Poll of the Day > my boyfriend said we were gonna get married when he's done going back to school

(+) Yeah! (+)

oh snaaaaaap
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But I thought he was big on wanting kids and you didn't?

Get that figured out before a marriage <_<
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How misogynistic, he's not even giving you the option to say yes or no. He's just asserting his dominance as the alpha male by saying it's going to happen and there's nothing you can do about it.

I'd run if I were you. That's a red flag.
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I thought you didn't want to get married? Or am I thinking of the wrong poster?
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this topic is going well
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Is he even currently enrolled in school?
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Drop them rings faster than Sonic
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Muffinz0rz posted...

How misogynistic, he's not even giving you the option to say yes or no. He's just asserting his dominance as the alpha male by saying it's going to happen and there's nothing you can do about it.

I'd run if I were you. That's a red flag.

TC knew long ago about his Napoleon complex. I'm sure she just secretly loves being dominated, as seen when she lied about being drunk when she performed that unspeakable act...
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Muffinz0rz posted...

, he's not even giving you the option to say yes or no. He's just asserting his dominance as the alpha male

sounds hot

i like it

slacker03150 posted...

I thought you didn't want to get married? Or am I thinking of the wrong poster?

that is not me

SunWuKung420 posted...

Is he even currently enrolled in school?

he's going to be going back in the fall and will be enrolling shortly

AbsoluteDenial posted...

as seen when she lied about being drunk when she performed that unspeakable act...

what? i was def drunk every time i've done that shit.

ReggieTheReckless posted...

But I thought he was big on wanting kids and you didn't?

Get that figured out before a marriage <_<

yeah this is true. i'm just reaaaally on the fence.
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AbsoluteDenial posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

How misogynistic, he's not even giving you the option to say yes or no. He's just asserting his dominance as the alpha male by saying it's going to happen and there's nothing you can do about it.

I'd run if I were you. That's a red flag.

TC knew long ago about his Napoleon complex. I'm sure she just secretly loves being dominated, as seen when she lied about being drunk when she performed that unspeakable act...

You two are fuckin weird

Jen0125 posted...

sounds hot

i like it

Jen0125 posted...

yeah this is true. i'm just reaaaally on the fence.

Uh

So wait

You're "on the fence" about kids, and yet you're okay with him saying we're getting married and not letting you have any say in the matter?

Do you see the impasse here?

If you let him marry you, and you ultimately decide you don't want kids, then either A.) it ends in a bitter divorce, or B.) He lives with a deep resentment of you and how you crushed his dreams of having a child/children.
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Plot twist: You're never getting married because he's going to be a perpetual student.

Muffinz0rz posted...

You're "on the fence" about kids, and yet you're okay with him saying we're getting married and not letting you have any say in the matter?

i'm not taking anything you say seriously.

i've already said on here my boyfriend and i have talked about marriage more than once

this is him just confirming a timeline >=]
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Jen0125 posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

You're "on the fence" about kids, and yet you're okay with him saying we're getting married and not letting you have any say in the matter?

i'm not taking anything you say seriously.

i've already said on here my boyfriend and i have talked about marriage more than once

this is him just confirming a timeline >=]

But you just said you'd let him marry you without giving you an option to decline or back out.

So unless you decide you're 100% pro-kids, then you're not doing anyone any favors.
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HillChange posted...

Plot twist: You're never getting married because he's going to be a perpetual student.

lol van wilder

Muffinz0rz posted...

But you just said you'd let him marry you without giving you an option to decline or back out.

because i'm a totally unwilling participant
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Jen0125 posted...

because i'm a totally unwilling participant

So you're not willing to get married?
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of course totally
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jen, do NOT get married before meeting me irl
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but i would never marry you
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Muffinz0rz posted...

So unless you decide you're 100% pro-kids, then you're not doing anyone any favors.

she can still not want kids and still get married

it's

it's not a super hard thing to understand, weirdo

thecolorgreen posted...

jen, do NOT get married before meeting me irl

You are legitimately creepy af. Like I legitimately believe this isn't a joke and you're trying to tie down a woman you've never even met. She can fuck who she wants.

Speaking of which, Jen if you marry another man can you send me the sheets from your wedding night?
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Muffinz0rz posted...

Jen0125 posted...

because i'm a totally unwilling participant

So you're not willing to get married?

Jen0125 posted...

of course totally

Muffinz0rz posted...

How misogynistic, he's not even giving you the option to say yes or no. He's just asserting his dominance as the alpha male by saying it's going to happen and there's nothing you can do about it.

I'd run if I were you. That's a red flag.

Jen0125 posted...

sounds hot

i like it

From the mouth of babe
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helly posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

So unless you decide you're 100% pro-kids, then you're not doing anyone any favors.

she can still not want kids and still get married

it's

it's not a super hard thing to understand, weirdo

No I know that, but her bf does want kids. So if she is 100% against kids and still marries him, then he's going to be filled with resentment as his dream won't be coming true, and she'll be filled with guilt for preventing his dream from coming true.
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He can have kids with a mistress.
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Blighboy posted...

