease, which seems to be the most salient point here.I'm not about to pretend it was an entirely impersonal decision on Jen's part, and there's potentially room to debate the morality of it, but it seems to be quite legal.</quote>I mean it was impartial insofar as I wasn't asking her to leave because of the relationship between me and my roommate. I just wanted an unattended guest to leave so I could have the house to myself. I don't like my ex but I'm not trying to punish anyone or else I wouldn't be bending over backwards to constantly accommodate this person for two years post break up. Like I'm a private person. I like to wear no pants when I'm home alone. I like to be home alone or with just my boyfriend. I don't think it's an issue to ask an unattended house guest to leave just because they're dating my ex boyfriend. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:30:33 PM #128:	Although I will selfishly say that if this is all it took for him to leave I wish I would have asked her to go back to her house like 5 months ago <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649349] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Although I will selfishly say that if this is all it took for him to leave I wish I would have asked her to go back to her house like 5 months ago </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cacciato 10/11/22 6:33:31 PM #129:	You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going. <cite>Cacciato posted [p:968649394] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:38:42 PM #130:	Cacciato posted... You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649506] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Cacciato posted... </cite><quote>You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 10/11/22 6:43:21 PM #131:	Cacciato posted... You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going. Best scenario would be if Sunny's wife, Shenti, Icoyar, Chelle, Jen, and Jen's ex were all roommates then we can see what would unfold, lol --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:968649589] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Cacciato posted... </cite><quote>You should introduce your ex to Sunnys wife and really see if we can get some entertainment going.</quote>Best scenario would be if Sunny's wife, Shenti, Icoyar, Chelle, Jen, and Jen's ex were all roommates then we can see what would unfold, lol</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:43:56 PM #132:	Don't involve me I'm trying to live in fucking peace! <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649599] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Don't involve me I'm trying to live in fucking peace! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 6:44:11 PM #133:	Swap me and put my mom in the house instead >=] <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968649603] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Swap me and put my mom in the house instead >=] </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 10/11/22 6:48:19 PM #134:	Jen0125 posted... I mean.. He's a tenant but it's also MY home where I'm supposed to live. Do you think no one should ever have a say about other people in their home that don't live there? Lol I think this whole thing is a mess. Hes beta as fuck for not manning up and having his own place. When I was in AZ in 2016, I had a nice studio for $500 in Mesa. Though Im sure prices have gone up, it still should be no problem for him. But unless explicitly spoken about beforehand, I dont see why the chick needed to be bounced out. Shit is embarrassing. And I see her as the only victim in this whole situation. --- Century: Age Of Ashes is the greatest dragon riding game to ever exist and it's FREE. <cite>HornedLion posted [p:968649698] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>I mean.. He's a tenant but it's also MY home where I'm supposed to live. Do you think no one should ever have a say about other people in their home that don't live there? Lol</quote>I think this whole thing is a mess.Hes beta as fuck for not manning up and having his own place. When I was in AZ in 2016, I had a nice studio for $500 in Mesa. Though Im sure prices have gone up, it still should be no problem for him.But unless explicitly spoken about beforehand, I dont see why the chick needed to be bounced out. Shit is embarrassing. And I see her as the only victim in this whole situation. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/11/22 6:49:05 PM #135:	Jen0125 posted... I just wanted an unattended guest to leave so I could have the house to myself. And that's getting more into a personal desire than anything you actually have a right to. You don't have a right to privacy in a shared space. That you had an easy out for kicking out the person infringing on your privacy is entirely a matter of her being a violation of the tenant's lease, not anything you're inherently entitled to. Had your ex come home 30 seconds after she left, you'd have the same amount of privacy and none of the legal high ground. That's just the nature of renting out a property you live in: you only have as much control over it as is granted you by the lease. Now, saying this, dude's being a dick and I don't think you're being particularly unreasonable, especially given how much time she's been spending there and the excessive impact that's had on your ability to enjoy the space. It's also not like you threw her out on the street or left her with no way to get home, so all in all, your less-than-impersonal act was little more than a moderate inconvenience for those affected and therefore not exactly the end of the world. You may not be in a position to insist that he not live his life in his home because you want to enjoy it yourself, but this is both legal and reasonable, so yay. Dude got uppity because he likes to pretend he still owns the place, not because you really overstepped any boundaries. Either way, it's almost over. 2.5 more months and you'll no longer have to deal with any of it. