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mrtopgoon327 10/13/17 8:48:14 AM #102:	My girl is bad and she likes girls. Gonna try and get us a girlfriend. --- mr top goon in this thang <cite>mrtopgoon327 posted [p:888351840] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>My girl is bad and she likes girls. Gonna try and get us a girlfriend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 10/13/17 9:21:37 AM #103:	Tanoomba posted... OpShaft posted... I think I'm doing this dating thing wrong. I'm trying to just talk to one chick at a time. Then it falls through and I'm back to square one The idea is to juggle as many women as you can at once, and the best candidate will become obvious over time, and a relationship will be born. That's the idea, anyways. I've never been in that kind of position before. Yep, assuming you have the time and financial flexibility, this is the way to do it. My ideal scenario would be three a week, with a day off in between each. When I've done more than that (like 6-7 dates a week, double booking dates some nights) it because impossible to manage and feels like a chore. You can actually get to know the girls better with a little time off between other dates, and you can get more serious with one if you find a strong connection. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:888353066] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tanoomba posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OpShaft posted...</cite> <quote>I think I'm doing this dating thing wrong. I'm trying to just talk to one chick at a time. Then it falls through and I'm back to square one</quote> The idea is to juggle as many women as you can at once, and the best candidate will become obvious over time, and a relationship will be born. That's the idea, anyways. I've never been in that kind of position before.</quote> Yep, assuming you have the time and financial flexibility, this is the way to do it. My ideal scenario would be three a week, with a day off in between each. When I've done more than that (like 6-7 dates a week, double booking dates some nights) it because impossible to manage and feels like a chore. You can actually get to know the girls better with a little time off between other dates, and you can get more serious with one if you find a strong connection.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/13/17 12:10:18 PM #104:	Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888361112] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 10/13/17 12:15:37 PM #105:	TheGoldenEel posted... Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say Why not just invite to a second date --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:888361419] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say</quote> Why not just invite to a second date</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/13/17 12:27:35 PM #106:	emblem boy posted... TheGoldenEel posted... Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say Why not just invite to a second date Yeah I guess. I dont know what to do for a second date. I havent had one in over a year. Was thinking maybe a show next week or something? Idk --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888362089] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say</quote> Why not just invite to a second date</quote> Yeah I guess. I dont know what to do for a second date. I havent had one in over a year. Was thinking maybe a show next week or something? Idk</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pau_Gasol_Trade 10/13/17 12:32:04 PM #107:	Does anyone here use coffee meets bagel? I only get 1 new match a day, is that normal? <cite>Pau_Gasol_Trade posted [p:888362318] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Does anyone here use coffee meets bagel? I only get 1 new match a day, is that normal?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tanoomba 10/13/17 12:33:18 PM #108:	TheGoldenEel posted... emblem boy posted... TheGoldenEel posted... Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say Why not just invite to a second date Yeah I guess. I dont know what to do for a second date. I havent had one in over a year. Was thinking maybe a show next week or something? Idk The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something. --- http://www.spriters-resource.com/resources/sheet_icons/7/7508.png <cite>Tanoomba posted [p:888362381] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>Im so bad at texting after a date I told the girl from the other day I had a great time, she said she had fun too... and then I havent said anything back because I dont know what to say</quote> Why not just invite to a second date</quote> Yeah I guess. I dont know what to do for a second date. I havent had one in over a year. Was thinking maybe a show next week or something? Idk</quote> The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/13/17 12:38:08 PM #109:	Opie-san posted... Sure? So you dont need pics. Redhead, passion pit fan... maybe you remember? --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888362653] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>Opie-san posted...</cite> <quote>Sure?</quote> So you dont need pics. Redhead, passion pit fan... maybe you remember?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DeroIin 10/13/17 3:37:53 PM #110:	DoctorPiranha3 posted... DeroIin posted... Holy shit...I have a date tomorrow wIth an even hotter chick. Twice in one week...what the hell, I would have never dreamed of this. I feel like Admiral right now Good on you for getting that far. But careful, Girls are known to flake out on the day of. Until she's right in front of you, anything can happen with how she feels. She unmatched me...lol. ok --- 1 up <cite>DeroIin posted [p:888372835] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DeroIin posted...</cite> <quote>Holy shit...I have a date tomorrow wIth an even hotter chick. Twice in one week...what the hell, I would have never dreamed of this. I feel like Admiral right now</quote> Good on you for getting that far. But careful, Girls are known to flake out on the day of. Until she's right in front of you, anything can happen with how she feels.</quote> She unmatched me...lol. ok</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
