Poll of the Day > Friend of mine told me I wasn't being fair to him...

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LittleRoyal 06/09/18 8:05:57 PM #1:	Sorry for cliffhanger He said I wasnt being fair Because I am leading him on as a friend and a date Because he asked me out a while ago and I said I dont want to date anyone right now but being friends is fine So we went to lunches (with other people) etc He asked if I want to hang out alone many times and I say oh (female friend) is busy so I cant today And he says I thought we were friends but okay. Stuff like that And finally he said that if I want to lead him on longer I can just leave him alone So idk Id he just means he wants to hang out alone or if hes saying date me or we arent friends --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902859062] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Sorry for cliffhanger He said I wasnt being fair Because I am leading him on as a friend and a date Because he asked me out a while ago and I said I dont want to date anyone right now but being friends is fine So we went to lunches (with other people) etc He asked if I want to hang out alone many times and I say oh (female friend) is busy so I cant today And he says I thought we were friends but okay. Stuff like that And finally he said that if I want to lead him on longer I can just leave him alone So idk Id he just means he wants to hang out alone or if hes saying date me or we arent friends</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
keyblader1985 06/09/18 8:08:35 PM #2:	He's being a douche. You have no obligation to hang out with him even if you do want to be friends. --- Official King of PotD You only need one T-Rex to make the point, though. ~ Samus Sedai <cite>keyblader1985 posted [p:902859196] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>He's being a douche. You have no obligation to hang out with him even if you do want to be friends.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Golden Road 06/09/18 8:09:15 PM #3:	Your "friend" isn't a very good friend. He's trying to guilt you into a relationship he feels he's "owed." You'd be better off dropping him as a friend. That being said, I understand that's easy for me to say that as an outsider. I hope it works out for you, whatever you do. --- Who's your favorite character from "Bend It Like Beckham"? And you can't say Beckham. <cite>Golden Road posted [p:902859234] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Your "friend" isn't a very good friend. He's trying to guilt you into a relationship he feels he's "owed." You'd be better off dropping him as a friend. That being said, I understand that's easy for me to say that as an outsider. I hope it works out for you, whatever you do.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 06/09/18 8:09:19 PM #4:	Friendzone confusion happens - outright declare you're not going to date them ever, here is a helpful video on the topic: (somewhere in the middle) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BU-Beof9hU" data-time=" --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:902859237] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Friendzone confusion happens - outright declare you're not going to date them ever, here is a helpful video on the topic: (somewhere in the middle) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6BU-Beof9hU" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 8:13:29 PM #5:	keyblader1985 posted... He's being a douche. You have no obligation to hang out with him even if you do want to be friends. Golden Road posted... Your "friend" isn't a very good friend. He's trying to guilt you into a relationship he feels he's "owed." You'd be better off dropping him as a friend. That being said, I understand that's easy for me to say that as an outsider. I hope it works out for you, whatever you do. I f-word ing know!! Hah that was annoying sorry covers eyes with my hair Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. Im just so annoyed by it but I cant loke let people be lonely or hurt so him and another person Im trying to be friends with despite not likely and its super draining --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902859448] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>keyblader1985 posted...</cite> <quote>He's being a douche. You have no obligation to hang out with him even if you do want to be friends.</quote> <cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote>Your "friend" isn't a very good friend. He's trying to guilt you into a relationship he feels he's "owed." You'd be better off dropping him as a friend. That being said, I understand that's easy for me to say that as an outsider. I hope it works out for you, whatever you do.</quote> I f-word ing know!! Hah that was annoying sorry covers eyes with my hair Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. Im just so annoyed by it but I cant loke let people be lonely or hurt so him and another person Im trying to be friends with despite not likely and its super draining</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ogurisama 06/09/18 8:24:46 PM #6:	You made it clear at the start you didnt want to date, yet he keeps on thinking that it will happen, you are not at fault at all, this guy is a fuck twad --- http://cdn-android.apptap.com/img/870/mobi.colortrilogy.bitlink/267135850.png https://i.chzbgr.com/completestore/12/10/5/uv4r7nGyrE6ylt2lHGWpiQ2.gif <cite>Ogurisama posted [p:902860046] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>You made it clear at the start you didnt want to date, yet he keeps on thinking that it will happen, you are not at fault at all, this guy is a fuck twad</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 06/09/18 8:28:30 PM #7:	LittleRoyal posted... Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone Are you really this dense? He made his intentions clear from the get go and you said "maybe later". He obviously was sticking around until you have a clear response to give, but since you haven't decided, he simply wants to know if you actually meant no or if there is something you expect to happen to convince you of a yes. --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:902860248] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone</quote> Are you really this dense? He made his intentions clear from the get go and you said "maybe later". He obviously was sticking around until you have a clear response to give, but since you haven't decided, he simply wants to know if you actually meant no or if there is something you expect to happen to convince you of a yes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rasmoh 06/09/18 8:32:54 PM #8:	Lokarin posted... outright declare you're not going to date them ever, Do this. Don't be cruel or mean, don't play it off like you're just not interested now, just tell him you're not interested in him in that way altogether. --- Miami Dolphins \| Portland Trailblazers \| San Francisco Giants I won't say a thing, because the one who knows best is you. <cite>Rasmoh posted [p:902860474] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lokarin posted...</cite> <quote>outright declare you're not going to date them ever,</quote> Do this. Don't be cruel or mean, don't play it off like you're just not interested now, just tell him you're not interested in him in that way altogether.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Golden Road 06/09/18 8:37:48 PM #9:	No, you're not leading every guy on. Some guys think any girl who's ever nice to them is leading them on. That's their fault, not yours, and you shouldn't be made to feel bad about it =) --- Who's your favorite character from "Bend It Like Beckham"? And you can't say Beckham. <cite>Golden Road posted [p:902860726] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>No, you're not leading every guy on. Some guys think any girl who's ever nice to them is leading them on. That's their fault, not yours, and you shouldn't be made to feel bad about it =)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 06/09/18 8:39:49 PM #10:	I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:902860811] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 06/09/18 8:41:44 PM #11:	You gotta be direct with these kinda guys because they misinterpret any attempt to let them down gently as an indication that theyve still got a shot If you want to stay friends with him then let him know that, but make it clear that you do not find him desirable so if that is what he is looking for he needs to look elsewhere --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood <cite>Mead posted [p:902860904] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>You gotta be direct with these kinda guys because they misinterpret any attempt to let them down gently as an indication that theyve still got a shot If you want to stay friends with him then let him know that, but make it clear that you do not find him desirable so if that is what he is looking for he needs to look elsewhere</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Golden Road 06/09/18 8:41:59 PM #12:	Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. --- Who's your favorite character from "Bend It Like Beckham"? And you can't say Beckham. <cite>Golden Road posted [p:902860919] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 8:46:35 PM #13:	Okay. Thanks everyone ^^ Ill try to give a much much more clear boundary that itll never be that and that since Im s bit upset and uncomfortable from the situation Id like him not to keep messaging for a little bit I suppose ~ Thanks for the tips from both sides --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902861151] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Okay. Thanks everyone ^^ Ill try to give a much much more clear boundary that itll never be that and that since Im s bit upset and uncomfortable from the situation Id like him not to keep messaging for a little bit I suppose ~ Thanks for the tips from both sides</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 06/09/18 8:49:02 PM #14:	Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. And she failed by being ambiguous. --- Scloud posted... Its like he wants two things at the same time. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:902861252] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> And she failed by being ambiguous.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ogurisama 06/09/18 8:50:42 PM #15:	Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings. --- http://cdn-android.apptap.com/img/870/mobi.colortrilogy.bitlink/267135850.png https://i.chzbgr.com/completestore/12/10/5/uv4r7nGyrE6ylt2lHGWpiQ2.gif <cite>Ogurisama posted [p:902861326] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Golden Road 06/09/18 8:55:36 PM #16:	LittleRoyal posted... Okay. Thanks everyone ^^ Ill try to give a much much more clear boundary that itll never be that and that since Im s bit upset and uncomfortable from the situation Id like him not to keep messaging for a little bit I suppose ~ Thanks for the tips from both sides You're welcome. I hope it works out ^_^ --- Who's your favorite character from "Bend It Like Beckham"? And you can't say Beckham. <cite>Golden Road posted [p:902861566] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Okay. Thanks everyone ^^ Ill try to give a much much more clear boundary that itll never be that and that since Im s bit upset and uncomfortable from the situation Id like him not to keep messaging for a little bit I suppose ~ Thanks for the tips from both sides</quote> You're welcome. I hope it works out ^_^</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 06/09/18 8:59:54 PM #17:	Good Luck!!! --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:902861765] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Good Luck!!