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gamepimp12 11/10/23 11:27:00 PM #1:	we dated for like a year and a half and it ended up not working because she conflated me being in love with her, with me wanting to settle down with her immediately. It really scared her and caused a lot of distance between us which in turn made me feel really hurt. Its been awhile and we havent really spoken in almost a year now, though our mutual friends have kept us update on each other. Ive dated a bit but Ive my lifes been focused more towards getting things situated at home. But in that whole process I never really stopped missing her, and really regret the way that situation went, had we both communicated better it didnt have to go that way. So like on one had I miss her and really wanna reach out, even if its just as friends. But on the other hand, I know the personal reasons I didnt want to commit long term to her arent yet resolved, so why reach out now. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977150954] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>we dated for like a year and a half and it ended up not working because she conflated me being in love with her, with me wanting to settle down with her immediately. It really scared her and caused a lot of distance between us which in turn made me feel really hurt. Its been awhile and we havent really spoken in almost a year now, though our mutual friends have kept us update on each other. Ive dated a bit but Ive my lifes been focused more towards getting things situated at home. But in that whole process I never really stopped missing her, and really regret the way that situation went, had we both communicated better it didnt have to go that way. So like on one had I miss her and really wanna reach out, even if its just as friends. But on the other hand, I know the personal reasons I didnt want to commit long term to her arent yet resolved, so why reach out now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Incredible 11/10/23 11:42:00 PM #2:	Is she hot --- W fam <cite>Incredible posted [p:977151132] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Is she hot </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 11/10/23 11:43:27 PM #3:	I don't want to be a dick, but haven't you been making some variation of this topic for years? You need to completely stay away from her. Zero contact. --- Currently playing: Armored Core VI <cite>bsp77 posted [p:977151146] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>I don't want to be a dick, but haven't you been making some variation of this topic for years? You need to completely stay away from her. Zero contact. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/10/23 11:58:56 PM #4:	bsp77 posted... I don't want to be a dick, but haven't you been making some variation of this topic for years? You need to completely stay away from her. Zero contact. Yeah I have, we honestly didnt really understand the disconnect we where having until our last fight, and at that point it was best for both of us to have space, and I blame myself for alot of that. and like I said we havent spoken I know shes asked about me, as I have asked about her. But no ones reached out. Ive dated, met some cool women, but they arent her. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151306] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite><quote>I don't want to be a dick, but haven't you been making some variation of this topic for years? You need to completely stay away from her. Zero contact.</quote>Yeah I have, we honestly didnt really understand the disconnect we where having until our last fight, and at that point it was best for both of us to have space, and I blame myself for alot of that. and like I said we havent spoken I know shes asked about me, as I have asked about her. But no ones reached out. Ive dated, met some cool women, but they arent her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigMeatyClaws 11/11/23 12:00:40 AM #5:	This is the same girl you never got physically intimate with but considered her your ex even though she knew you liked her and you'd fight whenever you were trying to apply pressure right? Fucking smh, it's been a year plus. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png <cite>BigMeatyClaws posted [p:977151320] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>This is the same girl you never got physically intimate with but considered her your ex even though she knew you liked her and you'd fight whenever you were trying to apply pressure right? Fucking smh, it's been a year plus. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GuerrillaSoldier 11/11/23 12:01:29 AM #6:	gamepimp12 posted... but they arent her. lowercase x uppercase D --- Disclaimer: There's a good chance the above post could be sarcasm. Die-hard Oakland A's fan --- Keep the A's in Oakland! <cite>GuerrillaSoldier posted [p:977151328] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>but they arent her.</quote>lowercase x uppercase D </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigMeatyClaws 11/11/23 12:01:55 AM #7:	gamepimp12 posted... but they arent her. oh god --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png <cite>BigMeatyClaws posted [p:977151334] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>but they arent her.