Speaking of which, Jen if you marry another man can you send me the sheets from your wedding night?

yes just PM me ur address

Muffinz0rz posted...

helly posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

So unless you decide you're 100% pro-kids, then you're not doing anyone any favors.

she can still not want kids and still get married

it's

it's not a super hard thing to understand, weirdo

No I know that, but her bf does want kids. So if she is 100% against kids and still marries him, then he's going to be filled with resentment as his dream won't be coming true, and she'll be filled with guilt for preventing his dream from coming true.

i feel like you only read selectively

which is why i am not responding to you in a serious fashion
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Jen0125 posted...

but i would never marry you

dont you wanna be my trophy wife? you can just sit at home all day and i'll bring home the bread
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no i'd rather have my boyfriend become my trophy husband
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Jen0125 posted...

i feel like you only read selectively

which is why i am not responding to you in a serious fashion

How did I read selectively? I didn't crop a single thing.

If anything, you're the one who cropped my original response.
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Jen0125 posted...

yes just PM me ur address

I'll rent out the place across from the Church you get married at. Want a good view.
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Muffinz0rz posted...

helly posted...

Muffinz0rz posted...

So unless you decide you're 100% pro-kids, then you're not doing anyone any favors.

she can still not want kids and still get married

it's

it's not a super hard thing to understand, weirdo

No I know that, but her bf does want kids. So if she is 100% against kids and still marries him, then he's going to be filled with resentment as his dream won't be coming true, and she'll be filled with guilt for preventing his dream from coming true.

he

he already knows her stance on kids

and he still wants to get married

Blighboy posted...

I'll rent out the place across from the Church you get married at. Want a good view.

church? lmao

helly posted...

he

he already knows her stance on kids

and he still wants to get married

shh helly just let him make baseless assumptions
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Poor guy. Next to the lonely mod Lan, this is probably the most depressing thing on PotD.

Jen0125 posted...

church? lmao

Oh jeez, the implied deviance. I just crossed myself from the vibes.
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but

Congratulations
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I swear Muffinz huffs gasoline
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SmokeMassTree posted...

Congratulations

thanks breh just give me 2-3 years and i'll lock that sucker down
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I'm sure you will
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Muffinz0rz posted...

Jen0125 posted...

i feel like you only read selectively

which is why i am not responding to you in a serious fashion

How did I read selectively? I didn't crop a single thing.

If anything, you're the one who cropped my original response.

Why ya creepin on Jen0125 fam? All ya do is try framin her. Ya aren't even good at it.
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I have a word I wanna use in relation Muffin but I'll just get warned again.

I won't say it, but I'll use two different words instead: holy shit
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Erik_P posted...

I have a word I wanna use in relation Muffin but I'll just get warned again.

I won't say it, but I'll use two different words instead: holy shit

Use it please

Cacciato posted...

Erik_P posted...

I have a word I wanna use in relation Muffin but I'll just get warned again.

I won't say it, but I'll use two different words instead: holy shit

Use it please

Lmao
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Men who get married in this day and age are idiots, especially in this economy. It's very high risk with very little reward.
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Chr0noid posted...

Men who get married in this day and age are idiots, especially in this economy. It's very high risk with very little reward.

This is a beautiful assumption that the male is the sole breadwinner in the household. If I weren't on a smartphone right now I'd worry I was transported back to the 1950s
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Jen0125 posted...

Chr0noid posted...

Men who get married in this day and age are idiots, especially in this economy. It's very high risk with very little reward.

This is a beautiful assumption that the male is the sole breadwinner in the household. If I weren't on a smartphone right now I'd worry I was transported back to the 1950s

I don't know..... Chris Humphries is looking like quite the tall dumbass right about now.
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Marriages have like, what, a 70% chance of ending in divorce? Meanwhile, divorce courts obviously favor women. Then the man has to give away half his money and pay child support for the rest of his days.
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again you're making the assumption the man is the main breadwinner

why are you making that assumption

also we can draft a prenup if he's worried about his 0 assets lmao anything he acquires during our marriage would be marital property

if we have kids he can have custody of them if we get divorced.
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Jen0125 posted...

if we have kids he can have custody of them if we get divorced.

You say that now. *rolls eyes*

Raganork10 posted...

Jen0125 posted...

if we have kids he can have custody of them if we get divorced.

You say that now. *rolls eyes*

Sadly it's far more likely for a man to get a woman pregnant and have no responsibility for it, then it is for a woman to get pregnant and "stick it" to the guy for child support etc.

Deadbeat fathers are common.

From the sounds of it, Jen would probably put that her guy has to take the kids in a divorce then anything else lol.
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when he's done going back to school

Meaning he's finished enrolling or actually graduating? Because the latter might have a significant wait attached. On the plus side, nothing like starting a marriage with crippling student debt.
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