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Cleo_II 07/19/22 2:22:42 PM #51:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Sackgurl posted... i'm trying to imagine your first date with this guy and figuring out how he managed to not piss you off Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966686476] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Sackgurl posted... </cite> <quote>i'm trying to imagine your first date with this guy and figuring out how he managed to not piss you off</quote>Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ArchNemo 07/19/22 2:30:26 PM #52:	Cleo_II posted... He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy. Is he in shape? There could be some resentment going on if he feels like he's keeping himself in shape and he feels you're not making the effort he feels is appropriate. The fact that his initial reaction was to offer to help you cook and work out rather than say he loves the way you look, even just to make you feel better, seems odd. Or the fact that he's actively complimenting other women around you when he knows how you feel. Obviously, I don't know him or you but it might be something to keep in mind, because the issue might be bigger than him just being ignorant. --- Down with the Signess. <cite>ArchNemo posted [p:966686643] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy.</quote> Is he in shape? There could be some resentment going on if he feels like he's keeping himself in shape and he feels you're not making the effort he feels is appropriate. The fact that his initial reaction was to offer to help you cook and work out rather than say he loves the way you look, even just to make you feel better, seems odd. Or the fact that he's actively complimenting other women around you when he knows how you feel. Obviously, I don't know him or you but it might be something to keep in mind, because the issue might be bigger than him just being ignorant. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrFingers07 07/19/22 2:34:32 PM #53:	maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand --- :D Brawlin' Mains: R.O.B., Lucario, Pikachu, Wolf <cite>MrFingers07 posted [p:966686738] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/19/22 2:39:59 PM #54:	MrFingers07 posted... maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand Yeah, it's pretty normal unless they know you are against it --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966686863] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>MrFingers07 posted... </cite> <quote>maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand</quote>Yeah, it's pretty normal unless they know you are against it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/19/22 2:49:01 PM #55:	ArchNemo posted... Is he in shape? There could be some resentment going on if he feels like he's keeping himself in shape and he feels you're not making the effort he feels is appropriate. The fact that his initial reaction was to offer to help you cook and work out rather than say he loves the way you look, even just to make you feel better, seems odd. Or the fact that he's actively complimenting other women around you when he knows how you feel. Obviously, I don't know him or you but it might be something to keep in mind, because the issue might be bigger than him just being ignorant. No hes working on losing more weight than I am so thats why he went into problem solving mode. He did say that he is here for me regardless just how Ive been there for him through his weight gain. But again doesnt say things like I still think youre beautiful where I will tell him that I find him attractive more frequently or tell him when he looks handsome when we go out. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966687099] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>ArchNemo posted... </cite> <quote>Is he in shape? There could be some resentment going on if he feels like he's keeping himself in shape and he feels you're not making the effort he feels is appropriate. The fact that his initial reaction was to offer to help you cook and work out rather than say he loves the way you look, even just to make you feel better, seems odd. Or the fact that he's actively complimenting other women around you when he knows how you feel. Obviously, I don't know him or you but it might be something to keep in mind, because the issue might be bigger than him just being ignorant.</quote>No hes working on losing more weight than I am so thats why he went into problem solving mode. He did say that he is here for me regardless just how Ive been there for him through his weight gain. But again doesnt say things like I still think youre beautiful where I will tell him that I find him attractive more frequently or tell him when he looks handsome when we go out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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aurlen 07/19/22 2:55:40 PM #57:	MrFingers07 posted... maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand I would be pissed if someone posted me without my permission <cite>aurlen posted [p:966687249] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>MrFingers07 posted... </cite> <quote>maybe it's because i grew up without having friends so i rarely took pictures with others but is that normal for people to post a picture of themselves online with other people on the photo without their permission? i know it's going to be odd for you to say this to them but have you told them if it's possible for them to take down the pictures because you don't feel flattering enough in them? hopefully they'll understand</quote>I would be pissed if someone posted me without my permission </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cuttin_in_farm 07/19/22 3:15:06 PM #58:	As someone who rarely compliments people, Its interesting hearing TCs perspective. I am likely to express love, but I tend to avoid direct compliments. Though its weird his compliments decreased over time. Sounds like complacency for sure. Good thing yall plan to talk about it. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. <cite>cuttin_in_farm posted [p:966687708] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>As someone who rarely compliments people, Its interesting hearing TCs perspective. I am likely to express love, but I tend to avoid direct compliments. Though its weird his compliments decreased over time. Sounds like complacency for sure. Good thing yall plan to talk about it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Robot2600 07/19/22 3:20:58 PM #59:	fuck that guy for not finding you attractive just cause you gained weight losing weigh is great but it's also kinda fun to be chubby --- gamefaqs.gamespot.gamestop.com <cite>Robot2600 posted [p:966687865] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>fuck that guy for not finding you attractive just cause you gained weight losing weigh is great but it's also kinda fun to be chubby </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/19/22 3:22:34 PM #60:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] So dumb lol. I think it boils down to different love languages. He is acts of service and I am physical touch and quality time. Physical touch including non sexual which is also something he struggles with. Im ok without too many words of affirmation but I do like them sometimes. I learned a while back to adapt to his language and do more acts of service for him but he struggles with my love languages. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966687903] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> So dumb lol. I think it boils down to different love languages. He is acts of service and I am physical touch and quality time. Physical touch including non sexual which is also something he struggles with. Im ok without too many words of affirmation but I do like them sometimes. I learned a while back to adapt to his language and do more acts of service for him but he struggles with my love languages. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CyricZ 07/19/22 4:30:33 PM #62:	I'm physical touch and words of affirmation. Didn't even know I was the latter for the longest time. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:966689522] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I'm physical touch and words of affirmation. Didn't even know I was the latter for the longest time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The-19th-Sparta 07/19/22 4:31:54 PM #63:	Perhaps since hes gained weight theres some internal awareness/shame going on for him mentally. Im not an armchair psychologist but I know when I got big myself over the years, my partner still called me handsome and I would often just chuckle, smile and say nothing back because I was ashamed of that physique I allowed myself to have. Ive lost some of that weight and am still working on it, but I personally had that problem with affection. --- Remembering the EPICNESS one GameFAQs post at a time. <cite>The-19th-Sparta posted [p:966689557] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Perhaps since hes gained weight theres some internal awareness/shame going on for him mentally. Im not an armchair psychologist but I know when I got big myself over the years, my partner still called me handsome and I would often just chuckle, smile and say nothing back because I was ashamed of that physique I allowed myself to have. Ive lost some of that weight and am still working on it, but I personally had that problem with affection. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Foppe 07/19/22 4:32:46 PM #64:	Wait wait wait, Cleo is a mother now? I must have missed that, congrats --- GameFAQs isn't going to be merged in with GameSpot or any other site. We're not going to strip out the soul of the site. -CJayC <cite>Foppe posted [p:966689581] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Wait wait wait, Cleo is a mother now? I must have missed that, congrats </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 07/19/22 4:52:52 PM #66:	How do you think those of us who are actually ugly feel >_<. Neh. I understand where you're coming from. Part of why I don't do social media is because I don't want to have to deal with being put in a position where everyone is constantly judging me and comparing me to others. Id probably just leave without telling anyone if I felt uncomfortable. But, people know me for just walking away when I feel like it, so no one would question me later and I could immediately move on. I feel like that might not be how people treat you. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:966690093] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>How do you think those of us who are actually ugly feel >_<. Neh. I understand where you're coming from. Part of why I don't do social media is because I don't want to have to deal with being put in a position where everyone is constantly judging me and comparing me to others. Id probably just leave without telling anyone if I felt uncomfortable. But, people know me for just walking away when I feel like it, so no one would question me later and I could immediately move on. I feel like that might not be how people treat you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/19/22 5:19:54 PM #67:	Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. Foppe posted... Wait wait wait, Cleo is a mother now? I must have missed that, congrats Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life. Lost_All_Senses posted... How do you think those of us who are actually ugly feel >_<. Neh. I understand where you're coming from. Part of why I don't do social media is because I don't want to have to deal with being put in a position where everyone is constantly judging me and comparing me to others. Id probably just leave without telling anyone if I felt uncomfortable. But, people know me for just walking away when I feel like it, so no one would question me later and I could immediately move on. I feel like that might not be how people treat you. Yeah I avoid SM for the same reason. Its just best for my mental health and I dont have to worry about comparing myself to others. I didnt know some of these girls so I wasnt comfortable expressing myself. I could see removing yourself from the situation being best sometimes. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966690782] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. Foppe posted... </cite> <quote>Wait wait wait, Cleo is a mother now? I must have missed that, congrats </quote>Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life. Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>How do you think those of us who are actually ugly feel >_<. Neh. I understand where you're coming from. Part of why I don't do social media is because I don't want to have to deal with being put in a position where everyone is constantly judging me and comparing me to others. Id probably just leave without telling anyone if I felt uncomfortable. But, people know me for just walking away when I feel like it, so no one would question me later and I could immediately move on. I feel like that might not be how people treat you.</quote>Yeah I avoid SM for the same reason. Its just best for my mental health and I dont have to worry about comparing myself to others. I didnt know some of these girls so I wasnt comfortable expressing myself. I could see removing yourself from the situation being best sometimes. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ivany2008 07/19/22 5:24:52 PM #68:	There was a conversation I had just last night with one of my female friends who was trying to lose weight and wasn't comfortable with the amount she had lost, as she was supposed to meet up with an old fling and while he wouldn't care how much weight she had gained (as it has been hard staying thin during covid), she wasn't happy with how much weight she needed to lose. Hell, if I'm being honest, I wish I lived where she did, so I could take her out and make her feel special because she really is a gorgeous woman. Pictures in general show the world an altered version of what you look like. Take myself for example, I'm terrible at taking pictures. Absolutely terrible. But every woman I've met say I look way better in person. On the other side of things, I've seen some people who take really good pictures but look like garbage in real life. In your world, the only people that should give a damn about the way you look are you and your husband. Everyone else can pardon my french.... F off. As long as the two of you are happy with the way you look that's all that matters. And if your trying to lose weight, good for you. But lose weight because you want to, not because you want to look like SoCal Barbie, who I can promise you doesn't look as good as she may portray on instagram. <cite>Ivany2008 posted [p:966690913] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>There was a conversation I had just last night with one of my female friends who was trying to lose weight and wasn't comfortable with the amount she had lost, as she was supposed to meet up with an old fling and while he wouldn't care how much weight she had gained (as it has been hard staying thin during covid), she wasn't happy with how much weight she needed to lose. Hell, if I'm being honest, I wish I lived where she did, so I could take her out and make her feel special because she really is a gorgeous woman. Pictures in general show the world an altered version of what you look like. Take myself for example, I'm terrible at taking pictures. Absolutely terrible. But every woman I've met say I look way better in person. On the other side of things, I've seen some people who take really good pictures but look like garbage in real life. In your world, the only people that should give a damn about the way you look are you and your husband. Everyone else can pardon my french.... F off. As long as the two of you are happy with the way you look that's all that matters. And if your trying to lose weight, good for you. But lose weight because you want to, not because you want to look like SoCal Barbie, who I can promise you doesn't look as good as she may portray on instagram. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/19/22 5:25:57 PM #69:	Cleo_II posted... Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. I think it is the fact that he freely talks about other women being attractive, while ignoring you despite stating how much you are struggling. It's the combo there. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966690942] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course.</quote>I think it is the fact that he freely talks about other women being attractive, while ignoring you despite stating how much you are struggling. It's the combo there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/19/22 5:29:37 PM #70:	Cleo_II posted... Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life. Yeah I avoid SM for the same reason. Its just best for my mental health and I dont have to worry about comparing myself to others. I didnt know some of these girls so I wasnt comfortable expressing myself. I could see removing yourself from the situation being best sometimes. It definitely is for me. I don't have to prolong being uncomfortable just to satisfy other peoples background lol. If anyone sees that as me being socially inept, Ill just see it as them wanting me to be uncomfortable just to serve them. Which, when I rationalize it like that, Im like "Fuck them if they don't care about me enough to want me to be comfortable" :p. But, I also don't hold anything against anyone after I leave. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:966691055] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Funny I wasnt expecting this kind of reaction about my husband. Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life. Yeah I avoid SM for the same reason. Its just best for my mental health and I dont have to worry about comparing myself to others. I didnt know some of these girls so I wasnt comfortable expressing myself. I could see removing yourself from the situation being best sometimes.</quote> It definitely is for me. I don't have to prolong being uncomfortable just to satisfy other peoples background lol. If anyone sees that as me being socially inept, Ill just see it as them wanting me to be uncomfortable just to serve them. Which, when I rationalize it like that, Im like "Fuck them if they don't care about me enough to want me to be comfortable" :p. But, I also don't hold anything against anyone after I leave. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem-man 07/19/22 5:53:35 PM #71:	I wasn't good at all about giving random compliments to my partner and I've tried to be better about it but I still feel weird about it. Like, I'm fine giving acknowledging and telling appreciation when certain things are done. I'm an acts of service guy and I appreciate people doing things and I'll let them know. Or it's a special event and someone put effort into dressing up and looking good, I'll compliment that. It's the random one off things that I'm weird about. Like, honestly at one point I just ended up putting a reminder in my phone to comment on xyz --- http://avatar.xboxlive.com/avatar/emblem%20boy/avatar-body.png haters gonna hate <cite>emblem-man posted [p:966691662] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I wasn't good at all about giving random compliments to my partner and I've tried to be better about it but I still feel weird about it. Like, I'm fine giving acknowledging and telling appreciation when certain things are done. I'm an acts of service guy and I appreciate people doing things and I'll let them know. Or it's a special event and someone put effort into dressing up and looking good, I'll compliment that. It's the random one off things that I'm weird about. Like, honestly at one point I just ended up putting a reminder in my phone to comment on xyz </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
itachi15243 07/19/22 11:00:01 PM #72:	Don't get worked up about it. They probably do that shit because their lives are miserable or boring. Plus, you never know when the shoe might be on the other foot. --- I do drawings and stuff https://www.fiverr.com/blueblitz <cite>itachi15243 posted [p:966698774] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Don't get worked up about it. They probably do that shit because their lives are miserable or boring. Plus, you never know when the shoe might be on the other foot. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/19/22 11:04:12 PM #73:	itachi15243 posted... Don't get worked up about it. They probably do that shit because their lives are miserable or boring. Plus, you never know when the shoe might be on the other foot. What are you talking about? I doubt her friends were being malicious --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966698834] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>itachi15243 posted... </cite> <quote>Don't get worked up about it. They probably do that shit because their lives are miserable or boring. Plus, you never know when the shoe might be on the other foot.</quote>What are you talking about? I doubt her friends were being malicious </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
uthoria205 07/19/22 11:17:59 PM #74:	I find your lack of posted pics disturbing.... --- "This gold digging, low level, dime-a-dozen, mushy, pointless, dangling, overused, flappy fish market" <cite>uthoria205 posted [p:966699080] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I find your lack of posted pics disturbing.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Koishi 07/19/22 11:28:49 PM #75:	Cleo_II posted... Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course. My boyfriend gives compliments all the time, I believe it just depends on the person. But even if common, I think it's wrong to accept it as the norm or an acceptable standard, especially when the other person in a relationship really wants/needs positive affirmation --- *The Closed Eyes of Love* <cite>Koishi posted [p:966699248] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Irl pretty much every woman I know who is married or in a long term relationship struggles with getting compliments from their male SO. I thought it was pretty common? Not saying all men do this of course.