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umax555 04/28/24 12:38:29 PM #51: |
Ive been on dates with probably 100 women over the years and never been in a long-term relationship (just a few that lasted a few months). Not sure whats worse, mine or TCs situation. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 04/28/24 12:43:40 PM #52: |
umax555 posted...
Ive been on dates with probably 100 women over the years and never been in a long-term relationship (just a few that lasted a few months). Not sure whats worse, mine or TCs situation.Yours is definitely better. You just need to figure out how to stay with someone long term. Do you even want to? Are you picking the wrong people? Is it the right people, but need to work on communication? You at least have a starting point to start from. Not that TC's situation is that bad either depending on the why. It would be nice if he would come back and address the questions about his social life in general. --- Currently playing: Nothing, I'll start again after my honeymoon ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wanderingshade 04/28/24 1:02:55 PM #53: |
TuxedoCyan posted...
For me, I was able to identify girls that showed interest in me back in my school days, but I was too afraid to ask them out fearing either being rejected or being accepted and then having to be in a relationship. Imagine having women like you hohoho. Okay that's a lie. There was one girl in 7th grade who kept trying to call me nicknames and giggling at me, but I just wasn't attracted to her. I was obsessed with a different girl with an Italian like name who had olive skin, I just couldn't stop thinking about her. I only went on to make a complete asshole of myself when given the opportunity to spend time with that girl. Besides that and a completely questionable time in High School, literally no one. --- "You're made of spare parts, aren't ya, bud?" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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lolife67 04/28/24 1:07:20 PM #54: |
Diceheist posted... I don't get the oddity here.People understand all that just fine. What's odd is it going on for 20+ years. Those are all things that can be changed/learned. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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marvel_fan333 04/28/24 1:13:17 PM #55: |
I've never eaten a date
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Dungeater 04/28/24 1:14:19 PM #56: |
as far as i can tell, its becoming increasingly common
the world is not kind to certain types and its only getting harder. more people than ever are living with their parents in their 30s. prices are going up. people are having less sex and engaging in fewer relationships. its not good, and no one is doing anything about it or at least, not the people with the power to --- My fate was the grandest, most brilliant of them all. He/Him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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umax555 04/28/24 1:50:48 PM #57: |
bsp77 posted... Yours is definitely better. You just need to figure out how to stay with someone long term. Do you even want to? Are you picking the wrong people? Is it the right people, but need to work on communication? You at least have a starting point to start from. I do want to get married and have kids. Its really a combination of factors. Its very hard for me to truly fall in love with someone as I tend to lose interest after a few dates and break things off. And the few girls I truly did feel something for ended up dumping me themselves. I have one particular ex from a couple years ago who was way out of my league and I really thought she could be the one. Then after a few months she suddenly lost interest and dumped me. She was legit a 10 in my opinion, so I think dating her f***ed with my brain and raised my standards to a level that might not be a realistic. I know looks arent the most important thing, but physical attraction is certainly important. And its hard for me to feel that now for the type of women who typically show interest in me. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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splodeymissile 04/28/24 2:03:54 PM #58: |
lolife67 posted...
People understand all that just fine. What's odd is it going on for 20+ years. Those are all things that can be changed/learned.And this is why I usually have precious little sympathy for people in the TC's position. If you're genuinly aromantic or asexual, that's fine. The vast majority of incels and other adjacent types, though, not only have no social aptitude whatsoever, they refuse to learn it, despite it being an often vital skill in areas other than dating. Being introverted, autistic (speaking as a high functioning autistic man myself, by the way) and/or simply disliking certain activities is no more an excuse for being completely incapable in social situations than finding cooking tedious is an excuse for not being able to feed yourself. --- One can not help but imagine Microsoft as being ran by a thousand Homer Simpsons. -Obturator ... Copied to Clipboard!
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