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Topicresurfacing anxiety/contempt regarding well-off partner
cuttin_in_farm
03/29/24 1:52:46 PM
#12
Dungeater posted...
yes, as i mentioned. thank you for your concern

Whoops. My bad totally missed the last part.

Have you discussed this issue with your partner too?

I can relate somewhat. Its something I think might be good to discuss with him directly.


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Topicresurfacing anxiety/contempt regarding well-off partner
cuttin_in_farm
03/29/24 1:41:19 PM
#5
Have you tried consulting with a professional about this?

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Topic10 billion dollars but you can no longer be horny
cuttin_in_farm
03/27/24 11:28:34 AM
#11
Dakimakura posted...
Someone said this would kill you. Sounds like a downside to me.

Are we going by topic title or your OP?

Your topic title is magic. The OP is just you not knowing how the human body works.

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Topic10 billion dollars but you can no longer be horny
cuttin_in_farm
03/27/24 11:02:49 AM
#9
I mean, your body doesnt technically need to be horny to do sexual things. So this doesnt really have much downside thh.

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TopicRemember when Sakurai gave Zelda a gargantuan ass?
cuttin_in_farm
03/27/24 8:29:19 AM
#3
BlueAnnihilator posted...
Where?

TC thinks the dress itself is form fitting for some reason.

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TopicAmerican men who attach their masculinity to being able to drive a stick
cuttin_in_farm
03/27/24 7:34:52 AM
#2
Im sure your judgement makes you very cool. The very harmless pride men can have about driving stick.

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TopicCould the last video game character you controlled defeat Goku?
cuttin_in_farm
03/25/24 5:11:32 PM
#20
s0nicfan posted...
Cloud from FF7 Rebirth so... maybe? It kind of depends on how materia works outside of game mechanics.

There are zero versions of Cloud beating Goku lmao.

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TopicEver talk on the phone before an online date?
cuttin_in_farm
03/25/24 1:58:25 PM
#22
jediknight0056 posted...
It's more that I'm very secure now in my looks and social skills when I was absolutely not when I first started dating at 25. I'm also not a big fan of my voice, too Ben Shapiro-ish for my liking lol

Told her that I didn't want to come off across more awkward than I am. She told me she understood why I felt that way \ _ ( ) _ /

So whats the point of this topic, again?

Seems like youre good?

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TopicEver talk on the phone before an online date?
cuttin_in_farm
03/25/24 12:26:26 PM
#19
jediknight0056 posted...
That's just what I did. I said it's not my favorite way to communicate before meeting up. But I also told her that after we do meet I'd be okay with talking on the phone.

Like, from a womans perspective. This seems sketchy. Tbh.

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TopicEver talk on the phone before an online date?
cuttin_in_farm
03/25/24 12:25:36 PM
#18
jediknight0056 posted...
Because I get basically nothing out of phone interactions, especially when I have no idea what this girl is like.


Is talking to her only for your benefit regarding looking better?

I just dont understand. This girl wants to talk on phone. You said youd be cool after an in person meeting.

Like, whats the deal with before? You think youd not impress or something?


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TopicEver talk on the phone before an online date?
cuttin_in_farm
03/24/24 9:33:42 PM
#7
jediknight0056 posted...
No joke

Why would you not want to talk on the phone with someone you presumably like talking to?

Its not only about being charming. You dont care to get to know her?

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TopicEver talk on the phone before an online date?
cuttin_in_farm
03/24/24 9:26:25 PM
#2
Is this a joke topic?

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TopicRacist mfs side with the racist X-Men villain cuz of course they do
cuttin_in_farm
03/23/24 7:44:21 PM
#249
People in the this topic sure like pretending they are perfect virtues of goodness or something.

The people against X-Men are basically a wide scale Lex Luthor.

This person/group has abilities that normal people dont. Thats makes me weary of them

Marvel having these people in the same universe as Spider-Man is where things get dumb and illogical.

But sorry. This story isnt going anywhere. Avatar does it with benders vs nonbenders. Attack on Titan does it too. And many stories.

The whole They are minority stand-ins fails when you affirm the real life historical racism by making the oppressed group ACTUALLY different and stronger than a normal human.

Real life bigots assume that of people who arent different.

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TopicJesus, the Last Week Tonight about student loan debt was infuriating.
cuttin_in_farm
03/23/24 9:43:52 AM
#129
DrizztLink posted...
I'd be more inclined to believe you cared about medical debt if you weren't blatantly and exclusively self-interested.

What does this even mean.

Only on the internet will random dudes just ignore your words and make up your intentions instead lmao.

I care about medical debt more than school debt. Neither particularly affects me, currently.

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TopicHow often does relatability factor into storytelling for you?
cuttin_in_farm
03/23/24 9:22:10 AM
#21
Relatability is important to a degree. Its why if a story hinges heavily on one character, you run the risk of that character not being likable. And likability is easier if they are relatable. And a character without relatable struggles isnt much of a character at all.

Im a black guy. But Disneys Mulan is very relatable to me because the idea that you dont fit into a group (specifically one based around masculinity) is something I relate to. Thus, I really like Mulan.

People who can only relate to their own gender or race are, frankly, morons or arent thinking long enough.