</quote>oh god </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:01:56 AM #8:	Incredible posted... Is she hot Very, shes easily one of the most beautiful women Ive ever dated. Its a little jarring because I typically date extremely confident women, but she has more of girl next door vibes --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151335] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Incredible posted... </cite><quote>Is she hot</quote> Very, shes easily one of the most beautiful women Ive ever dated. Its a little jarring because I typically date extremely confident women, but she has more of girl next door vibes </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xenogears15 11/11/23 12:06:23 AM #10:	Seel out therapy for this obsession. It isn't healthy. --- This rant was brought to you by your local random thinker. I'm as Canadian as Wayne Gretzky crashing a snowmobile into a moose. - JIC X <cite>Xenogears15 posted [p:977151374] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Seel out therapy for this obsession. It isn't healthy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:06:31 AM #11:	BigMeatyClaws posted... This is the same girl you never got physically intimate with but considered her your ex even though she knew you liked her and you'd fight whenever you were trying to apply pressure right? Fucking smh, it's been a year plus. physically intimate as in have sex. and its not as that wed fight whenever Id apply pressure, it was anything that she perceived to come with some kind of commitment. She was scared we where going to do all these things and one day shed just be my girlfriend. Which isnt what I wanted. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151375] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>BigMeatyClaws posted... </cite><quote>This is the same girl you never got physically intimate with but considered her your ex even though she knew you liked her and you'd fight whenever you were trying to apply pressure right? Fucking smh, it's been a year plus.</quote>physically intimate as in have sex. and its not as that wed fight whenever Id apply pressure, it was anything that she perceived to come with some kind of commitment. She was scared we where going to do all these things and one day shed just be my girlfriend. Which isnt what I wanted. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BigMeatyClaws 11/11/23 12:12:34 AM #13:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] its not even that you have to be official, it's that it needs to be mutual, which it was not. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png <cite>BigMeatyClaws posted [p:977151446] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> its not even that you have to be official, it's that it needs to be mutual, which it was not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:13:05 AM #14:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I mean its not from not looking. In the year Ive dated my two other favorite exs again and two new girls, who I think are great. They just arent her Xenogears15 posted... Seel out therapy for this obsession. It isn't healthy. I wouldnt call it an obsession, its more regret. Like I said I havent reached out, shes just someone I did love and it didnt work out for dumb reasons. But beyond all that she was one of my best friends prior. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151454] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> I mean its not from not looking. In the year Ive dated my two other favorite exs again and two new girls, who I think are great. They just arent herXenogears15 posted... </cite><quote>Seel out therapy for this obsession. It isn't healthy.</quote>I wouldnt call it an obsession, its more regret. Like I said I havent reached out, shes just someone I did love and it didnt work out for dumb reasons. But beyond all that she was one of my best friends prior. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:17:11 AM #15:	BigMeatyClaws posted... its not even that you have to be official, it's that it needs to be mutual, which it was not. I only label her as my ex for simplicity sake. I dont consider her my ex in the sense she was ever my girlfriend. We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half) and met each others friends and each other parents (kinda just happened wasnt intentional) it ended up not working out because she felt I was lying about not wanting to be with her --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151506] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>BigMeatyClaws posted... </cite><quote>its not even that you have to be official, it's that it needs to be mutual, which it was not.</quote>I only label her as my ex for simplicity sake. I dont consider her my ex in the sense she was ever my girlfriend.We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half) and met each others friends and each other parents (kinda just happened wasnt intentional) it ended up not working out because she felt I was lying about not wanting to be with her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigMeatyClaws 11/11/23 12:20:46 AM #16:	gamepimp12 posted... I only label her as my ex for simplicity sake. I dont consider her my ex in the sense she was ever my girlfriend. We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half) and met each others friends and each other parents (kinda just happened wasnt intentional) She never liked you the way you liked her. The minute you accept this(which you still guise as some commitment issue), the easier it will be for you to move past this and not want to spin the block. gamepimp12 posted... I mean its not from not looking. In the year Ive dated my two other favorite exs again and two new girls, who I think are great. They just arent her seems like you like spinning the block. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png <cite>BigMeatyClaws posted [p:977151539] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>I only label her as my ex for simplicity sake. I dont consider her my ex in the sense she was ever my girlfriend.We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half) and met each others friends and each other parents (kinda just happened wasnt intentional)</quote>She never liked you the way you liked her. The minute you accept this(which you still guise as some commitment issue), the easier it will be for you to move past this and not want to spin the block.gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>I mean its not from not looking. In the year Ive dated my two other favorite exs again and two new girls, who I think are great. They just arent her</quote>seems like you like spinning the block. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:30:26 AM #17:	BigMeatyClaws posted... She never liked you the way you liked her. The minute you accept this(which you still guise as some commitment issue), the easier it will be for you to move past this and not want to spin the block. seems like you like spinning the block. i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her. Now Im not so naive as to say had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating. and Im not really spinning the block, at least not yet, Im still not in a place where I want a committed relationship. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151614] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>BigMeatyClaws posted... </cite><quote>She never liked you the way you liked her. The minute you accept this(which you still guise as some commitment issue), the easier it will be for you to move past this and not want to spin the block.seems like you like spinning the block.</quote>i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her.Now Im not so naive as to say had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating.and Im not really spinning the block, at least not yet, Im still not in a place where I want a committed relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_hulk88 11/11/23 12:41:29 AM #18:	gamepimp12 posted... had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating. Lmao bruh <cite>Mr_hulk88 posted [p:977151734] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating.</quote>Lmao bruh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BigMeatyClaws 11/11/23 12:43:29 AM #19:	gamepimp12 posted... i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her. Now Im not so naive as to say had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating. and Im not really spinning the block, at least not yet, Im still not in a place where I want a committed relationship. she didn't like you the way you liked her. I need you to say it. --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lu9sfueDC81qfb808.png <cite>BigMeatyClaws posted [p:977151765] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her.Now Im not so naive as to say had she not felt like I was pressuring her into a relationship, or had these commitment issues never existed wed be still be dating.and Im not really spinning the block, at least not yet, Im still not in a place where I want a committed relationship.</quote>she didn't like you the way you liked her. I need you to say it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:44:19 AM #20:	Mr_hulk88 posted... Lmao bruh why did you cut the part off where I said I dont believe that ? thats weird. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151777] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Mr_hulk88 posted... </cite><quote>Lmao bruh</quote>why did you cut the part off where I said I dont believe that ? thats weird. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:47:35 AM #21:	BigMeatyClaws posted... she didn't like you the way you liked her. I need you to say it. why would I listen to the guy on the internet Vs her literal sister. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151810] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>BigMeatyClaws posted... </cite><quote>she didn't like you the way you liked her. I need you to say it.</quote>why would I listen to the guy on the internet Vs her literal sister. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
A_Good_Boy 11/11/23 12:51:19 AM #22:	gamepimp12 posted... why would I listen to the guy on the internet Vs her literal sister. I feel like you need to work on reconciling these statements with the outcome that occurred in reality. If she wanted to be with you then she'd be with you. It's not as complicated a concept as you'd think. --- Who is? I am! <cite>A_Good_Boy posted [p:977151846] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>why would I listen to the guy on the internet Vs her literal sister.</quote>I feel like you need to work on reconciling these statements with the outcome that occurred in reality. If she wanted to be with you then she'd be with you. It's not as complicated a concept as you'd think. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gamepimp12 11/11/23 12:57:58 AM #24:	A_Good_Boy posted... I feel like you need to work on reconciling these statements with the outcome that occurred in reality. If she wanted to be with you then she'd be with you. It's not as complicated a concept as you'd think. I dont really think its complicated, shes young and has no clue what she wants to do in life and the fact she thought I had me and her all planned out was intimidating. its pretty simple. she doesnt know what she wants, and she felt like I was making a decision for her. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151912] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>A_Good_Boy posted... </cite><quote>I feel like you need to work on reconciling these statements with the outcome that occurred in reality. If she wanted to be with you then she'd be with you. It's not as complicated a concept as you'd think.