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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 12:59:11 PM
#101:


Benify posted...
Attractive women > Attractive men > Ugly men > Ugly women

Nah, switch ugly men and ugly women
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Febrel
10/07/19 1:06:36 PM
#102:


Women clearly have it harder in politics and at mid-higher levels of employment. That's indisputable.

The comparisons claiming men have it harder are usually comparing him to a woman of equally low/controversial status. Criminals, divorcees, the poor, the homeless, the socially ostracized, loners, etc.

ImmatureContent posted...
My entire point was that these "problems" are not inherent to being a guy. I never said they don't count. But they are not innately male problems.

This is a bit of a loophole. Not every woman complained about it back when women were considered second class citizens either. It's not not a women's problem just because some women were okay with it.
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IShall_Run_Amok
10/07/19 1:08:26 PM
#103:


Oppression Olympics 2019 is on.
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Beveren_Rabbit
10/07/19 1:09:08 PM
#104:


-you're circumcised at birth and society insults for being upset about it
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andel
10/07/19 1:10:27 PM
#105:


tc has one active post so this is obvious bait and unsurprisingly rod is here to agree with incel logic immediately
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SwayM
10/07/19 1:13:40 PM
#106:


Men on tinder:

Have to present their absolute best selves and cast a very wide net. Dont be under 6 foot and always send the first message.

Women on tinder:

Bio can have more red flags than a communist country, and they sit back and wait for the thousands of matches to roll in. Be as choosey and selective as you like.
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 1:19:10 PM
#107:


SwayM posted...
Men on tinder:

Have to present their absolute best selves and cast a very wide net. Dont be under 6 foot and always send the first message.

Women on tinder:

Bio can have more red flags than a communist country, and they sit back and wait for the thousands of matches to roll in. Be as choosey and selective as you like.

Facts
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Lost_All_Senses
10/07/19 1:20:53 PM
#108:


It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 1:22:13 PM
#109:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up

So I guess you have no response to it
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Lost_All_Senses
10/07/19 1:24:19 PM
#110:


DarthAragorn posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up

So I guess you have no response to it


You mean like when you had no response to the girls bringing up their experiences on the workforce?

You have to be on the workforce, you don't have to be on tinder.
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SwayM
10/07/19 1:32:31 PM
#111:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up


Do you have a point or are you just projecting?
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Lost_All_Senses
10/07/19 1:33:34 PM
#112:


SwayM posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up


Do you have a point or are you just projecting?


What am I projecting? If I projected, it would be clear in HD with a 3D option.
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JBaLLEN66
10/07/19 1:38:38 PM
#113:


I feel like women have an advantage because they do better in service jobs and are likely to be promoted faster.
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SwayM
10/07/19 1:39:05 PM
#114:


Mmmmmk then. Well if ya dont have a point maybe take your own advice and

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Lost_All_Senses
10/07/19 1:41:12 PM
#115:


Lol, you just accused me of something and then couldn't back it up. Foh
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cuttin_in_farm
10/07/19 1:43:54 PM
#116:


DarthAragorn posted...
SwayM posted...
Men on tinder:

Have to present their absolute best selves and cast a very wide net. Dont be under 6 foot and always send the first message.

Women on tinder:

Bio can have more red flags than a communist country, and they sit back and wait for the thousands of matches to roll in. Be as choosey and selective as you like.

Facts


Guys, being flooded by guys messaging you isnt a good thing. Everyone is pretending to be a decent person and you never know their intentions. Online dating is fucked for both genders.
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 1:47:25 PM
#117:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
SwayM posted...
Men on tinder:

Have to present their absolute best selves and cast a very wide net. Dont be under 6 foot and always send the first message.

Women on tinder:

Bio can have more red flags than a communist country, and they sit back and wait for the thousands of matches to roll in. Be as choosey and selective as you like.

Facts


Guys, being flooded by guys messaging you isnt a good thing. Everyone is pretending to be a decent person and you never know their intentions. Online dating is fucked for both genders.

