Poll of the Day > Would you name your kid "Abcde" or something similarly non-standard?

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GanglyKhan
11/29/18 11:03:42 AM
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Well? - Results (9 votes)
Yes
11.11% (1 vote)
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No
88.89% (8 votes)
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A Southwest Airlines gate agent is accused of being awful in front of a 5-year old girl and on social media because of her unique name.

The girl's mother says the agent made fun of the name and even posted a photo of her boarding pass on social media for others to chime in.

Five-year-old Abcde Redford pronounces her name "ab-city."

"The gate agent started laughing, pointing at me and my daughter, talking to other employees. So I turned around and said, 'Hey if I can hear you, my daughter can hear you, so I'd appreciate if you'd just stop,'" Traci Redford said.

Redford and her daughter were catching a flight home to El Paso, Texas a few weeks ago from John Wayne Airport in Orange County.

Abcde lives with epilepsy, so the Redfords always pre-board.

"While I was sitting there, she took a picture of my boarding pass and chose to post it on social media, mocking my daughter. It was actually brought to my attention by somebody who had seen it on Facebook and reported it to Southwest Airlines. And after two weeks of doing a formal complaint, Southwest hadn't done anything," said Redford.

Southwest Airlines gave us this statement: "We extend our sincere apology to the family. We take great pride in extending our Southwest Hospitality to all of our Customers, which includes living by the Golden Rule and treating every individual with respect, in person or online. The post is not indicative of the care, respect, and civility we expect from all of our Employees. We have followed up with the Employee involved, and while we do not disclose personnel actions publicly, we are using this as an opportunity to reinforce our policies and emphasize our expectations for all Employees."

The employee in question didn't answer our request for comment.

Redford said she's using this experience as a lesson for her daughter.

"She said 'Mom, why is she laughing at my name?' And I said, 'Not everyone is nice and not everyone is going to be nice and it's unfortunate.'"


Pulled from: https://abc13.com/amp/travel/southwest-gate-agent-mocks-5-year-old-girls-name-online/4784808/
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GanglyKhan
11/29/18 11:04:34 AM
#2:


Naming your child "ab-city" is a smart move, makes sure that they stay fit and healthy. Can't be called "ab-city" and be fat.

In all seriousness though, I just feel bad for the daughter. The parent(s) made a poor decision there. Unique names are whatever, but trying to be "cute" with it just backfired for them hard.
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aDirtyShisno
11/29/18 11:34:28 AM
#3:


I wonder if anyone has named their kid Qwerty...?
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Hop103
11/29/18 11:42:13 AM
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No, that's not even a name at all.
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Kyuubi4269
11/29/18 12:03:07 PM
#5:


GanglyKhan posted...
not everyone is going to be nice and it's unfortunate.

Said everybody talking about her mother to her.
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JOExHIGASHI
11/29/18 12:05:31 PM
#6:


Nope

I'm not an attention whore
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Dikitain
11/29/18 12:08:09 PM
#7:


My dad had the option to name me after himself or one of my ancestors. He chose my great grandfather because "I lived with my name all my life, I am not putting my son through that". It is a good philosophy to have, even if you don't get bullied over it just having to explain it to everyone you meet is enough to convince me to keep the name simple and somewhat common.
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StoneRevolver
11/29/18 12:17:21 PM
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Unique is fine. Utterly off the wall is kinda odd and screams for attention.
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pionear
11/29/18 12:43:06 PM
#9:


As someone with an ethnic (not 'Ghetto') name, I can understand how she feels...BUT, her name isn't 'ethnic' at all...just some Millennial/Hipster lady trying to be Hip and Different with her child.

I just don't understand why they just name their dogs this or better yet, change their own damn name to something unusual and different. It's a real cowardly thing to do to put her thru that.

My dad had the option to name me after himself or one of my ancestors. He chose my great grandfather because "I lived with my name all my life, I am not putting my son through that". It is a good philosophy to have, even if you don't get bullied over it just having to explain it to everyone you meet is enough to convince me to keep the name simple and somewhat common.


Kind of the same thing I went thru as well...
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wwinterj25
11/29/18 1:01:30 PM
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What a stupid woman. I think what's more stupid though is she's spelled it in a way that makes no sense. Now this little girl will have to wait until she can change her name by deed poll(or w/e it is in the USA) to fix this mess. Surely she must have known her daughter would be ridiculed hall her life with spelling her name like that.
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_AdjI_
11/29/18 1:26:45 PM
#11:


StoneRevolver posted...
Unique is fine. Utterly off the wall is kinda odd and screams for attention.


Pretty much. Having grown up with the most popular name for boys in my area for my birth year (in my parents' defense, they tried to pick something unique, and it just ended up being unusually popular that year because apparently everyone else had the same idea), and having to deal with many other people in my cohort with the same name, it gets a little old. At the same time, though, avoiding that would not be worth having to explain how to spell my name every single time I provide it because it's some bizarre alternate spelling that replaces every vowel with a Y.
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Rimmer_Dall
11/29/18 2:05:53 PM
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28 Som frnamn fr endast frvrvas ett namn som inte
1. kan vcka anstt,
2. kan antas leda till obehag fr den som ska bra namnet, eller
3. av ngon annan anledning r olmpligt som frnamn.

28 As a first name, a name may only be vested if it does not
1. have the potential to cause offense
2. can be presumed to lead to discomfort to the one who is to bear the name, or
3. for some other reason is improper as a first name.