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:968649714] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>I just wanted an unattended guest to leave so I could have the house to myself.</quote>And that's getting more into a personal desire than anything you actually have a right to. You don't have a right to privacy in a shared space. That you had an easy out for kicking out the person infringing on your privacy is entirely a matter of her being a violation of the tenant's lease, not anything you're inherently entitled to. Had your ex come home 30 seconds after she left, you'd have the same amount of privacy and none of the legal high ground. That's just the nature of renting out a property you live in: you only have as much control over it as is granted you by the lease.Now, saying this, dude's being a dick and I don't think you're being particularly unreasonable, especially given how much time she's been spending there and the excessive impact that's had on your ability to enjoy the space. It's also not like you threw her out on the street or left her with no way to get home, so all in all, your less-than-impersonal act was little more than a moderate inconvenience for those affected and therefore not exactly the end of the world. You may not be in a position to insist that he not live his life in his home because you want to enjoy it yourself, but this is both legal and reasonable, so yay. Dude got uppity because he likes to pretend he still owns the place, not because you really overstepped any boundaries.Either way, it's almost over. 2.5 more months and you'll no longer have to deal with any of it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 7:04:16 PM #136:	My tenant isn't entitled to have overnight guests when he isn't home per the lease. So they were in the wrong lol And I have to put up with the tenant because he's on the contract. When he's not there and the unleased person is seemingly residing at the property I don't see why I wouldn't have a right as another resident to ask her to leave. This is as someone who has dealt with tons of landlord tenant disputes. Anyways, me asking her to leave had nothing to do with negative personal feelings. Just for feelings of privacy. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968650023] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>My tenant isn't entitled to have overnight guests when he isn't home per the lease. So they were in the wrong lol And I have to put up with the tenant because he's on the contract. When he's not there and the unleased person is seemingly residing at the property I don't see why I wouldn't have a right as another resident to ask her to leave. This is as someone who has dealt with tons of landlord tenant disputes. Anyways, me asking her to leave had nothing to do with negative personal feelings. Just for feelings of privacy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 10/11/22 7:05:41 PM #137:	Jen0125 posted... My tenant isn't entitled to have overnight guests when he isn't home per the lease. So they were in the wrong lol If that was decided on beforehand then thats settled. But the living situation needs to change ASAP. Some may see this as trivial but shit can always escalate quick. --- Century: Age Of Ashes is the greatest dragon riding game to ever exist and it's FREE. <cite>HornedLion posted [p:968650059] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>My tenant isn't entitled to have overnight guests when he isn't home per the lease. So they were in the wrong lol</quote>If that was decided on beforehand then thats settled. But the living situation needs to change ASAP. Some may see this as trivial but shit can always escalate quick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 7:06:54 PM #138:	adjl posted... You may not be in a position to insist that he not live his life in his home because you want to enjoy it yourself, And this is exactly why I specifically don't live there full time. Because I understand this legal principle. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968650080] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>You may not be in a position to insist that he not live his life in his home because you want to enjoy it yourself,</quote>And this is exactly why I specifically don't live there full time. Because I understand this legal principle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 7:07:22 PM #139:	Just a DOODOO situation tbh <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968650088] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Just a DOODOO situation tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 7:13:23 PM #140:	HornedLion posted... But the living situation needs to change ASAP. Some may see this as trivial but shit can always escalate quick. It's over by January at the latest. Him and I will never cohabitate again. I'm going to stay with my boyfriend until January. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968650208] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>HornedLion posted... </cite><quote>But the living situation needs to change ASAP. Some may see this as trivial but shit can always escalate quick.</quote>It's over by January at the latest. Him and I will never cohabitate again. I'm going to stay with my boyfriend until January. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IronBornCorps 10/11/22 8:05:11 PM #141:	Nah, I'm a programmer and the other two are in retail together. Good for you for setting a boundary Jen. <cite>IronBornCorps posted [p:968651265] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Nah, I'm a programmer and the other two are in retail together.Good for you for setting a boundary Jen.