LOL right
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 1:48:09 PM
#118:


DarthAragorn posted...
Lost_All_Senses posted...
It always comes back to tinder lol. When tinder is your entire world view...maybe it's time to shut the fuck up

So I guess you have no response to it


An advantage on a dating app doesn't quite round up to men's lives being significantly harder

And

Tinder is shallow and awful for everyone. On the surface, you see "women get lots of options and messages". What you don't notice, is that getting a match on Tinder automatically means you're set for a great relationship. That these guys get pissed off and say demeaning shit about the women if they reject them or don't respond, and you're obviously not going to be able to respond to hundreds of people at any given time. And let's not get into the horrors of domestic abuse. We know who experiences the brunt of that more often
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Febrel
10/07/19 1:49:20 PM
#119:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Guys, being flooded by guys messaging you isnt a good thing.

No, but at least there are options. Even if you don't go out with any, you at least know that you are desired.

Lower-end guys don't get that treatment.
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Beveren_Rabbit
10/07/19 1:50:50 PM
#120:


Using 'incel' as an insult doesn't stop being an attractive male being a disadvantage.

"b-but you can still have good personality and work harder to make yourself more appealing!!! OR JUST FOCUS ON YOURSELF! AS A WOMAN YOU CAN BE _________________"
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 1:52:37 PM
#121:


Another important thing to realize is that just because someone wants you doesn't automatically mean you're going to be attracted to them. So yes, it is possible to be lonely even when people still want you.

You guys have come across people that you had zero interest in befriending because they're weird in some way. It's the same shit
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SwayM
10/07/19 1:53:19 PM
#122:


Febrel posted...
cuttin_in_farm posted...
Guys, being flooded by guys messaging you isnt a good thing.

No, but at least there are options. Even if you don't go out with any, you at least know that you are desired.

Lower-end guys don't get that treatment.


Well said
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SwayM
10/07/19 1:56:29 PM
#123:


Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.
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Beveren_Rabbit
10/07/19 1:56:54 PM
#124:


You can't deny that sexual abuse/sexual assault on men isn't taken very seriously. Infant circumcision on males is still legal despite it being proven not being a medical necessity unless in extreme cases.
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Lost_All_Senses
10/07/19 1:58:04 PM
#125:


SwayM posted...
Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.


Holy shit your perspective is warped
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LinkPizza
10/07/19 1:58:15 PM
#126:


I havent gone through everything else yet, but I do find some stuff a little weird or wrong. Like saying people want someone who has a penis no less than 6 inches. Especially since 5.1 inches (12.9 cm) is average. And most women with average men said they were happy with their guy at that size. Though men of all sizes (average, below, and above) all want bigger ones. So, that seems more like projecting... Especially since people always think they want bigger until they get someone who is bigger, and than cant take it...

Also...

codey posted...
I will support you on the ugly thing, but not because it's a biological fact but a cultural hangup. Ugly guys, at least in western cultures, just stay ugly. We can work out and stay in shape, but our faces can still be fucked. Ugly women, however, can drastically improve their looks.

We've made makeup on men such a taboo thing and it drives me crazy. I didn't really think anything of it until my girlfriend gave me some of her color correction stuff for some redness on my nose. I was complaining about looking like Rudolph since I never got pimples on my nose and one had suddenly sprouted right on the tip. This powder made it completely disappear in seconds. They have so many options to correct their imperfections which is awesome, and we shame guys that do anything more than moisturize.

Its not that bad for guys to wear it. Well, not as bad as it was a while back. Though, the best way to do it is to make it not really noticeable... then it works out well...

user-2 posted...
Girls with makeup look worse. You can always tell when they have makeup on and it comes off as fake. You can even tell when Hollywood celebs have makeup on and they spend thousands of dollars on it. They all look worse.

I wouldnt say that. It really depends on the person and make-up. The key is to make it look like you have no make-up on (except certain things like maybe lipstick). And you arent suppose to use a lot. Those are some of the mistakes people make with make-up...
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 1:58:29 PM
#127:


SwayM posted...
Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.


