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Romulox28 03/15/21 9:39:24 PM #151: |
So sorry for your loss tc. Cant imagine what youre going through. Hang in there for your son
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ScazarMeltex 03/15/21 9:43:58 PM #152: |
Jesus dude, I'm so very sorry to hear that. I can only imagine what you are going through right now. My condolences.
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Cobra1010 03/15/21 9:47:43 PM #153: |
Sorry for you loss TC
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Luigi and Tails 03/15/21 9:55:14 PM #154: |
Sorry for your loss mate. I don't know what to say but give your son an extra long hug on behalf of a stranger.
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 1:07:25 AM #155: |
AldousIsDead posted...
Unexpected death like that an autopsy is standard.Her sister died the same way around the same age. They left the autopsy up to my mother in law. But then again that was about 18 years ago so things have probably changed around my area. I never did crash though. Managed a short nap a few hours ago but can't wind down. --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Reverend_Wilson 03/16/21 1:46:50 AM #156: |
It's nice just to have a topic where everybody is being polite. There is some real compassion in this forum.
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Aitz 03/16/21 1:54:29 AM #157: |
I am really sorry to hear about your loss brother
I offer my condolences to you and I hope you and your son pull through this hard time My grandfather died the same way too. I was talking to my grandma as she was wondering why he didnt wake up till now when he usually does. After a few hours we got a call from her and she gave us the bad news --- Fire Emblem Heroes: 1691818076 Target: Get all Celicas <3 at +10 Celica counts: OG! Celica +2 - F!Celica +1 - B!Celica x1 - L!Celica +10! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bad_Mojo 03/16/21 1:58:49 AM #158: |
I'm at a loss of words. I'm so very sorry that you have to go through this
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joe40001 03/16/21 1:59:47 AM #159: |
Wait how? No way! I'm so sorry. Jesus. Fuck everything. No.
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 2:03:02 AM #160: |
She was a wonderful wife and mother and I'm gonna miss her horribly for years to come. Fuck I need to sleep. Sleep deprivation headaches are the worse --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrMallard 03/16/21 2:04:57 AM #161: |
It's been said so much, but such a loss happening in such a short, unexpected period of time like this is incredibly fucked up. I can't imagine how hard this would be on you, especially as a parent.
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. There's no wrong way to grieve, even at the best of times. --- I know that you think you're not good for anything, the world makes you feel so small Now Playing: Hyrule Warriors, Old-School Runescape ... Copied to Clipboard!
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apolloooo 03/16/21 2:06:28 AM #162: |
DarthDemented posted...
I am so sorry. You took care of her good, and she was happy. Please get yourself a rest. --- http://i.imgtc.com/iJyp6bF.png http://i.imgtc.com/ZBw36Qh.png Thanks for the peeps that made the pics <3 if i make typos it means i am on phone ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NES4EVER 03/16/21 2:09:47 AM #163: |
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your son are able to support each other and celebrate her.
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gunplagirl 03/16/21 2:11:26 AM #164: |
I'm so sorry for your loss. :'( Please, be sure to let yourself feel all the emotions running through you instead of trying to suppress it. Because you WILL overflow. The question is when.
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sktgamer_13dude 03/16/21 2:12:36 AM #165: |
Man and I thought me losing my gf a month ago was tough but thats chicken-shit compared to this.
Sorry to hear man. All of my deepest condolences and Im so sorry for you and for your family. I cant even imagine waking up to a significant other not breathing. Just tragic. Like I cant think of anything to say besides sorry for your loss. --- https://imgur.com/jWVrg9U https://imgur.com/g2efUtT https://imgur.com/5dOwhaP https://imgur.com/LVdqu8J Go Cougs and M's RIP SMV 2/25/21 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_____Cait 03/16/21 2:14:11 AM #166: |
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 2:14:38 AM #167: |
gunplagirl posted...
I'm so sorry for your loss. :'( Please, be sure to let yourself feel all the emotions running through you instead of trying to suppress it. Because you WILL overflow. The question is when.He found out before I could break it to him. He's taking as hard as you can expect an 11 year old to take it. --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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samurai bandit 03/16/21 2:16:33 AM #168: |
Sorry for your loss TC.
