Current Events > CE I need advice. A girl I like flirts with me BUT I learned she MIGHT have BF!

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So this girl I like has been flirting with me a lot and we talk daily and I'm starting to really like her and its obvious she likes me.
She has NEVER EVER mentioned being in a relationship or having a BF.
So I was gonna maybe wait another week or so and just let her know I like her and see if she responds (Which I am pretty sure she would say yes too)

BUT I accidentally discovered that she may have a BF or at least did very recently like she was with this guy for 1-3 months or even currently. Not sure.
He seems to follow her on social media BUT she does NOT follow him. She does follow me tho...

So not sure what is up with that or maybe he isn't really active so she doesn't follow him or they broke up?
Anyway I have no idea how to deal with this situation or approach this now?

Like the last thing I want is to go expecting a sure thing or and then get met with rejection and she reveals she had a BF.
But the fact that she NEVER mentioned her BF at all in all our talks is kinda weird so I have no idea what to do.

I really like her tho why girls playing with my emotions man? ;_;

Only thing I read is that if a girl hides her bf from you and flirts with you and you flirt back that she might be unhappy in that relationship or ready to move on or it might already be over but they haven't officially broken up yet.

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ask her to go on a harmless date. A coffee or a drink or something.
See how she responds.


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Why would she tell you she has a bf if you never asked her?

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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

ask her to go on a harmless date. A coffee or a drink or something.
See how she responds.

Yeah, this
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

ask her to go on a harmless date. A coffee or a drink or something.
See how she responds.

Ok will try that but pretty sure she would 100% say yes and act really nervous about it like she does about everything :D

solosnake posted...

Why would she tell you she has a bf if you never asked her?

In normal day to day conversation it would come up like "Oh my bf loves this." "I was watching this with my bf and he kept pointing out etc." "Oh I beat this game but my bf had to fight the final bosss because seriously he was so tough omg"

like if you are in a relationship it would come up when talking about your life and stuff you do

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

In normal day to day conversation it would come up like "Oh my bf loves this." "I was watching this with my bf and he kept pointing out etc." "Oh I beat this game but my bf had to fight the final bosss because seriously he was so tough omg"

like if you are in a relationship it would come up when talking about your life and stuff you do

not necessarily if she is in a casual relationship just for the dick

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better safe than sorry

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Threesome

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxnbFW3OfhQ

best advice

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Don't tell her you like her ever, she'll drop you like a bad habbit.

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1-3 months is not "having a boyfriend", you're still just dating at that point.

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

ask her to go on a harmless date. A coffee or a drink or something.
See how she responds.

Ok will try that but pretty sure she would 100% say yes and act really nervous about it like she does about everything :D

when you are on the date, ask her if she is single. If she is, good for you. If not, then it's for you to decide how to proceed.


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trappedunderice posted...

Don't tell her you like her ever, she'll drop you like a bad habbit.

Is this real? Because it sounds like CE incel advice.

DocDelicious posted... 1-3 months is not "having a boyfriend", you're still just dating at that point.

I mean dating for at least 1 month or more would have most people saying its their bf no?

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Sounds like youre confusing being friendly with flirting

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

Sounds like youre confusing being friendly with flirting

oh hell no. that might apply to others on CE that don't talk to girls ever not me

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Is this real? Because it sounds like CE incel advice.

I mean dating for at least 1 month or more would have most people saying its their bf no?

no.

she is possibly not exclusive. go out with her, see what happens. ask if you are concerned if things start going somewhere

AwesomeOSauce posted...

oh hell no. that might apply to others on CE that don't talk to girls ever not me

Then why would she mention another bf? How long have you known her? Also, sounds like she is low key clinging to some Chad or Brad that wont commit to her yet.

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Fuck her boyfriend to make her jealous.

Fuck and duck

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bumping for new CE

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

bumping for new CE

answer

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Is this real? Because it sounds like CE incel advice.

I mean dating for at least 1 month or more would have most people saying its their bf no?

Damn you ever even come into contact with a woman?

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Ok so here what happened. I was talking to her we went out and were having a good time.
Then she just hit me with this while we were laughing and having fun in a serious voice tone she switched and said "oh and btw i have a bf"

fuck now what? ;_;

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Ok so here what happened. I was talking to her we went out and were having a good time.
Then she just hit me with this while we were laughing and having fun in a serious voice tone she switched and said "oh and btw i have a bf"

fuck now what? ;_;

Thats fine, i just want to fuck.

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LordMarshal posted...

Thats fine, i just want to fuck.

Then she acted weird the rest of the time. Damn maybe she was having fun then realized maybe she was feeling a certain way or that I was and then felt guilty or needed to mention it I dunno. But the voice change in tone and randomness was weird lol

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Gonna have to get some opinion from some close friends that have been in this situation. I heard if you do things right you can win

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Sounds like you were ultimate friendzoned.

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Gonna have to get some opinion from some close friends that have been in this situation. I heard if you do things right you can win

youve lost, move on

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You've only got one play left. You've got to metaphorically put it all out on the table. Do this by literally putting it all out on the table. The only hope you have is that you've got a better dick. So go out there like Napoleon Dynamite and get those votes for Pedro.

You cant just flop out your sad softy though. You need a plan. Go to lunch. Polish up the legendary Zulfiqar and after the waitress takes your order, slam it on the table. You want it to hit with so much force that it knocks over her water glass. She's stuck there because she's already ordered and youve just made her wet. You're halfway there.

Scientists say that the human woman eye can see 7 dicks per second. So make sure to count to 10 before you put it back in. She just optically took in your dick 70 times. Have you ever looked at a dick 70 times? Every detail is forever engrained into your mind at that point. Every vein and ingrown shaft hair will haunt her dreams for years. She will eat her lunch while thinking but nothing but that dick. She will do this for every meal afterwards.

Now you're at the difficult part: Dont talk to her for years. Then casually bump into her. At this point she's been dreaming about your dick every single night since your last encounter. It's all she can think about when she sees you. She can draw it from memory but there's one thing she can't know. She must answer the riddle that's been on her mind for the past decade. "Is that dick delicious?"

Call your wife and ask if she needs anything while you're at the store. Make it seem like you're a great husband but instead your letting this other girl do a taste test. This has bought you the ten minutes you need. Congratulations. You've turned everything around in your favor.

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So I discovered that this "bf" lives like 2 states away... So does this mean I have a chance cause long distance relationships never work right?

A female friend of mine has talked to her in the past and mentioned this to me. She also said they see each other like once a month or something and it takes hours to go see each other. Its been going on since like August or something.

They probably message each other daily of course but she also does this with me a lot...


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My best advice to you: people aren't rational actors

Don't assume she knows what she's doing
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Poor op

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