Swedish law sometimes gets it right.
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Zanimar
11/29/18 2:27:34 PM
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Gotta say, I feel bad for that little girl to have a parent name her something so absurd. The only issue I ever have with my name is spelling since there are two ways to spell my name and everyone wants to spell it the way it isn't spelled and never even ask or consider that it may be spelled the other way.
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Dynalo
11/29/18 2:33:56 PM
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The employee posting the name to social media is completely ridiculous and they should be appropriately reprimanded for it, but man, that kid is gonna have a rough life with a name like that.

First day of school each year is gonna be a nightmare.
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LinkPizza
11/29/18 2:52:02 PM
#15:


Zanimar posted...
Gotta say, I feel bad for that little girl to have a parent name her something so absurd. The only issue I ever have with my name is spelling since there are two ways to spell my name and everyone wants to spell it the way it isn't spelled and never even ask or consider that it may be spelled the other way.

Thats like my best friend. Her name is normal, but they spelled it with a second i instead of an e...
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MICHALECOLE
11/29/18 2:55:09 PM
#16:


I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein
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LinkPizza
11/29/18 2:55:51 PM
#17:


MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...
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MICHALECOLE
11/29/18 2:57:47 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

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Dikitain
11/29/18 3:06:06 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

Bubbles Chewbacca Simba

"Idonhaveone"
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MICHALECOLE
11/29/18 3:19:43 PM
#20:


Dikitain posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

Bubbles Chewbacca Simba

"Idonhaveone"

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GanglyKhan
11/29/18 3:30:09 PM
#21:


MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

I like this attitude
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aDirtyShisno
11/29/18 3:45:03 PM
#22:


MICHALECOLE posted...
Dikitain posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

Bubbles Chewbacca Simba

"Idonhaveone"

GordonRamsey

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JxhTnWrKYs" data-time="

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MICHALECOLE
11/29/18 3:47:27 PM
#23:


aDirtyShisno posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
Dikitain posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

Bubbles Chewbacca Simba

"Idonhaveone"

GordonRamsey

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JxhTnWrKYs" data-time="

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Zanimar
11/29/18 4:07:22 PM
#24:


LinkPizza posted...
Zanimar posted...
Gotta say, I feel bad for that little girl to have a parent name her something so absurd. The only issue I ever have with my name is spelling since there are two ways to spell my name and everyone wants to spell it the way it isn't spelled and never even ask or consider that it may be spelled the other way.

Thats like my best friend. Her name is normal, but they spelled it with a second i instead of an e...


Yeah, mine has an a, but everyone replaces the a with an i.
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DiScOrD tHe LuNaTiC
11/29/18 5:10:39 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
Dikitain posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
LinkPizza posted...
MICHALECOLE posted...
I would choose a regular first name

But you can bet your ass Id choose a funny middle name like danger or Frankenstein

There may be more kids with the middle name Danger than you think...

As there should be. Middle names should be exclusively funny names.

Bubbles Chewbacca Simba

"Idonhaveone"

GordonRamsey

I remember reading an anecdote once about a college student who went to pick up a pass or something that one of his professors had arranged for him, and it had his name as "John Dasindog Smith", because the professor had told the person on the phone "D as in dog" and they apparently thought he was spelling a name.
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ParanoidObsessive
11/29/18 5:19:24 PM
#26:


All I got out of this story is this:

GanglyKhan posted...
"Hey if I can hear you, my daughter can hear you, so I'd appreciate if you'd just stop"

...the immediate, knee-jerk reply to this should have been:

"Maybe you should have thought of that when you were naming her?"

Don't get me wrong, the gate agent is wrong to be making fun of anyone's name because it's kind of tactless in general, but that mother is a complete asshole. Her daughter's going to be hearing this kind of mocking and abuse for the rest of her natural life (unless she eventually has her name legally changed), and that's entirely on her.


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Lil_Bit83
11/29/18 5:20:14 PM
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Only if I was a stupid bitch who wanted to ensure my child would suffer all her life.
You can give your child an unusual name without ensuring their torment.

I hope that kid gets a name change and disowns her folks.
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Lil_Bit83
11/29/18 5:21:17 PM
#28:


GanglyKhan posted...
Naming your child "ab-city" is a smart move, makes sure that they stay fit and healthy. Can't be called "ab-city" and be fat.

In all seriousness though, I just feel bad for the daughter. The parent(s) made a poor decision there. Unique names are whatever, but trying to be "cute" with it just backfired for them hard.


Its not even cute. Its made out of fail, and laziness and pure maliciousness on the parents part.
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GanglyKhan
11/29/18 5:55:21 PM
#29:


Hopefully her middle name is ironically plain like "Marie" so she can just go by that.
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Lil_Bit83
11/29/18 6:38:59 PM
#30:


GanglyKhan posted...
Hopefully her middle name is ironically plain like "Marie" so she can just go by that.


Hopefully
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SilentSeph
11/29/18 6:43:34 PM
#31:


GanglyKhan posted...
Hopefully her middle name is ironically plain like "Marie" so she can just go by that.

It's probably Fghij
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MICHALECOLE
11/29/18 6:44:07 PM
#32:


SilentSeph posted...
GanglyKhan posted...
Hopefully her middle name is ironically plain like "Marie" so she can just go by that.

It's probably Fghij

Yes
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GanglyKhan
11/29/18 6:52:09 PM
#33:


SilentSeph posted...
GanglyKhan posted...
Hopefully her middle name is ironically plain like "Marie" so she can just go by that.

It's probably Fghij

I'm deadddd
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Zareth
11/30/18 4:10:47 PM
#34:


Naming your child something like that is essentially child abuse and should be illegal. Kind of like how naming your kid Hitler is illegal.
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