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deoxxys 04/01/24 8:14:52 PM #1:	Is it disrespectful to choose not to divulge your pronouns? - Results (169 votes) Yes it is disrespectful 13.61% (23 votes) 23 No it isnt 86.39% (146 votes) 146 Yes this is based stuff this discussion: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/80735521 The scenario included going to an event where you're given a name tag in a space for pronouns. Seems easy enough to respect other people's choice of pronouns. However, taking it a step further, some consider not writing down anything to be just as disrespectful. Do you think this is true? --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 <cite>deoxxys posted [p:979683067] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote> Is it disrespectful to choose not to divulge your pronouns? - Results (169 votes) Yes it is disrespectful 13.61% (23 votes) 23 No it isnt 86.39% (146 votes) 146 Show Voting Form Yes this is based stuff this discussion:https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/80735521The scenario included going to an event where you're given a name tag in a space for pronouns. Seems easy enough to respect other people's choice of pronouns.However, taking it a step further, some consider not writing down anything to be just as disrespectful. Do you think this is true? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DrizztLink 04/01/24 8:15:23 PM #2:	This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention. --- He/Him http://guidesmedia.ign.com/guides/9846/images/slowpoke.gif https://i.imgur.com/M8h2ATe.png https://i.imgur.com/6ezFwG1.png <cite>DrizztLink posted [p:979683078] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
deoxxys 04/01/24 8:15:49 PM #3:	DrizztLink posted... This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention. I don't want attention I just want data. I'm on the spectrum and numbers fascinate me. I'm curious to know what the social circle known as gamefaqs thinks. --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 <cite>deoxxys posted [p:979683085] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>DrizztLink posted... </cite><quote>This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention.</quote>I don't want attention I just want data. I'm on the spectrum and numbers fascinate me. I'm curious to know what the social circle known as gamefaqs thinks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ironman2009 04/01/24 8:18:11 PM #4:	no --- THRILLHO <cite>ironman2009 posted [p:979683139] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>no </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArkhamOrigins 04/01/24 8:19:12 PM #5:	This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention. --- The <cite>ArkhamOrigins posted [p:979683172] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>This didn't need a second topic just because you want attention. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/01/24 8:22:30 PM #6:	No, not disrespectful, but questionable. Like just putting your pronouns is such a simple and easy thing to do. I'd be skeptical of anyone that had an issue with listing their pronouns. --- Steam/Xbox/PSN = NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:979683231] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No, not disrespectful, but questionable. Like just putting your pronouns is such a simple and easy thing to do. I'd be skeptical of anyone that had an issue with listing their pronouns. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 04/01/24 8:24:40 PM #7:	Choosing what info of yours to divulge or not is entirely your call. Understanding and abiding by this is self-respect. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:979683268] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Choosing what info of yours to divulge or not is entirely your call. Understanding and abiding by this is self-respect. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Irony 04/01/24 8:26:22 PM #8:	No Anyone who tells you otherwise or questions your answer is an idiot --- See profile pic <cite>Irony posted [p:979683295] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>NoAnyone who tells you otherwise or questions your answer is an idiot </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mew 04/01/24 8:29:33 PM #9:	Guide posted... Choosing what info of yours to divulge or not is entirely your call. Understanding and abiding by this is self-respect. --- https://iili.io/J2AP3an.gif <cite>Mew posted [p:979683376] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite><quote>Choosing what info of yours to divulge or not is entirely your call. Understanding and abiding by this is self-respect.