Current Events > It's kind of weird how some girls don't mention their significant other at all

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This, so very much

I have you tagged as king for a few reasons

Im not trying to hold you responsible for the shitheads. Its just that when youre in a sea of shitheads and you make a comment that could be construed as something a shithead would say, its not unreasonable to think that youre part of the crowd. However, Im happy to concede that I read your comment in a way which was not how you intended.

She would sometimes literally stop the haircut, sit on the sink counter in front of me to listen to listen to some BS I had to say, laugh extra hard at a joke. And then touch my shoulder.

For anyone following at home. This goes beyond good customer service to this girl is totally flirting

I look at this board and see a sea of people who think they're putting the "shitheads" in their place. It's quite delusional and sad.

The "shitheads" here barely exist. It's just an echo chamber of not too bright social inept white knights being trolled by like the same 4 users over and over

isn't leading people on also disingenuous

Who is leading anybody on, here?

I'd say it's reasonable

It's really not that reasonable.

yall literally need to just get out and talk to more people. Your ideas of what dating is or how people think is actually kinda scary to how far from reality you may be.

I look at this board and see a sea of people who think they're putting the "shitheads" in their place. It's quite delusional and sad.

Men tend to treat women differently, unfavorably, when they find out they're taken.

https://youtu.be/YbGlQRDWmjA

She isn't obligated to volunteer any information at all to you.

Grow up.

TC has said multiple times that he felt like his barber was flirting with him and mentioned something about maybe hanging out with their dogs, which he took as a date idea. I'd say it's reasonable to say that TC felt like he was led on

She did this:

And wanted to WFH during lockdown.

It's not wholly unreasonable either. You can see how TC could have came to the conclusion that she wanted to go on a (strictly friendly) date but when he found out she has a BF, he felt a bit led on since even if they had went on (strictly friendly) dates, it may not have culminated into anything meaningful (sexual or otherwise).

She's not obligated to share information with TC but it is a bit inappropriate to drag, with intent or not, someone along when there is no chance of things progressing beyond friends. It's why it's preferred you state your intentions early, if not often. If her intent was to stay friendly then some of her actions should have been obvious, even to her, that they hinted at more. Unless it's strictly a cultural conflict (IE a kiss on the cheek is a common sign of strictly friendly affection in some cultures whereas in America a kiss on the cheek is more family or closely personal affection level)

It's possible for both people to be in the 'wrong' here as well.

"it's dangerous for women to not tell me they have a boyfriend" holy shit that's one of the creepiest things ive read on this board

Maybe by the way TC described it, you could potentially conclude that. Who's to say what she's really acting like?

She's leading you on and knows exactly what she's doing. It's cheating in a way.

Maybe she was just in a rocky patch with her BF at that time, keeping options open. Maybe it was literally nothing. We may never know.

But it shows you who these people are. Like I said, the summation of these investigations are so out to lunch. Talking to people is what I do all day long, and yall make me think you never talk to another human being in your lives.

Notice I didnt say me ?

I said its dangerous to lead on men, as a whole. Its pretty obvious as to why, and Ive already explained it a few times.

Im told that Im a massive flirt, but Ive spent pretty much my entire adult life in relationships and have never even considered cheating. Im just being friendly.

This from the guy who imagined a sexual relationship with his hairdresser, didn't have the stones to act on it, stalks her on Facebook, and looks for validation of his bruised feelings on gfaqs after the imagined betrayal.

Let alone the continued insults of right minded people who stopped to post in your topic.

The fact that you think there's a difference between you and other men here is telling. The fact that you made the statement is telling. The difference between you and a man who would harm(?) a woman for 'leading him on' is irrelevant. What's poignant is that your suggestion indicates justification. It's creepy and scary.