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LinkPizza
06/14/23 7:09:29 PM
#353:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.

I wholeheartedly disagree My current BF is more than 10 years older than me

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Slaya4
06/14/23 7:13:36 PM
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Bruh...who gaf.

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Phoro
06/14/23 7:41:13 PM
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"Because if they won't date me they shouldn't date anyone!"

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Glob
06/14/23 7:52:51 PM
#357:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.

Here we go again.

People make claims like this but can never back them up.

My girlfriend is 12 years younger than me and thats fine.
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YourBestFrenemy
06/14/23 8:30:59 PM
#358:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.

So there's something wrong with a 60yr old dating a 50yr old? Or a 50 yr old dating a 40yr old? What about 40 and 30?
Please, do enlighten me. I simply cannot wait.

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bsp77
06/14/23 8:33:05 PM
#359:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.
Shut the fuck up. I guarantee I have a better relationship with my fiance (16 years younger) than you could ever hope to have.

Glob posted...
Here we go again.

People make claims like this but can never back them up.

My girlfriend is 12 years younger than me and thats fine.
Hope you are well, my man

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ExtremeLuchador
06/14/23 9:01:14 PM
#360:


My aunt married a 32-year-old Marine when she was 21. They've been married for 56 years.

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Hinakuluiau
06/14/23 9:09:07 PM
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It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger

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Ninjaluver
06/14/23 9:22:13 PM
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I already know I'll never convince you because anybody who doesn't intuitively know why dating someone 10+ years younger is wrong will never understand the reasoning.

Maturity, experience, power dynamics, manipulation, you already know all the arguments I would raise. You'd just never agree because you have the very same problems that cause someone to date 10+ years younger in the first place.

It's always creepy. If you know, you know. If you don't, you'll never get it.

Going to back out of this one before it even begins because I already know where it's going, and I don't care enough to spend the next 140 posts and hours of my life fighting something I know will go nowhere. You can declare yourself the winner of this argument. I won't reply further.
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LinkPizza
06/14/23 9:28:11 PM
#364:


Hinakuluiau posted...
It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.

Or the younger people might want to date someone who has their life together. Or they just like them. Thats why I date my BF whos more than 10 years older We just fell in love, without worrying about the age difference

Hinakuluiau posted...
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

This is another ridiculous statement. My BF actually was dating people before me. He was married twice to women, but came out. And had BFs back where he use to live. But we started dating a little after he moved here So, they can and do date people their own age

Hinakuluiau posted...
A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

These are pretty specific scenarios If anything, these are kind of exceptions, too Not everyone (or even most) will probably fall into these categories. Some most likely will, though But youre acting as if you know the motives of most people dating someone younger, when you really dont Just because you assume they fall into these categories dont mean they actually do

Hinakuluiau posted...
Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger

Youd have to know that, though Just because someone is dating someone younger, or has dated someone younger a couple times doesnt mean they exclusively do

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BeantownHero
06/14/23 9:35:45 PM
#365:


ITT: cinema levels of projection

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bsp77
06/14/23 9:39:04 PM
#366:


Hinakuluiau posted...
It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger
The older guy can only get younger women argument is ridiculously stupid. It is easier to get older women closer to your own age. Much easier.

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LinkPizza
06/14/23 9:41:09 PM
#367:


Ninjaluver posted...
I already know I'll never convince you because anybody who doesn't intuitively know why dating someone 10+ years younger is wrong will never understand the reasoning.

Or maybe youre just wrong Thats why you started off you post like this. You try to make it seem like we dont understand just because we dont agree, when its just that youre wrong

Ninjaluver posted...
Maturity, experience, power dynamics, manipulation, you already know all the arguments I would raise. You'd just never agree because you have the very same problems that cause someone to date 10+ years younger in the first place.