</quote>I dont really think its complicated, shes young and has no clue what she wants to do in life and the fact she thought I had me and her all planned out was intimidating.its pretty simple. she doesnt know what she wants, and she felt like I was making a decision for her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 1:01:47 AM #25:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] because the convo with her sister after our second to last argument was when things clicked of me. Things where explained to me that I didnt know, including the way she just thinks about these things(she looks up to her sister and they think the same about these things, something I already knew) --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977151940] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> because the convo with her sister after our second to last argument was when things clicked of me.Things where explained to me that I didnt know, including the way she just thinks about these things(she looks up to her sister and they think the same about these things, something I already knew) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheGoldenEel 11/11/23 1:07:01 AM #26:	gamepimp12 posted... We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half) holy shit dude --- BLACK LIVES MATTER Games: http://backloggery.com/wrldindstries302 \\ Music: http://www.last.fm/user/DrMorberg/ <cite>TheGoldenEel posted [p:977151984] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>We dated casually (least twice a month for a year and a half)</quote>holy shit dude </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_hulk88 11/11/23 1:23:28 AM #27:	gamepimp12 posted... why did you cut the part off where I said I dont believe that ? thats weird. Cause you said you're not naive as to think that ,yet that's overall what your dilemma comes down to <cite>Mr_hulk88 posted [p:977152123] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>why did you cut the part off where I said I dont believe that ? thats weird.</quote>Cause you said you're not naive as to think that ,yet that's overall what your dilemma comes down to</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 11/11/23 1:29:39 AM #28:	Can I get a plot synopsis of the previous discussion. Everything posted so far is further confusing me. --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:977152167] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Can I get a plot synopsis of the previous discussion. Everything posted so far is further confusing me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TetsuoS2 11/11/23 1:36:10 AM #30:	party_animal07 posted... Everything posted so far is further confusing me. --- the local octopus( ) <cite>TetsuoS2 posted [p:977152227] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>Everything posted so far is further confusing me.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 1:45:18 AM #31:	party_animal07 posted... Can I get a plot synopsis of the previous discussion. Everything posted so far is further confusing me. dated a girl about 6 years younger than me for about a year and a half. She lived 2 hours away never made it an official, (for multiple reasons) and thus never had sex. during the relationship shed go through extremely hot and cold bouts, Times where she wanted to spend the entire week with me and times she would become extremely distant. that obviously pissed me off and wed argue about it pretty frequently. towards the end of the situation I started communicating better about how her cold streaks effected me only for her to immediately go one. come to find out from a couple convos I had with her, her sister and our mutual friend. She felt I was lying about not wanting a relationship which was the source of her hot and cold streaks. She wanted to spend more time with me but felt she couldnt because it would just lead to us being in a relationship. which was further co-signed by her sister telling me things about her I didnt know and our mutual friend telling me she asked him for advice on want to do. thats kinda a the spark notes --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152301] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>Can I get a plot synopsis of the previous discussion. Everything posted so far is further confusing me.</quote>dated a girl about 6 years younger than me for about a year and a half. She lived 2 hours away never made it an official, (for multiple reasons) and thus never had sex. during the relationship shed go through extremely hot and cold bouts, Times where she wanted to spend the entire week with me and times she would become extremely distant.that obviously pissed me off and wed argue about it pretty frequently. towards the end of the situation I started communicating better about how her cold streaks effected me only for her to immediately go one.come to find out from a couple convos I had with her, her sister and our mutual friend. She felt I was lying about not wanting a relationship which was the source of her hot and cold streaks. She wanted to spend more time with me but felt she couldnt because it would just lead to us being in a relationship. which was further co-signed by her sister telling me things about her I didnt know and our mutual friend telling me she asked him for advice on want to do. thats kinda a the spark notes </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 11/11/23 1:48:29 AM #32:	So what exactly did you guys actually do together? Did you go on dates at all? Was there physical entimacy outside of sex? Was there any money involved? --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:977152334] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>So what exactly did you guys actually do together? Did you go on dates at all? Was there physical entimacy outside of sex? Was there any money involved? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 1:49:09 AM #33:	Mr_hulk88 posted... Cause you said you're not naive as to think that ,yet that's overall what your dilemma comes down to Im not sitting here thinking if I reach out were going to be together, I dont want to go that routes I dont want to pursue a relationship with her until I feel my life is in order and shes more confident about her own place in life. in the past I thought I could thread the needle and love her, but not commit to anything until I was ready, and that did nothing but cause confusion. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152343] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Mr_hulk88 posted... </cite><quote>Cause you said you're not naive as to think that ,yet that's overall what your dilemma comes down to</quote>Im not sitting here thinking if I reach out were going to be together, I dont want to go that routes I dont want to pursue a relationship with her until I feel my life is in order and shes more confident about her own place in life. in the past I thought I could thread the needle and love her, but not commit to anything until I was ready, and that did nothing but cause confusion. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 1:52:46 AM #34:	party_animal07 posted... So what exactly did you guys actually do together? Did you go on dates at all? Was there physical entimacy outside of sex? Was there any money involved? yes, yes, yes. The conversation of us having sex prior to an actual relationship happened once and she damn near had a panic attack. Because the conversation required her to be open about her feelings. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152379] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>So what exactly did you guys actually do together? Did you go on dates at all? Was there physical entimacy outside of sex? Was there any money involved?</quote>yes, yes, yes.The conversation of us having sex prior to an actual relationship happened once and she damn near had a panic attack. Because the conversation required her to be open about her feelings. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fenriswolf 11/11/23 2:03:09 AM #35:	gamepimp12 posted... Very, shes easily one of the most beautiful women Ive ever dated. Its a little jarring because I typically date extremely confident women, but she has more of girl next door vibes Might as well go for it. It's always good to be with someone that's easy on the eyes in the long run. --- Hello <cite>Fenriswolf posted [p:977152466] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>Very, shes easily one of the most beautiful women Ive ever dated. Its a little jarring because I typically date extremely confident women, but she has more of girl next door vibes</quote>Might as well go for it. It's always good to be with someone that's easy on the eyes in the long run. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 2:06:24 AM #36:	The convo that really cleared up alot of the confusion I had in the past was like our second to last convo. She ended up going on a very passionate rant, about how much us stresses her out and how the distance means we cant hang the way we want to, how she hates herself when shes cold to me and how we want different things and she needs to focus on her own things. the thing is when she said what she thought I wanted, she was wrong. That wasnt what I wanted. She confused me being in love with her with me wanting to make a wife out of her as soon as possible. but for me, I loved her and I wanted to share moments with her, but I wanted her to know who she was, and see the world and grow as a person before I ever actual considered building towards something permanent. I also wanted to become a better person myself my communication still needed to improve, I didnt have the finances I wanted, and I had alot of inappropriate friendships that I wasnt ready to give up. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152492] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>The convo that really cleared up alot of the confusion I had in the past was like our second to last convo.She ended up going on a very passionate rant, about how much us stresses her out and how the distance means we cant hang the way we want to, how she hates herself when shes cold to me and how we want different things and she needs to focus on her own things. the thing is when she said what she thought I wanted, she was wrong. That wasnt what I wanted. She confused me being in love with her with me wanting to make a wife out of her as soon as possible.but for me, I loved her and I wanted to share moments with her, but I wanted her to know who she was, and see the world and grow as a person before I ever actual considered building towards something permanent.I also wanted to become a better person myself my communication still needed to improve, I didnt have the finances I wanted, and I had alot of inappropriate friendships that I wasnt ready to give up. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 11/11/23 2:21:25 AM #37:	gamepimp12 posted... yes, yes, yes. The conversation of us having sex prior to an actual relationship happened once and she damn near had a panic attack. Because the conversation required her to be open about her feelings. Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it. --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:977152609] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>yes, yes, yes.The conversation of us having sex prior to an actual relationship happened once and she damn near had a panic attack. Because the conversation required her to be open about her feelings.</quote>Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_Karate_II 11/11/23 2:31:46 AM #38:	Yikes, seems like you have an obsession --- Michigan Wolverines 45 to Ohio state 23: 11/26/22 Michigan Wolverines Football:8-0 <cite>Mr_Karate_II posted [p:977152671] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Yikes, seems like you have an obsession </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 2:42:32 AM #39:	party_animal07 posted... Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it. I mean she very openly didnt know what she wanted, about anything honestly. It was one of the main reasons I didnt want to progress it anytime soon. If she knew what she wanted, the situation would of been cut and dry. i already knew even though I loved her in that moment in time, shed have to grow and evolve as a woman before we could have a successful relationship, and itd be no guarantee shed remain a person I could or would love. I knew she liked me and that was enough for the moment. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152737] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it.