Poll of the Day > My Mom said bisexuals are confused.

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Said most of them are just secretly gay and just pretending to be straight.

I told her that's a stupid, narrow viewpoint that she should reconsider. She told me to look at the page of a bisexual guy she knows who used to date a female family member as if that proves anything.

On one hand, yes, some gay guys come out as bi as a stepping stone on the way to admitting they're exclusively homosexual

On the other hand, so what if they do

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No idea about that but I know this, it takes two straight people to make a gay or bisexual people.

And for the LBGTQ folks, whatever you were as is what you are because despite all the efforts, no amount of reassignment surgery or hormone therapy can top God's work so surgery and hormones can transform a male into a female and vice versa, at the end of the day you are what you were born as.

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Who wouldn't want to be bi?

Seriously, sex is good, being attractive and wanting to have sex with more people can only be a good thing. Why limit yourself? If you can be Bi, go for it. If you are not turned on by the same gender as yourself, what about playing around with someone of the opposite gender who does turn you on, AND someone of the same gender as yourself?

I'm not into guys sadly, wish I was, and i never tried playing around with a 3 some that included another guy. I wouldn't really be against it at this point in my life but I'm not sexually active anymore.

Anyway, there is no reason to make people feel bad about who they find attractive, more love is a good thing, more attraction is a good thing, and honestly as long as it's safe and consensual, more sex is a good thing.


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I'm confused as to why you made this topic. Just move out of her place already.

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Yea everyone has their point of view about some things and Arv is glad your mom does to even if its not a socially favorable opinion

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They are confused. Guys and shemales~ bust the nut not take the nut. The bum hole and mouth are not where babies are made either.

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hell Arvs confused all the time about stuff its okay

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BUMPED2002 posted...

No idea about that but I know this, it takes two straight people to make a gay or bisexual people.

And for the LBGTQ folks, whatever you were as is what you are because despite all the efforts, no amount of reassignment surgery or hormone therapy can top God's work so surgery and hormones can transform a male into a female and vice versa, at the end of the day you are what you were born as.

cannot say i expected you to be transphobic with all the lib topics you make lol

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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Said most of them are just secretly gay and just pretending to be straight.

Tell her shes wrong and not all bi people are confused Some people are just bi

PClench281 posted...

On one hand, yes, some gay guys come out as bi as a stepping stone on the way to admitting they're exclusively homosexual

On the other hand, so what if they do

This is also true

BUMPED2002 posted...

no amount of reassignment surgery or hormone therapy can top God's work so surgery and hormones can transform a male into a female and vice versa, at the end of the day you are what you were born as.

Not really. The only thing we cant really change is internal biology. Which isnt as much of a concern as people think it is But with science the way it is, we might be able to change that soon, as well Well, within the next century

wolfy42 posted...

If you are not turned on by the same gender as yourself, what about playing around with someone of the opposite gender who does turn you on, AND someone of the same gender as yourself?

Wont always work. For example, I could do a threesome with one guy and one girl. I personally would get anything from her. The most wed get out of it is like me fucking the other guy while he fucks her

IqarP15 posted...

They are confused. Guys and shemales~ bust the nut not take the nut. The bum hole and mouth are not where babies are made either.

That would only work if gay people werent a thing
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If a guy is into women including pre-op trans women does that make them bisexual?

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kind9 posted...

If a guy is into women including pre-op trans women does that make them bisexual?

I dont think so. But I guess it depends on the person youre asking
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if arv puts on a wizard hat that makes arv a SEXUAL BEAST!

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LinkPizza posted...

I dont think so. But I guess it depends on the person youre asking

Man, I use to hang out with a friend who lived in the projects. There was this transgendered chick that lived on the second floor. I saw so many of the neighborhood guys go into her apartment.

My thought on that is that they did it out of desperation. The local girls made them work so damn hard for the pussy. So they found it more efficient to go for the transgender girl that didnt make them jump through too many hoops. They both have the same sex drive, too. I wouldnt consider them gay.

Disclaimer: This is just my observation and opinion on the matter.

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HornedLion posted...

They both have the same sex drive, too.

Sex drive isnt chosen by sex or gender. It varies person to person
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IqarP15 posted...

The bum hole and mouth are not where babies are made either.

Thank god

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SilentSeph posted...