Maturity isnt dictated by just age Lots of older people are immature, when many younger people matured early Experience, too There are plenty of older people who havent had certain experiences just because theyre older based on life choices. Like maybe they lived at home longer while saving up and going to college. Where some people moved out immediately after high school Power dynamics only matters if someone is holding power over the other in some way And the younger one could be the one holding power over the other, or even hold power over someone the same age And anyone can manipulate. The younger one can easily manipulate the older one. But people the same age can, as well These are the same tired worn out excuses So, since I date someone 10 years older, I have the same problems as someone who dates 10 years younger? Its just because you have knowledge of how dating in the real world works

Ninjaluver posted...
It's always creepy. If you know, you know. If you don't, you'll never get it.

Its you dont like it, its fine But that doesnt make it creepy. Its just not for youNinjaluver posted...
Going to back out of this one before it even begins because I already know where it's going, and I don't care enough to spend the next 140 posts and hours of my life fighting something I know will go nowhere. You can declare yourself the winner of this argument. I won't reply further.

Youre backing out because you know youre wrong and dont want to waste time posting since it would just be a bunch of BS

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MrDrMan
06/14/23 9:49:41 PM
#368:


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Butthurt

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MrDrMan
06/14/23 9:53:56 PM
#369:


Phoro posted...
It's not about it "being weird". You made a false equivalence. There's a legitimate *reason* to give shit to someone who's cheating. Something being "weird" to you doesn't make it as unambiguously bad as the act of cheating.

Its not a false equivalence. Yall have spent this entire topic saying what two grown adults do in a relationship is nobody elses business. You cant pick and choose.

Either other peoples relationship is your business or it is not. Pick one. The same way you see someone thats been cheated on as a victim some people see a younger person dating someone older as a victim. Or a younger person clearly manipulating someone older than them for wealth and/or status.

You only want to hear about context when it benefits your own argument and that is honestly complete bullshit.

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LinkPizza
06/14/23 10:03:53 PM
#370:


MrDrMan posted...
Its not a false equivalence. Yall have spent this entire topic saying what two grown adults do in a relationship is nobody elses business. You cant pick and choose.

Either other peoples relationship is your business or it is not. Pick one. The same way you see someone thats been cheated on as a victim some people see a younger person dating someone older as a victim. Or a younger person clearly manipulating someone older than them for wealth and/or status.

You only want to hear about context when it benefits your own argument and that is honestly complete bullshit.

Its a false equivalent. When an age gap couple get together, thats 2 consenting adults. When someone cheats, the victim didnt consent. If they did, it wouldnt be cheating

Nobody should see the younger person as victim unless something happened to her. All that happened was a relationship Seeing a younger person as a victim just because they are dating an older person is stupid, and the people who see that probably arent all that good at making decisions Either can be a victim, but the same could be said dating someone your own age, as well So, its stupid to immediately assume someone is a victim because of an age gap

All youre doing is making up shit to pretend like youre right when youre obviously wrong

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BeantownHero
06/14/23 10:10:44 PM
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its some pretty sweet trolling

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Glob
06/14/23 10:39:07 PM
#372:


bsp77 posted...
Hope you are well, my man

Very well mate. About to have a month and a half off work, so really cant complain.

Hope things are good for you too.
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apocalyptic_4
06/14/23 10:56:26 PM
#373:


ZannoL posted...
Stop infantilizing grown women, CE.

They are more than capable of making their own decisions. Same goes for a grown man.

This needs to be posted on every page of this topic.

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Phoro
06/14/23 11:01:27 PM
#374:


LinkPizza posted...
Its a false equivalent. When an age gap couple get together, thats 2 consenting adults. When someone cheats, the victim didnt consent. If they did, it wouldnt be cheating

Nobody should see the younger person as victim unless something happened to her. All that happened was a relationship Seeing a younger person as a victim just because they are dating an older person is stupid, and the people who see that probably arent all that good at making decisions Either can be a victim, but the same could be said dating someone your own age, as well So, its stupid to immediately assume someone is a victim because of an age gap

All youre doing is making up shit to pretend like youre right when youre obviously wrong