So, you'd befriend literally anyone on earth that gives you attention? No matter how much you don't mix with them?
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 1:59:52 PM
#128:


AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
SwayM posted...
Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.


So, you'd befriend literally anyone on earth that gives you attention? No matter how much you don't mix with them?

how in the hell was that your takeaway from what he said
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:00:49 PM
#129:


Because what he said was dumb as absolute shit and a pisspoor takeaway from what everyone else has been saying
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:01:37 PM
#130:


Also, nobody said it was "just as bad". You guys are acting like girls are experiencing hot paradise because they're getting matches, and I'm telling you that they're not
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 2:02:08 PM
#131:


AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
Because what he said was dumb as absolute shit and a pisspoor takeaway from what everyone else has been saying

it really isn't at all

too many matches is in no way whatsoever a bad thing

getting none is objectively bad
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SwayM
10/07/19 2:02:47 PM
#132:


Lost_All_Senses posted...
SwayM posted...
Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.


Holy shit your perspective is warped


And you continue to have nothing of value to say. Shocker.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
SwayM posted...
Lol yall be like

Yeah starving sucks but too many options to eat can be just as bad. There are a lot of unhealthy choices out there.


So, you'd befriend literally anyone on earth that gives you attention? No matter how much you don't mix with them?


Is it really a hard concept to understand that getting attention is better than the opposite? That being afforded choices a luxury a lot of people take for granted?
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:05:17 PM
#133:


"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"

"Actually, they do. Because X, Y and Z"

"BUT THEY STILL GET ATTENTION AND I DON'T!"

"Oh dear..."
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DarthAragorn
10/07/19 2:07:02 PM
#134:


AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"

"Actually, they do. Because X, Y and Z"

"BUT THEY STILL GET ATTENTION AND I DON'T!"

"Oh dear..."

It's like saying people in Africa are starving but Americans have food problems too because there's too many restaurants to choose from
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SwayM
10/07/19 2:09:32 PM
#135:


Apparently a very hard concept to understand.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"


I mean this just shows how little you understand whats being discussed
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:09:46 PM
#136:


You guys are really hopeless lol. Comparing yourselves to starving kids in Africa

Hey, guess what. You could potentially get a girl if you grew a nutsack, got off of Gamefaqs and tried speaking to one. It's not quite as easy for starving African children
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Solid Snake07
10/07/19 2:11:14 PM
#137:


While that's true, the reasons you gave are pretty fucking dumb
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Beveren_Rabbit
10/07/19 2:11:40 PM
#138:


Yeah, go outside and be yourself, bro.
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:11:54 PM
#139:


SwayM posted...
Apparently a very hard concept to understand.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"


I mean this just shows how little you understand whats being discussed


I understand perfectly what's being discussed. Yes, we heard you a million times. It's easier for women than men. What you don't understand, and seem to have no interest in understanding because it conflicts with your narrative, is that women's dating experiences aren't all sunshine and rainbows. You've had numerous cons and problems explained to you and you keep repeating the same dumb shit that doesn't refute any of it
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SwayM
10/07/19 2:12:41 PM
#141:


Im losing a debate. Better try hurting feelings
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:13:57 PM
#142:


Well, at least you're admitting you lost the debate. Sure don't see a counter argument from ya
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bshwalker
10/07/19 2:14:07 PM
#143:


Topic- Nah
I have no complaints in life because my life isnt dependent on perceptions from other people. I like who I am.
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andel
10/07/19 2:14:18 PM
#144:


imagine spouting incel talking points in 2019 on the internet when you actually have access to facts. imagine that
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SwayM
10/07/19 2:20:31 PM
#145:


AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
SwayM posted...
Apparently a very hard concept to understand.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"


I mean this just shows how little you understand whats being discussed


I understand perfectly what's being discussed. Yes, we heard you a million times. It's easier for women than men. What you don't understand, and seem to have no interest in understanding because it conflicts with your narrative, is that women's dating experiences aren't all sunshine and rainbows. You've had numerous cons and problems explained to you and you keep repeating the same dumb shit that doesn't refute any of it


You clearly dont understand at all and keeping making a point no one is arguing against. We get it. No one is saying dating apps are a perfect experience for women.

