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Silver Bearings posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it?

IF that was your goal, then yeah...but it doesn't sound like it is any longer.

Im trying to convince myself that having a best friend who I have sex with is actually pretty cool? I mean it could certainly be worse
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight.

So I met her last night... good god this woman knows how to please a man sexually. Just a week ago, I was in my longest dry spell, and depressed about it. Now I'm gonna see this girl again on Saturday.

Life can change on a dime!

TheGoldenEel posted...

Silver Bearings posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

Yeah I really dont know what to make of it all but at least Im getting sex out of it?

IF that was your goal, then yeah...but it doesn't sound like it is any longer.

Im trying to convince myself that having a best friend who I have sex with is actually pretty cool? I mean it could certainly be worse

But once you have the feels, it's hard going back. But I wish you luck as, yes, that would be cool.
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Met this girl today. Her english wasn't the best and I noticed when we were walking that she would ignore everything I said. Later she told me she has hearing problems, wears a hearing aid and reads lips.

Also she was gorgeous and we had a nice makeout session.happy with this aha

I went ahead and disabled my okcupid account. Was just gonna delete it, but figured I probably wouldn't go through with making a new account if I changed my mind. Not like I was actually using it or anything.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Finally getting laid off Tinder feels like a gorilla off my back. The girl is cute and amazing in bed, too. Gonna see her again tonight.

So I met her last night... good god this woman knows how to please a man sexually. Just a week ago, I was in my longest dry spell, and depressed about it. Now I'm gonna see this girl again on Saturday.

Life can change on a dime!

I'm glad for you, and the other successful people here. I just can't handle reading about that. So, yeah, sorry to have been such a bother while I posted here, I won't be bringing you guys down any more. Good luck everyone.
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This girl i matched with on tinder about a year ago when I was in California was found dead

Heat exhaustion while hiking. They got lost

My topic with pics of proof
https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75900509
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gna647 posted...

This girl i matched with on tinder about a year ago when I was in California was found dead

Heat exhaustion while hiking. They got lost

My topic with pics of proof
https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75900509

Damn.
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For years, whenever I looked at a person's images on OkCupid, the last one was always blank. It's not doing that anymore. Did anyone else ever have that problem?
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Hmm went on a date today first time and we made out at the end. Met one on thursday and the same thing happened.

Definitely deleting all apps for a bit

https://imgur.com/gallery/FlMwu

I feel like shit now.
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TheGoldenEel posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

it's like... we could have just left it at what it was last week and everything would be okay. she decided to break my heart in the worst way possible by saying yes i want this to be something and then two days later saying actually nah

i don't know how to go back to being just normal friends from that

So I ended up texting her yesterday just to have her come over and talk because Im going on vacation and didnt want to have this on my mind while Im in Las Vegas

She ended up sleeping over and we fucked this morning. And now I wont see her for a week, so that was maybe a better way to leave things

Meh, idk

Sucks, man. I'd steer clear simply because she doesn't sound like a mature person. Though that's easier said than done.

In a similar vein, I'm still friends with my last ex. Sort of. She hits me up here and there, thinks I'm attractive, loves my company, and we'll get together and leave me feeling like I still have zero idea why she left other than being immature herself. She dumped me right after making me a part of her family. That was fucked up.

I'm also not dating right now. Went on two dates with a girl but neither of us was particularly interested. I just need to focus on my life for now and working towards building a career.
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She likes it when I throat fuck her

Like she told me to be rough with her

Weve had the best sex this weekend. Honesty its amazing
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So... I was perusing girl profiles in Once (you rate their photos to let know the matchmakers which kind of girls you like, you have to pay to message them) when I saw the profile of one of the best known French pornstars.

lolwut
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I'm an idiot. Had a great girl. Made a big mistake and lost her.
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I'm gonna try to hold off reinstalling any apps until after the New Year. I realize that seems sort of lame and cliche but new year, new start. And hopefully by then I can wrap up loose ends I am currently dealing with and be in a better headspace.
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

I'm an idiot. Had a great girl. Made a big mistake and lost her.

Was that the one texting you saying she was gonna suck your salami later?
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Tanoomba posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

I'm an idiot. Had a great girl. Made a big mistake and lost her.

Was that the one texting you saying she was gonna suck your salami later?

Yes. I am a pretty decent guy honestly. I got morals and what not, but I did something terrible, I am ashamed tbh. She is actually a really nice girl. I like her a lot. I know she's disappointed in me and still feeling the initial anger. She did break up with me but it hasn't exactly hit me yet because part of me feels like she isn't going anywhere. The sad part for me is it's not just circumstances that came up. It is circumstances I myself put myself into when everything has been great.
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I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

Tanoomba posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

I'm an idiot. Had a great girl. Made a big mistake and lost her.