All of this. Thank you

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 12:24:20 AM
#375:


LinkPizza posted...
Its a false equivalent. When an age gap couple get together, thats 2 consenting adults. When someone cheats, the victim didnt consent. If they did, it wouldnt be cheating

Nobody should see the younger person as victim unless something happened to her. All that happened was a relationship Seeing a younger person as a victim just because they are dating an older person is stupid, and the people who see that probably arent all that good at making decisions Either can be a victim, but the same could be said dating someone your own age, as well So, its stupid to immediately assume someone is a victim because of an age gap

All youre doing is making up shit to pretend like youre right when youre obviously wrong

No, Im pointing out the obvious hypocrisy of people who pick and choose when someone elses relationship is their business. Its literally that simple. You cant say its ok to have an opinion sometimes and not ok to have an opinion at others.

You typed a lot of shit to completely dodge the point at its most basic form. This conversation no longer interests me though. The hypocrisy is obvious and yall are so defensive its not worth the effort. Notice I never once called anyone stupid or anything like that. Thats what people do when they have no argument.

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06/15/23 12:42:52 AM
#377:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.
Alternatively, what happens between consenting adults is their business. Go kick rocks.

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 12:44:30 AM
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Ok and the whole debate has been because of maturity, power dynamics, etc can someone 20 years old genuinely consent to date someone 10-20 years older than them? Yall act like because its not a physical act that manipulation isnt just as bad.

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 12:58:50 AM
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Ok and theres nothing wrong with that. There is only one view being called stupid and being insulted here.

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LinkPizza
06/15/23 1:08:05 AM
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MrDrMan posted...
No, Im pointing out the obvious hypocrisy of people who pick and choose when someone elses relationship is their business. Its literally that simple. You cant say its ok to have an opinion sometimes and not ok to have an opinion at others.

No one is picking and choosing when a relationship is their business Its only their business when it involves them. Im not going around telling people they cant date cheaters if they want to date them, just like Im not going around telling people not to date other more than 10 years apart No ones saying you cant talk about others relationship. But to say thats it wrong to have an age gap relationship, or that no one should date someone more than 10 years apart is just wrong Maybe you dont agree with it like I dont think people should date cheaters. But what they do is their business

The reason cheaters get crucified is because they arent getting the consent of their partner. In those cases, one partner usually isnt even aware or getting asked. And that can actually have actual consequences (financial, medical, etc.)

MrDrMan posted...
You typed a lot of shit to completely dodge the point at its most basic form. This conversation no longer interests me though. The hypocrisy is obvious and yall are so defensive its not worth the effort. Notice I never once called anyone stupid or anything like that. Thats what people do when they have no argument.

Can you please tell me which point I dodge, then? I dont think I dodge any points. Youre either mad that you were wrong, or are going to try to move the goalpost Theres no hypocrisy, though. Youre just mad youre wrong And since no one is buying what youre selling, that is why the conversation no longer interest you And people can get defensive if you attack them or their partner or sometime they know So, it makes sense for the defensiveness And while youre not calling people stupid, you are calling them hypocrites when that doesnt fit them, either You started the name calling with that one, which, according to you, is what people do when they have no argument

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LinkPizza
06/15/23 1:12:19 AM
#383:


MrDrMan posted...
Ok and the whole debate has been because of maturity, power dynamics, etc can someone 20 years old genuinely consent to date someone 10-20 years older than them?

Yes They absolutely can

MrDrMan posted...
Yall act like because its not a physical act that manipulation isnt just as bad.

Manipulation is bad But just because they are older doesnt mean they are manipulating anyone And manipulation can happen with people in the same age group

MrDrMan posted...
Ok and theres nothing wrong with that. There is only one view being called stupid and being insulted here.