But what is easily understood by anyone with an ounce of common sense. Is that if youre given hundreds of options and a percentage of those are bad, youre doing a HELLUVA lot better than someone who isnt afforded those options. How is a concept so inanely simple so hard for someone like you to understand?

Women are afforded the luxury of having so many options that only a percentage of them are bad and theyre ABLE to CHOOSE. Thats a far better reality than having no choice at all. Really not that hard.
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andel
10/07/19 2:21:37 PM
#146:


SwayM posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
SwayM posted...
Apparently a very hard concept to understand.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"


I mean this just shows how little you understand whats being discussed


I understand perfectly what's being discussed. Yes, we heard you a million times. It's easier for women than men. What you don't understand, and seem to have no interest in understanding because it conflicts with your narrative, is that women's dating experiences aren't all sunshine and rainbows. You've had numerous cons and problems explained to you and you keep repeating the same dumb shit that doesn't refute any of it


You clearly dont understand at all and keeping making a point no one is arguing against. We get it. No one is saying dating apps are a perfect experience for women.

But what is easily understood by anyone with an ounce of common sense. Is that if youre given hundreds of options and a percentage of those are bad, youre doing a HELLUVA lot better than someone who isnt afforded those options. How is a concept so inanely simple so hard for someone like you to understand?

Women are afforded the luxury of having so many options that only a percentage of them are bad and theyre ABLE to CHOOSE. Thats a far better reality than having no choice at all. Really not that hard.


everyone on a dating app has a choice. it is kinda the purpose of said app
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AwesomeToTheMAX
10/07/19 2:24:09 PM
#147:


Actually, you demonstrated that you didn't understand any of the problems (or that women could have any problems to begin with) with your very first posts on this page. You now have something you simply can't refute with your one line that you spam over and over and it's bothering you
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Musourenka
10/07/19 2:25:29 PM
#148:


Okay, so men have a harder time than women getting noticed by the opposite sex. What's your solution?
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Beveren_Rabbit
10/07/19 2:27:20 PM
#149:


Women have life harder than men. Period.
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SwayM
10/07/19 2:27:26 PM
#150:


andel posted...
SwayM posted...
AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
SwayM posted...
Apparently a very hard concept to understand.

AwesomeToTheMAX posted...
"Girls experience no problems on dating apps because they get attention!"


I mean this just shows how little you understand whats being discussed


I understand perfectly what's being discussed. Yes, we heard you a million times. It's easier for women than men. What you don't understand, and seem to have no interest in understanding because it conflicts with your narrative, is that women's dating experiences aren't all sunshine and rainbows. You've had numerous cons and problems explained to you and you keep repeating the same dumb shit that doesn't refute any of it


You clearly dont understand at all and keeping making a point no one is arguing against. We get it. No one is saying dating apps are a perfect experience for women.

But what is easily understood by anyone with an ounce of common sense. Is that if youre given hundreds of options and a percentage of those are bad, youre doing a HELLUVA lot better than someone who isnt afforded those options. How is a concept so inanely simple so hard for someone like you to understand?

Women are afforded the luxury of having so many options that only a percentage of them are bad and theyre ABLE to CHOOSE. Thats a far better reality than having no choice at all. Really not that hard.


everyone on a dating app has a choice. it is kinda the purpose of said app


There is some choice for everyone involved. Absolutely.

But just because you like someone doesnt mean they like you back. You can turn down as many people as you like. but the argument presented is at the end of the day theres a disparity in how desirable men are vs women are on these apps.

Its just a fact of life. Is there anything that can be done about it? Probably not.

But some people really have a hard time understanding this is the way the world works.
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