Board 8 > I came out of the closet to Nick the other night, figured I'd tell board 8, too.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Although I'm not sure "coming out the closet" refers to those who come out as bisexual. I actually googled for the fun of it to see if it would apply to this situation but whatever.

Anyway, I'm 30 now and only a few immediate friends knew about it but I figure it would OK to open up to board 8 about it because I don't think anyone here that I would consider a friend or a good person in general will look at me any differently. Anyone who already hated me is probably gonna have the same opinion as well.

BTW, this isn't "I feel sexually attracted to men and women." This is "I literally had sex with men as well as women in one-on-one scenarios" and while I'm preferential towards women, I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with a man.
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Is this because you love the man in your username?

Because that doesn't make you bisexual. That makes you human.

Also, congratulations.
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TheRock1525 posted...

I wouldn't be opposed to a relationship with a man.

well i wish you the best in your goals of getting into a relationship with someone who's not opposed to being in a relationship with a man, too
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ok

I don't think you'll find much drama or interest here. Most people will probably treat it as a non-issue.
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I feel bad because I thought this would be a joke

Anyway yeah you can come out as bi, it's funny though how much it struck me as a completely banal piece of information

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I don't think you'll find much drama or interest here. Most people will probably treat it as a non-issue.

That's exactly why I did it. We've all kinda matured to the point where information like this is nothing.

For me, personally, it feels like a little more weight off my shoulders, though.
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Congrats on coming out. Even though we aren't gonna make a big deal about it here I imagine it feels pretty great to just be open about who you are as a person.
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but I mean if you want I'm sure we can make a big deal about it here.

like with cake. and some booze.

do you want that
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BTW to timeline things out for anyone that remembers, I said I lost my virginity when I was 27 on April 1st, 2015 to Rockgirl.

Truth be told, I had sex with men when I was in my early 20's.

So Rockgirl was my first time with a woman, but not first time overall.
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I'm surprised you kept it even from the board for so long; that suggests you were really struggling with it. If that's the case, then I hope this has brought you some relief. For what little it's worth, this is a non-issue to me and I still think you're the same cool dude I thought you were yesterday. =)
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TheRock1525 posted...

BTW to timeline things out for anyone that remembers, I said I lost my virginity when I was 27 on April 1st, 2015 to Rockgirl.

Truth be told, I had sex with men when I was in my early 20's.

So Rockgirl was my first time with a woman, but not first time overall.

Were they very different experiences, or basically the same?
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TheRock1525 posted...

BTW to timeline things out for anyone that remembers, I said I lost my virginity when I was 27 on April 1st, 2015 to Rockgirl.

Truth be told, I had sex with men when I was in my early 20's.

So Rockgirl was my first time with a woman, but not first time overall.

Were they very different experiences, or basically the same?

Are you talking between the various men, or between a man and a woman?

The answer is "radically different" but for different reasons depending on which one.
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TheRock1525 posted...

BTW to timeline things out for anyone that remembers, I said I lost my virginity when I was 27 on April 1st, 2015 to Rockgirl.

Truth be told, I had sex with men when I was in my early 20's.

So Rockgirl was my first time with a woman, but not first time overall.

Best April Fool's day joke ever

good luck in your future endeavors
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K.
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TheRock1525 posted...

Are you talking between the various men, or between a man and a woman?

I meant between a man and a woman.
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Thank you President Trump for being in charge of an America where Rock feels comfortable enough to come out <3
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Glad you felt comfortable enough to come out, other than that it means nothing to me. Good luck to ya dude.
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Who are the Top 5 hottest male celebrities/sports stars iyo?
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TheRock1525 posted...

Are you talking between the various men, or between a man and a woman?

I meant between a man and a woman.

Don't want to get too specific but yes.

Yes there are.
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mnkbear907 posted...

Who are the Top 5 hottest male celebrities/sports stars iyo?

I don't have a top 5 for women so it'd be hard to put together a list of men off hand.
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at this point i'm under the impression that if a dude posts on B8 there's at least an 80% chance he likes dick or man ass too. so probably the most "oh, okay" thing i've seen you post.
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I can guarantee you 80% of board 8 hasn't had sex with a man.
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I've always been a firm believer that everyone is bi for the right guy. Mostly because it's catchy.


So when we gonna hang out again anyways Rock? :(
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I'm actually sort of jealous because I've never had sex with a woman and I think it'd be kind of nice to try - I don't expect to like it more than with a man but who knows, the idea doesn't gross me out or anything. I've never felt comfortable approaching someone to do it with though

I think it's cool to have experience with both but I know that carries less weight coming from a gay man

BTW, I would like to point out that I've shared a bed with two board 8ers in XIII and Kora.
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shared a bed with but not "shared a bed with", I assume

3 people is too much in a bed for sleeping. I'd totally sleep on the floor in such a scenario.
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To be fair those were separate times. That or XIII made a special trip to sleep with us and I wasn't made aware of it.


So I'm 95% sure those were separate times.
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Yeah to be fair the bed me and Kora shared was huge so there was plenty of space.

XIII we tried sleeping head-to-toe and then I just slept on the floor.
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Surprise Rock outing XIII and Kora.
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Also thing I generally don't advertise, I actually like sleeping on the floor.

Mainly because I love spreading my limbs out in every way imaginable.
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Kora wouldn't bristle with me.
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Couldn't you just get one of those giant massive California beds?
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TheRock1525 posted...

Kora wouldn't bristle with me.

Now that's just BS, if you asked I would have >_>
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red13n posted...

Also thing I generally don't advertise, I actually like sleeping on the floor.

Mainly because I love spreading my limbs out in every way imaginable.

As someone with a bad back I've never been more horrified.
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Korayashi posted...

TheRock1525 posted...

Kora wouldn't bristle with me.

Now that's just BS, if you asked I would have >_>

You shouldn't have to ask.
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TheRock1525 posted...

Korayashi posted...

TheRock1525 posted...

Kora wouldn't bristle with me.

Now that's just BS, if you asked I would have >_>

You shouldn't have to ask.

By that logic you should have just bristled with me though...
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I tried but you always turned away.
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Was I awake at the time? All the more reason to come hang out again Rock :(
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Cheers buddy, good luck with it.
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Top or bottom?
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Korayashi posted...

Couldn't you just get one of those giant massive California beds?

Regular king-sized beds are wider. California Kings are still very wide though, just not quite as wide, and are also longer.

Also cheers to Rock
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ProfitProphet posted...

Top or bottom?

Yes.
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I thought this was already common knowledge
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Coming out as bi is absolutely a coming out of the closet experience. When I came out as bi to my parents they were like "lol oh honey we knew" well thanks for letting me in on the secret mom

Have fun doing the sex with consenting adults
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This is not shocking basically all guys into wrestling are into dudes

Even I treat it as a no-issue
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Congrats I guess?

If we're being real here, in a fair society this is a non issue and you wouldn't have to come out at all.
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