You can have your own view. If it doesnt work for you, thats fine. But others were saying things like you shouldnt date more than 10 years apart, or it should be illegal or some shit. And that is stupid Of they dont want to do it, or dont agree with it, thats fine. Saying other people shouldnt or that it should illegal isnt

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 1:15:23 AM
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People have different life experience. There are plenty of people who think those relationships shouldnt exist and thats their right. An opinion can not be right or wrong.

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06/15/23 1:24:44 AM
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MrDrMan posted...
People have different life experience. There are plenty of people who think those relationships shouldnt exist and thats their right. An opinion can not be right or wrong.

By that logic, people can have an opinion thats someones opinion is stupid, though

But theres also a difference between an opinion that age-gap shouldnt exist vs. that they disagree with it. When it comes to life experiences, they can only tell you so much. For me, I cant be with a cheater, even if they confess and apologize The relationship is over. For others, its not the same I have an opinion that I wouldnt get back with a cheater after that Some people have said they would Im not going to go around saying theyre making the wrong decision or a bad one But I am saying that I personally couldnt do it If the other poster were saying stuff like that, it would have been fine Its when they start saying its wrong that it becomes insults thrown at others by calling their relationship wrong Thats the problem people were having Does that clear things up?

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 1:29:20 AM
#387:


LinkPizza posted...
By that logic, people can have an opinion thats someones opinion is stupid, though

But theres also a difference between an opinion that age-gap shouldnt exist vs. that they disagree with it. When it comes to life experiences, they can only tell you so much. For me, I cant be with a cheater, even if they confess and apologize The relationship is over. For others, its not the same I have an opinion that I wouldnt get back with a cheater after that Some people have said they would Im not going to go around saying theyre making the wrong decision or a bad one But I am saying that I personally couldnt do it If the other poster were saying stuff like that, it would have been fine Its when they start saying its wrong that it becomes insults thrown at others by calling their relationship wrong Thats the problem people were having Does that clear things up?

I could say that you repeatedly using ellipses is stupid. Would you think thats appropriate? Probably not.

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06/15/23 1:32:01 AM
#388:


MyBirthRight posted...
"I'm a man who plays video games most of the time, has a job at walmart making $12 an hour, and have no ambition or motivation to go to school, learn a trade, or hustle and get a good job and be financially stable! But I can certainly maintain a long term relationship with my humor and personality!"



Walmart pays more than $12 per hour.

Hinakuluiau posted...
It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger


This is false. So is the rest of the post.

Ninjaluver posted...


I already know I'll never convince you because anybody who doesn't intuitively know why dating someone 10+ years younger is wrong will never understand the reasoning.

Maturity, experience, power dynamics, manipulation, you already know all the arguments I would raise. You'd just never agree because you have the very same problems that cause someone to date 10+ years younger in the first place.

It's always creepy. If you know, you know. If you don't, you'll never get it.

Going to back out of this one before it even begins because I already know where it's going, and I don't care enough to spend the next 140 posts and hours of my life fighting something I know will go nowhere. You can declare yourself the winner of this argument. I won't reply further.


You don't even know what that word means.

MrDrMan posted...


Ok and theres nothing wrong with that. There is only one view being called stupid and being insulted here.


I wonder why.

MrDrMan posted...
. An opinion can not be right or wrong.


Shit. I guess the earth is flat after all.

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 1:34:41 AM
#389:


Revelation34 posted...
Walmart pays more than $12 per hour.

This is false. So is the rest of the post.

You don't even know what that word means.

I wonder why.

Shit. I guess the earth is flat after all.

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LinkPizza
06/15/23 1:35:45 AM
#390:


MrDrMan posted...
I could say that you repeatedly using ellipses is stupid. Would you think thats appropriate? Probably not.

People call my ellipses stupid all the time And its technically an insult But I dont care much about it But when people are trying to tell me that my boyfriend and I are wrong because our relationship is wrong, then Ill defend my relationship, as there is nothing wrong with it What was the point of asking that? Was there even a point? That question led nowhere, nor did it give any new info

But you dodged the question I asked. Did that clear anything up for you? Do you understand why those two things are different, and why people are reacting the way they are?