Thank god

Imagine if you could get pregnant through 3 holes at once and that's where triplets came from. Simultaneous births from the vagina, mouth, and anus

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SilentSeph posted...

Thank god

I mean, I believe science the said the bum hole is more than the vagina, so
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Blightzkrieg posted...

Imagine if you could get pregnant through 3 holes at once and that's where triplets came from. Simultaneous births from the vagina, mouth, and anus

I think I should get a pregnancy test....

LinkPizza posted...

I mean, I believe science the said the bum hole is more than the vagina, so

Indeed, I'm sure vaginas are great but anal makes my whole week

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Nope. Been bisexual for years and I 100% love women. I love men A LOT more, but considering my feelings towards women, I can assure you they arent leaving.


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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Said most of them are just secretly gay and just pretending to be straight.

How can people be that stupid? Why is it so hard for some people to believe that some people like both men and women?

Low quality bait

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Mead posted...

Low quality bait

Its so low quality, Mead didnt even want to use the picture
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Mead posted...

Low quality bait

This

And people still took it lol

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To be fair I am confused most of the time, about my sexuality not so much though.

Everyday life is confusing for most people.

Unpopular opinion: Rigid sexuality doesn't exist and everyone will eventually wanna sex with everyone given enough time.

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LinkPizza posted...

Sex drive isnt chosen by sex or gender. It varies person to person

Man, if I wanted to Id bag more gay guys in one night than I could chicks in 3 nights.

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HornedLion posted...

Man, if I wanted to Id bag more gay guys in one night than I could chicks in 3 nights.

what is the matter with you

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people seem to get confused by monogomous bisexual people, only dating 1 person means you can say you're gay if you're dating a dude or straight if dating a female. a lot of people take this the first one as "you're gay but just dont want to admit it" and the second is "you're straight but just want to be part of the LGBT club."

I've had people say the second one to me a few times and it's annoying but meh. some people just dont get it.

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Mead posted...

what is the matter with you

Mead, you know men are the sex with the stronger sex drive.

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HornedLion posted...

Man, if I wanted to Id bag more gay guys in one night than I could chicks in 3 nights.

Don't you have to be attractive to do that

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HornedLion posted...

Mead, you know men are the sex with the stronger sex drive.

I do not know this

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HornedLion posted...

Man, if I wanted to Id bag more gay guys in one night than I could chicks in 3 nights.

That doesnt change what I said, though
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HornedLion posted...

Mead, you know men are the sex with the stronger sex drive.

Al Bundy told me differently

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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Said most of them are just secretly gay and just pretending to be straight.

I told her that's a stupid, narrow viewpoint that she should reconsider. She told me to look at the page of a bisexual guy she knows who used to date a female family member as if that proves anything.

Only morons use personal experience as any sort of metric for this stuff. It's like claiming that since I know 10 people that love strawberries and only 1 that doesn't that proves that 10 out of 11 love strawberries.

It's pretty obviously projection. They don't understand it, so they pretend the people they are confused about are themselves confused. If someone tells you that they find both men and women hot, they are clearly not confused. If you don't understand that, then you're the ones that's confused, not them.

A lot of bi people do skew one way or the other a bit more. Like all people, sometimes their romantic orientation does not match up with their sexual orientation (for example, a bisexual person who skews towards homoromantic will most likely tend to pursue gay relationships despite being attracted to people across the spectrum). There's also the fact that most people are either straight or bi, which means that most bi people will end up in seemingly heteronormative relationships purely because of statistics.

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Gaawa_chan posted...

Like all people, sometimes their romantic orientation does not match up with their sexual orientation (for example, a bisexual person who skews towards homoromantic will most likely tend to pursue gay relationships despite being attracted to people across the spectrum).

Yeah. This is true. As it turns out, many bisexual people have also said they were heteroromantic

Gaawa_chan posted...

There's also the fact that most people are either straight or bi, which means that most bi people will end up in seemingly heteronormative relationships purely because of statistics.

I agree. Though I think its just because most people are straight that you see the heteronormative more with bi people
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...

Said most of them are just secretly gay and just pretending to be straight.

Then she clearly doesn't know what bisexual means.

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Clench281 posted...

Don't you have to be attractive to do that

I dont think youre ready for this jelly.

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