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ZannoL 10/17/23 12:21:26 PM #50:	Tyranthraxus posted... Struggle in the sense of hard work and dedication is fine. Struggle in the sense of other people deliberately making your life miserable is not. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:976706594] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Tyranthraxus posted... </cite><quote>Struggle in the sense of hard work and dedication is fine. Struggle in the sense of other people deliberately making your life miserable is not.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 10/17/23 12:23:24 PM #51:	potdnewb posted... my own happiness that has nothing to do with anyone else What a silly post. "You got up at 5AM and worked 2 shitty jobs with low pay to cover your pre-existing medical condition that your insurance won't cover while you're in agony and it gets worse every day. Then a cop shot your son because he was black? Well it's your fault you're not happy. Just be happy, it's in your control." These are attitudes of spoiled rich sheltered people who think "suffering" is acceptable because it happens to other people. Guys like Arnold would be the first to cry and scream if someone took his riches away because he "deserves" them. But the plebs don't. They need to "Suffer" --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! http://i.imgur.com/yPw05Ob.png <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:976706613] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>potdnewb posted... </cite><quote>my own happiness that has nothing to do with anyone else</quote>What a silly post."You got up at 5AM and worked 2 shitty jobs with low pay to cover your pre-existing medical condition that your insurance won't cover while you're in agony and it gets worse every day.Then a cop shot your son because he was black?Well it's your fault you're not happy. Just be happy, it's in your control."These are attitudes of spoiled rich sheltered people who think "suffering" is acceptable because it happens to other people.Guys like Arnold would be the first to cry and scream if someone took his riches away because he "deserves" them. But the plebs don't. They need to "Suffer" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BB_mofo 10/17/23 12:25:06 PM #52:	Arnold had an abusive father growing up. He credits his father for pushing him into being successful so as to prove his father wrong. His younger brother crumpled under the same abuse and his life is a wreck. Instead of blaming their monster of a father, Arnold blames his brother for being weak. So keep in mind that this is where Arnold is coming from. --- "But who prays for Satan? Who, in eighteen centuries, has had the common humanity to pray for the one sinner that needed it most?" -Mark Twain <cite>BB_mofo posted [p:976706643] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Arnold had an abusive father growing up. He credits his father for pushing him into being successful so as to prove his father wrong. His younger brother crumpled under the same abuse and his life is a wreck. Instead of blaming their monster of a father, Arnold blames his brother for being weak.So keep in mind that this is where Arnold is coming from. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Karovorak 10/17/23 12:25:52 PM #53:	cuttin_in_farm posted... CE being constantly pessimistic and assuming worst case scenario intentions and implications never gets old. I mean, it's not that extrem. Right now only 9 votes (15%) are at "He's wrong". --- Planning is the process of replacing chance with error. <cite>Karovorak posted [p:976706653] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>CE being constantly pessimistic and assuming worst case scenario intentions and implications never gets old.</quote>I mean, it's not that extrem.Right now only 9 votes (15%) are at "He's wrong". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AloneIBreak 10/17/23 12:26:26 PM #54:	But I dont want to be mentally tough, Ahhnuld! --- "I do not imply... that we should always suppress the utterance of intolerant philosophies" - Karl Popper <cite>AloneIBreak posted [p:976706662] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>But I dont want to be mentally tough, Ahhnuld! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gatorsPENSbucs 10/17/23 12:28:28 PM #55:	Karovorak posted... I mean, it's not that extrem. Right now only 9 votes (15%) are at "He's wrong". Which is kinda strange based on the comments here. Thought thered be a whole lot more nos. --- https://imgur.com/ZFt3WwT http://error1355.com/ce/gatorsPENSbucs.html https://i.imgur.com/pqMQZyw.gif <cite>gatorsPENSbucs posted [p:976706700] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Karovorak posted... </cite><quote>I mean, it's not that extrem.Right now only 9 votes (15%) are at "He's wrong".</quote>Which is kinda strange based on the comments here. Thought thered be a whole lot more nos. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
faizan_faizan 10/17/23 12:30:07 PM #56:	We should never sugarcoat the realities of life from our children. You owe it to them to tell them about the inevitable realities of life they may face. It is your responsibility to prepare them mentally, physically and emotionally. --- Allergic to bull****. <cite>faizan_faizan posted [p:976706734] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>We should never sugarcoat the realities of life from our children. You owe it to them to tell them about the inevitable realities of life they may face. It is your responsibility to prepare them mentally, physically and emotionally. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DKBananaSlamma 10/17/23 12:34:24 PM #57:	gatorsPENSbucs posted... Which is kinda strange based on the comments here. Thought thered be a whole lot more nos. Vocal minority is always a prevailing thing --- Neon >_> <cite>DKBananaSlamma posted [p:976706815] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>gatorsPENSbucs posted... </cite><quote>Which is kinda strange based on the comments here. Thought thered be a whole lot more nos.