billcom6 10/13/17 6:18:17 PM #111:	Having deleted the apps I really don't miss them as much as I expected. Though I do miss those times when I actually got a date and had something to look forward to and get excited about. --- Because most days are bad days... --- Steam and XBOX Live: billcom6 My Teams: The Ohio State Buckeyes, New York Yankees, Buffalo Bills, The CBJ, Cavs <cite>billcom6 posted [p:888381426] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Having deleted the apps I really don't miss them as much as I expected. Though I do miss those times when I actually got a date and had something to look forward to and get excited about.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/13/17 7:13:04 PM #112:	Tanoomba posted... The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something. well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888384230] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tanoomba posted...</cite> <quote> The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something.</quote> well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
billcom6 10/13/17 7:22:12 PM #113:	Okay, so I am sitting here right now and my feelings are super hurt. If anyone remembers there was a girl I hung out with for a few months last year, then we just stopped for no apparent reason. She would always make up excuses of why she was busy, but would still say she misses me. Now I know she is dealing with a lot this year (her sister died, she is bi-polar and has been starting and stopping meds) so I gave her space but didn't talk to her for awhile. I only started talking to her again a month or so ago we were gonna hang out, but she canceled basically last minute, but we talked about stuff we could do this week. There is a class movie showing tonight near her we both agreed we wanted to see. So I text her the last two days and no response. But just now I log onto facebook and she posted a ticket stub of her at that showing. Like at this point it feels like she is intentionally trying to hurt my feelings or legit just doesn't give a fuck about me at all, even as a friend. I am seriously about to just cut off all contact, which I probably should have already done. But caring about how she is doing (her mental health) and the fact that the time I spent with her is the last time I actually felt happy, is making me delay doing that. Like right now I am probably the most depressed and lonely I have ever been, but I held out a tiny hope that we could reconnect again, if I throw that tiny bit of hope away I really have nothing. Everything sucks. --- Because most days are bad days... --- Steam and XBOX Live: billcom6 My Teams: The Ohio State Buckeyes, New York Yankees, Buffalo Bills, The CBJ, Cavs <cite>billcom6 posted [p:888384706] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Okay, so I am sitting here right now and my feelings are super hurt. If anyone remembers there was a girl I hung out with for a few months last year, then we just stopped for no apparent reason. She would always make up excuses of why she was busy, but would still say she misses me. Now I know she is dealing with a lot this year (her sister died, she is bi-polar and has been starting and stopping meds) so I gave her space but didn't talk to her for awhile. I only started talking to her again a month or so ago we were gonna hang out, but she canceled basically last minute, but we talked about stuff we could do this week. There is a class movie showing tonight near her we both agreed we wanted to see. So I text her the last two days and no response. But just now I log onto facebook and she posted a ticket stub of her at that showing. Like at this point it feels like she is intentionally trying to hurt my feelings or legit just doesn't give a fuck about me at all, even as a friend. I am seriously about to just cut off all contact, which I probably should have already done. But caring about how she is doing (her mental health) and the fact that the time I spent with her is the last time I actually felt happy, is making me delay doing that. Like right now I am probably the most depressed and lonely I have ever been, but I held out a tiny hope that we could reconnect again, if I throw that tiny bit of hope away I really have nothing. Everything sucks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mrtopgoon327 10/13/17 10:40:25 PM #114:	billcom6 posted... Okay, so I am sitting here right now and my feelings are super hurt. If anyone remembers there was a girl I hung out with for a few months last year, then we just stopped for no apparent reason. She would always make up excuses of why she was busy, but would still say she misses me. Now I know she is dealing with a lot this year (her sister died, she is bi-polar and has been starting and stopping meds) so I gave her space but didn't talk to her for awhile. I only started talking to her again a month or so ago we were gonna hang out, but she canceled basically last minute, but we talked about stuff we could do this week. There is a class movie showing tonight near her we both agreed we wanted to see. So I text her the last two days and no response. But just now I log onto facebook and she posted a ticket stub of her at that showing. Like at this point it feels like she is intentionally trying to hurt my feelings or legit just doesn't give a fuck about me at all, even as a friend. I am seriously about to just cut off all contact, which I probably should have already done. But caring about how she is doing (her mental health) and the fact that the time I spent with her is the last time I actually felt happy, is making me delay doing that. Like right now I am probably the most depressed and lonely I have ever been, but I held out a tiny hope that we could reconnect again, if I throw that tiny bit of hope away I really have nothing. Everything sucks. Fuck her. Just keep at it. --- mr top goon in this thang <cite>mrtopgoon327 posted [p:888394395] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>billcom6 posted...