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BigMeatyClaws
11/13/23 3:57:23 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/forum/1/1926cdbc.jpg

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Very sensitive subject. We talk about western society being afraid of female sexuality etc, but let's say your gf wanted to go out with or without you(doesn't matter) and this is what she wants to wear. Would you be okay with this? If not, why? Are you a hypocrite if youre all for women expressing their sexuality but not being okay with your partner dressing like this if you go out for dinner or if she goes out with the girls?

BONUS: let's say she says she's going to wear it regardless of you not accepting. How will you react to that?

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littlebro07
11/13/23 3:57:58 PM
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Considering no pics I'm assuming you mean going out completely naked, in which case...no

edit: there it is!

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Shishiwakamaru
11/13/23 3:58:39 PM
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I mean that dress is a wardrobe malfunction waiting to happen

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Murphiroth
11/13/23 4:01:33 PM
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EmilyTheCEman
11/13/23 4:01:50 PM
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Id be fine with it, but id also be fine with any dude who stares at her, id probably be like I know, right?

If they said Damn girl nice tits! id probably be like Seriously, high five.

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InTheEyesOfFire
11/13/23 4:02:46 PM
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I would but my girlfriend would never do it.

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BigMeatyClaws
11/13/23 4:03:36 PM
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Overwhelming no so far. I dont think many people will actually speak up as to why theyll say no out of fear of sounding hypocritical

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itachi15243
11/13/23 4:04:26 PM
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No I wouldn't be, not unless she was with me( then it's still a really hard maybe)

Not only because it makes me uncomfortable, but because it's an accident waiting to happen.

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Zelduh
11/13/23 4:04:55 PM
#9:


My boyfriend could dress like that
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Shishiwakamaru
11/13/23 4:05:04 PM
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In the first pic the dress is way too small for her

In the second pic its actually the right size and looks fine tbh

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BigMeatyClaws
11/13/23 4:05:22 PM
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itachi15243 posted...
Not only because it makes me uncomfortable,
why does it make you uncomfortable?

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boxoto
11/13/23 4:05:54 PM
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only if she extends the same courtesy

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Cruciferous
11/13/23 4:06:33 PM
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Yes, I'd be fine with it.

If you can't handle dating a baddie, don't date a baddie.

Besides, if I tried to dictate what my gf could and couldn't wear I'd probably end up wearing a black eye lmao

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leafsRULE
11/13/23 4:07:19 PM
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many people in this topic are now tagged as "fails to respect women"

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emblem-man
11/13/23 4:07:51 PM
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Does where we're going to matter?
If we're going out for a night out I don't think I'd care. Actually, I know I wouldn't care.

I don't particularly like the dress in the OP though, I think it's kinda unflattering tbh. Better ways to show of some nice boobs

If we're going for dinner with my family, that's a bit different.

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BigMeatyClaws
11/13/23 4:08:19 PM
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For the record and trasparency, I voted "No"

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Umbreon
11/13/23 4:09:41 PM
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Yes, because she still chooses to be with me in the end.

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Lobinde
11/13/23 4:11:51 PM
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Yes because that's hot and I'm not a stinky misogynist.

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Sorozone
11/13/23 4:14:17 PM
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Yeah?

I'm not a control freak. She's free to wear what she wants, and if she doesn't like agree with opinion, oh well. Tough shit.

You might have trust issues you need to work on otherwise.

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pauIie
11/13/23 4:17:57 PM
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it would be pretty weird for my wife to dress like this so i'd ask her why. but as long as i'm not there and it's a place appropriate to dress this way, go for it. as for why if i'm not there, i just don't like feeling like there's more attention coming my way. i don't really care about if someone hits on my wife or whatever, unless they were super rude/weird about it.

so in theory yeah.

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BigMeatyClaws
11/13/23 4:18:47 PM
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1 out of 2 people voted no but the actual responses are overwhelmingly yes. Whats up with that?

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NoxObscuras
11/13/23 4:19:56 PM
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That dress really isn't that revealing. So yes, I'd be fine with it.

With that said though, that's a clubbing outfit if I ever saw one and that's 100% not my scene. So I likely wouldn't want to date her anyway.

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BewmHedshot
11/13/23 4:20:03 PM
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Why is she squishing her boobies like that it looks painful :(
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bsp77
11/13/23 4:22:10 PM
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No, not okay (in general). And it's not hypocritical, because I think people can do whatever they want, men and women. But I also can choose who to spend my life with. She has every right to wear it, and I have every right to not be with someone who acts like that. I don't act like that either but if I did something that made my wife super uncomfortable, I would listen to her. Typically, we let each do whatever and aren't a jealous couple at all. It is more that that dress just isn't very classy IMO.

I will caveat that there might be some exceptions, like if we were going to some crazy ass club together. We have been to a BDSM club before, for instance.

Edit: adding that I guess I wouldn't want to be with someone who dressed like that often. I would question if we are a match. Specific instances might make sense.