</quote>Vocal minority is always a prevailing thing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prestoff 10/17/23 12:41:11 PM #58:	What he's saying is not wrong, but I think my big issue is that when people think of "coddling" and "toughening up" they think of extremes. Extremes in either case is toxic and bad for growth in general either shielding your kids in everything that can cause some discomfort or beating them up to "toughen them up". There's obviously a middle ground to be had when it comes to self improvement. --- DI MOLTO! <cite>Prestoff posted [p:976706951] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>What he's saying is not wrong, but I think my big issue is that when people think of "coddling" and "toughening up" they think of extremes. Extremes in either case is toxic and bad for growth in general either shielding your kids in everything that can cause some discomfort or beating them up to "toughen them up". There's obviously a middle ground to be had when it comes to self improvement. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/17/23 1:43:13 PM #59:	UnfairRepresent posted... Dude is literally a Republican with a long history of abusing women. You can't play the "You see what he actually meant was" card when he says right wing bullshit for decades. Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro. Assuming the average person knows a celebritys political history is also a thing CE does. Arnold of all people at least has credibility in overcoming hardship. People are becoming more sensitive. Whether thats good or not, I dunno. Sometimes the needle goes too far. Acknowledging mental health and systemic hurdles is amazing and extremely helpful. But I dont think a solution is given at times. The act of knowing the issue is enough for too many people. The type to say I dont have friends because of (insert disorder here). But folks just stop there and kinda sulk. Back in the day, Im sure its frustrating having an issue nobody acknowledges and youre just outcasted or left behind (or worse, harmed). But with progression in understanding, we still have to actually do something. The fear of being uncomfortable with things is definitely a downside of our progressing society. Imo. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:976708038] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>UnfairRepresent posted... </cite><quote>Dude is literally a Republican with a long history of abusing women.You can't play the "You see what he actually meant was" card when he says right wing bullshit for decades.</quote>Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro. Assuming the average person knows a celebritys political history is also a thing CE does. Arnold of all people at least has credibility in overcoming hardship. People are becoming more sensitive. Whether thats good or not, I dunno. Sometimes the needle goes too far. Acknowledging mental health and systemic hurdles is amazing and extremely helpful. But I dont think a solution is given at times. The act of knowing the issue is enough for too many people. The type to say I dont have friends because of (insert disorder here). But folks just stop there and kinda sulk. Back in the day, Im sure its frustrating having an issue nobody acknowledges and youre just outcasted or left behind (or worse, harmed).But with progression in understanding, we still have to actually do something. The fear of being uncomfortable with things is definitely a downside of our progressing society. Imo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 10/17/23 1:44:56 PM #60:	The great men and women of history all had some kind of real struggle or adversity to over come. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:976708070] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>The great men and women of history all had some kind of real struggle or adversity to over come. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Villain_S_Fiend 10/17/23 1:50:21 PM #62:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro. They cited precedent for why they thought what he said should be looked at with skepticism, so no, it's not just the same card in reverse. --- The food here is terrible. My steak was so tough it attacked my coffee and the coffee was too weak to defend itself. <cite>Villain_S_Fiend posted [p:976708184] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro.</quote>They cited precedent for why they thought what he said should be looked at with skepticism, so no, it's not just the same card in reverse. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 10/17/23 1:53:45 PM #64:	cuttin_in_farm posted... Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro. lolwut? "Actually listening to what he said is the same as going "what he actually meant was" and saying something completely different, you're just doing it in reverse" That's seriously your argument right now? Assuming the average person knows a celebritys political history is also a thing CE does. Pretending you didn't know one of the most famous people in the world was the Governor of California is weird. Demanding you're not allowed to listen to what he says and pretend he said something else is fucking weird. All this nonsense solely to justify the rich being on top and corrupt while people suffer since "it's good for them" --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair! http://i.imgur.com/yPw05Ob.png <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:976708238] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>cuttin_in_farm posted... </cite><quote>Youre literally doing the what he actually meant card just in reverse bro.</quote>lolwut? "Actually listening to what he said is the same as going "what he actually meant was" and saying something completely different, you're just doing it in reverse"That's seriously your argument right now?