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MrDrMan
06/15/23 1:39:17 AM
#391:


LinkPizza posted...
People call my ellipses stupid all the time And its technically an insult But I dont care much about it But when people are trying to tell me that my boyfriend and I are wrong because our relationship is wrong, then Ill defend my relationship, as there is nothing wrong with it What was the point of asking that? Was there even a point? That question led nowhere, nor did it give any new info

But you dodged the question I asked. Did that clear anything up for you? Do you understand why those two things are different, and why people are reacting the way they are?

Never bashed your relationship or you once. Theres no need to be defensive when you arent being attacked. If the shoe doesnt fit then dont wear it.

There is nothing to clear up. I have my opinion, you can have yours. Ill sleep fine tonight.

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06/15/23 1:48:35 AM
#392:


MrDrMan posted...
Never bashed your relationship or you once. Theres no need to be defensive when you arent being attacked. If the shoe doesnt fit then dont wear it.

I never said you bashed my relationship. But there were people saying that they were wrong, and even one person who said they should be illegal (though, they could have been the other topic) Saying stuff like that will het people to defend their relationship since someone is literally calling their relationship bad due to ages, when that doesnt seem to be a problem with the people in the relationship Those were the people we were talking to, and then calling them hypocrites for defending people in age-gap relationships So, I was being attacked, even if it wasnt by you

MrDrMan posted...
There is nothing to clear up. I have my opinion, you can have yours. Ill sleep fine tonight.

Like I said, if your opinion is you wouldnt be in one, thats fine. If its They shouldnt exist or something similar, then its my opinion that your opinion is stupid If its they never work out, or Someone is a victim or something like that, then its factually wrong as many age-gap relationships do work out, and arent toxic

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06/15/23 5:08:22 AM
#393:


Ninjaluver posted...
Nobody should be dating anybody 10+ years younger than them regardless of gender.
Someone is gonna mark you for this take

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MyBirthRight
06/15/23 7:35:45 AM
#394:


Hinakuluiau posted...
It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger
It's not creepy at all. As people grow older, it becomes harder to give birth. A person in their 20's is more likely to successfully have a child compared to someone in their 40's.

Furthermore, Men tend to value Looks. Youth and looks tend to be what men are primarily attracted to. Everything else comes next. Men are visual creatures. A 20-25 year old woman who is still young, fit, etc will be more physically attractive, compared to someone who is in their 50's-60's. Everyone degrades in looks. This is a reality.

You also can't use the argument of "ok, then what stops a guy from leaving his wife when she hits 50". Because that relationship festered from when both were younger and an emotional connection and forming a bond. However, if he's in the dating market again, he is going to look for someone attractive
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MyBirthRight
06/15/23 7:41:20 AM
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Hinakuluiau posted...
It's just creepy, regardless of gender or sexuality. Obviously there are exceptions where it works out and the couple is in a healthy place, but a lot of times it's obvious the older half has no game and gets put in their place by others their own age so they resort to younger people.
Typically the older one is someone who finally has something that makes them attractive to young people (alcohol, disposable income, own a home, etc.) because they couldn't date when they were younger because on an even ground it's revealed how shit their personality is.

A lot of times the older one is a guy who can't get a woman his own age. E.g.:
Divorced guy who suddenly goes for younger women because women his own age can see the red flags and won't put up with the BS
Late-bloomer types who are starting college later or their career was postponed, when women his own age have graduated and are a few years into their career, why date a guy who is studying for finals?
Rich guy who pays for stuff and expects sex in return because he doesn't want an equal partner but instead a fucktoy.
Etc.

Again, large age-gaps can be healthy and work out, but they get an automatic side-eye especially if the older person exclusively dates younger
Men and women are not the same. Women look for looks, personality, status, social, and financial stability. A guy's looks may get him in the door, but if he doesn't have a bunch of things going for him, he wont be attractive in the long run.