</quote>I mean she very openly didnt know what she wanted, about anything honestly.It was one of the main reasons I didnt want to progress it anytime soon.If she knew what she wanted, the situation would of been cut and dry.i already knew even though I loved her in that moment in time, shed have to grow and evolve as a woman before we could have a successful relationship, and itd be no guarantee shed remain a person I could or would love.I knew she liked me and that was enough for the moment. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 11/11/23 2:55:55 AM #40:	gamepimp12 posted... i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her. Dude, that's not a "commitment issue." That's a "She literally never wanted to legit date you at all, and was scared you'd be creepy and obsessed and try to force her to" issue. A commitment issue would be if you were together, and you wanted to get married and she didn't. You were NEVER together, and she never wanted to be. Get over it. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:977152837] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>i mean it was a commitment issue, Ive said that to her, shes said that to me her sister has said that, our mutal friends have said that. The fact that she felt like I was going to back door her into a relationship (that I never said I wanted) scared her.</quote>Dude, that's not a "commitment issue." That's a "She literally never wanted to legit date you at all, and was scared you'd be creepy and obsessed and try to force her to" issue.A commitment issue would be if you were together, and you wanted to get married and she didn't. You were NEVER together, and she never wanted to be.Get over it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 11/11/23 3:00:33 AM #41:	party_animal07 posted... Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it. His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends," and he doesn't accept that she never wanted to actually be with him as anything more than friends. He keeps insisting "She just didn't understand her feelings." It's so creepy. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:977152859] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>Gotta be honest, this sounds like a person who doesn't want to ever be with you. They enjoy what they get out of it, buy never plan to progress it.</quote>His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends," and he doesn't accept that she never wanted to actually be with him as anything more than friends. He keeps insisting "She just didn't understand her feelings."It's so creepy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 3:08:00 AM #42:	StealThisSheen posted... Dude, that's not a "commitment issue." That's a "She literally never wanted to legit date you at all, and was scared you'd be creepy and obsessed and try to force her to" issue. A commitment issue would be if you were together, and you wanted to get married and she didn't. You were NEVER together, and she never wanted to be. Get over it. do you intentionally misread all my post or is there some kind of disconnect because this is the second topic youve done this in, its starting to get a little weird, and Im probably going to block you if you continue to do this. She felt like if we spent too much time together, It would not only take away from the things she wanted to do in life, but it would be an actual relationship. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152901] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>StealThisSheen posted... </cite><quote>Dude, that's not a "commitment issue." That's a "She literally never wanted to legit date you at all, and was scared you'd be creepy and obsessed and try to force her to" issue.A commitment issue would be if you were together, and you wanted to get married and she didn't. You were NEVER together, and she never wanted to be.Get over it.</quote>do you intentionally misread all my post or is there some kind of disconnect because this is the second topic youve done this in, its starting to get a little weird, and Im probably going to block you if you continue to do this. She felt like if we spent too much time together, It would not only take away from the things she wanted to do in life, but it would be an actual relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 3:10:10 AM #43:	StealThisSheen posted... His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends," and he doesn't accept that she never wanted to actually be with him as anything more than friends. He keeps insisting "She just didn't understand her feelings." It's so creepy. and Im just going to go ahead and block you cause youre actively doing it again. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152912] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>StealThisSheen posted... </cite><quote>His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends," and he doesn't accept that she never wanted to actually be with him as anything more than friends. He keeps insisting "She just didn't understand her feelings."It's so creepy.</quote>and Im just going to go ahead and block you cause youre actively doing it again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 11/11/23 3:11:27 AM #44:	Out of curiosity, how old are you two TC? --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:977152921] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Out of curiosity, how old are you two TC? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 11/11/23 3:13:19 AM #45:	gamepimp12 posted... She felt like if we spent too much time together, It would not only take away from the things she wanted to do in life, but it would be an actual relationship. Yes, which is what she didn't want, by literally your own admission. Which is exactly what I said. You are literally admitting she didn't want an actual relationship with you. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:977152938] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>gamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>She felt like if we spent too much time together, It would not only take away from the things she wanted to do in life, but it would be an actual relationship.