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bobspacethespacecow 04/01/24 8:31:37 PM #10:	"what are your pronouns" "i'd rather not say" done --- *BtCV* Passersby were amazed by the unusually large amounts of blood. <cite>bobspacethespacecow posted [p:979683419] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>"what are your pronouns""i'd rather not say"done </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bobspacethespacecow 04/01/24 8:33:58 PM #12:	i will say if someone asks you what your pronouns are, and you refuse to answer, and they refer to you as "they", and you get mad about it, that is entirely on you --- *BtCV* Passersby were amazed by the unusually large amounts of blood. <cite>bobspacethespacecow posted [p:979683462] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>i will say if someone asks you what your pronouns are, and you refuse to answer, and they refer to you as "they", and you get mad about it, that is entirely on you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpawnShadow 04/01/24 8:36:37 PM #13:	I'd say "not inherently", mostly because some folks are still questioning their own identities and I don't think they should be pushed into giving an answer so quickly if they're not yet comfortable with doing so (and especially if they live somewhere that's systemically hostile toward trans people and/or are living near or with people who are personally hostile toward trans people, where being seen or heard giving the "wrong" answer can have some major negative consequences for them, up to and including death). If you ask them respectfully, and they give you their pronouns, great, but if they're uncomfortable with doing so (and not responding with hostility, e.g. the stupid-ass "I identify as an attack helicopter" "joke" that gets endlessly repeated by far-right jackholes who think they're so funny), don't push them to give you an answer to that question immediately. <cite>SpawnShadow posted [p:979683508] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>I'd say "not inherently", mostly because some folks are still questioning their own identities and I don't think they should be pushed into giving an answer so quickly if they're not yet comfortable with doing so (and especially if they live somewhere that's systemically hostile toward trans people and/or are living near or with people who are personally hostile toward trans people, where being seen or heard giving the "wrong" answer can have some major negative consequences for them, up to and including death).If you ask them respectfully, and they give you their pronouns, great, but if they're uncomfortable with doing so (and not responding with hostility, e.g. the stupid-ass "I identify as an attack helicopter" "joke" that gets endlessly repeated by far-right jackholes who think they're so funny), don't push them to give you an answer to that question immediately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nemu 04/01/24 8:37:02 PM #14:	No. It's absolutely trivially easy to simply do so, but it's also completely unnecessary unless someone wants to disclose it for their own purposes or just to support those who do. As long as people have the option to disclose it without being shamed, that's where it should stop. The idea that one needs to do so to show support is just good intentions taken too far. <cite>Nemu posted [p:979683519] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No. It's absolutely trivially easy to simply do so, but it's also completely unnecessary unless someone wants to disclose it for their own purposes or just to support those who do. As long as people have the option to disclose it without being shamed, that's where it should stop. The idea that one needs to do so to show support is just good intentions taken too far.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bobspacethespacecow 04/01/24 8:37:25 PM #15:	"what are your pronouns" "i don't fuckin care" valid and also done --- *BtCV* Passersby were amazed by the unusually large amounts of blood. <cite>bobspacethespacecow posted [p:979683531] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>"what are your pronouns""i don't fuckin care"valid and also done </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CobraGT 04/01/24 8:37:42 PM #16:	People would live healthier, longer, happier lives if they just let people live. On the other hand give onto Caesar that which is Caesar's. Fact some Americans feel entitled to your personal details on demand. --- GoldenSun/Crossbone Isle diagrams/ 18 teams known https://photobucket.com/u/SwordOfWheat/a/9990a2ee-25f3-4242-ae79-7d2d4b882be4 <cite>CobraGT posted [p:979683534] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>People would live healthier, longer, happier lives if they just let people live.On the other hand give onto Caesar that which is Caesar's.Fact some Americans feel entitled to your personal details on demand. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LordFarquad1312 04/01/24 9:29:28 PM #17:	No, because I'm not a snowflake and if for some reason someone misgenders me unintentionally, I'd just correct them. --- El sexo sucio y el planeta limpio. "If you are tired of fear from links... Let Kirby's Nightmare protect you." <cite>LordFarquad1312 posted [p:979684526] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No, because I'm not a snowflake and if for some reason someone misgenders me unintentionally, I'd just correct them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/01/24 9:33:06 PM #18:	Depends on context, but I know that's a college-level word for a lot of people. Sort of like "decency" and "respect" --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979684582] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Depends on context, but I know that's a college-level word for a lot of people. Sort of like "decency" and "respect" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/01/24 9:34:47 PM #19:	People need to abandon their names if they care so little about labels. They wouldn't want to be seen as making their name their identity. --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979684608] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>People need to abandon their names if they care so little about labels. They wouldn't want to be seen as making their name their identity. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VeggetaX 04/01/24 9:35:40 PM #20:	No one has ever given me shit for not divulging out my pronouns. I'll let you know when they do. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys <cite>VeggetaX posted [p:979684623] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No one has ever given me shit for not divulging out my pronouns. I'll let you know when they do. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CountCorvinus 04/01/24 9:36:31 PM #21:	Depends on the reasoning. Some of the replies in that topic are disrespectful (see: Thud the chud), but if someone is trans and doesn't want to out themselves to people they think will be hostile, then no. --- "i genuinely hate people like you. you're as bad as they come. awful, just awful." - Mecha_Sonic (THEY/THEM) <cite>CountCorvinus posted [p:979684638] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Depends on the reasoning. Some of the replies in that topic are disrespectful (see: Thud the chud), but if someone is trans and doesn't want to out themselves to people they think will be hostile, then no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/01/24 9:38:16 PM #22:	VeggetaX posted... No one has ever given me shit for not divulging out my pronouns. I'll let you know when they do. Which nonexistent people expect anyone to randomly share pronouns? --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979684664] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>VeggetaX posted... </cite><quote>No one has ever given me shit for not divulging out my pronouns. I'll let you know when they do.</quote>Which nonexistent people expect anyone to randomly share pronouns? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bobspacethespacecow 04/01/24 9:40:47 PM #23:	like every other tired right wing talking point, it's talking about shit that doesn't exist how many people here have ever been forced to divulge your pronouns or is it just some scary thing you heard about on patriot news network did they tell you children think they're cats and are shitting in litterboxes too --- *BtCV* Passersby were amazed by the unusually large amounts of blood. <cite>bobspacethespacecow posted [p:979684711] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>like every other tired right wing talking point, it's talking about shit that doesn't existhow many people here have ever been forced to divulge your pronouns or is it just some scary thing you heard about on patriot news networkdid they tell you children think they're cats and are shitting in litterboxes too </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 04/01/24 9:46:40 PM #24:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] This. The context is literally in the OP. I see it in the same way as people that make a big stink about being asked to include their preferred pronouns in their work email. We have a few transgender people in our organization and it stands out if they're the only ones putting their preferred pronouns. --- Steam/Xbox/PSN = NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:979684813] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> This. The context is literally in the OP. I see it in the same way as people that make a big stink about being asked to include their preferred pronouns in their work email. We have a few transgender people in our organization and it stands out if they're the only ones putting their preferred pronouns. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bfslick50 04/01/24 9:47:13 PM #25:	The right wingers that don't want to say their pronouns when asked are definitely the same people that would throw a huge fit if someone guessed wrong. --- "Something's wrong! Murder isn't working and that's all we're good at." ~Futurama <cite>bfslick50 posted [p:979684819] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>The right wingers that don't want to say their pronouns when asked are definitely the same people that would throw a huge fit if someone guessed wrong. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Prototypic 04/01/24 9:47:29 PM #26:	If you are genuinely uncomfortable providing your pronouns because, for example, you're not quite ready to out yourself publicly, then no, I wouldn't call it disrespectful. On the other hand, if you're a stubborn knob pretending you don't know that pronouns are a basic part of speech, refusing to acknowlege that you absolutely do have pronouns that you prefer, and throwing a hissyfit at a work function because I guess you can't be bothered to spend a second of your life on something that might make other people feel comfortable and included, then yeah, kind of. --- Thus I became a madman. <cite>Prototypic posted [p:979684822] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>If you are genuinely uncomfortable providing your pronouns because, for example, you're not quite ready to out yourself publicly, then no, I wouldn't call it disrespectful. On the other hand, if you're a stubborn knob pretending you don't know that pronouns are a basic part of speech, refusing to acknowlege that you absolutely do have pronouns that you prefer, and throwing a hissyfit at a work function because I guess you can't be bothered to spend a second of your life on something that might make other people feel comfortable and included, then yeah, kind of. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/01/24 9:53:37 PM #27:	NoxObscuras posted... We have a few transgender people in our organization and it stands out if they're the only ones putting their preferred pronouns. It doesn't matter how many times you say it. They'll keep going "It's obvious what my pronouns are, so I'm not the one who needs to share" and "I'm not comfortable sharing". --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979684903] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite><quote>We have a few transgender people in our organization and it stands out if they're the only ones putting their preferred pronouns.</quote>It doesn't matter how many times you say it. They'll keep going "It's obvious what my pronouns are, so I'm not the one who needs to share" and "I'm not comfortable sharing". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/01/24 9:56:36 PM #28:	bfslick50 posted... The right wingers that don't want to say their pronouns when asked are definitely the same people that would throw a huge fit if someone guessed wrong. They live in a world where they think "die cis scum" is a serious and widespread call to arms. But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something, and have to wait until you share your pronouns and confirm your cis status before they can act. --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979684956] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>bfslick50 posted... </cite><quote>The right wingers that don't want to say their pronouns when asked are definitely the same people that would throw a huge fit if someone guessed wrong.</quote>They live in a world where they think "die cis scum" is a serious and widespread call to arms. But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something, and have to wait until you share your pronouns and confirm your cis status before they can act. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zakawer3 04/01/24 9:59:21 PM #29:	If people don't specify their preferred pronouns, then oftentimes it can be possible for others to potentially accidentally misgender them based off of their outward appearance (i.e. "he/him" for masculine-looking individuals and "she/her" for feminine-looking individuals). I mean, there are people who have an outward appearance indistinguishable from men who don't like to be called "he", and people who have an outward appearance indistinguishable from women who don't like to be called "she". --- Super Smash Bros. Ultimate Mains: Mario/Ganondorf/Lucina/Chrom/Banjo/Pythra/Wolf/Doc/Miis #BringBackDislikes (he/him) <cite>Zakawer3 posted [p:979685007] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>If people don't specify their preferred pronouns, then oftentimes it can be possible for others to potentially accidentally misgender them based off of their outward appearance (i.e. "he/him" for masculine-looking individuals and "she/her" for feminine-looking individuals).I mean, there are people who have an outward appearance indistinguishable from men who don't like to be called "he", and people who have an outward appearance indistinguishable from women who don't like to be called "she". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CountCorvinus 04/01/24 10:01:13 PM #30:	hockeybabe89 posted... But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something, and have to wait until you share your pronouns and confirm your cis status before they can act. --- "i genuinely hate people like you. you're as bad as they come. awful, just awful." - Mecha_Sonic (THEY/THEM) <cite>CountCorvinus posted [p:979685023] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>hockeybabe89 posted... </cite><quote>But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something, and have to wait until you share your pronouns and confirm your cis status before they can act.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Trumble 04/01/24 10:16:07 PM #32:	No; but you do lose the right to be offended at people for getting them wrong if you're refusing to disclose what the right ones are. No matter how obvious you feel it should be. It's also going to come across as quite petty if you're specifically asked and refuse to answer. --- Do, or do not. There is no Trumble. <cite>Trumble posted [p:979685239] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No; but you do lose the right to be offended at people for getting them wrong if you're refusing to disclose what the right ones are. No matter how obvious you feel it should be. It's also going to come across as quite petty if you're specifically asked and refuse to answer. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CSCA33 04/01/24 10:32:41 PM #34:	hockeybabe89 posted... But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpg This is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away --- [click here] pronouns incoming SHE HAS PRONOUNS!>(She/Her)<CHECK OUT my PRONOUNS <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:979685455] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>hockeybabe89 posted... </cite><quote>But I guess they think trans people are like vampires or something</quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpgThis is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