Men look for beauty. People in their 20's tend to objectively be more physically attractive then people who are older. As you get older, you get wrinkles, crows feet. Your metabolism slows down. Your hair thins out. You're not as physically fit. You have a lower rate of having a successful child.

A divorced man may not even find a woman his own age that is he feels is his type Furthermore, it comes down to people trying to shame men for their preferences

No one bats an eye when a woman wants
-A Tall Man
-A non Balding man
-A man who is funny
-A man who is intelligent
-A man who has his own home and car
-A man who is financially stable and can provide

BUT it's the end of the world if a man wants a woman who is in her early-Mid 20's. Even though women have just as much rights as men

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MyBirthRight
06/15/23 7:50:40 AM
#397:


Revelation34 posted...
Walmart pays more than $12 per hour.

This is false. So is the rest of the post.

You don't even know what that word means.

I wonder why.

Shit. I guess the earth is flat after all.
You can't use that argument to make the claim that a broke man is going to successfully maintain a long term relationship. Having no ambition and having a low paying job are not attractive traits to the opposite gender.

Inb4
"I didn't say that, but you said that $12 an hour, which isn't true for walmart because the pay is higher"

This is irrelevant. You can't use this as a point of contention, when having a job with low pay and no ambition or goals isn't going to be a primary attractor to women. A woman with options is going to look for someone better
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MyBirthRight
06/15/23 7:58:30 AM
#398:


Revelation34 posted...
That says nothing at all about men.

If a man wants a child, statistically it is better for him to have one with someone in their 20's, compared to someone in their 40's-50's. The exception of a few people giving birth at older ages is not the rule

By definition incels are losers.

Fresh & fit are not losers. Myron and Fresh have had sex with women, have had relationships with women. They are a dating podcast that gives advice to men to make sure that they have their shit together in terms of financials, and how to treat certain situations

An incel is someone unable to have sex. You can still have sex, but have the ideology of traditional gender roles or a realistic approach to the opposite sex
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KainFourteh
06/15/23 8:28:11 AM
#399:


Come back and defend your ignorant and incorrect stance @Ninjaluver

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pezzicle
06/15/23 9:22:48 AM
#400:


MyBirthRight posted...
Men and women are not the same. Women look for looks, personality, status, social, and financial stability. A guy's looks may get him in the door, but if he doesn't have a bunch of things going for him, he wont be attractive in the long run.

Men look for beauty. People in their 20's tend to objectively be more physically attractive then people who are in their 60's. As you get older, you get wrinkles, crows feet. Your metabolism slows down. Your hair thins out. You're not as physically fit. libido decrease

https://ncoa.org/article/why-do-older-adults-lose-their-libido

A divorced man may not even find a woman his own age that is he feels is his type Furthermore, it comes down to people trying to shame men for their preferences

No one bats an eye when a woman wants
-A Tall Man
-A non Balding man
-A man who is funny
-A man who is intelligent
-A man who has his own home and car
-A man who is financially stable and can provide

BUT it's the end of the world if a man wants a woman who is in her early-Mid 20's. Even though women have just as much rights as men


men only care about looks is hella insulting and real dumb

you might only care about looks but dont go around suggesting thats the case for everyone

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masterpug53
06/15/23 9:25:24 AM
#401:


Y'know, I'm starting to think this MrDrMan ought to have his doctorate revoked.

KainFourteh posted...
Come back and defend your ignorant and incorrect stance @Ninjaluver

>Insert a paragraph of drivel that ultimately boils down to "I personally find it icky / creepy and therefore it is wrong and ought to be illegal."

There, I saved you 21 new posts in this topic (1 for Ninja's weak-ass bullshit, 20 for CEmen rightfully ripping him apart over it).


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Zonbei
06/15/23 9:33:10 AM
#402:


MyBirthRight posted...
And this is why the Red Pill space was created. So that men dont have to go through this.

Most people do not care about men's feelings


Oh lord. Shut the fuck up with your incel cult nonsense.

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