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DoGCyN
03/02/20 7:43:35 PM
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Dating is so frustrating down here. Every single date I've been on in the past year, I find out the girl doesn't want just one kid, or two kids, but a big fuckin family of 4-5 kids. Extremely annoyed. I don't want any children whatsoever.

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wackyteen
03/02/20 7:44:27 PM
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having lived in the south most of my life

that's just the way it be.

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TroutPaste
03/02/20 7:44:54 PM
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03/02/20 7:44:56 PM
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Duncanwii
03/02/20 7:45:42 PM
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Conservative brainwashing.

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Ryuko_Chan
03/02/20 7:45:42 PM
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why dont you want kids

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coh
03/02/20 7:46:20 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
Conservative brainwashing.
Its conservative brainwashing to want a family?
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Wewillrocku
03/02/20 7:47:12 PM
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they don't.

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Ryuko_Chan
03/02/20 7:47:32 PM
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jeffhardyb0yz posted...
Not really your business bro
dont ask questions if you dont want someone to ask you the same question back
nvm ur not even op
stfu

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DoGCyN
03/02/20 7:47:47 PM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
why dont you want kids
because reasons

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MabusIncarnate
03/02/20 7:48:05 PM
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The South is generally poor, more kids means more government payouts and benefits.


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DoGCyN
03/02/20 7:49:32 PM
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Highwind07 posted...
Been dating Christians? they generally are the ones asking for more kids in my experience.
Been dating everyone. The Christian girls are definitely the worst in regards to how many children they want.

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Vicious_Dios
03/02/20 7:50:17 PM
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Sounds like they know what they want and are using that line to weed out the weak men who can't handle having a child of their own, let alone four.

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FrankGoreHOF
03/02/20 7:50:22 PM
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How else will they #riseagain

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creativerealms
03/02/20 7:51:08 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
The South is generally poor, more kids means more government payouts and benefits.
And voting for the people threatening to remove those payouts and benefits.

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DoGCyN
03/02/20 7:52:12 PM
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Vicious_Dios posted...
Sounds like they know what they want and are using that line to weed out the weak men who can't handle having a child of their own, let alone four.
How many kids you got

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ssjevot
03/02/20 7:53:25 PM
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The more educated women as the less likely they are to have kids, so go after educated women.

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Tired-Insomniac
03/02/20 8:00:27 PM
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coh posted...
Its conservative brainwashing to want a family?

Makes sense

Priests need a steady stream of children

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DoGCyN
03/03/20 12:21:35 AM
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Tell me why

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muchdran
03/03/20 12:23:39 AM
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Tax refund.
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LinkScorbunny
03/03/20 12:24:03 AM
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It's natural

Most girls have at least 2-4 kids by the time they are 30.
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DoGCyN
03/03/20 10:06:26 AM
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LinkScorbunny posted...
It's natural

Most girls have at least 2-4 kids by the time they are 30.
I hate it

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spanky1
03/03/20 10:29:17 AM
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Where in the south are you?

In my houston texas based facebook singles group, everyone has or wants kids. Not only that, but if you communicate that you dont want them, they'll get upset and angry and lash out, like a good Christian would.
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DoGCyN
03/03/20 10:41:37 AM
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spanky1 posted...
Where in the south are you?

In my houston texas based facebook singles group, everyone has or wants kids. Not only that, but if you communicate that you dont want them, they'll get upset and angry and lash out, like a good Christian would.
Georgia.

And yeah I've had people do that to me too, including family members. In fact, someone in this topic passive aggressively already lashed out and then left. Fun topic

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Romes187
03/03/20 10:43:06 AM
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what age ranges we talking here
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DoGCyN
03/03/20 10:44:04 AM
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Romes187 posted...
what age ranges we talking here
Anywhere from 25 to 33.

I'm 31.

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spanky1
03/03/20 10:51:16 AM
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DoGCyN posted...

Georgia.

And yeah I've had people do that to me too, including family members. In fact, someone in this topic passive aggressively already lashed out and then left. Fun topic

It really is wierd how defensive people get about kids

I dont want them because they hold no appeal for me. Like, the same reason I dont want a cat. No appeal. It's not because I'm selfish, or lazy, or greedy, its because I dont see the benefit in having a kid. If other people do, then great, it makes sense for them to make those sacrifices to have the kids, because they get those benefits. But I wouldn't get those benefits, so it wouldnt make sense for me to make those sacrifices.

Like, if someone hated cats and doesnt have any, would you call them greedy or selfish or immature because they dont adopt a cat? Of course not! If they dont like cats then they dont like cats. Same deal with kids. I feel like some parents dont understand that concept, that everyone must actually want kids, but some people are just too selfish to go through with it or something. At least that's how they act
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DoGCyN
03/03/20 10:55:59 AM
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spanky1 posted...
It really is wierd how defensive people get about kids

I dont want them because they hold no appeal for me. Like, the same reason I dont want a cat. No appeal. It's not because I'm selfish, or lazy, or greedy, its because I dont see the benefit in having a kid. If other people do, then great, it makes sense for them to make those sacrifices to have the kids, because they get those benefits. But I wouldn't get those benefits, so it wouldnt make sense for me to make those sacrifices.