Was that the one texting you saying she was gonna suck your salami later?

Yes. I am a pretty decent guy honestly. I got morals and what not that I generally follow, but I did something terrible. I am ashamed tbh. She is actually a really nice girl. I like her a lot. I know she's disappointed in me and still feeling the initial anger. She did break up with me but it hasn't exactly hit me yet because part of me feels like she isn't going anywhere. The sad part for me is it's not just circumstances that came up. It is circumstances I myself put myself into when everything has been great. I am going to give her a week or two without troubling her to process things and cool down and come to me or reach out to her if she doesn't.

Were you cheating or what, dude? Hard to see how things could turn south so quickly.
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Tanoomba posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

Tanoomba posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

I'm an idiot. Had a great girl. Made a big mistake and lost her.

Was that the one texting you saying she was gonna suck your salami later?

Yes. I am a pretty decent guy honestly. I got morals and what not that I generally follow, but I did something terrible. I am ashamed tbh. She is actually a really nice girl. I like her a lot. I know she's disappointed in me and still feeling the initial anger. She did break up with me but it hasn't exactly hit me yet because part of me feels like she isn't going anywhere. The sad part for me is it's not just circumstances that came up. It is circumstances I myself put myself into when everything has been great. I am going to give her a week or two without troubling her to process things and cool down and come to me or reach out to her if she doesn't.

Were you cheating or what, dude? Hard to see how things could turn south so quickly.

No, I'd never cheat. What I did is arguably worse than cheating depending on perspective because cheating can happen in the moment. Basically I shared something extremely private she trusted me with with my best friend. I'm not the type to run my mouth and I'm a very private person myself. Me and this friend are extremely close and I trust her with anything and it happened to come up while talking. I'm not really a sneaky guy, I don't think anything of it if my girl has my phone in her hands. But I forgot I said what I said to my friend. She was texting a friend of hers on my phone and looked into my chat with my best friend and saw that I told her and broke up with me and won't talk to me at all right now.
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this topics makes me boil with jealousy
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Shit might not sound too major but if you knew the specifics what I did was fucked up mang. I went over with chocolate and flowers and some wine yesterday. Her homies were all applauding and fake crying but she wasn't having it yo, they don't know what happened though. I wrote me a long ass letter. Ima come through with it this weekend with flowers again. Ima do the next 2 weekends with flowers again after. If shit don't work ima drop it.
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DonaldClinton posted...

I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?

The part about poonani was a joke, but the rest of this post is serious. Help me, please
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JustMyOpinion posted...

gna647 posted...

She likes it when I throat fuck her

Like she told me to be rough with her

Weve had the best sex this weekend. Honesty its amazing

We need more frequent updates of your sex life.

Noted
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My tinder game is great.

Is what I'd like to say.
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gna647 posted...

JustMyOpinion posted...

gna647 posted...

She likes it when I throat fuck her

Like she told me to be rough with her

Weve had the best sex this weekend. Honesty its amazing

We need more frequent updates of your sex life.

Noted

What condoms do you use
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DonaldClinton posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?

The part about poonani was a joke, but the rest of this post is serious. Help me, please

Post your profile
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I texted her I eat ass and she didn't block me. :D
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emblem boy posted...

gna647 posted...

JustMyOpinion posted...

gna647 posted...

She likes it when I throat fuck her

Like she told me to be rough with her

Weve had the best sex this weekend. Honesty its amazing

We need more frequent updates of your sex life.

Noted

What condoms do you use

I buy the Trojan variety pack
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emblem boy posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?

The part about poonani was a joke, but the rest of this post is serious. Help me, please

Post your profile

It's 2 selfies and my bio says "my bio might suck but my personality doesn't". I literally just got my first match btw
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In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

EnragedSlith posted...

Sucks, man. I'd steer clear simply because she doesn't sound like a mature person. Though that's easier said than done.

My plan is to keep doing what were doing until she comes around or finds someone else

For what its worth my friends advice has been that they think shell come around.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

Delete it and make a new one?

Blue_Popo posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

Delete it and make a new one?

I thought about that, but I wonder if they have metrics that don't allow this kind of abuse.

Beaides, I see guys with like, 100s of matches, but they've had theirs open for a while. Why can't I build up a list like that?

It would be pretty odd that all 15 of the tinder girls who were interested in me in my city matched in the first week, and now nada.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Blue_Popo posted...

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

In the first week of Tinder, I had 15 matches, and been consistently getting laid from one of those matches.

In the second week of Tinder, I've got ZERO matches. I'm assuming I benefited from some kind of rookie boost the first week? At least I met someone so I'm not too frustrated, but some more matches would be nice.