</quote>Yes, which is what she didn't want, by literally your own admission.Which is exactly what I said.You are literally admitting she didn't want an actual relationship with you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 3:14:22 AM #46:	party_animal07 posted... Out of curiosity, how old are you two TC? 32 and 26 now. so 30 and 23 when we started dating. She was finishing college and deciding if she wanted to go to med school or not. Even though she was dead set on being a doctor her whole life. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977152947] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>party_animal07 posted... </cite><quote>Out of curiosity, how old are you two TC?</quote>32 and 26 now. so 30 and 23 when we started dating. She was finishing college and deciding if she wanted to go to med school or not. Even though she was dead set on being a doctor her whole life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
StealThisSheen 11/11/23 3:18:39 AM #47:	I'm just going to say this: If somebody tells you that they want to spend less time with you because they don't want you to think you're in an actual relationship, and/or they think you will try to pressure them into one, they are not "with" you. You need to accept this. The fact you won't accept this is the entire problem. --- Seplito Nash, Smelling Like the Vault since 1996 Step FOUR! Get Paid! <cite>StealThisSheen posted [p:977152966] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>I'm just going to say this:If somebody tells you that they want to spend less time with you because they don't want you to think you're in an actual relationship, and/or they think you will try to pressure them into one, they are not "with" you. You need to accept this. The fact you won't accept this is the entire problem. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gamepimp12 11/11/23 3:43:45 AM #48:	Bruh blocked but I will say this youre illiterate because you consistently make half ass assumptions and convolute points. People called you out on it in the last topic and you stopped posting in it because of it. Ive literally said weve been physical outside of having sex, shes introduced me to her friends. Has told me that Im good to her, we actively call each other pet names, she drives 2 hours to see me twice a month. Ive said shes went on an emotional rant about everything and her inability to give me what she thinks I want. Im in love with her, but shes never been asked to make those relationship confirming declarations, because we both feel shes too young for that and I just want to enjoy the moment. I know she likes me and for right now that was good enough but instead you rather only read half the post and fill in the rest with your own assumptions instead of actually ask. So you can confirm your premade conclusions. I dont respect you or your opinion. --- we rich now but used to be slaves,we pushing whips now we used to be whipped,rockin chains when we used to be in 'em <cite>gamepimp12 posted [p:977153108] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Bruh blocked but I will say this youre illiterate because you consistently make half ass assumptions and convolute points. People called you out on it in the last topic and you stopped posting in it because of it. Ive literally said weve been physical outside of having sex, shes introduced me to her friends. Has told me that Im good to her, we actively call each other pet names, she drives 2 hours to see me twice a month. Ive said shes went on an emotional rant about everything and her inability to give me what she thinks I want. Im in love with her, but shes never been asked to make those relationship confirming declarations, because we both feel shes too young for that and I just want to enjoy the moment. I know she likes me and for right now that was good enoughbut instead you rather only read half the post and fill in the rest with your own assumptions instead of actually ask. So you can confirm your premade conclusions. I dont respect you or your opinion. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mr_hulk88 11/11/23 3:46:09 AM #49:	StealThisSheen posted... His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends," No, actually he did say they were intimate. Unless you do that with your friends lol gamepimp12 posted... and Im just going to go ahead and block you cause youre actively doing it again. Doesn't seem like you blocked him <cite>Mr_hulk88 posted [p:977153126] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>StealThisSheen posted... </cite><quote>His idea of "dating" is "we hung out sometimes as friends,"</quote>No, actually he did say they were intimate. Unless you do that with your friends lolgamepimp12 posted... </cite><quote>and Im just going to go ahead and block you cause youre actively doing it again.</quote>Doesn't seem like you blocked him</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
carpediempimp 11/11/23 3:55:52 AM #50:	Mr_hulk88 posted... No, actually he did say they were intimate. Unless you do that with your friends lol Doesn't seem like you blocked him i think I just ignored him by mistake, I dont know how to unignore him to actually block him but I was away from my phone and (thus on my tablet and second account) and felt the need to respond to him one last time --- Just do it <cite>carpediempimp posted [p:977153185] in I have, th... [t:80617085]...</cite> <quote>Mr_hulk88 posted... </cite><quote>No, actually he did say they were intimate. Unless you do that with your friends lolDoesn't seem like you blocked him</quote>i think I just ignored him by mistake, I dont know how to unignore him to actually block him but I was away from my phone and (thus on my tablet and second account) and felt the need to respond to him one last time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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