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gna647 posted...

I cant stand the girls that are like
Dogs are my children and I put them before any human beings.

Fuckin grow up

Im glad my gf isnt a self-centered pet worshipping self-loathing tinder ho

I mean they dont actually mean that literally

But pets are family and IMO its weirder when people DONT get that

Like for example if me and my friend were to get serious and think about living together, I would need to do something about my cat allergy, because I would never expect her to give up her pets for me
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emblem boy posted...

When people pull out, do you just finish on the bed or whatever?

On her stomach or on her panties. I like doing it with her panties on. I have a panty fetish.

On panties can be dangerous, though.
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TheGoldenEel posted...

gna647 posted...

I cant stand the girls that are like
Dogs are my children and I put them before any human beings.

Fuckin grow up

Im glad my gf isnt a self-centered pet worshipping self-loathing tinder ho

I mean they dont actually mean that literally

But pets are family and IMO its weirder when people DONT get that

Like for example if me and my friend were to get serious and think about living together, I would need to do something about my cat allergy, because I would never expect her to give up her pets for me

If anyone's watched the Sopranos, there's that big thing about Tony Soprano being obviously a sociopath because of his love for animals over humans. As in, he'll get more emotional over his race horse's death compared to the death of a great friend or loved one.
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JustMyOpinion posted...

Is it dat time for Halloween Girl 2k7: Electric Bugaloo yet?!

yikes

i haven't talked to her since july. So i'm doing pretty good so far tbh
and i think im falling in love with my gf, cant tell for sure, but i catch myself staring at her all the time.
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Let's leave gna647 and Halloween Girl alone.

If anybody is gonna be hung up on a girl he had a minor relationship with last year in this topic, it's gonna be me, thank you very much.
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i wonder how many guys halloween girl smashed between the 2 halloweens

Blue_Popo posted...

i wonder how many guys halloween girl smashed between the 2 halloweens

none of my business tbh. But shes seeing someone right now so its at least greater or equal to 1

i mean i fucked 4 girls since then. So its not like im missing out. She doesn't even have that great of a body.
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Huh, just got 3 matches in a row in Tinder.

I imagine girls who like you are put near the top of the deck, so after 24h of inactivity it's better to lower your standards for the first few girls and like most of them.
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Well, I deleted my apps

I havent been using them and since she did it like a week ago I figured it was time for me to

Its nice seeing someone who was already one of my best friends for a while. We already know most of the personal history and the stuff youd wait a while to talk about. Plus we know we get along great and shes met my family (who were very pro-us dating). Its easy. Like how things should be

Still kind of half-expecting her to change her mind again but it feels good now
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Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now, she's very introverted. She doesn't even want to leave her place which is fine by me, no dates just go in there and chill. Deleted all apps.

Curiosity; has anyone used anything besides bumble/tinder/okcupid/pof to any success? I haven't even had success from pof in years

Blue_Popo posted...

Been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks now, she's very introverted. She doesn't even want to leave her place which is fine by me, no dates just go in there and chill. Deleted all apps.

Curiosity; has anyone used anything besides bumble/tinder/okcupid/pof to any success? I haven't even had success from pof in years

I got a couple dates from coffee meets bagel a few years ago. Dunno if its still a thing people use though
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Shes moving in with me on monday

already putting her things at my place. She's only living here for two months tho (she's getting an apartment with a friend). So its kinda like...seeing what its like living with her before she actually does someday.

this is....nice.
Home cooked meals
sex all the time
someone to cuddle with every night

i feel like im married lol
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Blue_Popo posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

I hate modern culture surrounding cats

Not that I dont like cats, because I do. The problem is Im allergic and pretty much every girl Ive ever been into was a cat lady. This girl has two and when I sleep over Im miserable the next day

I take drugs for it when I go over and Im really trying to get used to it but its a problem

Speaking of pets, what's with girls making out with their animals?

That's an extreme putoff for me. Imagine a girl making out with her pet dog, which minutes ago was just sniffing it's own ass. Nope nope nope.
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I went to the girl I went on a date with place and we cuddled for a while watching stranger things. I then awkwardly asked if I could kiss her goodnight instead of just doing it. >_> She said yes though.
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gna647 posted...

Shes moving in with me on monday

already putting her things at my place. She's only living here for two months tho (she's getting an apartment with a friend). So its kinda like...seeing what its like living with her before she actually does someday.

this is....nice.
Home cooked meals
sex all the time
someone to cuddle with every night

i feel like im married lol

Uh oh. After a month and a half, itll be hell.
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vbty3 posted...

gna647 posted...

