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bsp77 posted...

Yours is definitely better. You just need to figure out how to stay with someone long term. Do you even want to? Are you picking the wrong people? Is it the right people, but need to work on communication? You at least have a starting point to start from.

Not that TC's situation is that bad either depending on the why. It would be nice if he would come back and address the questions about his social life in general.

I do want to get married and have kids. Its really a combination of factors. Its very hard for me to truly fall in love with someone as I tend to lose interest after a few dates and break things off. And the few girls I truly did feel something for ended up dumping me themselves. I have one particular ex from a couple years ago who was way out of my league and I really thought she could be the one. Then after a few months she suddenly lost interest and dumped me. She was legit a 10 in my opinion, so I think dating her f***ed with my brain and raised my standards to a level that might not be a realistic. I know looks arent the most important thing, but physical attraction is certainly important. And its hard for me to feel that now for the type of women who typically show interest in me.