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I support his decision, if that happened to me, both the kid or kids and my wife would be dead to me.
Don't you care that this five year old loves and relies on you, though? That you are the foundation of his reality?
It's painful but just looking at the kid would be a constant reminder of the betrayal it's better if we never see each other again.