Shes moving in with me on monday

already putting her things at my place. She's only living here for two months tho (she's getting an apartment with a friend). So its kinda like...seeing what its like living with her before she actually does someday.

this is....nice.
Home cooked meals
sex all the time
someone to cuddle with every night

i feel like im married lol

Uh oh. After a month and a half, itll be hell.

Weve been staying over each others places for a while now. Feel like itll be more or less the same
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C_Pain posted...

I went to the girl I went on a date with place and we cuddled for a while watching stranger things. I then awkwardly asked if I could kiss her goodnight instead of just doing it. >_> She said yes though.

Dont worry about it

Lots of girls think its cute when you ask
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gna647 posted...

Weve been staying over each others places for a while now. Feel like itll be more or less the same

Oh you sweet summer child
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So the girl I've been seeing for a week told me yesterday I like too many booty pics on insta -_-

Lol. What a jelly belly
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I was starting a tinder convo and discovered you can fling hearts and other stuff at your partner. Which I repeatedly did.

...I'm way too immature for dating.

EDIT: also unrelated, in OKC I've got the first girl who is disgusted at me working in the oil industry and causing climate change. I'd have thought this would have happened earlier.
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Was my bday yesterday and my gf is moved in

Was playing PS4 and she walks in the living room with sexy lingerie

Bday sex

I gotta be the luckiest guy in this topic. She cleaned the whole apartment and now shes making me breakfast lmao. Holy shit how did I end up with this girl.

Halloween girl wouldnt do any of this
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Just a matter of time before you fuck it all up. You always do.
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gna647 posted...

She's only living here for two months tho (she's getting an apartment with a friend).

Wee ooo wee ooo. RED ALERT!

I've heard this before. They never leave until you kick them out once it all goes south.
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ArchangelBaruch posted...

I was starting a tinder convo and discovered you can fling hearts and other stuff at your partner. Which I repeatedly did.

...I'm way too immature for dating.

EDIT: also unrelated, in OKC I've got the first girl who is disgusted at me working in the oil industry and causing climate change. I'd have thought this would have happened earlier.

Is the oil industry even big in France?
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emblem boy posted...

Is the oil industry even big in France?

We have Total, the fifth biggest private oil company in the world.

We have Technip, one of the biggest oil engineering companies.

And we have the IFP (French Oil Institute), whose technology is used in over half refineries in the world.
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Silver Bearings posted...

gna647 posted...

She's only living here for two months tho (she's getting an apartment with a friend).

Wee ooo wee ooo. RED ALERT!

I've heard this before. They never leave until you kick them out once it all goes south.

i mean
conflicts are inevitable. If you're looking to settle down with someone might as well get used to them living with you. Yeah the sense of personal privacy is gone now but ehh. The only thing i do in private is deed to porn

but shes great at sex so not like im losing anything
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So a girl I've known for 2 weeks told me she is uncomfortable with a couple of girls I follow, so I unfollowed them

Luckily for me they were random tinder girls with whom the conversation died a long time ago

Still getting very troubling signs

Blue_Popo posted...

So a girl I've known for 2 weeks told me she is uncomfortable with a couple of girls I follow, so I unfollowed them

Luckily for me they were random tinder girls with whom the conversation died a long time ago

Still getting very troubling signs

She looked through who you follow and she also looks at your insta activity?
And she wants you to unfollow people?

If you end up dating this girl shell probably tell you to stop talking to any friends with a vagina.

Red flag for me

My girl literally told me to follow Mia khalifa cause its her favorite porn star
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gna647 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

So a girl I've known for 2 weeks told me she is uncomfortable with a couple of girls I follow, so I unfollowed them

Luckily for me they were random tinder girls with whom the conversation died a long time ago

Still getting very troubling signs

She looked through who you follow and she also looks at your insta activity?
And she wants you to unfollow people?

If you end up dating this girl shell probably tell you to stop talking to any friends with a vagina.

Red flag for me

My girl literally told me to follow Mia khalifa cause its her favorite porn star

Trust me the red flag has been noted, so far all the people that have bothered her are just randoms but if it escalates to people I know I'm going to call her out

That said all these red flags have put her in a position where I don't think she'll pass fuck buddy status

Blue_Popo posted...

gna647 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

So a girl I've known for 2 weeks told me she is uncomfortable with a couple of girls I follow, so I unfollowed them

Luckily for me they were random tinder girls with whom the conversation died a long time ago

Still getting very troubling signs

She looked through who you follow and she also looks at your insta activity?
And she wants you to unfollow people?