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pauIie
11/13/23 4:22:44 PM
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BigMeatyClaws posted...
1 out of 2 people voted no but the actual responses are overwhelmingly yes. Whats up with that?
i didn't vote

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Heartomaton
11/13/23 4:27:06 PM
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Expecting GameFAQs polls to be accurate information is a strange phenomenon. I usually see it in people who care way too much about this place.

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Delirious_Beard
11/13/23 4:27:57 PM
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NoxObscuras posted...
That dress really isn't that revealing. So yes, I'd be fine with it.

With that said though, that's a clubbing outfit if I ever saw one and that's 100% not my scene. So I likely wouldn't want to date her anyway.

bro her areola is practically visible lmfao

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itachi15243
11/13/23 4:27:58 PM
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Honestly for a lot of reasons. I will admit that I am a little bit insecure at times.

However, long story short, I will say that if my girlfriend suddenly wanted to wear something so different and wasn't willing to talk out why she suddenly wanted to wear this in public (especially without me there) beyond expressing her sexuality or wanting to look good in public, it'd immediately set off red flags in my head or at least be extremely odd if that makes any sense?

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Robot2600
11/13/23 4:30:25 PM
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Hell yea!

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bluezero
11/13/23 4:32:30 PM
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BigMeatyClaws posted...
wanted to go out with or without you(doesn't matter)
There actually is quite a difference.

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bsp77
11/13/23 4:32:53 PM
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bluezero posted...
There actually is quite a difference.
Yeah, seriously

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Cruciferous
11/13/23 4:33:28 PM
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Crazy how cemen don't even have their girlfriends yet and are so insecure about them

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Flauros
11/13/23 4:34:16 PM
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Its fine as long as i can wear the same outfit.

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KainWind
11/13/23 4:34:49 PM
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I saw someone wearing something very similar at a concert the other day.

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bsp77
11/13/23 4:38:57 PM
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For me, it has nothing to do with how revealing it is because I understand the bikini comment. It is more about the type of woman who typically wears something like that and how they often behave. Maybe it is my own bias from dating someone who was kind of an exhibitionist but it led to a lot of issues. No cheating or anything and I trusted her, but things would get messy when out sometimes. She would be super flirtatious and touchy, but then would flip out if anyone ever touched her. Plus, she flipped out if I was ever flirtatious.

Yes, I know that not all women who would choose to dress like that are the same, but I think it is fair for it to be a red flag. Once again, I will give an exception for certain clubs and such.

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DeroIin
11/13/23 4:44:03 PM
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This is just another day that ends in -y out in public in Miami

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A_Good_Boy
11/13/23 4:46:49 PM
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If my wife wanted to wear something like that when we go out then I wouldn't care. I'd she wore something like that and I wasn't around I still wouldn't care.

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bsp77
11/13/23 4:47:16 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

And my view might be different if I had known women who dressed like that but didn't then act batshit crazy in public. But alas...

And my wife would never dress like that, although maybe she would consider it if at a BDSM club or something. If anything, I have to push her to be more confident in herself.

Hmm, now I kinda want her to... lol

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Aristoph
11/13/23 4:51:26 PM
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I couldn't care less what my partner wants to wear. If she's proud of her body and enjoys showing it off a bit, then more power to her. Other guys can look all they want, but at the end of the night she's coming home with me and that's all that matters. It's only a problem if someone starts getting handsy, and you don't need a wildly revealing outfit to worry about that.

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boxoto
11/13/23 5:17:52 PM
#43:


idk if "fine" is the right word, but I feel like if she's looking to appeal to other guys/cheat, she can do so wearing anything else.

so, if I couldn't trust her in something like this, I couldn't trust her in any other outfit.

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NoxObscuras
11/13/23 5:28:14 PM
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Delirious_Beard posted...
bro her areola is practically visible lmfao
I've seen far worse at the beach. Which is why, in a general sense, that dress isn't bad to me. But like I said, I doubt I'd be dating her anyway.

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emblem-man
11/13/23 5:45:21 PM
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Aristoph posted...
Other guys can look all they want, but at the end of the night she's coming home with me and that's all that matters.

https://youtu.be/nSKUXqJ5l1k?si=o2rRjWUJI98UMC2H

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Dakimakura
11/13/23 5:53:41 PM
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I would forbid my girlfriend from wearing any pre-approved outfit by me.

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R1masher
11/13/23 5:54:21 PM
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Maybe, but it would take away from my majestical testicle festival aesthetical kilt more than it would compliment my boys

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Rob_Cesternino
11/13/23 5:55:57 PM
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I would be more than okay with this because everyone would be jealous of me

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LSGW_Zephyra
11/13/23 5:56:52 PM
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Sure, sounds neat. Maybe we will both do it.

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MobileProphet
11/13/23 5:58:18 PM
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Nope. Girl's that dress like that love the attention it brings and chances are they are keen to being the vein types. Not my type of girl.

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