Like, if someone hated cats and doesnt have any, would you call them greedy or selfish or immature because they dont adopt a cat? Of course not! If they dont like cats then they dont like cats. Same deal with kids. I feel like some parents dont understand that concept, that everyone must actually want kids, but some people are just too selfish to go through with it or something. At least that's how they act

+1.

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DoGCyN
03/03/20 11:00:45 AM
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@Vicious_Dios

How many kids you got

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Chadawah
03/03/20 11:05:47 AM
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Well here in Utah it seems like every single woman 25-32 is divorced with 4 kids, so at least they don't have them already. And people here act like there's something wrong with me because I've never been married. I miss Washington. If I lived in Salt Lake City it wouldn't be bad though.
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DoGCyN
03/03/20 11:10:59 AM
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I would love to know how many kids Vicious_Dios has, but he/she has vacanted the topic.


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DoGCyN
03/03/20 11:13:37 AM
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Chadawah posted...
Well here in Utah it seems like every single woman 25-32 is divorced with 4 kids, so at least they don't have them already. And people here act like there's something wrong with me because I've never been married. I miss Washington. If I lived in Salt Lake City it wouldn't be bad though.

I went on a date with a divorced girl a couple months back. She was crazy af, and of course, she wanted lots of children.

Hot though. However, as I get older, looks are starting to mean less and less to me.


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Balrog0
03/03/20 11:18:17 AM
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I've never had this problem. You can find all kinds of girls out there, even in the South

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DoGCyN
03/03/20 11:20:05 AM
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Balrog0 posted...
I've never had this problem. You can find all kinds of girls out there, even in the South
Teach me your ways. I'm curious where you go (or went) looking

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Kolibri X
03/03/20 11:20:56 AM
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It's only the biological imperative hardwired into us so our species survives. It takes years of subliminal propaganda to erode these urges.

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Southernfatman
03/03/20 11:23:38 AM
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It's seen as part of what you're supposed to do. You're supposed to go to school, grow up, get a job, meet a nice gal/guy, then settle down and have multiple kids, 2 cars, and an RV or boat or something. The south is still stuck believing in the typical American dream and nuclear family without recognizing how different everything is now. Throw religion and conservative politics in the mix and it gets worse.

And like what has already been said, at least you're meeting chicks that don't have kids already.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/03/20 11:32:27 AM
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Southernfatman posted...
It's seen as part of what you're supposed to do. You're supposed to go to school, grow up, get a job, meet a nice gal/guy, then settle down and have multiple kids, 2 cars, and an RV or boat or something. The south is still stuck believing in the typical American dream and nuclear family without recognizing how different everything is now. Throw religion and conservative politics in the mix and it gets worse.

And like what has already been said, at least you're meeting chicks that don't have kids already.
The alternative is lots of educated women who not only wait or refuse to have children but waste shit loads of money on freezing eggs and fertility treatments when they are to old to have healthy children.

The west embracing feminism has effected the birth rate, and the children born late in life have shit tons of health issues.

Women in the south wanting children at 25 are being intelligent, they know to have their children at a young age so those babies will be healthy.

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Southernfatman
03/03/20 11:37:26 AM
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RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...
The alternative is lots of educated women who not only wait or refuse to have children but waste shit loads of money on freezing eggs and fertility treatments when they are to old to have healthy children.

The west embracing feminism has effected the birth rate, and the children born late in life have shit tons of health issues.

Women in the south wanting children at 25 are being intelligent, they know to have their children at a young age so those babies will be healthy.

There's nothing wrong with having kids while that young if the parents want them and are ready. The problem is that many have kids when they aren't because they see it as some kind of obligation. When a young couple gets married down here, their families are going to be bugging them with the question "So when are y'all having kids? When can we expect kids/grandchildren?" etc.

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/03/20 11:39:41 AM
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@Southernfatman
That is when you cut off contact with annoying family for a while or tell them she has an implant so she cant get pregnant until your ready.

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Southernfatman
03/03/20 11:47:33 AM
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Sure, but some people just can't do that.

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NeonOctopus
03/03/20 11:50:46 AM
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Ryuko_Chan posted...
why dont you want kids
Cuz kids are little shits and take over your life once you have them

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RiKuToTheMiGhtY
03/03/20 11:52:53 AM
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Yeah I know but they would be better off if they did, never let your parents force you into having children.

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DoGCyN
03/03/20 12:02:04 PM
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Where are they at. Just need to find one.

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ChrisTaka
03/03/20 12:05:21 PM
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Because their son needs a wife.

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TheCodeisBosco
03/03/20 12:16:50 PM
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The worst part is how the girl's family and friends think the kids issue is their business once you've been dating for a non-negligible amount of time. The fucking entitlement, man...

I'm excited to leave the South. Just gotta keep saving and finish this degree.

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8-bit_Biceps
03/03/20 12:27:48 PM
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Imagine having the benefit of being white and not growing up in a ghetto, yet still the only thing you know is 'make money and have kids' lol.

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