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bsp77 posted...

Yours is definitely better. You just need to figure out how to stay with someone long term. Do you even want to? Are you picking the wrong people? Is it the right people, but need to work on communication? You at least have a starting point to start from.

Not that TC's situation is that bad either depending on the why. It would be nice if he would come back and address the questions about his social life in general.

I do want to get married and have kids. Its really a combination of factors. Its very hard for me to truly fall in love with someone as I tend to lose interest after a few dates and break things off. And the few girls I truly did feel something for ended up dumping me themselves. I have one particular ex from a couple years ago who was way out of my league and I really thought she could be the one. Then after a few months she suddenly lost interest and dumped me. She was legit a 10 in my opinion, so I think dating her f***ed with my brain and raised my standards to a level that might not be a realistic. I know looks arent the most important thing, but physical attraction is certainly important. And its hard for me to feel that now for the type of women who typically show interest in me.

Ive been on dates with probably 100 women over the years and never been in a long-term relationship (just a few that lasted a few months). Not sure whats worse, mine or TCs situation.

Pokmon cards never got banned IIRC, but Yugioh cards did

ssjevot posted...

No, but I literally met a guy who said eating meat was his identity and he hated vegetarians. Which I would assume isn't a real thing off the internet but I met him in real life, so...

Ron Swanson?

Meh, March Madness is on

In 2nd grade I started feeling nauseous at school. The teacher was in the middle of talking to the class about something. I was extremely shy at the time and didnt want to raise my hand to ask to go to the bathroom. I ended up vomiting on my lap with all my classmates next to me.

Dark chocolate is an acquired taste. But once you acquire it, its f***ing delicious

Dakimakura posted...

Probably need to work on your smell game.

Lol nah my hygiene games on point. But it is strange that things were fine on FaceTime but not in person apparently

archizzy posted...

So the texts and the FaceTimes everything was going good but she only dumped you immediately after seeing you in person again? Ouch.

Yep. S***s rough. Seeing her in person for the first time in 2 years brought back a lot of the feelings I previously had for her.

MrDrMan posted...

Set boundaries bro. Never give someone an opportunity to play with your heart twice. Me and my gf broke up and were cool but Ive got other girls Im talking to. I didnt get her shit for Valentines Day either.

Just match the energy. One youll feel better and two women will respect you more for not being a doormat. Easiest way to lose a woman is to be a pushover.

That nice guy bullshit only works in movies.

Yeah, when she reached out I think I knew deep down that the outcome would be the same if I let her back in. But its hard to say no to someone you had such strong feelings for. If she ever reaches out again, I think Ill know better now.

We dated a couple years ago, I was super into her and things seemed to be going well until she suddenly dumped me for vague reasons. I really thought she was the one and had a very hard time getting over it.

She reaches out to me a couple months ago, telling me she wasnt ready for a relationship at the time and now has a better idea of what she wants (me). We text for a couple months, do a few FaceTimes, and seem poised to get back together. We finally meet up yesterday, and then today she ends it again telling me the spark still isnt there.

Sucks because she came back and did this right when I finally was starting to get over her. F*** dating man