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gunplagirl 03/16/21 2:17:35 AM #169: |
DarthDemented posted...
He found out before I could break it to him. He's taking as hard as you can expect an 11 year old to take it.But how did he find out before you told him? And yeah. :'( That's really difficult, especially since this is basically the peak bonding time for kids before their teenage years. So to lose her would definitely just be heart crushing. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DD Divine 03/16/21 2:21:37 AM #170: |
So sorry for your loss
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 2:22:51 AM #171: |
gunplagirl posted...
But how did he find out before you told him?He's staying with my mother in law for his spring break. She started to get phone calls over it so he overheard her talking about it. --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Obstacle2 03/16/21 2:31:58 AM #172: |
Such heartbreaking news. My condolences to you and your loved ones, my friend.
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AldousIsDead 03/16/21 2:33:24 AM #173: |
DarthDemented posted...
Her sister died the same way around the same age. They left the autopsy up to my mother in law. But then again that was about 18 years ago so things have probably changed around my area.They insisted for my brother. He was 30. If I can offer some unsolicited advice, when people come to offer you help in the coming weeks, take it. It's good for both of you. --- In simplicity, utility. Through utility, simplicity. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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burns112233 03/16/21 3:12:25 AM #174: |
May peace be with you through this difficult time.
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nfearurspecimn 03/16/21 3:13:28 AM #175: |
I was really hoping this was just a joke topic in poor taste. :(
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Lathissamus 03/16/21 3:21:51 AM #176: |
I am sorry for your loss. I will pray for you and your children!
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toadfan64 03/16/21 3:53:51 AM #177: |
So sorry for your loss TC.
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Dark_SilverX 03/16/21 4:20:34 AM #178: |
That's horrible, sorry to hear that.
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MabusIncarnate 03/16/21 4:26:36 AM #179: |
Jesus man, i've been married 17 years and I have zero concept of how i'd handle something like this or figure out how to move on. I'm so, so sorry, do everything you can to push forward, your kids need you and there are little eyes on you that need their dad. Damn, I don't even know what else to say. I'm so sorry.
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yutterh 03/16/21 4:34:11 AM #180: |
I'm sorry for your loss man. Losing people is the hardest thing on this earth. At least she died in her sleep, a painless and unknowing death. It's how my grandfather died as well.
As to what happened with eh oxygen. She may have been trying to do it herself. Mayeb she couldn't get the oxygen back in and thought it be fine. When you depend on others, sometimes people feel like they are a burden. She may have been trying to do it herself as to not bother you. Had the same thing with my mom when she had breast cancer. Fortunately for me she survived it but I took care of her. She had weak legs and a bad arm. She is mostly better besides the arm being at like 70%. But she was depressed that she had to be taken of. Time doesn't heal all wounds but things will slowly get better. Take your time with the grief. Be there for your son. Do your best and remember the good memories yall had. You were the best husband that she could have asked for and I'm sure she was happy you were there tell the end. --- CPU i5 10600k, CPUC evga CLC 280x140, RAM tridentz 3200mhz cl14 32gb, MOBO Asus Rog strix e-gaming, GPU evga fc3 rtx 3070, PSU evga 850w G2, Samsung G7 32in. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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clyde_frog 03/16/21 4:42:12 AM #181: |
I dont know what to say man, I really feel for you. This has to be the worst experience imaginable.
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Vyrulisse 03/16/21 4:46:44 AM #182: |
I'm sorry for your loss. Nothing ever feels like enough to say to this... I just hope you can find a way to get some rest. Your son needs you more than ever now and will for years to come and when it gets hardest to manage remember you will find a way to get through. It's so important to remember that because it's a source of strength and hope.
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Sariana21 03/16/21 4:49:48 AM #183: |
If your son is on spring break, I assume hes enrolled in school. Enlist the schools help; make sure they know what your family is dealing with. Schools have staff members who can help students in difficult times, and his teacher(s) should be aware, too.
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The Top Crusader 03/16/21 11:21:29 AM #184: |
DarthDemented posted...
Funeral home finally called. Apparently the coroner's office is insisting on an autopsy. I don't mind because maybe it'll help bring some closure. That's good. My father-in-law died suddenly, and just in all the rush and confusion (he died while visiting us so was quite a ways from home) the family opted *not* to get an autopsy, but in hindsight they regret it because they can only kind of make guesses as to what happened. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Master_Bass 03/16/21 11:25:07 AM #185: |
My condolences, TC. I'm so sorry that happened. I can't even imagine.