If you end up dating this girl shell probably tell you to stop talking to any friends with a vagina.

Red flag for me

My girl literally told me to follow Mia khalifa cause its her favorite porn star

Trust me the red flag has been noted, so far all the people that have bothered her are just randoms but if it escalates to people I know I'm going to call her out

That said all these red flags have put her in a position where I don't think she'll pass fuck buddy status

You gotta nip shit in the bud man. Once you let her do it and you say something about it later it's not gonna work the same. Trust me
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I was gonna take an extended break from dating (I deleted apps like 6 weeks ago). And as corny and cliche as it sounds I was gonna wait until the new year to start again, but I have been feeling better the last few weeks, I feel like I might reinstall apps before then. I mean I have 2 weeks off for winter break so I'll have time on my hands.
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Got my second firstdate ever. A month after the other girl broke out with me.

It was...meh. She's way cuter and sexier, but the connection wasn't there. It didn't help that I almost didn't speak with her through text, so we discovered eachother in person, the old fashioned way.

I start to think I spent all the dating luck I had stored these past 28 years with the first girl, and that I will never ever have a meaningful relationship in my life again.
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blue_popo isn't insecure

he's just going for the hookup or fuck buddy but this girl is showing signs of a possessive relationship

he doesn't want to abandon ship yet and he's "cooperating" with her demands because he still hasnt smashed.

i'm guilty of doing the same thing too in the past. I'll tolerate something I don't like from someone i'm seeing if I'm just aiming to hookup.
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JustMyOpinion posted...

I was talking about the girl being insecure. And putting up with BS to smash is a terrible strategy and scummy too unless they knew beforehand you're a hit it and quit it guy.

nothing scummy about it

no one owes anyone anything in this world

he doesn't owe her a relationship just because he took her out to dinner and fucked.
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JustMyOpinion posted...

gna647 posted...

JustMyOpinion posted...

I was talking about the girl being insecure. And putting up with BS to smash is a terrible strategy and scummy too unless they knew beforehand you're a hit it and quit it guy.

nothing scummy about it

no one owes anyone anything in this world

he doesn't owe her a relationship just because he took her out to dinner and fucked.

Everyone's owed a little bit of common decency. If they're just looking for a hookup it's all good, but if you're using them for sex and that's not what they want then that's a douche move.

well if thats not what they want they can say no and talk to someone else

you kinda have no ground to stand on here.

the latina girl i hooked up with did the same thing.
She stopped texting me after that night, even after she kissed me goodbye. I was gonna take her on another date. But she became unresponsive. So I finally hit her up and asked whatsup and she said she was just looking for a hookup. So thats that

was I mad about it? Nah. Did I know her intentions? No. I mean people do what they want to do.
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JustMyOpinion posted...

The hell are you even talking about? No ground to stand on for what? You don't agree with the idea of common decency?

what exactly is common decency?

telling someone on the first date exactly what you're looking for? That's not how socializing works exactly, bro.

i mean yeah sure if they ask, and you lie...thats probably not right. But if they don't ask you don't have to say anything about it.

the problem with people is that they expect everyone to have the same morals and ethics and to have some weird fucking golden rule about how people should be treated. But thats not how the world works. Maybe you should wake the fuck up.
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JustMyOpinion posted...

Stop being dense. The way the world works and the way the world should work are two different things. Justifying shitty behavior because "well it's just the way things are" is a stupid and no justification at all.

you're one of those that probably would wish for world peace
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Guys we have already smashed. I'm just seeing where things go. Her demands thus far did show her insecurity but they weren't anything that really bothered me. If something pops up that does bother me I will bring it up and we will see from there what happens

JustMyOpinion posted...

Stop being dense. The way the world works and the way the world should work are two different things. Justifying shitty behavior because "well it's just the way things are" is a stupid and no justification at all.

Two people having different expectations out of one another in a "thing" or relationship have existed since the beginning of time... but those kind of relationships usually never work out in the long run for obvious reasons.

I do think it's bit of a stretch to label it as scummy behavior on the guy's part tho, especially in this case. It's not like Blue_Popo is openly lying to her face about his intentions, and they only been hooking up for barely a month & haven't established context of the relationship.
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No point in arguing about me anymore

I semi-jokingly called out her insecurities and she said things wouldn't work out between us. Don't care in the least aha

you ever seen the movie, Don Jon?

she's like that crazy chick played by ScarJo

well, except crazier cuz the issue is IG photos instead of porn addiction xD
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we had a third date and i sealed the deal :oooooooo
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