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blu 05/01/18 8:29:47 AM #1: |
by her mom so much. She sent me this.
Tomorrow will probably be our last full day together till the wedding. Mom is giving me a ton of shit :/ And *** is acting all sad. Evidently I told her I was hers after we got back from Utah like a few weeks ago. I have no memory of this but she and mom insist I said it. And I'm thinking if I did it was just in reference to not being gone all weekend The wedding is in two months. Its her sisters wedding. All thats left is random things like new shoes for her sister for every different shower that happens. But, I know her feelings towards me, and I know she wants to see me. She just is controlled by her mom and has s difficult time saying no to people. She plans on moving in with me right after the wedding. Am I justified in being annoyed with her? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 05/01/18 8:51:24 AM #2: |
I dunno
Talk to her. Tell her why this bothers you. --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Far-Queue 05/01/18 9:48:11 AM #3: |
Have sex with her mom. That'll solve all of your troubles.
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Baardmeester 05/01/18 9:58:37 AM #4: |
Far-Queue posted...
Have sex with her mom. That'll solve all of your troubles. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 05/01/18 10:14:53 AM #5: |
Red flag is y'all haven't even tried living together and are getting married
But also yeah red flag. Two months is a long fucking time. I know some couples spend a little time apart before weddings, but that's like, what, a week? Two weeks, tops? --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (1-3): https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 05/01/18 10:18:31 AM #6: |
Muffins, it's not their wedding.
If she is willing to ignore your red flags, you should ignore hers. --- "when in the f*** did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f***ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 05/01/18 10:22:40 AM #7: |
She lied to you. She's actually been staying at my place
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BADoglick 05/01/18 10:24:53 AM #8: |
Sounds like she is using her mom as an excuse
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Viking_Mudcrap 05/01/18 10:32:12 AM #9: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Bro, that's so mean lol. --- stuff ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 05/01/18 10:33:41 AM #10: |
Viking_Mudcrap posted...
SunWuKung420 posted... That only applies to real people and things that actually happened. --- "when in the f*** did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f***ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RFC22 05/01/18 10:39:54 AM #11: |
Maybe she hasn't seen her mom in a while? Or there's some situation she might not be telling you?
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Bizonchik 05/01/18 10:56:59 AM #12: |
Communication is key. The biggest red flag is the unwillingness to communicate.
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GanglyKhan 05/01/18 11:00:18 AM #13: |
Muffinz0rz posted...
Red flag is y'all haven't even tried living together and are getting married Cohabitation actually has a higher rate of divorce. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Archgoat 05/01/18 11:13:43 AM #14: |
GanglyKhan posted...
Muffinz0rz posted...Red flag is y'all haven't even tried living together and are getting married I have a hard time believing that. I guess maybe that could be that people who live together before marriage are not as religious so are more willing to divorce. As for the TC, that is kind of strange to me. I could see her saying she won't be able to see you much if she was busy, but not at all is a big red flag to me. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smarkil 05/01/18 11:17:03 AM #15: |
Come on bro, you can't go back to using the controlling mom angle again. That's just lazy writing.
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Muffinz0rz 05/01/18 11:25:39 AM #16: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Muffins, it's not their wedding. Whoops, shows what I get for skimming the required reading. Still got me my degree though! --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (1-3): https://i.imgur.com/7cjNtgQ.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ogurisama 05/01/18 11:28:26 AM #17: |
Smarkil posted...
Come on bro, you can't go back to using the controlling mom angle again. That's just lazy writing. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 05/01/18 2:04:14 PM #18: |
Muffinz0rz posted...
Red flag is y'all haven't even tried living together and are getting married I do recommend living together before getting married for sure. I believe it's her sister's wedding, not theirs. Also, I think they will see each other. They just won't have a full day together... Bizonchik posted... Communication is key. The biggest red flag is the unwillingness to communicate. This is true... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 05/01/18 2:10:29 PM #19: |
Viking_Mudcrap posted...
SunWuKung420 posted... He is a pretty mean person when it comes down to it. --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 05/01/18 2:36:43 PM #20: |
Mead posted...
Viking_Mudcrap posted...SunWuKung420 posted... We are talking about blu, not some real person. Come on meadette. You know better. --- "when in the f*** did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f***ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mead 05/01/18 2:38:52 PM #21: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Mead posted...Viking_Mudcrap posted...SunWuKung420 posted... Youve been going out of your way to kick people when theyre down lately. What kind of person does that? --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 05/01/18 3:14:05 PM #22: |
Mead posted...