</cite> <quote>Okay, so I am sitting here right now and my feelings are super hurt. If anyone remembers there was a girl I hung out with for a few months last year, then we just stopped for no apparent reason. She would always make up excuses of why she was busy, but would still say she misses me. Now I know she is dealing with a lot this year (her sister died, she is bi-polar and has been starting and stopping meds) so I gave her space but didn't talk to her for awhile. I only started talking to her again a month or so ago we were gonna hang out, but she canceled basically last minute, but we talked about stuff we could do this week. There is a class movie showing tonight near her we both agreed we wanted to see. So I text her the last two days and no response. But just now I log onto facebook and she posted a ticket stub of her at that showing. Like at this point it feels like she is intentionally trying to hurt my feelings or legit just doesn't give a fuck about me at all, even as a friend. I am seriously about to just cut off all contact, which I probably should have already done. But caring about how she is doing (her mental health) and the fact that the time I spent with her is the last time I actually felt happy, is making me delay doing that. Like right now I am probably the most depressed and lonely I have ever been, but I held out a tiny hope that we could reconnect again, if I throw that tiny bit of hope away I really have nothing. Everything sucks.</quote> Fuck her. Just keep at it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchangelBaruch 10/14/17 2:34:24 AM #115:	Just cut contact after telling her. Dating is supposed to be for your own good, so when it starts hurting it's time to quit. --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 <cite>ArchangelBaruch posted [p:888403540] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Just cut contact after telling her. Dating is supposed to be for your own good, so when it starts hurting it's time to quit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C_Pain 10/15/17 1:56:53 AM #116:	got an okc date on tuesday --- How quaint. <cite>C_Pain posted [p:888458561] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>got an okc date on tuesday</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchangelBaruch 10/15/17 3:01:00 PM #117:	Yay, got my first Once match one week after. Gilrs there are hotter than average but pickier too it would seem. --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 <cite>ArchangelBaruch posted [p:888483897] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Yay, got my first Once match one week after. Gilrs there are hotter than average but pickier too it would seem.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/15/17 6:53:26 PM #118:	Lol, spending $15 on Tinder Gold is a sweet deal. All I have to do is wait for girls to swipe me, and I get matches. Shit's easy. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:888497379] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Lol, spending $15 on Tinder Gold is a sweet deal. All I have to do is wait for girls to swipe me, and I get matches. Shit's easy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/15/17 7:33:02 PM #119:	Ugh, the woman who tried to push me into having a baby with her started texting me again. I'm not attracted to her, or really like her personality much, but she's ok as a sort of friend to talk to occasionally. Last I heard from her she was hooking up with her ex, now she says she's not that's going anywhere because now he's going through a divorce(makes me wonder if she's the cause of it). Still, this is the only woman irl to ever pay any attention to me. I'm half tempted to try and swing this to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid that'd be a mistake considering some of her past behavior, and I might regret losing it to her in the long run. I'm not sure it'd be worth it, but it really feels like she might just be the only chance I'll ever have. --- What did the pirate say on his 80th birthday? Aye Matey! <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:888499627] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Ugh, the woman who tried to push me into having a baby with her started texting me again. I'm not attracted to her, or really like her personality much, but she's ok as a sort of friend to talk to occasionally. Last I heard from her she was hooking up with her ex, now she says she's not that's going anywhere because now he's going through a divorce(makes me wonder if she's the cause of it). Still, this is the only woman irl to ever pay any attention to me. I'm half tempted to try and swing this to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid that'd be a mistake considering some of her past behavior, and I might regret losing it to her in the long run. I'm not sure it'd be worth it, but it really feels like she might just be the only chance I'll ever have.