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 9:02:40 PM #18:	LinkPizza posted... Good Luck!!! Thank you! And thanks everyone but real quick Ogurisama posted... Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings. Very much this. Anytime I say it. Ive never gone back in a not now, if I said Im not sure I know you enough! Thats a clear difference. Its interest --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902861885] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Good Luck!!!</quote> Thank you! And thanks everyone but real quick <cite>Ogurisama posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings.</quote> Very much this. Anytime I say it. Ive never gone back in a not now, if I said Im not sure I know you enough! Thats a clear difference. Its interest</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bugmeat 06/09/18 9:10:52 PM #19:	Ogurisama posted... Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings. But it usually doesn't work that way. Often it is seen as being left open ended so the other person will hold out hope for a future relationship. Not just guys, women too. Especially if it is someone you have known for awhile and have a good friendship with. That bond leads people to trust you and taken you at your word. It's best to be clear. You can tell somebody that you value their friendship but just don't have feelings for them beyond that without being rude about it. If they can't handle the answer that's on them and you're better off without them as a friend anyway. In short, don't be spineless. Be honest and make sure the other person knows where they stand. --- John Mellencamp said it best "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." <cite>Bugmeat posted [p:902862280] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Ogurisama posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> Yeah "right now" basically means I don't want to date you, but i will date a someone when i meet the right person. And its a way to say, no you're not my type without hurting feelings.</quote> But it usually doesn't work that way. Often it is seen as being left open ended so the other person will hold out hope for a future relationship. Not just guys, women too. Especially if it is someone you have known for awhile and have a good friendship with. That bond leads people to trust you and taken you at your word. It's best to be clear. You can tell somebody that you value their friendship but just don't have feelings for them beyond that without being rude about it. If they can't handle the answer that's on them and you're better off without them as a friend anyway. In short, don't be spineless. Be honest and make sure the other person knows where they stand.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 06/09/18 9:11:56 PM #20:	LittleRoyal posted... Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Welcome to the exciting world of male/female friendships. It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men. LittleRoyal posted... Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. It's kind of a weird policy. Is that part of your religion or something, like how Mike Pence won't dine with women unless their husband or his wife is also present? I've had a lot of platonic female friends over the years, but none of them had a weird prohibition against spending time with men alone. Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. "Right now" suggests that it could happen at a point. If somebody has a crush, it gives them hope because they're looking for any sign. You don't want that. Gotta be cruel to be kind. --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| There are precious few at ease / With moral ambiguities / So we act as though they don't exist. <cite>Zeus posted [p:902862351] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? </quote> Welcome to the exciting world of male/female friendships. It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men. <cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. </quote> It's kind of a weird policy. Is that part of your religion or something, like how Mike Pence won't dine with women unless their husband or his wife is also present? I've had a lot of platonic female friends over the years, but none of them had a weird prohibition against spending time with men alone. <cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> "Right now" suggests that it could happen at a point. If somebody has a crush, it gives them hope because they're looking for any sign. You don't want that. Gotta be cruel to be kind.