Delete it and make a new one?

I thought about that, but I wonder if they have metrics that don't allow this kind of abuse.

Beaides, I see guys with like, 100s of matches, but they've had theirs open for a while. Why can't I build up a list like that?

It would be pretty odd that all 15 of the tinder girls who were interested in me in my city matched in the first week, and now nada.

Can't say for tinder but I know bumble I get so many matches first week, then nothing and if I rearrange my pics or add new ones then I get matches again. After conversations get stale I just delete my account and start fresh

Blue_Popo posted...

Can't say for tinder but I know bumble I get so many matches first week, then nothing and if I rearrange my pics or add new ones then I get matches again. After conversations get stale I just delete my account and start fresh

Thanks foe the tip. I'll try the picture thing.

It says I have 10+ matchew that swiped right on me, but I never match with anyone, so I don't know.

Broke up with my boyfriend of one year recently. I followed these topics right when they started and got into a relationship right after. Now Im in the same boat as everyone else. Tinder is savage as hell.
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I've just gotten the third phone number of a girl ever. Weirdly enough all their first names start with a M.
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DonaldClinton posted...

emblem boy posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?

The part about poonani was a joke, but the rest of this post is serious. Help me, please

Post your profile

It's 2 selfies and my bio says "my bio might suck but my personality doesn't". I literally just got my first match btw

Na man. No selfies
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TheGoldenEel posted...

EnragedSlith posted...

Sucks, man. I'd steer clear simply because she doesn't sound like a mature person. Though that's easier said than done.

My plan is to keep doing what were doing until she comes around or finds someone else

For what its worth my friends advice has been that they think shell come around.

It's possible.

But I'll just say from my own experience with my ex is that just because it feels like something is (still) there, doesn't mean she's going to act on it. That's why your situation puts me off. Could be a red flag for long term relationship potential.
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DonaldClinton posted...

emblem boy posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

DonaldClinton posted...

I just downloaded tinder today and I swiped until I ran out of swipes but I haven't gotten any matches yet. What can I do to increase my matches and multiply my opportunities to grab some poonani?

The part about poonani was a joke, but the rest of this post is serious. Help me, please

Post your profile

It's 2 selfies and my bio says "my bio might suck but my personality doesn't". I literally just got my first match btw

selfies are bad

also write a decent bio

i get matches and compliments on my bio, so yes it matters
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ill be honest

i dont think i would have ever dated a taller girl if it werent for tinder

because i feel like the taller girls online dont expect me to be short, but when they see me they don't want to be rude, so they'll stick around for the rest of the date.

only one taller girl actually wanted to go out for a second and third date and we dated for a while (she was that weird weeb type girl that fetishist asian dudes)
she was a good 5'11 and i'm about 5'6

the other taller girl, i could tell she didn't like my height but she found me attractive. So we hooked up on the first date but she didn't contact me much afterwards (we're still friends on facebook and insta though)

But i mean, there's this girl im friends with that's noticeably taller than me and I think she likes me but doesn't want to admit it because of how short I am to her. She always posts short dude memes roasting short guys, but shes always really nice to me, and I caught her staring at me when i was with my girlfriend on campus.

anyways, point is...i feel like if you're short, just don't list your height on your profile. Because personality can compensate for it. I mean girls catfish all the time, so its fair game if you show up and you're not as tall as they expect.
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Nvm got her back mang
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Hell yes
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

Nvm got her back mang

Success!
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mrtopgoon327 posted...

Nvm got her back mang

That's great and all, but she's likely never going to fully trust you again. You've still botched it for the long term.
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EnragedSlith posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

EnragedSlith posted...

Sucks, man. I'd steer clear simply because she doesn't sound like a mature person. Though that's easier said than done.

My plan is to keep doing what were doing until she comes around or finds someone else

For what its worth my friends advice has been that they think shell come around.

It's possible.

But I'll just say from my own experience with my ex is that just because it feels like something is (still) there, doesn't mean she's going to act on it. That's why your situation puts me off. Could be a red flag for long term relationship potential.

Meh, the way see it my options are to keep this thing up where I get to spend a lot of time with a person I like a lot and sometimes sleep with her or stop doing it and go back to what I was doing which was.... basically nothing, maybe a date once every couple months

Ill let her be the one to stop it, and just know that its probably going to happen eventually
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Tanoomba posted...

mrtopgoon327 posted...

Nvm got her back mang

That's great and all, but she's likely never going to fully trust you again. You've still botched it for the long term.

Nah I'm good trust me. I get you but if you heard the full story you'd understand. Shits crazy but I'm not tryna put my business on here.
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