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FatalAccident 09/21/21 8:13:34 PM #1:	Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex in your house alone? Yes, it's reasonable No, it's not reasonable Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex in your house alone? - Results (112 votes) Yes, it's reasonable 18.75% (21 votes) 21 No, it's not reasonable 81.25% (91 votes) 91 Poll --- walks away <cite>FatalAccident posted [p:958278486] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote> Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex in your house alone? Yes, it's reasonable No, it's not reasonable Vote View Results Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex in your house alone? - Results (112 votes) Yes, it's reasonable 18.75% (21 votes) 21 No, it's not reasonable 81.25% (91 votes) 91 Show Voting Form Poll </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/21/21 8:16:04 PM #2:	No. I don't think so. While I'm not straight, it's not as much of a problem for me. But if I were straight, I'd tell them no. And if they say something like, "It's me or them", I'd dump them. I'm not a fan of SOs telling their partners who they can be friends with... Now if it's as ex, I would understand. Though I think that's a case by case thing... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958278552] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>No. I don't think so. While I'm not straight, it's not as much of a problem for me. But if I were straight, I'd tell them no. And if they say something like, "It's me or them", I'd dump them. I'm not a fan of SOs telling their partners who they can be friends with... Now if it's as ex, I would understand. Though I think that's a case by case thing...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 09/21/21 8:34:04 PM #3:	Depends on your SO, but it also depends on their friends. I'd say it also depends on their attitude towards you - if they're perfectly fine with you hanging out with other people, it's a very different story than if they're strongly against you doing it yourself. Like most things in life, it's highly situational. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:958279017] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Depends on your SO, but it also depends on their friends. I'd say it also depends on their attitude towards you - if they're perfectly fine with you hanging out with other people, it's a very different story than if they're strongly against you doing it yourself. Like most things in life, it's highly situational.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PunishedOni 09/21/21 8:36:05 PM #4:	its always incredibly weird and unreasonable --- hi im chelsea ^__^ You have entered the lair of SOMA - the Sega Online Machine Agent. Turn back now, or prepare to be digitized! <cite>PunishedOni posted [p:958279068] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>its always incredibly weird and unreasonable </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wpot 09/21/21 8:41:37 PM #5:	I mean, in my opinion you either trust each other or you don't. If you don't, then you've probably got bigger problems than this (there are many other ways to cheat, for one thing). It might feel weird to a person who tends jealous, but...get over it. IMO. --- Pronounced "Whup-pot". Say it. Use it. <cite>wpot posted [p:958279228] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I mean, in my opinion you either trust each other or you don't. If you don't, then you've probably got bigger problems than this (there are many other ways to cheat, for one thing). It might feel weird to a person who tends jealous, but...get over it. IMO. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cruddy_horse 09/21/21 8:56:16 PM #6:	I think it's very circumstantial, but I have major trust issues due to being cheated on so idk. <cite>Cruddy_horse posted [p:958279689] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I think it's very circumstantial, but I have major trust issues due to being cheated on so idk. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rjsilverthorn 09/21/21 9:04:04 PM #7:	wpot posted... I mean, in my opinion you either trust each other or you don't. If you don't, then you've probably got bigger problems than this (there are many other ways to cheat, for one thing). It might feel weird to a person who tends jealous, but...get over it. IMO. This has always been my take. If you can only trust your partner when you are around, then you don't really trust your partner. <cite>rjsilverthorn posted [p:958279923] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>wpot posted... </cite> <quote>I mean, in my opinion you either trust each other or you don't. If you don't, then you've probably got bigger problems than this (there are many other ways to cheat, for one thing). It might feel weird to a person who tends jealous, but...get over it. IMO.</quote>This has always been my take. If you can only trust your partner when you are around, then you don't really trust your partner. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muscles 09/21/21 9:10:19 PM #8:	I would have to end any relationship where they tried to control me like that. That's like one of the biggest red flags. --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:958280090] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I would have to end any relationship where they tried to control me like that. That's like one of the biggest red flags. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Clench281 09/21/21 9:52:41 PM #9:	im gay --- Take me for what I am -- who I was meant to be. And if you give a damn, take me baby, or leave me. <cite>Clench281 posted [p:958281322] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>im gay </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/21/21 10:07:32 PM #10:	Clench281 posted... im gay Yeah. It doesn't work as well, for us... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958281748] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Clench281 posted...</cite> <quote>im gay</quote> Yeah. It doesn't work as well, for us...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/21/21 10:11:41 PM #11:	By and large, no. If they are saying that, then they need to be acknowledging that it's because they have trust issues and make a commitment to work on them to some extent or another, but even then it can still be reasonable for you to feel that they aren't doing enough to get over that. Clench281 posted... im gay That doesn't necessarily mean your SO is. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:958281847] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>By and large, no. If they are saying that, then they need to be acknowledging that it's because they have trust issues and make a commitment to work on them to some extent or another, but even then it can still be reasonable for you to feel that they aren't doing enough to get over that. Clench281 posted... </cite> <quote>im gay</quote> That doesn't necessarily mean your SO is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/21/21 10:17:48 PM #12:	adjl posted... That doesn't necessarily mean your SO is. Yeah. But wouldn't that only work if Clench was the one asking his partner rather than his partner asking him? --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958282015] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted...</cite> <quote>That doesn't necessarily mean your SO is.</quote> Yeah. But wouldn't that only work if Clench was the one asking his partner rather than his partner asking him?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 09/21/21 10:26:01 PM #13:	Well, it would be fine if your girl wants to see her guy friends. But, yknow, heaven forbid you want to see your female friends. --- Bah weep grannah weep ni ni bon <cite>rexcrk posted [p:958282219] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Well, it would be fine if your girl wants to see her guy friends. But, yknow, heaven forbid you want to see your female friends. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/21/21 10:29:48 PM #14:	LinkPizza posted... Yeah. But wouldn't that only work if Clench was the one asking his partner rather than his partner asking him? True, though it could still apply. If somebody's got trust issues to that extent, though, I wouldn't put it past them to not trust that you're as gay as you say you are. In that case, though, they'd probably just full-on demand that you never meet any friends alone. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:958282302] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah. But wouldn't that only work if Clench was the one asking his partner rather than his partner asking him?</quote> True, though it could still apply. If somebody's got trust issues to that extent, though, I wouldn't put it past them to not trust that you're as gay as you say you are. In that case, though, they'd probably just full-on demand that you never meet any friends alone. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/21/21 10:33:26 PM #15:	adjl posted... True, though it could still apply. If somebody's got trust issues to that extent, though, I wouldn't put it past them to not trust that you're as gay as you say you are. In that case, though, they'd probably just full-on demand that you never meet any friends alone. Maybe... Though I don't really see as many people not trusting how gay their partner is. Haha... But the last part reminds me of how when this question is asked, the bisexual people always mention how it would be weird if they weren't allowed to see any friends since they technically like both males and females... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958282380] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted...</cite> <quote>True, though it could still apply. If somebody's got trust issues to that extent, though, I wouldn't put it past them to not trust that you're as gay as you say you are. In that case, though, they'd probably just full-on demand that you never meet any friends alone.</quote> Maybe... Though I don't really see as many people not trusting how gay their partner is. Haha... But the last part reminds me of how when this question is asked, the bisexual people always mention how it would be weird if they weren't allowed to see any friends since they technically like both males and females...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 09/21/21 10:39:10 PM #16:	I think the right answer to this question totally depends on the personalities of the couple. --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:958282547] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I think the right answer to this question totally depends on the personalities of the couple. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PMarth2002 09/21/21 11:07:52 PM #17:	its probably something you should discuss with your partner if its an issue for you. it wouldn't bother me. --- They have taken untold millions that they never toiled to earn But without our brain and muscle not a single wheel can turn <cite>PMarth2002 posted [p:958283240] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>its probably something you should discuss with your partner if its an issue for you. it wouldn't bother me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/21/21 11:08:14 PM #18:	Mead posted... I think the right answer to this question totally depends on the personalities of the couple. Regardless of the couple's personalities, this is always going to be an unhealthy demand that reflects some manner of trust issues. There may be a valid reason for it, but it's nonetheless something every couple in this situation should be trying to work through, rather than accepting it as the status quo. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:958283250] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Mead posted... </cite> <quote>I think the right answer to this question totally depends on the personalities of the couple.</quote> Regardless of the couple's personalities, this is always going to be an unhealthy demand that reflects some manner of trust issues. There may be a valid reason for it, but it's nonetheless something every couple in this situation should be trying to work through, rather than accepting it as the status quo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Antbregante 09/22/21 12:35:53 AM #19:	Does the same apply to them? --- www.thebookofpdr.com. My friends site with bizarre web comics and a strange blog about the weird thoughts going on inside his head. <cite>Antbregante posted [p:958285292] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Does the same apply to them? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joshs Name 09/22/21 1:04:25 AM #20:	if you have to ask your SO not to meet friends of the opposite sex are they really your SO? --- So I was standing still at a stationary store... <cite>Joshs Name posted [p:958285778] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>if you have to ask your SO not to meet friends of the opposite sex are they really your SO? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 09/22/21 1:08:36 AM #21:	adjl posted... Regardless of the couple's personalities, this is always going to be an unhealthy demand that reflects some manner of trust issues. maybe, but few if any relationships are perfect its normal for even mentally well individuals to have some insecurities in life, to varying degrees --- my resting temp can easily be in the 90's -Krazy_Kirby <cite>Mead posted [p:958285841] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite> <quote>Regardless of the couple's personalities, this is always going to be an unhealthy demand that reflects some manner of trust issues.</quote> maybe, but few if any relationships are perfect its normal for even mentally well individuals to have some insecurities in life, to varying degrees </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/22/21 1:11:09 AM #22:	Joshs Name posted... if you have to ask your SO not to meet friends of the opposite sex are they really your SO? I mean, technically, there are --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958285877] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Joshs Name posted...</cite> <quote>if you have to ask your SO not to meet friends of the opposite sex are they really your SO?</quote> I mean, technically, there are</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fukenog 09/22/21 1:42:03 AM #23:	That's a red flag for sure. I'd walk away and never look back after a request like that. --- Nothing to see here. Move along. <cite>Fukenog posted [p:958286326] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>That's a red flag for sure. I'd walk away and never look back after a request like that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Conner4REAL 09/22/21 1:56:02 AM #24:	Nope and its a warning sign that the s/o is batshit crazy. --- "I pet my dog I don't eat it" ~ Lemone <cite>Conner4REAL posted [p:958286509] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Nope and its a warning sign that the s/o is batshit crazy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DocDelicious 09/22/21 2:01:20 AM #25:	I don't think it's unreasonable, but I also wouldn't ever put myself in a situation where I'd be alone with someone of the opposite sex. I don't ever want to make my gf jealous, or cause her to question me like that. --- o7 Let strength be granted so the world might be mended. <cite>DocDelicious posted [p:958286603] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I don't think it's unreasonable, but I also wouldn't ever put myself in a situation where I'd be alone with someone of the opposite sex. I don't ever want to make my gf jealous, or cause her to question me like that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Philip027 09/22/21 2:28:33 AM #26:	Without trust, there is no relationship. So no Plus, what about the bi/pan people? Guess they just aren't allowed to have friends? <cite>Philip027 posted [p:958287000] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Without trust, there is no relationship. So no Plus, what about the bi/pan people? Guess they just aren't allowed to have friends? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/22/21 2:30:12 AM #27:	Philip027 posted... Plus, what about the bi/pan people? Guess they just aren't allowed to have friends? Yeah. This is usually brought up, as well --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:958287026] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Philip027 posted...