The second characters lose relatability, the story suffers. Just look at Mary Sues or the harem protags in anime.

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TopicJesus, the Last Week Tonight about student loan debt was infuriating.
cuttin_in_farm
03/22/24 7:52:33 AM
#120
wackyteen posted...
Society made a seeming promise to them that with a degree they'd find a job with their degree.

Society failed to mention that all of our resumes would wind up in an AI's shred box or that our thousands of hours of blood, sweat and tears would be glossed over in 8 seconds by a hiring manager before being tossed in the (proverbial) bin if said resumes made it past the barely held together sorting algorithm.

Blaming children for accepting loans on the promise of a false future is pretty fucking cruel.

While life is cruel, we should provide for those that have been exploited and seek to shelter future generations from being exploited in a similar manner. Otherwise, what's the point of any of this? If everything is "fuck off, fuck you, got mine" or "fuck off, should've picked better" then don't be surprised when people kick you off the cliff you're dangling from.

Get medical debt first if you really wanna help people.

Forgiving loans and then having the same fucking loan situation exist to just start again does nothing but give people a chance to pat themselves on the back.

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TopicJesus, the Last Week Tonight about student loan debt was infuriating.
cuttin_in_farm
03/22/24 12:37:51 AM
#115
ClayGuida posted...
How so?

Is Medicare or medicaid a big FU to those that pay for health insurance?

No. Because theres a prerequisite for both medicare and medicaid. Either age, an illness, or low income.

Yall are asking forgiveness for who? Anyone who took out loans? Lmao.

Comparing it to social programs like medicaid is unbelievably stupid.

wackyteen posted...
Only if you're petty and begrudging of others getting benefits you don't also benefit from.

Neat.

TheGoldenEel posted...
Really dumb to assume that people who are pro-forgiveness are strictly people who have outstanding loans

If not, I have an even lesser opinion of the stance. So cool?

DrizztLink posted...
Not really.

This is like saying the polio vaccine was a massive fuck you to people who already have polio.

Only if you dont know how analogies work. Polio is not a choice.

Idgaf about pressure. Its still a choice. A choice that if even a sliver of students can choose to not do, I no longer care. Just because the average nitwit wont read loan agreements and actually take some forethought in life doesnt mean outright forgiveness is needed.

Especially not before medical debt forgiveness.

Fuck off.

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TopicJesus, the Last Week Tonight about student loan debt was infuriating.
cuttin_in_farm
03/21/24 5:57:13 PM
#96
Forgive interest accrued.

Go by principle amount lent and deduct lifetime payment.

Thats the only reasonable way.

Outright forgiveness is a massive fuck you to everyone who worked two jobs or took bullshit jobs or struggled or whatever the fuck else paying off shit.

Yall trying to moral grandstand on Youre being selfish is thinly veiled bullshit.

You already payed it is a callous response to Can I get my money back?.

But yall dont care because it doesnt affect you. How ironic.

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TopicIs it easier to make money dishonestly/illegally?
cuttin_in_farm
03/21/24 7:31:39 AM
#3
Again. CE.

Stop giving options with whys if you are too close minded to cover most everyones whys.

Just have a yes or no option.

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TopicWould you work for Michael Scott?
cuttin_in_farm
03/20/24 1:03:13 PM
#12
Im black, so hed definitely be too much to work with tbh.

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TopicDragon's Dogma 2 getting 9/10s despite reportedly shit performance
cuttin_in_farm
03/20/24 12:49:26 PM
#32
I personally dont care about fps.

Dragons Dogma 1 was such a fun game that I will immediately buy the second.

Performance only matters as much as graphics. Were at a point where I dont care to have the best since the baseline is still really good.

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TopicRewatching Legend of Korra and I genuinely wish (SPOILERS)
cuttin_in_farm
03/19/24 4:38:28 PM
#57
Antagonist Varrick > Protagonist Varrick, imo.

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TopicRewatching Legend of Korra and I genuinely wish (SPOILERS)
cuttin_in_farm
03/19/24 3:54:18 PM
#55
LonelyStoner posted...
Oh I didnt mean flying. I meant extremely agile with her fighting techniques, physical and bending.

But my agility comment is specifically her flight

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TopicRewatching Legend of Korra and I genuinely wish (SPOILERS)
cuttin_in_farm
03/19/24 12:46:45 PM
#39
ROBANN_88 posted...
https://i.makeagif.com/media/8-11-2015/LqU_8Q.gif

Theres a difference between that and what Zaheer does. Azula, and other firebenders, have zero agility. They can only propel.

Zaheer can fly without using his hands. He can fly and do dips and turns.

Ironically, Aang flies when he goes in avatar state almost every time. I dunno if that was intentional, but would make sense.


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TopicRewatching Legend of Korra and I genuinely wish (SPOILERS)
cuttin_in_farm
03/18/24 7:12:18 PM
#24
ROBANN_88 posted...
Eartbenders had metalbending
Firebenders had lightningbending
Waterbenders had bloodbending

what do Airbenders get as a specialty?

Earth also has lava, and the seismic stuff like lie detection.

Water also has ice and healing.

Fire has combustion.

Air has spirit projection and flight.

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