Current Events > If a girl asked if youd like to have sex, would you consider this harassment?

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Lairen
07/07/21 3:04:31 PM
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Would you?


If you say yes then shell have sex with you. If you say no she says ok and leaves you alone.

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LincolnDuncan
07/07/21 3:06:04 PM
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harassment is in the eye of the beholder

an I'mma be holden 'er if ynamsayin

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Glob
07/07/21 3:06:40 PM
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Context needed.
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WilliamPorygon
07/07/21 3:06:55 PM
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Well if she only asks once, no, but unlike most Americans these days I'm pretty rational and level-headed so what do I know.

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wackyteen
07/07/21 3:09:00 PM
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First, depends on the girl.

Once, no.

If I turn her down and she asks again, maybe.

If I've made it clear the proposition makes me uncomfortable, then yes

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Lorenzo_2003
07/07/21 3:10:04 PM
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Do I find her attractive?

The answer will weigh heavily on whether or not she is harassing me.

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LordYeezus
07/07/21 3:10:13 PM
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Depends how horny I am

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Sorozone
07/07/21 3:10:34 PM
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Doesn't (verbal)harassment imply it happens more than once? If it's just the one time then no. If it continues then yes.

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Lairen
07/07/21 3:11:39 PM
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She asks like its a normal question. Shes extremely comfortable with sex and has plenty of consensual casual and protected sex.

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bsp77
07/07/21 3:14:04 PM
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Once is "no", man or woman. But who does this?

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Cocytus
07/07/21 3:14:42 PM
#11:


I'm a guy so no.
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cuttin_in_farm
07/07/21 3:15:08 PM
#12:


bsp77 posted...
Once is "no", man or woman.


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Lairen
07/07/21 3:15:45 PM
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Im socially a little off so being direct like this would help me. Meaning a girl needs to be very flirty for me to understand shes flirting.

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Kanaya413
07/07/21 3:17:23 PM
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Maybe if it was out of no where but Id reject her regardless
if she persists its harassment though
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Conception616
07/07/21 3:18:38 PM
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If she requests a blumpkin, no, but if she wants a Cleveland steamer, thats going too far.

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Nemu
07/07/21 3:21:19 PM
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Just asking one time is sleazy as fuck, but it'd never be harassment so long as it's someone who can consent. It'd become harassment after not taking no for an answer.
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bsp77
07/07/21 3:23:43 PM
#17:


Lairen posted...
Im socially a little off so being direct like this would help me. Meaning a girl needs to be very flirty for me to understand shes flirting.
Then hope she asks you out. That can happen. No one asks for sex unless drunk or high at a club

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Lairen
07/07/21 3:31:40 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Then hope she asks you out. That can happen. No one asks for sex unless drunk or high at a club

So its so socially taboo that something must be wrong with her?

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Lairen
07/07/21 3:33:23 PM
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Nemu posted...
Just asking one time is sleazy as fuck, but it'd never be harassment so long as it's someone who can consent. It'd become harassment after not taking no for an answer.

Oh, sorry, im suppose to ask you out and slowly suggest the idea of having sex. Do you want to fuck or not?

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ROOTFayth
07/07/21 3:34:12 PM
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the 24% of people who voted yes are weird, did they even read the post?
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Shablagoo
07/07/21 3:34:18 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Once is "no", man or woman. But who does this?

In high school my friend was telling me about some sci-fi book he was reading where people would just walk up to each other on the street and casually proposition sex. It was a normal, acceptable behavior. It wasnt the point of the novel, it just happened to be part of the futuristic society depicted in it.

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cuttin_in_farm
07/07/21 3:34:41 PM
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Hey uh you good, TC?

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ROOTFayth
07/07/21 3:34:57 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Then hope she asks you out. That can happen. No one asks for sex unless drunk or high at a club
no one unknown you mean?
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ROBANN_88
07/07/21 3:35:40 PM
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my first instinct is usually some variation of "what's the joke?" or "did you lose a bet?" or "are you doing this as a prank?"