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 12:34:10 PM #187: |
I finally got some sleep. Woke up miserable. The home care equipment people are here to get her bed. I still have to call the company who brought her concentrator and oxygen tanks. When they're done I'm gonna go be with my son. I was gonna buy her a new laptop for her birthday at the end of the month. Maybe I can give it to my son and tell him I already had it bought for her and he can have it. I don't know. I know gifts don't help the pain but maybe thinking it was suppose to his mom's would help in it's own way
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HODL_Austin_Era 03/16/21 12:44:16 PM #188: |
I'm sure your son would like that :)
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 12:46:06 PM #189: |
Her bed is gone now. It's not gonna be the same not hearing the air pump that kept her mattress inflated. Now I gotta call the company for her oxygen stuff.
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DarthDemented 03/16/21 1:40:13 PM #190: |
Thanks for all the support y'all. Even if no one else posts here I probably will. Just to get what's on my mind down.
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Luigi and Tails 03/16/21 8:31:00 PM #191: |
Feel free to send me a PM whenever you want to get something off your chest. It doesn't matter how trivial it may seem to you, if it helps you share it with a stranger then I'm all for it.
Simple things like how your little 'un just laughed the same way his mother did - or said one of the phrases you know his mother taught him - that kind of stuff goes a long way for your own memories. Actually you know what, I'll drop you a PM. --- I AM A GAMEFAQ USER AND THIS IS MY SIGNATEUR ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Scarecrow17 03/16/21 8:45:03 PM #192: |
So sorry for your loss, Darth. Were all here for you if you need support or to vent. Please dont hesitate to reach out.
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The Top Crusader 03/17/21 8:14:14 AM #193: |
DarthDemented posted...
Thanks for all the support y'all. Even if no one else posts here I probably will. Just to get what's on my mind down. Please do, I'm sure a lot of people don't have a lot to add after expressing their condolences but still want to be updated on how you and your son are doing. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The-Apostle 03/17/21 2:34:47 PM #194: |
OMG sorry for your loss.
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pure_temper 03/17/21 2:36:52 PM #195: |
so sorry tc :( hang in there, my deepest condolences --- proudclad LAYIN DOWN THE SMACK - Error1355 Christian Marxism actually makes sense. (Islamic, Buddhist, Hindu, etc too!) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthDemented 03/17/21 3:26:18 PM #197: |
shockthemonkey posted...
Thats absolutely tragic. I only skimmed the topic but can you tell us more about her? What made you drawn to her to begin with? When did you know you were going to marry her? What kind of person was she? Anything important about her is awesome to hear. People never fully die if we keep their influence going.I met her when I was 12 and she was 16. I didn't have the confidence to say anything at the time. At 16 I took her out for a night to forget her bad break up and we ended up kissing. That was apparently the kick in the ass I needed to pour my heart out to her. She admitted to always feeling the same for me but didn't want to cheat on her bf at the time. We dated for 5 years before getting married. 4 years later our son was born and she was so happy being pregnant with him. After he was born she was diagnosed with RA and that was when her body started breaking down. She didn't let it stop her from trying to be best mother she could. She could have a quick wit and could appreciate humor from high brow to a poop joke. She loved music and dancing. Even in her wheelchair she'd find a way to dance. These last few months she was dead set on seeing our son grow up and be there for all the remaining milestones in his life. --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthDemented 03/17/21 3:32:28 PM #198: |
I promised her I'd be with her til the end. Even after her RA got so bad to the point of being bed bound. I'd gladly keep that promise til my body was broken down and I needed care myself. I still haven't heard anything from the coroner so I still don't have a cause of death.
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XxKrebsxX 03/17/21 3:39:08 PM #199: |
DarthDemented posted...
I promised her I'd be with her til the end. Even after her RA got so bad to the point of being bed bound. I'd gladly keep that promise til my body was broken down and I needed care myself. I still haven't heard anything from the coroner so I still don't have a cause of death. Whats RA? Google search comes up with Rheumatoid Arthritis? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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