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V-E-G-Y-
04/28/20 5:09:33 PM
#1:


Is dat fair or no?


https://brobible.com/culture/article/girlfriend-help-rent-she-sleeps-over/
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Politics
04/28/20 5:10:12 PM
#2:


Fair? Probably. Good idea for a relationship? Hell no.

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Duncanwii
04/28/20 5:10:13 PM
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I'd pay my gf to stay the night tbh.

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Bananana
04/28/20 5:11:04 PM
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inb4 a bunch of incels call it fair by purely mathematical reasons ignoring the fact that that makes him a shitty boyfriend and also an asshole

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Turbam
04/28/20 5:11:16 PM
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It's fair, but it's not cool to ask.

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TheMikh
04/28/20 5:12:59 PM
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i mean it's probably not conducive to a healthy relationship

but on the other hand

based

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Choco
04/28/20 5:13:37 PM
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TheMikh posted...
i mean it's probably not conducive to a healthy relationship

but on the other hand

based
lmao

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smoke_break
04/28/20 5:14:08 PM
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$24 is an unusual amount. Why not just a solid $20 bill...

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Gamerguymass
04/28/20 5:14:21 PM
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He's not going to have to worry about asking her to help with the rent pretty soon.

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gunplagirl
04/28/20 5:15:48 PM
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Politics posted...
Fair? Probably. Good idea for a relationship? Hell no.
This.

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Shablagoo
04/28/20 5:17:23 PM
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Lol holy shit what a dumbass tool


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EmbraceOfDeath
04/28/20 5:18:21 PM
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smoke_break posted...
$24 is an unusual amount. Why not just a solid $20 bill...
$24 would be 40% of the daily total rent. He probably thought he was already doing her a favor splitting it 60/40, lmao.

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Tactical_Spork
04/28/20 5:19:14 PM
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This generation of normie manly man-adjacent dudes who treat their girlfriend like theyre her weirdly misguided stern and l o g i c a l father is the weirdest shit

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berlyman101
04/28/20 5:20:48 PM
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Tactical_Spork posted...
This generation of normie manly man-adjacent dudes who treat their girlfriend like theyre her weirdly misguided stern and l o g i c a l father is the weirdest shit

This has gone on forever

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TreyFlowers
04/28/20 5:21:42 PM
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Gamerguymass posted...
He's not going to have to worry about asking her to help with the rent pretty soon.

This lol

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Tactical_Spork
04/28/20 5:23:53 PM
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berlyman101 posted...
This has gone on forever
idk it seems very specifically common in millenials/zoomer generation for loser-ass sportsbro dudes to decide to totally own that bitch bro!! with some fedora shit like this

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berlyman101
04/28/20 5:27:27 PM
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Tactical_Spork posted...
idk it seems very specifically common in millenials/zoomer generation for loser-ass sportsbro dudes to decide to totally own that bitch bro!! with some fedora shit like this

the guy's feeling was legitimate, it's his tact that was off. he probably did it in part for the hilarity from his bros, you're right about that. but this is nothing we wouldn't have seen in the Seinfeld universe.

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DarkProto05
04/28/20 5:38:02 PM
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If she stays for a while it's fair. An extra person means higher gas, oil, water, and electricity bills. Not to mention shes using your internet and taking up rent space.

If she stays for a night or two once in a while then it's stupid of him.

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voldothegr8
04/28/20 5:43:06 PM
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https://giphy.com/gifs/nKFXQkxLRiEhy/html5
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philsov
04/28/20 5:47:55 PM
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Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/g62va1/aita_for_making_my_gf_pay_to_sleepover/

To which the OP thinks his baseline rent of 1800/mo is even a factor. $24/d in utilities alone is absurd. Even IF the gf was like "I like it super cold despite living in a place that means 100% A/C uptime, sry abt ur power bill lulz", who tf sees an increase of $720/mo in utilities by cohabitating?

Sounds like the dude is just being cheap and finding a way to not have to pay as much rent, at his partner's expense.
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
04/28/20 5:48:41 PM
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Weak ass boyfriend imo.
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Solid Snake07
04/28/20 5:48:41 PM
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Lol, this is the one of the most rediculous things I've ever heard.

Someone who thinks this is fair explain it to me. She has her apartment and she has hers. If you want to share bills then you move in with each other

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Lordgold666
04/28/20 6:30:19 PM
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Male privilege

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casio_guy
04/28/20 6:32:32 PM
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I'd ask my ex to help with groceries if she was staying at my old apartment for a week or more but that's it.. this is overkill.

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Mareen
04/28/20 6:34:29 PM
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Not fair. Not surprised sexist CE is saying this shit is somehow fair though.