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/11/22 8:59:28 PM #142:	Thanks it's difficult for me to do that <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968652360] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Thanks it's difficult for me to do that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Krow_Incarnate 10/11/22 9:38:36 PM #143:	Ferarri619 posted... Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious. I still work a full-time job and got my phone. I'm basically just out of my truck these days. Just biding my time until the market goes down until I try and make a move. --- Hail Hydra <cite>Krow_Incarnate posted [p:968653138] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>Why/how are you on Gamefaqs when you're homeless? Not trying to be a dick or anything just curious.</quote>I still work a full-time job and got my phone. I'm basically just out of my truck these days. Just biding my time until the market goes down until I try and make a move.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 10/11/22 9:40:13 PM #144:	Krow_Incarnate posted... I still work a full-time job and got my phone. I'm basically just out of my truck these days. Just biding my time until the market goes down until I try and make a move. That sucks :/ I hope you're able to get a home soon, wish you the best --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:968653180] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Krow_Incarnate posted... </cite><quote>I still work a full-time job and got my phone. I'm basically just out of my truck these days. Just biding my time until the market goes down until I try and make a move.</quote>That sucks :/ I hope you're able to get a home soon, wish you the best</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Krow_Incarnate 10/11/22 9:41:22 PM #145:	adjl posted... Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices. Yep, there are a lot of regulars I see at my usual hangouts. I've seen a lot of people living out of RVs and trailers as well. --- Hail Hydra <cite>Krow_Incarnate posted [p:968653211] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite><quote>Heck, at this point, I assume most homeless people have jobs already, given how woefully inadequate so many jobs are compared to housing prices.</quote>Yep, there are a lot of regulars I see at my usual hangouts. I've seen a lot of people living out of RVs and trailers as well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Krow_Incarnate 10/11/22 9:45:41 PM #146:	Ferarri619 posted... That sucks :/ I hope you're able to get a home soon, wish you the best Thanks man, I appreciate that. In all honesty, I'm in a pretty good position with a job I'm happy at and a decent amount of resources. It's a tight spot, but I can myself not being stuck like this forever so long as I'm patient. --- Hail Hydra <cite>Krow_Incarnate posted [p:968653307] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Ferarri619 posted... </cite><quote>That sucks :/ I hope you're able to get a home soon, wish you the best</quote>Thanks man, I appreciate that. In all honesty, I'm in a pretty good position with a job I'm happy at and a decent amount of resources. It's a tight spot, but I can myself not being stuck like this forever so long as I'm patient.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 10/11/22 11:18:32 PM #148:	IronBornCorps posted... Nah, I'm a programmer and the other two are in retail together. Good for you for setting a boundary Jen. Jen0125 posted... Thanks it's difficult for me to do that https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/5/4/AAckHXAADxLO.jpg --- Century: Age Of Ashes is the greatest dragon riding game to ever exist and it's FREE. <cite>HornedLion posted [p:968655115] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>IronBornCorps posted... </cite><quote>Nah, I'm a programmer and the other two are in retail together.Good for you for setting a boundary Jen.</quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite><quote>Thanks it's difficult for me to do that</quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/5/4/AAckHXAADxLO.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NickMullen 10/11/22 11:20:18 PM #149:	your ex sounds like a nightmare tc. hope you get that shit sorted out soon --- Nick million$ <cite>NickMullen posted [p:968655155] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>your ex sounds like a nightmare tc. hope you get that shit sorted out soon</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/12/22 8:22:25 AM #150:	Well no one was there all day and all night yesterday. If no one's home all day today I'm gonna go over after 6pm when my roommate should be working. But it's his birthday today so who knows what is gonna happen. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968660263] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Well no one was there all day and all night yesterday. If no one's home all day today I'm gonna go over after 6pm when my roommate should be working. But it's his birthday today so who knows what is gonna happen. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/12/22 10:54:20 AM #151:	Wow he left. I'm free. <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:968662566] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Wow he left. I'm free. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Far-Queue 10/12/22 10:56:09 AM #152:	Burn some sage along with any belongings he left behind --- What's better than roses on your piano? Tulips on your organ. <cite>Far-Queue posted [p:968662594] in My roommat... [t:80191450]...</cite> <quote>Burn some sage along with any belongings he left behind </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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