anttttt 04/01/24 10:46:50 PM #35:	not inherently, but a lot of the aggression and responses in that topic are pretty questionable <cite>anttttt posted [p:979685681] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>not inherently, but a lot of the aggression and responses in that topic are pretty questionable</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tig 04/01/24 11:19:58 PM #36:	deoxxys posted... I don't want attention I just want data. No you fucking don't. You won't get anything meaningful on this site. You're just shit stirring. Fuck off --- Bounce <cite>Tig posted [p:979686211] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>deoxxys posted... </cite><quote>I don't want attention I just want data.</quote>No you fucking don't. You won't get anything meaningful on this site. You're just shit stirring. Fuck off </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SpawnShadow 04/01/24 11:20:48 PM #37:	CSCA33 posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpg This is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away "Not real" in the sense that you made it up out of whole-cloth specifically to post it here, "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter but was clearly just making a joke (and not in the "it's just a joke, bro!" sense championed by conservatives when they get caught in a lie and/or called out on their hateful rhetoric, but an actual, honest-to-goodness joke), or "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter and wanted people to believe it but was just straight-up lying? <cite>SpawnShadow posted [p:979686225] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>CSCA33 posted... </cite><quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpgThis is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away </quote>"Not real" in the sense that you made it up out of whole-cloth specifically to post it here, "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter but was clearly just making a joke (and not in the "it's just a joke, bro!" sense championed by conservatives when they get caught in a lie and/or called out on their hateful rhetoric, but an actual, honest-to-goodness joke), or "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter and wanted people to believe it but was just straight-up lying?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mew 04/01/24 11:22:44 PM #39:	--- https://iili.io/J2AP3an.gif <cite>Mew posted [p:979686251] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LonelyStoner 04/01/24 11:24:06 PM #40:	Irony posted... No Anyone who tells you otherwise or questions your answer is an idiot --- He's all alone through the day and night. <cite>LonelyStoner posted [p:979686269] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Irony posted... </cite><quote>NoAnyone who tells you otherwise or questions your answer is an idiot</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Glob 04/01/24 11:25:18 PM #41:	I might wonder why somebody doesnt want to put them and it might be for shitty reasons, but I dont think that they need to. I always refuse to disclose religion and sexual orientation on job applications because I dont feel it should be a factor, but that doesnt mean I agree people with different faiths or sexual orientations. Sometimes people just dont feel the need to share certain information and thats fine. <cite>Glob posted [p:979686287] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>I might wonder why somebody doesnt want to put them and it might be for shitty reasons, but I dont think that they need to.I always refuse to disclose religion and sexual orientation on job applications because I dont feel it should be a factor, but that doesnt mean I agree people with different faiths or sexual orientations. Sometimes people just dont feel the need to share certain information and thats fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FolkenRawr 04/01/24 11:26:38 PM #42:	Of all the topics ever made, this is certainly one of them. --- Cookin like a chef, I'm a 5 Star Michelin <cite>FolkenRawr posted [p:979686307] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Of all the topics ever made, this is certainly one of them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CSCA33 04/01/24 11:56:11 PM #43:	SpawnShadow posted... "Not real" in the sense that you made it up out of whole-cloth specifically to post it here, "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter but was clearly just making a joke (and not in the "it's just a joke, bro!" sense championed by conservatives when they get caught in a lie and/or called out on their hateful rhetoric, but an actual, honest-to-goodness joke), or "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter and wanted people to believe it but was just straight-up lying? Its another trans woman making a joke on Twitter, so not real as in we arent actually vampires. I say that because conservatives will believe anything about us --- [click here] pronouns incoming SHE HAS PRONOUNS!>(She/Her)<CHECK OUT my PRONOUNS <cite>CSCA33 posted [p:979686666] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>SpawnShadow posted... </cite><quote>"Not real" in the sense that you made it up out of whole-cloth specifically to post it here, "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter but was clearly just making a joke (and not in the "it's just a joke, bro!" sense championed by conservatives when they get caught in a lie and/or called out on their hateful rhetoric, but an actual, honest-to-goodness joke), or "not real" in the sense that someone actually did post this on Twitter and wanted people to believe it but was just straight-up lying?