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You meet people. Alot of people.

You treat women as a person, with minds worth knowing, and not just a hole.

Show them you're interesting and fun and kind.

Dont be a desperate thirsty creep.

Improve yourself little by little each day, be nice to everyone you're not attracted to, and literally ignore any women you find attractive.

I guarantee you will receive attention from women you thought you never would, if you follow those steps.

Go out.

Meet people.

Be fun, don't take it all too seriously. Don't painstakingly analyse every tiny action.

Have patience, enjoy yourself in the meantime.

The fact that you don't know how to make friends is why you don't have a girlfriend. I just said it in another topic. Having close friends, leading a fulfilling social life, and dating are all tied together. The skills really aren't that different.

Join Meetup and find good events nearby to go to. Practice being social and hopefully make some friends doing so. If you can grow your social circle, you will also start becoming friends with women. Sometimes this leads to dating with them, sometimes not, but you gain experience with interactions.

For most people, you have to learn how to be a part of society (and not just with work) before dating.

You make friends with girls. It's in the name, innit. If you are unable to make friends, then this is the issue.

Ironically, I had the most luck with women when I wasn't actually trying. Desperation never works

Notti posted...

You meet people. Alot of people.

You treat women as a person, with minds worth knowing, and not just a hole.

Show them you're interesting and fun and kind.

Dont be a desperate thirsty creep.

This is actually more or less the whole process.

Glob posted...

This is actually more or less the whole process.

It's true, but very hard to do for guys lacking social skillz

bsp77 posted...

It's true, but very hard to do for guys lacking social skillz

Yeah, but that just means that first step is probably the hardest one for them. While some people are naturally more socially adept or inclined than others, it is a set of skills which can be learned and improved over time.

https://youtu.be/8FXai4k9rF0

Glob posted...

Yeah, but that just means that first step is probably the hardest one for them. While some people are naturally more socially adept or inclined than others, it is a set of skills which can be learned and improved over time.

Of course. My post #7 is how I have seen introverted, nerdy guys gain those skills.

You must follow The Tao of Steve:

1. Elimination of desire.
2. Be excellent in her presence.
3. Retreat.

God_of_6strings posted...

Improve yourself little by little each day, be nice to everyone you're not attracted to, and literally ignore any women you find attractive.

Good advice up to the bolded part.

Unless you're already someone that attracts the opposite sex naturally, that's not going to work and pointless anyway... that's some dumb pickup artist stuff.

Just don't be creepin' or treating them like they're a porcelain princess or whatever. Don't ignore, just be chill and friendly and if they're not interested don't sweat it.

i dont know

somehow i got married though

I'm married.

Ten years ago I said she seemed cute and interesting and I wanted to get to know her more, and if she wanted to go out and she said yes. Then I moved the date up cause I couldn't wait a full week to see her and here we are.