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gna647 10/15/17 9:40:18 PM #120:	My girl said she'd be down for a MMF threesome but not a FFM threesome because she's get jealous Ummm Gonna have to be some compromises if she wants a FMM >___> Because I'd be down for a FMM but I have to know the guy --- http://i.imgur.com/iMaDK.jpg http://i.imgur.com/e9OCH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/RnA9A.gif http://i.imgur.com/LvJeR.png <cite>gna647 posted [p:888506424] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>My girl said she'd be down for a MMF threesome but not a FFM threesome because she's get jealous Ummm Gonna have to be some compromises if she wants a FMM >___> Because I'd be down for a FMM but I have to know the guy</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C_Pain 10/15/17 9:59:34 PM #121:	KogaSteelfang posted... Ugh, the woman who tried to push me into having a baby with her started texting me again. I'm not attracted to her, or really like her personality much, but she's ok as a sort of friend to talk to occasionally. Last I heard from her she was hooking up with her ex, now she says she's not that's going anywhere because now he's going through a divorce(makes me wonder if she's the cause of it). Still, this is the only woman irl to ever pay any attention to me. I'm half tempted to try and swing this to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid that'd be a mistake considering some of her past behavior, and I might regret losing it to her in the long run. I'm not sure it'd be worth it, but it really feels like she might just be the only chance I'll ever have. This really doesn't sound like a good idea. I honestly think you should cut her out of her life. --- How quaint. <cite>C_Pain posted [p:888507452] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>Ugh, the woman who tried to push me into having a baby with her started texting me again. I'm not attracted to her, or really like her personality much, but she's ok as a sort of friend to talk to occasionally. Last I heard from her she was hooking up with her ex, now she says she's not that's going anywhere because now he's going through a divorce(makes me wonder if she's the cause of it). Still, this is the only woman irl to ever pay any attention to me. I'm half tempted to try and swing this to lose my virginity, but I'm afraid that'd be a mistake considering some of her past behavior, and I might regret losing it to her in the long run. I'm not sure it'd be worth it, but it really feels like she might just be the only chance I'll ever have.</quote> This really doesn't sound like a good idea. I honestly think you should cut her out of her life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/15/17 10:16:17 PM #122:	Well, I brought up still being single, and she brushed that comment aside and changed the subject. I'm not really surprised. So yeah, I guess back to business as usual. --- What did the pirate say on his 80th birthday? Aye Matey! <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:888508329] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Well, I brought up still being single, and she brushed that comment aside and changed the subject. I'm not really surprised. So yeah, I guess back to business as usual.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mrtopgoon327 10/16/17 6:05:18 AM #124:	gna647 posted... My girl said she'd be down for a MMF threesome but not a FFM threesome because she's get jealous Ummm Gonna have to be some compromises if she wants a FMM >___> Because I'd be down for a FMM but I have to know the guy Eh --- mr top goon in this thang <cite>mrtopgoon327 posted [p:888524473] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>gna647 posted...</cite> <quote>My girl said she'd be down for a MMF threesome but not a FFM threesome because she's get jealous Ummm Gonna have to be some compromises if she wants a FMM >___> Because I'd be down for a FMM but I have to know the guy</quote> Eh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/16/17 5:38:31 PM #125:	TheGoldenEel posted... Tanoomba posted... The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something. well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy. --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888556225] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tanoomba posted...</cite> <quote> The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something.</quote> well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet</quote> Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchangelBaruch 10/16/17 6:10:20 PM #126:	I've decided to play the "I'm a Spanish guy living in France" card. Right now I'm talking with a Spanish girl doing her PhD here, and a Spanish teacher. Also the Once girl. --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 <cite>ArchangelBaruch posted [p:888557869] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>I've decided to play the "I'm a Spanish guy living in France" card. Right now I'm talking with a Spanish girl doing her PhD here, and a Spanish teacher. Also the Once girl.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/16/17 6:17:26 PM #127:	Aaaaand tinder girl texted me She did text me to say that she couldnt do anything tonight (we had tentatively talked about Monday) so its entirely possible shes just stringing me along too, but she did offer alternative days that would work for her. Was hoping shed just ghost like they usually do --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888558274] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Aaaaand tinder girl texted me She did text me to say that she couldnt do anything tonight (we had tentatively talked about Monday) so its entirely possible shes just stringing me along too, but she did offer alternative days that would work for her. Was hoping shed just ghost like they usually do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