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Suchomimus
04/28/20 6:36:20 PM
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Ludicrously based tbqh

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kinetika_
04/28/20 6:44:20 PM
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Lmfao. I take care of my woman. I worked hard to make the money I do solely for that reason. I'm also very effeminate and sensitive, but when it comes to paying for a lady and being a gentleman to her, I always do so 100%.

I think her boyfriend (probably ex now) sucks. If you can't handle the expenses that come with a girlfriend... don't have one. Yeah, eventually you end up sharing the expenses, but typically a man pays for a higher portion of them.

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Lairen
04/28/20 6:46:43 PM
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Well she should charge him $50 for sucking his.....

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Hexenherz
04/28/20 6:48:06 PM
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This is just the second stupidest scheme like this I've heard.
The stupidest one was my exgirlfriend - her boyfriend prior to me had kept track of everything he spent on her, like lunches and dinners and gifts, and when they broke up he asked for her "share" of the amount.

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nemu
04/28/20 6:49:34 PM
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It's not wrong to try to have her chip in on something if it's frequent enough to be considered partial cohabitation, but that's like the single dumbest way you could ever bring it up..
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specialkid8
04/28/20 6:58:18 PM
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It would probably be better to ask her to chip in for groceries if she stays and eats there a lot. Buying groceries and spending together can be good for a relationship. Just straight up asking for money for staying there is not the right approach.
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philsov
04/28/20 7:04:40 PM
#33:


Hexenherz posted...
her boyfriend prior to me had kept track of everything he spent on her, like lunches and dinners and gifts, and when they broke up he asked for her "share" of the amount.


Talk about constantly being one foot out; yikes
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NinjaPirateDood
04/28/20 7:23:18 PM
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nothin' makes a girl drier than when they have to pay money for things. definitely based, tho. #thotwatch

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tremain07
04/28/20 7:26:09 PM
#35:


Is she his GF or a super cheap "call" girl he keeps inviting over?

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Prismsblade
04/28/20 7:31:54 PM
#36:


I'm curious if he started asking this just so she'd stop staying over so often. Creating a somewhat win, win less scenario.

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DeadorDead8
04/28/20 8:33:33 PM
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Fair and most grown ups would agree.
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V-E-G-Y-
04/29/20 8:10:02 AM
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Hexenherz
04/29/20 8:14:46 AM
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DeadorDead8 posted...
Fair and most grown ups would agree.
Most "grown ups" in steady relationships would not agree.

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stone
04/29/20 8:21:19 AM
#41:


tremain07 posted...
Is she his GF or a super cheap "call" girl he keeps inviting over?
Does this make any difference to you? Honestly, asking a girl to pay "rent" just cause she sleeps over frequently is pretty shitty. As was mentioned by others, if he wants to share rent they should move in together, or expect her to invite him over more often and charge him back for each night he stays over.

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closetjpopfan
05/01/20 12:01:25 AM
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...40+ posts in, I'm just going to assume now there's no pix of the gf and therefore no rational conclusion can possibly be arrived at...

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unless there are pix
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AirFresh
05/01/20 12:06:25 AM
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Fair as hell. Anyone who disagrees never had roommates or are just far too nice.

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MrMallard
05/01/20 12:10:19 AM
#44:


I'm not clicking on that "-bible" dogshit, they make enough money on regurgitated viral "news".

It depends on how much she's staying over. If she's over one or two nights a week, maybe less, then dude needs to let it go. He's getting laid, they're having a good time, they have breakfast together etc. Unless he's really struggling, he shouldn't be hurting that bad.

If she's over 4 or more times a week, consistently and without fail, taking showers and stuff - then ask her to move in, or barring that, to kick in some petty cash. If you're one person paying for the resources of 2 people, or even spreading that cost between yourself and a roommate, something's gotta give. Yeah, there's not being financially stable - sometimes you've gotta sacrifice a day or two, because you're getting some companionship out of it. But there's also paying the lion's share of an additional person who's a roommate in everything but name, who's at your place more often than not.

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Kolibri X
05/01/20 12:21:33 AM
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What balls. I mean the girlfriend, to think she can mooch off her boyfriend and have the ego to think her company is payment enough. I have women pay me when they stay with me. One girl stay with me for a few weeks and gave me $500 and she was sucking my dick every night. You guys who think this is crazy have no pimp hand. A generation of cucks and simps.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
05/01/20 12:24:14 AM
#47:


Instead of asking for rent money just ask her to not spend the night because she is making his rent higher when she uses his utilities.

There is a nice way of dealing with this even asking her to chip in but he literally did so with no tact at all.

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