Board 8 > The guy who sexually harassed me at work died.

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TheRock1525 05/16/20 2:08:40 PM #1:	Lot of conflicting feelings, including relief that I don't have to deal with it anymore, but he was extremely well-liked by everyone in the store so I never felt like I could speak up about it. Don't think he was an awful person but even when I made it clear I didn't like the advances very little changed. --- TheRock ~ I had a name, my father called me Blues. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:939251579] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Lot of conflicting feelings, including relief that I don't have to deal with it anymore, but he was extremely well-liked by everyone in the store so I never felt like I could speak up about it. Don't think he was an awful person but even when I made it clear I didn't like the advances very little changed. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SuperNiceDog 05/16/20 2:37:18 PM #2:	Maybe best to move on from it. Weird situation though --- Azuarc is the 2020 Guru GOTD 2 Contest Champion! <cite>SuperNiceDog posted [p:939252861] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Maybe best to move on from it. Weird situation though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Aecioo 05/16/20 2:40:11 PM #3:	how did he harass you? --- http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lcb35gGx0t1qailr4o1_500.gif http://www.megavideo.com/?v=57N0YAEJ <cite>Aecioo posted [p:939252997] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>how did he harass you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 05/16/20 2:45:17 PM #4:	Huh, I think I missed the previous topic. What did he do? --- Into the woods, but mind the past... Into the woods, but mind the future! <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:939253246] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Huh, I think I missed the previous topic. What did he do? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Umbreon 05/16/20 2:53:06 PM #5:	TheRock1525 posted... Don't think he was an awful person TheRock1525 posted... even when I made it clear I didn't like the advances very little changed. Sounds awful to me. And conflicted feelings are to be expected. Nobody wants someone to die outside of very extreme circumstances. --- This is a mobile account, forgive any errors. ~DYL~ 12-18-19: Donald Trump has been impeached. <cite>Umbreon posted [p:939253641] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>TheRock1525 posted... </cite> <quote>Don't think he was an awful person</quote> TheRock1525 posted... </cite> <quote>even when I made it clear I didn't like the advances very little changed.</quote> Sounds awful to me. And conflicted feelings are to be expected. Nobody wants someone to die outside of very extreme circumstances. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Punnyz 05/16/20 2:54:51 PM #6:	didn't know this was something that happened --- https://imgur.com/qBpLe47 https://imgur.com/25MHSn1 <cite>Punnyz posted [p:939253711] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>didn't know this was something that happened </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MoogleKupo141 05/16/20 4:01:00 PM #7:	do they know how he died are you a suspect --- For your Azuarc* .* At least Kupo has class and doesn't MESSAGE the people -Dr Pizza <cite>MoogleKupo141 posted [p:939256518] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>do they know how he died are you a suspect</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheRock1525 05/16/20 4:39:43 PM #9:	I spoke about it a few times to friends and I think mentioned it once on Discord. Basically it started kinda benign but got worse. I greeted him and sometimes asked how he was doing and he'd go "better now that you're here." Then if I ever shook his hand he'd pull me in way too close where we were almost face to face. Then he started hugging me and asking me to come over to his place. The final few times he used to say "I love you" to me and that's when I asked him to stop. The problem was that everyone seemed to love this guy at work, as he had been there for almost 2 decades. I'd like to chalk it up to being overly affectionate but when you start trying to invite me over and tell me that you love me, I'm not going to deal with that. I actively started changing the way I entered the building because I just didn't want to deal with it. I talked to one coworker about it and she told me "oh yeah he's super gay." And I asked why me since I didn't see anyone else have it happen to them and she didn't really know. Otherwise I was afraid to go to any of my bosses for fear of becoming "that guy who got the super popular guy fired." --- TheRock ~ I had a name, my father called me Blues. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:939258127] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>I spoke about it a few times to friends and I think mentioned it once on Discord. Basically it started kinda benign but got worse. I greeted him and sometimes asked how he was doing and he'd go "better now that you're here." Then if I ever shook his hand he'd pull me in way too close where we were almost face to face. Then he started hugging me and asking me to come over to his place. The final few times he used to say "I love you" to me and that's when I asked him to stop. The problem was that everyone seemed to love this guy at work, as he had been there for almost 2 decades. I'd like to chalk it up to being overly affectionate but when you start trying to invite me over and tell me that you love me, I'm not going to deal with that. I actively started changing the way I entered the building because I just didn't want to deal with it. I talked to one coworker about it and she told me "oh yeah he's super gay." And I asked why me since I didn't see anyone else have it happen to them and she didn't really know. Otherwise I was afraid to go to any of my bosses for fear of becoming "that guy who got the super popular guy fired." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Safer_777 05/16/20 4:57:20 PM #10:	You are a guy too? That is even worse. Well too bad he died of course but at least you will not have any more problems now. --- So why we exist? What happens when we stop existing? Azuarc the best Guru of the 2020 Contest! Nice job man! <cite>Safer_777 posted [p:939258897] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>You are a guy too? That is even worse. Well too bad he died of course but at least you will not have any more problems now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pjbasis 05/16/20 5:36:23 PM #11:	You couldn't just be straight with him? --- http://i498.photobucket.com/albums/rr345/Rakaputra/B8%20Girls%202012/pjbas.png <cite>pjbasis posted [p:939260592] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>You couldn't just be straight with him? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LOLIAmAnAlt 05/16/20 5:40:15 PM #12:	Wait, why did you let him hug you. --- lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll <cite>LOLIAmAnAlt posted [p:939260734] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Wait, why did you let him hug you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
paperwarior 05/16/20 5:49:16 PM #13:	Sounds like the guy I met in an online game once and not long afterward blocked him. Too bad that doesn't work in person. --- "God Hand is the ultimate expression of the joy of humanity, specifically the punching part of the joy of humanity."-Shigeru Miyamoto <cite>paperwarior posted [p:939261091] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like the guy I met in an online game once and not long afterward blocked him. Too bad that doesn't work in person. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 05/16/20 5:58:58 PM #14:	Maybe he found you attractive IDK. But yeah that was an awkward position to be in. --- Into the woods, but mind the past... Into the woods, but mind the future! <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:939261452] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Maybe he found you attractive IDK. But yeah that was an awkward position to be in. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 05/16/20 6:02:37 PM #15:	Are you also homosexual? --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:939261599] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Are you also homosexual? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Punnyz 05/16/20 6:09:25 PM #16:	pjbasis posted... You couldn't just be straight with him? yea too bad he kept his feelings in the closet --- https://imgur.com/qBpLe47 https://imgur.com/25MHSn1 <cite>Punnyz posted [p:939261861] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>pjbasis posted... </cite> <quote>You couldn't just be straight with him?</quote>yea too bad he kept his feelings in the closet </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CaptainOfCrush 05/16/20 6:12:04 PM #17:	LOLIAmAnAlt posted... Wait, why did you let him hug you. Social pressure exists. If someone moves in from a hug that the other person doesn't want, some people will just get it over with rather than risk making an issue out of it. It's unfortunate for those people, but it's so common and everyday that I'm surprised you're sincerely asking the question. --- Yoblazer: Congratulating azuarc on a great Guru victory! https://imgur.com/gByqgPg <cite>CaptainOfCrush posted [p:939261962] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>LOLIAmAnAlt posted... </cite> <quote>Wait, why did you let him hug you.</quote>Social pressure exists. If someone moves in from a hug that the other person doesn't want, some people will just get it over with rather than risk making an issue out of it. It's unfortunate for those people, but it's so common and everyday that I'm surprised you're sincerely asking the question. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
greengravy294 05/16/20 6:33:05 PM #18:	How did he die --- https://imgur.com/a/LEqiW https://imgur.com/iXHxhET <cite>greengravy294 posted [p:939262830] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>How did he die </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Paratroopa1 05/16/20 6:34:36 PM #19:	Safer_777 posted... You are a guy too? That is even worse. ? <cite>Paratroopa1 posted [p:939262896] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Safer_777 posted... </cite> <quote>You are a guy too? That is even worse.</quote>? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raka_Putra 05/16/20 7:27:56 PM #20:	Yeah, was it COVID? --- Into the woods, but mind the past... Into the woods, but mind the future! <cite>Raka_Putra posted [p:939265209] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, was it COVID? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Johnbobb 05/16/20 7:28:45 PM #21:	Safer_777 posted... You are a guy too? That is even worse. ... --- Khal Kirby, warlord of the Super Star Khalasar PSN/Steam: CheddarBBQ https://goo.gl/Diw2hs <cite>Johnbobb posted [p:939265248] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Safer_777 posted... </cite> <quote>You are a guy too? That is even worse.</quote>... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpoinkRulezz 05/18/20 5:29:16 AM #22:	Safer_777 posted... You are a guy too? That is even worse. Yee to the darned haw. <cite>SpoinkRulezz posted [p:939330793] in The guy wh... [t:78694163]...</cite> <quote>Safer_777 posted... </cite> <quote>You are a guy too? That is even worse.</quote>Yee to the darned haw. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Board 8 > The guy who sexually harassed me at work died. (+) Yeah! (+)

Board 8 > The guy who sexually harassed me at work died.