<quote>Assuming the average person knows a celebritys political history is also a thing CE does.</quote>Pretending you didn't know one of the most famous people in the world was the Governor of California is weird.Demanding you're not allowed to listen to what he says and pretend he said something else is fucking weird.All this nonsense solely to justify the rich being on top and corrupt while people suffer since "it's good for them" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 10/17/23 2:35:02 PM #65:	Villain_S_Fiend posted... They cited precedent for why they thought what he said should be looked at with skepticism, so no, it's not just the same card in reverse. And people saying the opposite provided that hes gone through hardship, so is credible in the opposite direction. So yes. The same in reverse. Like, the dude said it is common knowledge hes governor of California. Isnt California like, a blue state? Yall are weird to me tbh. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:976709005] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Villain_S_Fiend posted... </cite><quote>They cited precedent for why they thought what he said should be looked at with skepticism, so no, it's not just the same card in reverse.</quote>And people saying the opposite provided that hes gone through hardship, so is credible in the opposite direction. So yes. The same in reverse. Like, the dude said it is common knowledge hes governor of California. Isnt California like, a blue state?Yall are weird to me tbh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheLiarParadox 10/17/23 3:41:46 PM #66:	AceMos posted... oh fuck hug im so sorry for your loss ZannoL posted... Omg, Im so sorry. Thats just awful. Villain_S_Fiend posted... Jeez, I'm sorry for your family's loss. That brings up another vital point: there are no hard and fast rules on how to treat kids, because they're humans with an infinite spectrum (not meaning autism) of personalities and emotional needs. Umbreon posted... My condolences. No one should have to experience that. Thank you, all. I really appreciate it. --- Spongebob is not a contraceptive. <cite>TheLiarParadox posted [p:976710308] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>AceMos posted... </cite><quote>oh fuck hug im so sorry for your loss</quote>ZannoL posted... </cite><quote>Omg, Im so sorry.Thats just awful.</quote>Villain_S_Fiend posted... </cite><quote>Jeez, I'm sorry for your family's loss. That brings up another vital point: there are no hard and fast rules on how to treat kids, because they're humans with an infinite spectrum (not meaning autism) of personalities and emotional needs.</quote>Umbreon posted... </cite><quote>My condolences. No one should have to experience that.</quote>Thank you, all. I really appreciate it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 10/17/23 3:43:22 PM #67:	Yes everybody should be Heihachi Mishima to their kids --- See profile pic <cite>Irony posted [p:976710346] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Yes everybody should be Heihachi Mishima to their kids </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Priere 10/17/23 3:45:30 PM #68:	Yes everybody should be Yujiro Hanma to their kids --- https://imgur.com/iQep35u https://i.imgur.com/PmX8smn.gif https://i.imgur.com/mwTy0iF.gif https://i.imgur.com/FCER80e.gif <cite>Priere posted [p:976710388] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Yes everybody should be Yujiro Hanma to their kids </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
variasuite 10/17/23 3:49:35 PM #69:	He's right in the sense that sharp edges exist and you can't protect them from all of them. That doesn't include mental illness, however, so saying "Get over it..." doesn't exactly work well, and that boomer mentality is actively harmful. --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycE7bUq3-2k https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1kbLwvqugk <cite>variasuite posted [p:976710466] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>He's right in the sense that sharp edges exist and you can't protect them from all of them. That doesn't include mental illness, however, so saying "Get over it..." doesn't exactly work well, and that boomer mentality is actively harmful. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 10/17/23 3:53:47 PM #70:	I know somebody who coddles her kid to the extreme. She always asks him if he wants to do something, how it makes him feel, etc., before they do it... But that includes everything from doing homework, getting vaccines, etc. Like, if you ask a kid if they like homework and want to do it, or want to get a necessary shot... Of course the kid is probably going to say no. But then instead of having him do it anyway, or encouraging him, she just goes "Okay," and that's where it ends. She had to start homeschooling him because he was failing school due to not doing homework or taking tests. We need much less of that. But, obviously, we don't need to go to the extreme "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" rhetoric typically takes us to, either. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:976710558] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>I know somebody who coddles her kid to the extreme. She always asks him if he wants to do something, how it makes him feel, etc., before they do it... But that includes everything from doing homework, getting vaccines, etc.Like, if you ask a kid if they like homework and want to do it, or want to get a necessary shot... Of course the kid is probably going to say no. But then instead of having him do it anyway, or encouraging him, she just goes "Okay," and that's where it ends. She had to start homeschooling him because he was failing school due to not doing homework or taking tests.We need much less of that. But, obviously, we don't need to go to the extreme "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" rhetoric typically takes us to, either. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ratchetrockon 10/17/23 4:02:56 PM #71:	I think dealing with people is the toughest part. Not studying or working out/doing manual labor. I hate having to rely on other people to basically let me live. I feel like i have to tip toe around anyone because idk how they will react to my actions. This must be the long term effect of some childhood trauma. I feel the Only solution for me is to try living off the grid but my chances are probably slim tbh. I didn't grow up learning how to hunt and make shelter. I will prob not last because my current body is not ideal to go live on a calorie deficient for months at a time. I'm on the verge of being emaciated despite access to many foods rn. --- I'm a Taurus. Currently playing: Nancy Drew: Secret of the Scarlet Hand & DMC 3:SE Ubisoft port (Modded) He/Him <cite>Ratchetrockon posted [p:976710729] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>I think dealing with people is the toughest part. Not studying or working out/doing manual labor.I hate having to rely on other people to basically let me live. I feel like i have to tip toe around anyone because idk how they will react to my actions. This must be the long term effect of some childhood trauma. I feel the Only solution for me is to try living off the grid but my chances are probably slim tbh. I didn't grow up learning how to hunt and make shelter. I will prob not last because my current body is not ideal to go live on a calorie deficient for months at a time. I'm on the verge of being emaciated despite access to many foods rn. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Punished_Blinx 10/17/23 4:12:23 PM #73:	Is it tough love when you have a secret love child with your maid that you try to hide from your family? --- A Fallen Mascot <cite>Punished_Blinx posted [p:976710922] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Is it tough love when you have a secret love child with your maid that you try to hide from your family? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 10/17/23 4:45:12 PM #74:	WTF we HATE Arnie now! --- THE Ohio State: 6-0 \| Las Vegas Raiders: 3-3 <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:976711539] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>WTF we HATE Arnie now! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mybbqrules 10/17/23 4:49:02 PM #75:	Jagr_68 posted... also remember he's speaking as a bodybuilding Austrian immigrant who pushed himself into entertainment regardless of his work experience. He is right. This. Imagine how many people laughed or were skeptical when Arnie first told them he wanted to do movies. And imagine if he had let that get to him and he gave up. --- Currently playing: Megaman Collection 1 and 2 Donald Trump: Inmate No. P01135809 <cite>mybbqrules posted [p:976711605] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Jagr_68 posted... </cite><quote>also remember he's speaking as a bodybuilding Austrian immigrant who pushed himself into entertainment regardless of his work experience. He is right.</quote>This.Imagine how many people laughed or were skeptical when Arnie first told them he wanted to do movies. And imagine if he had let that get to him and he gave up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 10/17/23 5:03:37 PM #76:	Punished_Blinx posted... Is it tough love when you have a secret love child with your maid that you try to hide from your family? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUrMSK8XWFc --- THE Ohio State: 6-0 \| Las Vegas Raiders: 3-3 <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:976711872] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Punished_Blinx posted... </cite><quote>Is it tough love when you have a secret love child with your maid that you try to hide from your family?</quote>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUrMSK8XWFc </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Doe 10/17/23 5:17:57 PM #77:	It's self help advice. He's selling a book. It's as useful as any other self help advice, which is marginally for the people who need to hear it. It's not a completely nuanced perspective, and may smuggle in some negative beliefs about our society, but I wouldn't say it's malicious either. Unless you consider the whole self help industry malicious, which is not totally unfair. --- https://imgur.com/gallery/dXDmJHw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75GL-BYZFfY <cite>Doe posted [p:976712102] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>It's self help advice. He's selling a book. It's as useful as any other self help advice, which is marginally for the people who need to hear it. It's not a completely nuanced perspective, and may smuggle in some negative beliefs about our society, but I wouldn't say it's malicious either. Unless you consider the whole self help industry malicious, which is not totally unfair. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mercurydude 10/17/23 5:34:38 PM #78:	There's an element of truth to it, but this mindset has also historically been use as a justification to abuse certain groups, particularly disabled people.... so that to this very day there are those who believe people with autism, bipolar, and/or ADHD are people who just need to "toughen up" and that the conditions these people are diagnosed with are just made up. --- God forbid you ever had to walk a mile in her shoes, 'cause then you really might know what it's like to have to choose. - Everlast <cite>mercurydude posted [p:976712403] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>There's an element of truth to it, but this mindset has also historically been use as a justification to abuse certain groups, particularly disabled people.... so that to this very day there are those who believe people with autism, bipolar, and/or ADHD are people who just need to "toughen up" and that the conditions these people are diagnosed with are just made up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sansoldier 10/17/23 5:39:52 PM #79:	It depends. Some struggles are worth it, while others are manufactured, unneeded. --- http://www.youtube.com/user/san3711 <cite>Sansoldier posted [p:976712481] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>It depends. Some struggles are worth it, while others are manufactured, unneeded. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 10/17/23 5:45:16 PM #80:	I've been through a lot of pain, pain doesn't really help you grow. Experience sure, but you can pick that up without having to suffer. --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:976712575] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>I've been through a lot of pain, pain doesn't really help you grow. Experience sure, but you can pick that up without having to suffer. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Punished_Blinx 10/17/23 5:46:15 PM #81:	Doe posted... It's self help advice. He's selling a book. It's as useful as any other self help advice, which is marginally for the people who need to hear it. It's not a completely nuanced perspective, and may smuggle in some negative beliefs about our society, but I wouldn't say it's malicious either. Unless you consider the whole self help industry malicious, which is not totally unfair. Tbh everything about it is good advice. But he just has to sprinkle in "The younger generation is too soft!" bullshit and old guys who spout it always annoy me. The guy has been rich and successful for nearly half a century. He doesn't know what the younger generation is dealing with. He knows his bubble of fame and success along with interacting with a bunch of adoring normal people who look up to him. There's plenty of pain and hardship that people are overcoming out there and it's not a bad thing to try and help those people. --- A Fallen Mascot <cite>Punished_Blinx posted [p:976712596] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Doe posted... </cite><quote>It's self help advice. He's selling a book. It's as useful as any other self help advice, which is marginally for the people who need to hear it. It's not a completely nuanced perspective, and may smuggle in some negative beliefs about our society, but I wouldn't say it's malicious either. Unless you consider the whole self help industry malicious, which is not totally unfair.</quote>Tbh everything about it is good advice. But he just has to sprinkle in "The younger generation is too soft!" bullshit and old guys who spout it always annoy me. The guy has been rich and successful for nearly half a century. He doesn't know what the younger generation is dealing with. He knows his bubble of fame and success along with interacting with a bunch of adoring normal people who look up to him. There's plenty of pain and hardship that people are overcoming out there and it's not a bad thing to try and help those people. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SHRlKE 10/17/23 5:47:02 PM #82:	Two things. A) Facing struggles and overcoming them IS important to growth. B) That doesnt take away from the fact people sometimes need help to overcome said struggles. Balance is the key and I fear weve coddled some people too far where its at their detriment. --- Come join us at the Sudoku + Other Pencil Puzzles Community Board. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1572-sudoku-plus-other-pencil-puzzles <cite>SHRlKE posted [p:976712605] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Two things. A) Facing struggles and overcoming them IS important to growth. B) That doesnt take away from the fact people sometimes need help to overcome said struggles. Balance is the key and I fear weve coddled some people too far where its at their detriment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 10/17/23 6:05:14 PM #83:	SHRlKE posted... Balance is the key Indeed. <cite>ZannoL posted [p:976712939] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>SHRlKE posted... </cite><quote>Balance is the key </quote>Indeed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Justin2Krelian 10/17/23 6:08:06 PM #84:	How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split? --- -J2K Currently Streaming: Homeland, Travelers, Dark, Ahsoka, Jack Ryan, ST: Lower Dekcs <cite>Justin2Krelian posted [p:976712992] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 10/17/23 6:13:43 PM #85:	Tyranthraxus posted... Struggle in the sense of hard work and dedication is fine. Struggle in the sense of other people deliberately making your life miserable is not. You will face struggles in life. Maturity is knowing how to face them properly. --- Yes it's true. I am happy to be stuck with you. <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:976713105] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Tyranthraxus posted... </cite><quote>Struggle in the sense of hard work and dedication is fine. Struggle in the sense of other people deliberately making your life miserable is not.</quote>You will face struggles in life. Maturity is knowing how to face them properly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 10/17/23 6:16:38 PM #86:	Justin2Krelian posted... How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split? CE is an example of how you SHOULDNT face struggles in life. Reading CE too much will make you a misanthrope. --- Yes it's true. I am happy to be stuck with you. <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:976713150] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Justin2Krelian posted... </cite><quote>How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split?</quote>CE is an example of how you SHOULDNT face struggles in life. Reading CE too much will make you a misanthrope. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hospy 10/17/23 6:16:46 PM #87:	Justin2Krelian posted... How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split? Vocal minority <cite>Hospy posted [p:976713154] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Justin2Krelian posted... </cite><quote>How is this poll at 85% agree when the responses are so split?</quote>Vocal minority</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BloodMoon7 10/17/23 6:25:03 PM #88:	Damn_Underscore posted... CE is an example of how you SHOULDNT face struggles in life. Reading CE too much will make you a misanthrope. What if I was already a misanthrope --- My maid will hear about this. <cite>BloodMoon7 posted [p:976713305] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Damn_Underscore posted... </cite><quote>CE is an example of how you SHOULDNT face struggles in life. Reading CE too much will make you a misanthrope.</quote>What if I was already a misanthrope </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Puelto295 10/17/23 6:39:46 PM #89:	I agree to a degree but having been raised with an extreme version of this ideology did me no favors to say the least... <cite>Puelto295 posted [p:976713628] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>I agree to a degree but having been raised with an extreme version of this ideology did me no favors to say the least...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Damn_Underscore 10/17/23 6:40:01 PM #90:	BloodMoon7 posted... What if I was already a misanthrope Stay away from churches --- Yes it's true. I am happy to be stuck with you. <cite>Damn_Underscore posted [p:976713636] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>BloodMoon7 posted... </cite><quote>What if I was already a misanthrope</quote>Stay away from churches </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZannoL 10/17/23 9:29:56 PM #91:	Damn_Underscore posted... Stay away from churches <cite>ZannoL posted [p:976716696] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>Damn_Underscore posted... </cite><quote>Stay away from churches</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lil_Bit83 10/17/23 10:17:01 PM #92:	There's good in what he says, but it also depends on each individual's circumstances. A balance is needed. --- I'm just a girl who loves games <cite>Lil_Bit83 posted [p:976717514] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>There's good in what he says, but it also depends on each individual's circumstances. A balance is needed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
majin_nemesis 10/18/23 1:57:33 AM #93:	SHRlKE posted... Two things. A) Facing struggles and overcoming them IS important to growth. B) That doesnt take away from the fact people sometimes need help to overcome said struggles. Balance is the key and I fear weve coddled some people too far where its at their detriment. this <cite>majin_nemesis posted [p:976719850] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>SHRlKE posted... </cite><quote>Two things. A) Facing struggles and overcoming them IS important to growth. B) That doesnt take away from the fact people sometimes need help to overcome said struggles. Balance is the key and I fear weve coddled some people too far where its at their detriment.</quote>this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybub89 10/18/23 2:01:38 AM #94:	What is the point of any of this if it should just be constant struggle? --- http://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png he/him/they/them <cite>hockeybub89 posted [p:976719886] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>What is the point of any of this if it should just be constant struggle? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 10/18/23 2:03:00 AM #95:	What Arnold thinks is coddling, what I think is coddling, and what others think is coddling are probably very different things. And even then, it really depends on the child being raised. Some thrive with some conflict, others just break down. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:976719898] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>What Arnold thinks is coddling, what I think is coddling, and what others think is coddling are probably very different things. And even then, it really depends on the child being raised. Some thrive with some conflict, others just break down. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Notti 10/21/23 3:26:09 AM #96:	FortuneCookie posted... Arnold had two advantages that the modern generation does not have: 1) Legal use of steroids 2) Selective Nazi breeding https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/5/5/AAdlC_AAE8Xv.jpg He hated his father, and rightly so, but he is still a product of the "lets mate the fittest male with the fittest female" mindset. Not everyone can pump iron and achieve the same results that he did. Our parents married for love or settled for what they could get. They weren't a part of somebody's attempt to create a master race. Were his parents really all that fit?? --- http://m.youtube.com/TheYoungTurks/videos Bernie>Biden>poo>Trump http://RightWingWatch.org http://reddit.com/r/BreadTube http://fb.me/OccupyDemocrats <cite>Notti posted [p:976776928] in Arnold Sch... [t:80595790]...</cite> <quote>FortuneCookie posted... </cite><quote>Arnold had two advantages that the modern generation does not have:1) Legal use of steroids2) Selective Nazi breedinghttps://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/8/5/5/AAdlC_AAE8Xv.jpg He hated his father, and rightly so, but he is still a product of the "lets mate the fittest male with the fittest female" mindset.Not everyone can pump iron and achieve the same results that he did. Our parents married for love or settled for what they could get. They weren't a part of somebody's attempt to create a master race.</quote>Were his parents really all that fit?? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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