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zikten 06/09/18 9:14:47 PM #21:	hope things work out for you <cite>Zikten posted [p:902862519] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>hope things work out for you</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lokarin 06/09/18 9:15:03 PM #22:	It's just cuz, and I mean this AS a man, men are dumb when it comes to social strategy. We don't think "this friend might be good to add to my circles, the way they share facebook images might increase the jealousy of my girls", we think "Thagg want to bone new girl, make overture of McDonalds and politeness" We aren't offended when turned down early, just our objective changes. "Thagg like new friend who can introduce to many new friend for bone" --- "Salt cures Everything!" My YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/Nirakolov/videos <cite>Lokarin posted [p:902862532] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>It's just cuz, and I mean this AS a man, men are dumb when it comes to social strategy. We don't think "this friend might be good to add to my circles, the way they share facebook images might increase the jealousy of my girls", we think "Thagg want to bone new girl, make overture of McDonalds and politeness" We aren't offended when turned down early, just our objective changes. "Thagg like new friend who can introduce to many new friend for bone"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 9:16:38 PM #23:	Zeus posted... LittleRoyal posted... Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? Welcome to the exciting world of male/female friendships. It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men. LittleRoyal posted... Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. It's kind of a weird policy. Is that part of your religion or something, like how Mike Pence won't dine with women unless their husband or his wife is also present? I've had a lot of platonic female friends over the years, but none of them had a weird prohibition against spending time with men alone. Golden Road posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this. No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely. "Right now" suggests that it could happen at a point. If somebody has a crush, it gives them hope because they're looking for any sign. You don't want that. Gotta be cruel to be kind. No way! Gay men say way more sexual things to me than my female friends or straight guys who generally just act shy about it or dont talk about me and sexuality unless asking me out or flirting aggressively. Secondly..its a learned behavior from life expirience. Nothing more or less. Cant be cruel to be kind. You try that and guys call you birch or whore or try to force you into things. I dont ghost guys or that stuff for fun I do it because guys proved to me its what I need to do to be safe. --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902862614] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Honestly though like am I leading on every guy Im platonic with? Anyone who I consider my friend, Im just leading on? Wtf? </quote> Welcome to the exciting world of male/female friendships. It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men. <cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>Most of my guy friends totally get thet I dont hang out with guys alone. </quote> It's kind of a weird policy. Is that part of your religion or something, like how Mike Pence won't dine with women unless their husband or his wife is also present? I've had a lot of platonic female friends over the years, but none of them had a weird prohibition against spending time with men alone. <cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>I find it weird how most people in the topic completely ignored the "right now" bit. There's literally a whole episode of HIMYM on this.</quote> No, I caught the bit where she tried to turn him down politely.</quote> "Right now" suggests that it could happen at a point. If somebody has a crush, it gives them hope because they're looking for any sign. You don't want that. Gotta be cruel to be kind.</quote> No way! Gay men say way more sexual things to me than my female friends or straight guys who generally just act shy about it or dont talk about me and sexuality unless asking me out or flirting aggressively. Secondly..its a learned behavior from life expirience. Nothing more or less. Cant be cruel to be kind. You try that and guys call you birch or whore or try to force you into things. I dont ghost guys or that stuff for fun I do it because guys proved to me its what I need to do to be safe.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
minervo 06/09/18 9:18:12 PM #24:	Can a man and a woman ever just be friends? <cite>minervo posted [p:902862722] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Can a man and a woman ever just be friends?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 06/09/18 9:24:01 PM #26:	It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men. Sometimes I forget how sheltered you are Just because you see things on TV does not mean thats how everyone is in real life --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood <cite>Mead posted [p:902863026] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><quote>It's why so many women prefer to hang out with gay men.</quote> Sometimes I forget how sheltered you are Just because you see things on TV does not mean thats how everyone is in real life</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 06/09/18 9:31:37 PM #27:	LittleRoyal posted... No way! Gay men say way more sexual things to me than my female friends or straight guys who generally just act shy about it or dont talk about me and sexuality unless asking me out or flirting aggressively. But they won't try to guilt you into a relationship. Which is probably a reason some women prefer to hang out with them. And most of the time, they say the same thing other guys of girls say when with certain groups of friends... minervo posted... Can a man and a woman ever just be friends? Yes. It happens. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:902863416] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>No way! Gay men say way more sexual things to me than my female friends or straight guys who generally just act shy about it or dont talk about me and sexuality unless asking me out or flirting aggressively. </quote> But they won't try to guilt you into a relationship. Which is probably a reason some women prefer to hang out with them. And most of the time, they say the same thing other guys of girls say when with certain groups of friends... <cite>minervo posted...</cite> <quote>Can a man and a woman ever just be friends?</quote> Yes. It happens.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 10:02:32 PM #28:	Guys better not talk about me that way --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902865075] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Guys better not talk about me that way</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Rasmoh 06/09/18 10:04:59 PM #29:	LinkPizza posted... But they won't try to guilt you into a relationship. I feel like this is a misleading idea. The notion of "guilting" someone into a relationship occurs frequently because women have a strong tendency to say misleading things in a misguided effort to spare someone's feelings. "Not looking for a relationship right now", "you're gonna make some girl very happy", "I wish my boyfriend was more like you", etc. Ambiguity creates opportunity for misunderstanding. --- Miami Dolphins \| Portland Trailblazers \| San Francisco Giants I won't say a thing, because the one who knows best is you. <cite>Rasmoh posted [p:902865207] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>But they won't try to guilt you into a relationship.</quote> I feel like this is a misleading idea. The notion of "guilting" someone into a relationship occurs frequently because women have a strong tendency to say misleading things in a misguided effort to spare someone's feelings. "Not looking for a relationship right now", "you're gonna make some girl very happy", "I wish my boyfriend was more like you", etc. Ambiguity creates opportunity for misunderstanding.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 06/09/18 10:05:10 PM #30:	LittleRoyal posted... covers eyes with my hair --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (4-4): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:902865213] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>covers eyes with my hair </quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Yellow 06/09/18 10:11:47 PM #31:	That's very awkward. I've been on both sides of that. I didn't have the guts to outright say "not now, not never", and instead said "not now probably later", and so did the person I was into at a different time. "Not now not never sorry there are other fish in the sea." --- https://imgur.com/TGAlzGD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgGzAKP_HuM <cite>Yellow posted [p:902865504] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>That's very awkward. I've been on both sides of that. I didn't have the guts to outright say "not now, not never", and instead said "not now probably later", and so did the person I was into at a different time. "Not now not never sorry there are other fish in the sea."</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 10:16:25 PM #32:	Muffinz0rz posted... LittleRoyal posted... covers eyes with my hair Uhh thats me being myself, playboy. throws my hands on my hips and thrusts my head forward Yellow posted... That's very awkward. I've been on both sides of that. I didn't have the guts to outright say "not now, not never", and instead said "not now probably later", and so did the person I was into at a different time. "Not now not never sorry there are other fish in the sea." Well I didnt say probably anything... --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902865751] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>covers eyes with my hair </quote> </quote> Uhh thats me being myself, playboy. throws my hands on my hips and thrusts my head forward <cite>Yellow posted...</cite> <quote>That's very awkward. I've been on both sides of that. I didn't have the guts to outright say "not now, not never", and instead said "not now probably later", and so did the person I was into at a different time. "Not now not never sorry there are other fish in the sea."</quote> Well I didnt say probably anything...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 06/09/18 10:16:37 PM #33:	Why do I get the feeling this topic is fabricated to generate controversy. <cite>dedbus posted [p:902865762] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Why do I get the feeling this topic is fabricated to generate controversy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Yellow 06/09/18 10:18:05 PM #34:	You should say "I never will". In very literal terms. Not trying to make a statement here, it'll just kill whatever's going on even quicker. He might be sad or mad or whatever, but he'll get over it. --- https://imgur.com/TGAlzGD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgGzAKP_HuM <cite>Yellow posted [p:902865847] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>You should say "I never will". In very literal terms. Not trying to make a statement here, it'll just kill whatever's going on even quicker. He might be sad or mad or whatever, but he'll get over it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/09/18 10:19:18 PM #35:	Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902865929] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Yellow 06/09/18 10:21:32 PM #36:	wwinterj25 posted... Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick. She's probably just a pretty girl. --- https://imgur.com/TGAlzGD https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgGzAKP_HuM <cite>Yellow posted [p:902866049] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick.</quote> She's probably just a pretty girl.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/09/18 10:24:03 PM #37:	Yellow posted... She's probably just a pretty girl. I highly doubt it. Said user is probably a unattractive guy who sees himself as a pretty girl and wants men to "like" him so makes shit up on the internet. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902866183] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Yellow posted...</cite> <quote>She's probably just a pretty girl.</quote> I highly doubt it. Said user is probably a unattractive guy who sees himself as a pretty girl and wants men to "like" him so makes shit up on the internet.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 06/09/18 10:25:49 PM #38:	LittleRoyal posted... throws my hands on my hips and thrusts my head forward --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (4-4): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:902866284] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote>throws my hands on my hips and thrusts my head forward </quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 10:29:11 PM #39:	Yellow posted... wwinterj25 posted... Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick. She's probably just a pretty girl. Uhh thanks. Because in lots of sections of my life, I am very secure and stable and playful. In relationship/sexual scenarios are the things that plague me and I dont know what to do and want help with but cant talk about irl. Anything else I can just ask my mom or friends. --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902866455] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Yellow posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Why do most of your topics always make it out how you're so desirable or some shit and you're always conflicted? Shit gimmick.</quote> She's probably just a pretty girl.</quote> Uhh thanks. Because in lots of sections of my life, I am very secure and stable and playful. In relationship/sexual scenarios are the things that plague me and I dont know what to do and want help with but cant talk about irl. Anything else I can just ask my mom or friends.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/09/18 10:31:30 PM #40:	Yeah definitely a gimmick. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902866598] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 06/09/18 10:32:08 PM #41:	minervo posted... Can a man and a woman ever just be friends? Legally, no --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood <cite>Mead posted [p:902866635] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>minervo posted...</cite> <quote>Can a man and a woman ever just be friends?</quote> Legally, no</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Golden Road 06/09/18 10:48:25 PM #42:	wwinterj25 posted... Yeah definitely a gimmick. Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. --- Who's your favorite character from "Bend It Like Beckham"? And you can't say Beckham. <cite>Golden Road posted [p:902867594] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/09/18 10:54:55 PM #43:	Golden Road posted... wwinterj25 posted... Yeah definitely a gimmick. Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. People just dont loke me Im not supposed to submit to it --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902867958] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> People just dont loke me Im not supposed to submit to it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 06/09/18 10:56:22 PM #44:	Golden Road posted... wwinterj25 posted... Yeah definitely a gimmick. Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:902868062] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/09/18 11:09:16 PM #45:	Golden Road posted... Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. .... because the TC's posting history including this topic mostly. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902868795] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote>Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> .... because the TC's posting history including this topic mostly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bugmeat 06/09/18 11:12:06 PM #46:	wwinterj25 posted... .... because the TC's posting history including this topic mostly. Yeah, this account seems to always be stuck in the middle of these extremely cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one. --- John Mellencamp said it best "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." <cite>Bugmeat posted [p:902868949] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote> .... because the TC's posting history including this topic mostly.</quote> Yeah, this account seems to always be stuck in the middle of these extremely cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/09/18 11:15:45 PM #47:	Bugmeat posted... Yeah, this account seems to be stuck in the middle of these extremely.cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one. Exactly. I gave this user the benefit of the doubt before but the more I read this users topics the more I'm swaying the other way. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902869165] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Bugmeat posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, this account seems to be stuck in the middle of these extremely.cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one.</quote> Exactly. I gave this user the benefit of the doubt before but the more I read this users topics the more I'm swaying the other way.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 06/09/18 11:53:21 PM #48:	LinkPizza posted... Golden Road posted... wwinterj25 posted... Yeah definitely a gimmick. Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But... it's not unique to potd, CE reacts pretty similarly --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (4-4): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:902871126] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But...</quote> it's not unique to potd, CE reacts pretty similarly</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 06/10/18 12:08:04 AM #49:	Muffinz0rz posted... LinkPizza posted... Golden Road posted... wwinterj25 posted... Yeah definitely a gimmick. Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common. On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But... it's not unique to potd, CE reacts pretty similarly Thats true... Though, so far, less people accuse me of being a alt there. And it was pretty easy to join in the conversations. But, it probably just depends on which discussions you join and the others who are there... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:902871836] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Golden Road posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah definitely a gimmick.</quote> Why do you think it's a gimmick? This sort of thing seems pretty common.</quote> On PotD, most people seem to assume that almost every user is an alt or a gimmick. And while a lot can be, theres also a lot of just people. But...</quote> it's not unique to potd, CE reacts pretty similarly</quote> Thats true... Though, so far, less people accuse me of being a alt there. And it was pretty easy to join in the conversations. But, it probably just depends on which discussions you join and the others who are there...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 06/10/18 12:12:59 AM #50:	You're just too hot TC. ;P --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:902872048] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote>You're just too hot TC. ;P</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 06/10/18 1:18:50 AM #51:	wwinterj25 posted... Bugmeat posted... Yeah, this account seems to be stuck in the middle of these extremely.cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one. Exactly. I gave this user the benefit of the doubt before but the more I read this users topics the more I'm swaying the other way. Too be honest shrugs its not like this was new this was life before puberty too, ever since High School. I mean more dating now than earlier but same situations with manipulative friends And the funny thing is to me its kust normal, not like crazy situations keep happening. I just want to document it and get advice. Im really sorry I bug so much! Last time I apologized for it most people said I wasnt that bad and to keep being me... Btw its not always different people I blog about... And not this or the other one youre upset about But sometimes I tell the stories of creeps who found my Instagram or Snapchat (I share Snapchat with my entire class once, bad idea. We had a shared campus story I used to post myself cooking or doing dumb stuff, but some girls started posting topless pics and I got mixed up in it, even though I never posted dirty stuff they knew some girls were, and they knew I wasnt a frequent poster...) --- I-I really needed this~~ Uh yes, I really am vicious! So do not even try me... <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902874984] in Friend of ... [t:76691007]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Bugmeat posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, this account seems to be stuck in the middle of these extremely.cliche scenarios. Almost as if they're going down a list and checking them off one by one.</quote> Exactly. I gave this user the benefit of the doubt before but the more I read this users topics the more I'm swaying the other way.</quote> Too be honest shrugs its not like this was new this was life before puberty too, ever since High School. I mean more dating now than earlier but same situations with manipulative friends And the funny thing is to me its kust normal, not like crazy situations keep happening. I just want to document it and get advice. Im really sorry I bug so much! Last time I apologized for it most people said I wasnt that bad and to keep being me... Btw its not always different people I blog about... And not this or the other one youre upset about But sometimes I tell the stories of creeps who found my Instagram or Snapchat (I share Snapchat with my entire class once, bad idea. We had a shared campus story I used to post myself cooking or doing dumb stuff, but some girls started posting topless pics and I got mixed up in it, even though I never posted dirty stuff they knew some girls were, and they knew I wasnt a frequent poster...) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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