masticatingman 10/16/17 6:29:53 PM #128:	Been on a lot of dates off apps over the last 2 months or so and been a real mixed bag. Only girl I really liked ended up sending me some really awkward texts about how she was just starting to date again and wasn't looking for anything serious yet...kinda stung but we had already had sex. Easily the nicest girl to me was a bigger chick - I did like her face a lot but I couldn't have sex with her again - I just know I can do (and always have done) better physically...sucks because she was dope but it's not my fault she got huge - it was to the point of just being hard to deal with mentally. Don't get me wrong, I can deal with a few extra pounds, like, curvaceous. Other girl I had sex with on the second date and we haven't seen each other again, but we still text - who knows, might be a possible friends with benefits thing going forward. She was cool. And there was one girl I had a good date with but she ended up ghosting me after the first date - she gave some bitch vibes though honestly, so I didn't even get hurt over that. Also I probably have built up some bad karma, I bailed on 2 dates with totally viable girls for no reason. That's a really bad habit. Edit: Make that 3. Yeah, that's not good. --- Matter is error. Whoa. <cite>masticatingman posted [p:888558956] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Been on a lot of dates off apps over the last 2 months or so and been a real mixed bag. Only girl I really liked ended up sending me some really awkward texts about how she was just starting to date again and wasn't looking for anything serious yet...kinda stung but we had already had sex. Easily the nicest girl to me was a bigger chick - I did like her face a lot but I couldn't have sex with her again - I just know I can do (and always have done) better physically...sucks because she was dope but it's not my fault she got huge - it was to the point of just being hard to deal with mentally. Don't get me wrong, I can deal with a few extra pounds, like, curvaceous. Other girl I had sex with on the second date and we haven't seen each other again, but we still text - who knows, might be a possible friends with benefits thing going forward. She was cool. And there was one girl I had a good date with but she ended up ghosting me after the first date - she gave some bitch vibes though honestly, so I didn't even get hurt over that. Also I probably have built up some bad karma, I bailed on 2 dates with totally viable girls for no reason. That's a really bad habit. Edit: Make that 3. Yeah, that's not good.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/17/17 1:23:18 PM #129:	TheGoldenEel posted... TheGoldenEel posted... Tanoomba posted... The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something. well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy. Update: never mind --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888604138] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tanoomba posted...</cite> <quote> The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something.</quote> well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet</quote> Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy.</quote> Update: never mind</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 10/17/17 1:38:21 PM #130:	TheGoldenEel posted... TheGoldenEel posted... TheGoldenEel posted... Tanoomba posted... The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something. well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy. Update: never mind So you texted her then? Or not "a thing" with your FWB? --- "Employee demonstrates an acceptable level of competence." #2 Tom Brady Fan, Local Disc Golf Champion <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:888605040] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tanoomba posted...</cite> <quote> The idea is to get the girl near you so you can seduce her further. I mean c'mon, go have a fucking picnic. I wish I was in a position to even get a first date. Please don't squander a second opportunity by thinking you need to take her to Narnia or something.</quote> well i just asked her if she'd want to go out some time next week and she said yeah so no squandering yet</quote> Update on this: Im not going to text this girl again. I spent all weekend (like, literally Friday night at 7 until Sunday night at 10) with that, uh, friend of mine that Ive been seeing a lot of, and Saturday after a couple bottles of wine we finally talked about us. We didnt necessarily come to any labels but we definitely decided that we are a Thing, whatever that may be. Feels nice. Shes great. Im happy.</quote> Update: never mind</quote> So you texted her then? Or not "a thing" with your FWB?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 10/17/17 1:38:54 PM #131:	What happened? --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:888605078] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>What happened?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/17/17 2:02:58 PM #132:	emblem boy posted... What happened? I dont know. She changed her mind I guess --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888606504] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote>What happened?</quote> I dont know. She changed her mind I guess</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 10/17/17 2:16:04 PM #133:	TheGoldenEel posted... emblem boy posted... What happened? I dont know. She changed her mind I guess Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS. --- "Employee demonstrates an acceptable level of competence." #2 Tom Brady Fan, Local Disc Golf Champion <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:888607328] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>emblem boy posted...</cite> <quote>What happened?</quote> I dont know. She changed her mind I guess</quote> Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Popo 10/18/17 3:09:02 AM #134:	Met this girl today, we actually matched in Jan but we had each other on social media for a while. She would hit me up here and there. She ended up being cuter than her pics...but she also ended up being boring af -_- <cite>Blue_Popo posted [p:888648960] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Met this girl today, we actually matched in Jan but we had each other on social media for a while. She would hit me up here and there. She ended up being cuter than her pics...but she also ended up being boring af -_-</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorPiranha3 10/18/17 2:01:32 PM #135:	Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:888672155] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rballastaker123 10/18/17 2:03:07 PM #136:	DoctorPiranha3 posted... Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. How long did it take you to finally smash? --- I'm from Nawlins, LA. Home of the Gotti boys wodie. WHO DAT? WE DAT lil juvie. <cite>rballastaker123 posted [p:888672249] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote>Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. </quote> How long did it take you to finally smash?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorPiranha3 10/18/17 2:21:17 PM #137:	rballastaker123 posted... DoctorPiranha3 posted... Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. How long did it take you to finally smash? This girl, or since having Tinder? <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:888673402] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>rballastaker123 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote>Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. </quote> How long did it take you to finally smash?</quote> This girl, or since having Tinder?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
C_Pain 10/18/17 2:22:01 PM #138:	date went ok... not sure what now --- How quaint. <cite>C_Pain posted [p:888673458] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>date went ok... not sure what now</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/18/17 3:45:35 PM #139:	Silver Bearings posted... Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS. it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that plus i had just texted that girl from tinder that i didn't think i should see her again because of someone else >_< --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888678828] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote> Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS.</quote> it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that plus i had just texted that girl from tinder that i didn't think i should see her again because of someone else >_<</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rballastaker123 10/18/17 5:19:22 PM #140:	DoctorPiranha3 posted... rballastaker123 posted... DoctorPiranha3 posted... Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. How long did it take you to finally smash? This girl, or since having Tinder? The girl --- I'm from Nawlins, LA. Home of the Gotti boys wodie. WHO DAT? WE DAT lil juvie. <cite>rballastaker123 posted [p:888684273] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>rballastaker123 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote>Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. </quote> How long did it take you to finally smash?</quote> This girl, or since having Tinder?</quote> The girl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorPiranha3 10/18/17 5:31:24 PM #141:	rballastaker123 posted... DoctorPiranha3 posted... rballastaker123 posted... DoctorPiranha3 posted... Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. How long did it take you to finally smash? This girl, or since having Tinder? The girl The night we met. We matched on Sunday, met for drinks on Monday, I went back to her place that same night. <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:888684957] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>rballastaker123 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>rballastaker123 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted...</cite> <quote>Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight. </quote> How long did it take you to finally smash?</quote> This girl, or since having Tinder?</quote> The girl</quote> The night we met. We matched on Sunday, met for drinks on Monday, I went back to her place that same night.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArtVandelay 10/18/17 5:35:14 PM #142:	TheGoldenEel posted... Silver Bearings posted... Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS. it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that plus i had just texted that girl from tinder that i didn't think i should see her again because of someone else >_< that sucks man, I've done that to girls before though. you end up sleeping on it, then being all "I've made a huge mistake". not saying it's a cool thing to do, but it happens. total shame about that other girl tho. --- Vandelay Industries Importing & Exporting <cite>ArtVandelay posted [p:888685202] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Silver Bearings posted...</cite> <quote> Typical woman. I spilled my heart out to a woman a week ago and she has been texting daily, "I'm still trying to put together the right words and tell you how I feel." Total BS.</quote> it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that plus i had just texted that girl from tinder that i didn't think i should see her again because of someone else >_<</quote> that sucks man, I've done that to girls before though. you end up sleeping on it, then being all "I've made a huge mistake". not saying it's a cool thing to do, but it happens. total shame about that other girl tho.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 10/18/17 6:03:27 PM #143:	This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again... --- What did the pirate say on his 80th birthday? Aye Matey! <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:888686799] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