</quote>Its another trans woman making a joke on Twitter, so not real as in we arent actually vampires.I say that because conservatives will believe anything about us </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 04/01/24 11:58:57 PM #44:	My Pronouns are ... I am Him. --- If you say I am wrong, then prove that you are right. <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:979686694] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>My Pronouns are ...I am Him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AdviceMan 04/02/24 12:44:44 AM #45:	I never do, but if prompted to i would. --- "I'm not racist but, BLM sure did make me racist." -Skasa I'm just here to offer you advice, take it or leave it. <cite>AdviceMan posted [p:979687154] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>I never do, but if prompted to i would. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Philip027 04/02/24 1:00:13 AM #46:	No, and the idea of it being so is ridiculously entitled. You do not get a right to know someone else's identity. For all you know, they may be in the closet out of necessity/safety. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] People shouldn't be expected to know for sure, but let's face it, most of the time an educated guess can be made because most people are cis and gender-conforming. <cite>Philip027 posted [p:979687296] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>No, and the idea of it being so is ridiculously entitled.You do not get a right to know someone else's identity. For all you know, they may be in the closet out of necessity/safety.<cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> People shouldn't be expected to know for sure, but let's face it, most of the time an educated guess can be made because most people are cis and gender-conforming.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zwijn 04/02/24 1:00:50 AM #47:	I wouldnt know what to write tbh. <cite>Zwijn posted [p:979687300] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>I wouldnt know what to write tbh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kradek 04/02/24 1:20:38 AM #48:	CSCA33 posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpg This is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away Would be hilarious if it was, I was only going to question what indicates that Joe Biden loves misogyny. --- My metal band, Ivory King, has 2 songs out now - allmylinks.com/ivorykingtx (all of our links there so you can choose which one you'd prefer to use) <cite>Kradek posted [p:979687493] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>CSCA33 posted... </cite><quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/7/73452707.jpgThis is not real btw, before anyone gets too carried away </quote>Would be hilarious if it was, I was only going to question what indicates that Joe Biden loves misogyny. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/02/24 7:24:45 AM #49:	Philip027 posted... You do not get a right to know someone else's identity. For all you know, they may be in the closet out of necessity/safety. So I take it you never use pronouns for anyone? Since you have a big heart and don't want to accidentally out them? --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979689470] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Philip027 posted... </cite><quote>You do not get a right to know someone else's identity. For all you know, they may be in the closet out of necessity/safety.</quote>So I take it you never use pronouns for anyone? Since you have a big heart and don't want to accidentally out them? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hockeybabe89 04/02/24 7:27:19 AM #50:	Philip027 posted... People shouldn't be expected to know for sure, but let's face it, most of the time an educated guess can be made because most people are cis and gender-conforming. Then most people can write them down no problem. I don't see very many people withholding their first name when prompted. Pronouns are no different. People who are worried about being misgendered: "Here are my pronouns. I don't want to be misgendered." People who say it's obvious they are gender-conforming: "I fear sharing such personal information, yet I'll say nothing if you use my pronouns." --- https://card.psnprofiles.com/1/NIR_Hockey.png she/her <cite>hockeybabe89 posted [p:979689491] in Is it disr... [t:80736659]...</cite> <quote>Philip027 posted... </cite><quote>People shouldn't be expected to know for sure, but let's face it, most of the time an educated guess can be made because most people are cis and gender-conforming.</quote>Then most people can write them down no problem. I don't see very many people withholding their first name when prompted. Pronouns are no different.People who are worried about being misgendered: "Here are my pronouns. I don't want to be misgendered."People who say it's obvious they are gender-conforming: "I fear sharing such personal information, yet I'll say nothing if you use my pronouns." </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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