Youve been going out of your way to kick people when theyre down lately. Huh? --- "when in the f*** did i ever make claims to be anything other than a troll? seriously. name me one f***ing time." - schmen,trollpolice,noopnoop 3/5/18 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 05/01/18 3:21:49 PM #23: |
Nice guy sunny strikes again
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adjl 05/04/18 6:39:44 AM #24: |
Archgoat posted...
GanglyKhan posted...Muffinz0rz posted...Red flag is y'all haven't even tried living together and are getting married It it counterintuitive, but as far as I know, it is what the stats say. I haven't looked at the stats in detail, though, so I wouldn't be at all surprised if the actual stat is that they get divorced sooner, which makes sense if we assume that every relationship that ends in divorce was only ever going to last that long (a bit of a deterministic view, but I think it's somewhat appropriate here). It may also be that living together means there's less practical incentive to encourage marriage (since you already get to enjoy spending all that (sexy)time together). That means a greater percentage of cohabiting couples that get married do so more because they think it will save a stagnating relationship than because they really want to. That's not likely to end well. It's also only relatively recently that cohabiting before marriage has come into vogue, so the average stats there are going to have a hard time competing with all the happy 60+ year marriages from an era before it became standard practice. Even more so where, before it became more acceptable (and even now), cohabiting couples would frequently face outside pressure to get married, whether it's what they wanted or not. There are a lot of possible explanations, really. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 05/04/18 11:07:15 AM #25: |
I feel like I wouldn't be comfortable marrying someone without living with them, tbh. But I also probably won't get married. Our relationship is good the way it is, so...
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bulbinking 05/04/18 12:28:44 PM #26: |
blu posted...
by her mom so much. She sent me this. This is scary. Make sure she isnt clinging to you because she is unable to pursue her own life. She might be more abused/controlled than she realizes as well. --- Qc_Stryder 5/21/2015 6:58:09 AM posted... Mods- Protectors of feelings https://gamefaqscensorship.blogspot.com ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 05/04/18 12:33:34 PM #27: |
Far-Queue posted...
Have sex with her mom. That'll solve all of your troubles. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ClarkDuke 05/04/18 2:55:23 PM #28: |
Lazy writing, ok?
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SunWuKung420 05/04/18 2:57:59 PM #29: |
LinkPizza posted...
I feel like I wouldn't be comfortable marrying someone without living with them, tbh. But I also probably won't get married. Our relationship is good the way it is, so... I didn't move into my wife's house until we were married. --- As a being that longs for an infinitely sustainable existence, a real world of moderation coexisting with a virtual world of ultimate excess, seems ideal.DAMIEN ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ferko420 05/04/18 3:06:11 PM #30: |
I saw utah, thought massive mormon family, too bad for the rest of your life.
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blu 05/08/18 7:47:12 PM #31: |
Smarkil posted...
Come on bro, you can't go back to using the controlling mom angle again. That's just lazy writing. I tend to date girls with overly controlling parents. idk why ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Entity13 05/08/18 7:52:21 PM #32: |
Do you, yourself, wish to be controlled in all the right way, perhaps?
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Bacon_Pancakes 05/08/18 8:26:14 PM #33: |
Are you dating my sister? She's 26, controlled by my mom, my oldest sister is getting married soon, and she's planning on moving in with her bf after the wedding.
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Cacciato 05/08/18 8:53:22 PM #34: |
Bacon_Pancakes posted...
Are you dating my sister? She's 26, controlled by my mom, my oldest sister is getting married soon, and she's planning on moving in with her bf after the wedding. He does, and she does. --- "I properly understand when a woman wants my dick and I can do whatever I want to them, and then do it." OmegaTomHank ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Revelation34 05/12/18 2:51:47 PM #35: |
Bacon_Pancakes posted...
Are you dating my sister? She's 26, controlled by my mom, my oldest sister is getting married soon, and she's planning on moving in with her bf after the wedding. Who doesn't move in after getting married? --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheCyborgNinja 05/12/18 3:07:32 PM #36: |
Mead posted...
I dunno Yeah, it's only going to get worse if you let it fester until you blow up at her or her mom. Chances are she won't take it well at first, but give it time to sink in and she will hopefully acknowledge that you're right. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LinkPizza 05/12/18 4:21:50 PM #37: |
Revelation34 posted...
Bacon_Pancakes posted...Are you dating my sister? She's 26, controlled by my mom, my oldest sister is getting married soon, and she's planning on moving in with her bf after the wedding. There are probably some people who don't... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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