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bsp77
07/07/21 3:39:03 PM
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Lairen posted...
So its so socially taboo that something must be wrong with her?
Pretty much. I would say no even if she was hot and I was single. Something would be wrong.

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Trumble
07/07/21 3:40:24 PM
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If she's a stranger (and it wasn't at some kind of hook-up event), I'd definitely be saying no to being randomly hit on that strongly; but no, it's not sexual harassment to ask once.

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ROOTFayth
07/07/21 3:44:18 PM
#28:


I believe the correct answer is "yes I wanna have sex, but not with you"
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Elmer_Glue
07/07/21 3:45:01 PM
#29:


Step 1: Be Attractive.
Step 2: Don't Be Unattractive

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tremain07
07/07/21 3:45:55 PM
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"Why"? would be my answer because I'm trash, even if they looked like a moose surely they could do btter than a usseless rat like me

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KILBOTz
07/07/21 3:48:36 PM
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Sorozone posted...
Doesn't (verbal)harassment imply it happens more than once? If it's just the one time then no. If it continues then yes.

If my HR training is accurate, harassment has to be multiple times. Hostile work environment could be a 1 off event.

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Lairen
07/07/21 4:14:40 PM
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KILBOTz posted...
If my HR training is accurate, harassment has to be multiple times. Hostile work environment could be a 1 off event.

And what if they called her in and she said:

I found him attractive and asked if he wanted to have sex with me. He said no so i said ok. This isnt a conflict of interest as we are not over one another. Ill apologize if he was offended.

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Solo_Wing
07/07/21 4:18:35 PM
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https://youtu.be/L1ttr0s9M7k

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LordYeezus
07/07/21 6:48:32 PM
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Elmer_Glue posted...
Step 1: Be Attractive.
Step 2: Don't Be Unattractive

I feel like theres a step before 1 tho, or are ppl just born with it

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Lairen
07/07/21 8:58:51 PM
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LordYeezus posted...
I feel like theres a step before 1 tho, or are ppl just born with it

Maybe its Maybelline.

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Nukazie
07/07/21 9:08:27 PM
#36:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Do I find her attractive?

The answer will weigh heavily on whether or not she is harassing me.


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Gamerguymass
07/07/21 9:13:14 PM
#37:


LordYeezus posted...
I feel like theres a step before 1 tho, or are ppl just born with it

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=PxuUkYiaUc8

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Umbreon
07/07/21 9:15:32 PM
#38:


Depends on the context.

For the record TC, randomly asking the cute cashier if she wants to have sex with you would count as harassment the first time if she's at work.

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008Zulu
07/07/21 9:26:26 PM
#39:


Asking once is asking. Asking twice is harassment.

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voldothegr8
07/07/21 9:28:08 PM
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I recently had to take company wide sexual harassment class, and it was emphasized more than once that one question is not harassment.
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BloodMoon7
07/07/21 9:30:55 PM
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Not even dinner first smh

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Gamerguymass
07/07/21 9:32:46 PM
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voldothegr8 posted...
I recently had to take company wide sexual harassment class, and it was emphasized more than once that one question is not harassment.

Time to go ask all your female coworkers one time if they want to have sex.

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BloodMoon7
07/07/21 9:33:47 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Time to go ask all your female coworkers one time if they want to have sex.
Inb4 they all say yes. But then they found out and they surround you and humiliate you.

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Irony
07/07/21 9:35:58 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
Time to go ask all your female coworkers one time if they want to have sex.
Me: "Wanna have sex?"
Female coworker: " Ok. When and where?"
Me:


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Lairen
07/07/21 10:57:01 PM
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Umbreon posted...
Depends on the context.

For the record TC, randomly asking the cute cashier if she wants to have sex with you would count as harassment the first time if she's at work.

What a power move.

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DDirtyDastard
07/07/21 11:02:01 PM
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Only if she were ugly.
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