billcom6 10/18/17 6:04:51 PM #144:	I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I suppose this isn't directly "dating" related, but my lack of connections with human beings is the main reason I feel down so I guess it is. --- Because most days are bad days... --- Steam and XBOX Live: billcom6 My Teams: The Ohio State Buckeyes, New York Yankees, Buffalo Bills, The CBJ, Cavs <cite>billcom6 posted [p:888686885] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I suppose this isn't directly "dating" related, but my lack of connections with human beings is the main reason I feel down so I guess it is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchangelBaruch 10/18/17 6:14:49 PM #145:	Speaking with 4 girls at the same time, back into shape. Plus all of them I started the convo, so even better. billcom6 posted... I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I suppose this isn't directly "dating" related, but my lack of connections with human beings is the main reason I feel down so I guess it is. Good choice. The only reason I opened an OKC profile is because a therapist nudged me into it. --- Vocaloid topic: http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/2000121-/74835387 <cite>ArchangelBaruch posted [p:888687404] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Speaking with 4 girls at the same time, back into shape. Plus all of them I started the convo, so even better. <cite>billcom6 posted...</cite> <quote>I made an appointment to see a therapist next week. I suppose this isn't directly "dating" related, but my lack of connections with human beings is the main reason I feel down so I guess it is.</quote> Good choice. The only reason I opened an OKC profile is because a therapist nudged me into it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OpShaft 10/18/17 6:55:42 PM #146:	@KogaSteelfang posted... This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again... Just don't worry about it. Sometimes it takes awhile. --- Posted with GameRaven 3.3 <cite>OpShaft posted [p:888689719] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>@KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again...</quote> Just don't worry about it. Sometimes it takes awhile.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorPiranha3 10/18/17 7:04:30 PM #147:	KogaSteelfang posted... This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again... I was on a major dry spell and getting quite discouraged. Things flipped in a matter of a day. At least have the presence of mind to realize that prospects can come about out of nowhere, seemingly. Don't give up, friend. <cite>DoctorPiranha3 posted [p:888690171] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>This is stressing me out, so I guess I'm out again. Good luck guys, I'll likely pop back in after 2-3 more topics to complain then give up again...</quote> I was on a major dry spell and getting quite discouraged. Things flipped in a matter of a day. At least have the presence of mind to realize that prospects can come about out of nowhere, seemingly. Don't give up, friend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
robellr13 10/19/17 3:27:05 PM #148:	I feel shitty now. Ive matched with a lot of people and dont do anything. I just swipe just to swipe and see who can I pull. Thats it. Word of advice. Say something to her that she never heard before. --- http://i.imgur.com/eQj8v9j.jpg http://i.imgur.com/PDLpYTW.jpg? <cite>robellr13 posted [p:888741893] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>I feel shitty now. Ive matched with a lot of people and dont do anything. I just swipe just to swipe and see who can I pull. Thats it. Word of advice. Say something to her that she never heard before.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/19/17 3:46:35 PM #149:	TheGoldenEel posted... it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that So I ended up texting her yesterday just to have her come over and talk because Im going on vacation and didnt want to have this on my mind while Im in Las Vegas She ended up sleeping over and we fucked this morning. And now I wont see her for a week, so that was maybe a better way to leave things Meh, idk --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888743150] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that</quote> So I ended up texting her yesterday just to have her come over and talk because Im going on vacation and didnt want to have this on my mind while Im in Las Vegas She ended up sleeping over and we fucked this morning. And now I wont see her for a week, so that was maybe a better way to leave things Meh, idk </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 10/19/17 3:49:04 PM #150:	TheGoldenEel posted... TheGoldenEel posted... it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that So I ended up texting her yesterday just to have her come over and talk because Im going on vacation and didnt want to have this on my mind while Im in Las Vegas She ended up sleeping over and we fucked this morning. And now I wont see her for a week, so that was maybe a better way to leave things Meh, idk Good lord, this is a miserable case of the feels. Been there, am there. --- "Employee demonstrates an acceptable level of competence." #2 Tom Brady Fan, Local Disc Golf Champion <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:888743308] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that</quote> So I ended up texting her yesterday just to have her come over and talk because Im going on vacation and didnt want to have this on my mind while Im in Las Vegas She ended up sleeping over and we fucked this morning. And now I wont see her for a week, so that was maybe a better way to leave things Meh, idk </quote> Good lord, this is a miserable case of the feels. Been there, am there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 10/19/17 3:59:13 PM #151:	Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it? --- The words of The Golden Eel have been revealed... Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:888743997] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote>Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Silver Bearings 10/19/17 4:01:41 PM #152:	TheGoldenEel posted... Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it? IF that was your goal, then yeah...but it doesn't sound like it is any longer. --- "Employee demonstrates an acceptable level of competence." #2 Tom Brady Fan, Local Disc Golf Champion <cite>Silver Bearings posted [p:888744133] in okcupid/Ti... [t:75854485]...</cite> <quote><cite>TheGoldenEel posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it?</quote> IF that was your goal, then yeah...but it doesn't sound like it is any longer.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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