</cite> <quote>Plus, what about the bi/pan people? Guess they just aren't allowed to have friends?</quote> Yeah. This is usually brought up, as well</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Krazy_Kirby 09/22/21 2:46:46 AM #28:	sometimes --- Kill From The Shadows. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idiot <cite>Krazy_Kirby posted [p:958287216] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>sometimes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 09/22/21 9:14:10 AM #29:	Mead posted... maybe, but few if any relationships are perfect its normal for even mentally well individuals to have some insecurities in life, to varying degrees There's a world of difference between "our relationship isn't perfect" and "My partner doesn't let me have friends without supervision." Again, there may be a valid reason for that, but fixing that reason needs to be a high priority because that relationship is extremely unhealthy. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:958291868] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Mead posted... </cite> <quote>maybe, but few if any relationships are perfect its normal for even mentally well individuals to have some insecurities in life, to varying degrees</quote> There's a world of difference between "our relationship isn't perfect" and "My partner doesn't let me have friends without supervision." Again, there may be a valid reason for that, but fixing that reason needs to be a high priority because that relationship is extremely unhealthy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReggieTheReckless 09/22/21 9:26:32 AM #30:	People can see whoever they want If someone cheats, that's on them, not on the person who was cheated on <cite>ReggieTheReckless posted [p:958292131] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>People can see whoever they want If someone cheats, that's on them, not on the person who was cheated on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HornedLion 09/22/21 9:35:36 AM #31:	When I was ignorant to female nature and, quite frankly, their feelings and their views on the world... I would say that it isnt a problem for folks to have friends of the opposite sex. But now I understand that sometimes they see my close relationships with female companions as emotional infidelity. ~~But my wife banged Christopher Meloni, so fuck her feelings. Im going to do what I want!~~ --- I'm actually really enjoying GodFall. <cite>HornedLion posted [p:958292337] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>When I was ignorant to female nature and, quite frankly, their feelings and their views on the world... I would say that it isnt a problem for folks to have friends of the opposite sex. But now I understand that sometimes they see my close relationships with female companions as emotional infidelity. But my wife banged Christopher Meloni, so fuck her feelings. Im going to do what I want! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xfma100 09/22/21 9:49:41 AM #32:	FatalAccident posted... Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex... No, it's not reasonable. FatalAccident posted... in your house alone? Depends. Is this friend an ex? Does this friend have feelings for my SO and dislikes the fact that we are in a relationship together? Does my SO have feelings for them? How often does this occur? Because it would be weird for someone to frequently spend a significant amount of time alone with a friend of the opposite sex instead of spending time together with their SO imo. Especially if they are meeting this friend in secret. I feel like in certain scenarios it's okay for someone to voice their concerns and want to talk about setting certain reasonable boundaries. If either partner disagrees with those boundaries or breaks them, then the couple can simply break up and move on. With all that said, cheaters gonna cheat. So if something weird is going on, definitely try to get to the bottom of it. You don't want to invest time into a long term relationship where someone has been cheating on you behind your back. <cite>Xfma100 posted [p:958292641] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>FatalAccident posted... </cite> <quote>Is it reasonable for your s/o to ask you not to spend time with a friend of the opposite sex...</quote> No, it's not reasonable. FatalAccident posted... </cite> <quote>in your house alone?</quote> Depends. Is this friend an ex? Does this friend have feelings for my SO and dislikes the fact that we are in a relationship together? Does my SO have feelings for them? How often does this occur? Because it would be weird for someone to frequently spend a significant amount of time alone with a friend of the opposite sex instead of spending time together with their SO imo. Especially if they are meeting this friend in secret. I feel like in certain scenarios it's okay for someone to voice their concerns and want to talk about setting certain reasonable boundaries. If either partner disagrees with those boundaries or breaks them, then the couple can simply break up and move on. With all that said, cheaters gonna cheat. So if something weird is going on, definitely try to get to the bottom of it. You don't want to invest time into a long term relationship where someone has been cheating on you behind your back. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/22/21 9:49:53 AM #33:	Nope. If they are a insecure shit that's not my problem and if they try to make it my problem we would be done hypnotically. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/guXxsmA <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:958292643] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Nope. If they are a insecure shit that's not my problem and if they try to make it my problem we would be done hypnotically. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OhhhJa 09/22/21 9:52:57 AM #34:	While I'm cool with my SO hanging with guy friends, in my experience, women are NEVER ok with you hanging with female friends even if they say they are. You will hear about it later <cite>OhhhJa posted [p:958292707] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>While I'm cool with my SO hanging with guy friends, in my experience, women are NEVER ok with you hanging with female friends even if they say they are. You will hear about it later </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 09/22/21 11:21:32 AM #35:	If you even have to ask that you shouldn't be in a relationship --- The first person to be fully vaccinated on GameFaQs. Boobs are life, ass is hometown Kenichiro Takaki. <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:958295268] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>If you even have to ask that you shouldn't be in a relationship </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GamerNumber152 09/22/21 11:41:10 AM #36:	Depends. If it's a friend I knew from before, I'm not dumping a lifelong friend over an SO. <cite>GamerNumber152 posted [p:958295856] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>Depends. If it's a friend I knew from before, I'm not dumping a lifelong friend over an SO. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReturnOfFa 09/22/21 12:01:53 PM #37:	not reasonable for me. I'm a very non-jealous but trusting person. I have a lot of female friends. I expect the same in response, but am ok with teasing. --- girls like my fa <cite>ReturnOfFa posted [p:958296520] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>not reasonable for me. I'm a very non-jealous but trusting person. I have a lot of female friends. I expect the same in response, but am ok with teasing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lil_Bit83 09/22/21 12:42:25 PM #38:	No, I'd say its a red flag and you should steer clear before it escalates into something worse. Possibly in some of the worst ways, like controlling, isolating, stalking, or abuse. I admit I'm very insecure, and I get a bit jealous when my boyfriend visits with his female friends, but I wouldn't ever tell him no. --- 2DS FC tempest 1478 9807 1205 <cite>Lil_Bit83 posted [p:958297708] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>No, I'd say its a red flag and you should steer clear before it escalates into something worse. Possibly in some of the worst ways, like controlling, isolating, stalking, or abuse. I admit I'm very insecure, and I get a bit jealous when my boyfriend visits with his female friends, but I wouldn't ever tell him no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Arishok 09/22/21 1:41:02 PM #39:	I've actually had this problem before. She'd get incredibly jealous whenever I chatted to any female. She had her friend spy on me and report back. I was honest and told her that I was just friends with the other girl and nothing more. Turns out, her friend was feeding her false information so she would only have the friend to rely on. It did not go well. --- Vinek Kathas. <cite>Arishok posted [p:958299573] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>I've actually had this problem before. She'd get incredibly jealous whenever I chatted to any female. She had her friend spy on me and report back. I was honest and told her that I was just friends with the other girl and nothing more. Turns out, her friend was feeding her false information so she would only have the friend to rely on. It did not go well.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darkknight109 09/22/21 3:36:01 PM #40:	If it was a purely platonic friendship, no, I don't think that's reasonable. It speaks to a lack of trust in the relationship, which is a bad sign for the future. I can understand a bit more hesitancy if you're meeting an ex alone - that's a (formerly) romantic relationship, so there's a bit more cause for anxiety there. I still think, ideally, partners should trust one another around members of the opposite sex if the relationship is serious, but a lot of it depends on the people involved and how mature the relationship is. --- Kill 1 man: You are a murderer. Kill 10 men: You are a monster. Kill 100 men: You are a hero. Kill 10,000 men, you are a conqueror! <cite>darkknight109 posted [p:958303285] in Is it reas... [t:79672683]...</cite> <quote>If it was a purely platonic friendship, no, I don't think that's reasonable. It speaks to a lack of trust in the relationship, which is a bad sign for the future. I can understand a bit more hesitancy if you're meeting an ex alone - that's a (formerly) romantic relationship, so there's a bit more cause for anxiety there. I still think, ideally, partners should trust one another around members of the opposite sex if the relationship is serious, but a lot of it depends on the people involved and how mature the relationship is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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