</quote>My boyfriend gives compliments all the time, I believe it just depends on the person. But even if common, I think it's wrong to accept it as the norm or an acceptable standard, especially when the other person in a relationship really wants/needs positive affirmation </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Foppe 07/20/22 1:34:33 AM #76:	Cleo_II posted... Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life. I got a nephew the same age. I know that it is not the same thing, but I can understand that feeling. --- GameFAQs isn't going to be merged in with GameSpot or any other site. We're not going to strip out the soul of the site. -CJayC <cite>Foppe posted [p:966700970] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Thank you! I have a 15 month old girl now. Shes the most incredible thing in my life.</quote>I got a nephew the same age. I know that it is not the same thing, but I can understand that feeling. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The_Creep_2020 07/20/22 2:25:16 AM #77:	Cleo_II posted... He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy. Yeah, he needs to realise that you dont make compliments for you, you make them for the other person. I want to have sex with you, what more do you want? Is a bit yuck, no matter how you word it. --- All that I am and all I'll ever be is a brain in a body. <cite>The_Creep_2020 posted [p:966701519] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>He just says its not natural for him to give compliments because he doesnt feel like he needs them. He keeps saying he will work on it but doesnt. He just thinks the fact that he wants sex with me pretty much every day if he could is enough of an expression of his attraction to me. He doesnt understand why it isnt to me. Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy.</quote> Yeah, he needs to realise that you dont make compliments for you, you make them for the other person. I want to have sex with you, what more do you want? Is a bit yuck, no matter how you word it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 07/20/22 2:32:44 AM #78:	-BrokenSpiral- posted... Stfu body shaming Body shaming is part of why fake tits are so popular a surgery. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:966701570] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>-BrokenSpiral- posted... </cite> <quote>Stfu body shaming</quote>Body shaming is part of why fake tits are so popular a surgery. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/20/22 3:01:01 AM #79:	Guide posted... Body shaming is part of why fake tits are so popular a surgery. Shut up and get surgery already, Guide. I don't care about your feelings or whatever you're talking about. Just look fuckable by my specific standards for me already --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:966701785] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite> <quote>Body shaming is part of why fake tits are so popular a surgery.</quote> Shut up and get surgery already, Guide. I don't care about your feelings or whatever you're talking about. Just look fuckable by my specific standards for me already </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeonOctopus 07/20/22 3:02:39 AM #80:	Natural tits almost always look better than fake tits --- http://i.imgur.com/nlaY1qH.jpg http://i.imgur.com/zHJ1OCo.gif http://i.imgur.com/btBPP4E.jpg http://i.imgur.com/1B3bMHw.gif https://imgur.com/nQik2zW <cite>NeonOctopus posted [p:966701793] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Natural tits almost always look better than fake tits </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 07/20/22 3:13:20 AM #81:	NeonOctopus posted... Natural tits almost always look better than fake tits You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:966701875] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>NeonOctopus posted... </cite> <quote>Natural tits almost always look better than fake tits</quote>You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 07/20/22 4:15:26 AM #82:	Lost_All_Senses posted... Shut up and get surgery already, Guide. I don't care about your feelings or whatever you're talking about. Just look fuckable by my specific standards for me already https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/3/9/AAJxOBAADeOf.jpg --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:966702314] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>Shut up and get surgery already, Guide. I don't care about your feelings or whatever you're talking about. Just look fuckable by my specific standards for me already</quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/3/9/AAJxOBAADeOf.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xethuminra 07/20/22 4:16:14 AM #83:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/5/0/3/AAatkdAADdzX.jpg <cite>Xethuminra posted [p:966702322] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/5/0/3/AAatkdAADdzX.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/20/22 4:22:22 AM #84:	Guide posted... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/3/9/AAJxOBAADeOf.jpg There you go getting emotional now for no reason. You're so selfish! --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:966702355] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Guide posted... </cite> <quote> https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/3/9/AAJxOBAADeOf.jpg</quote> There you go getting emotional now for no reason. You're so selfish! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 07/20/22 4:34:12 AM #85:	https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/4/0/AAJxOBAADeOg.jpg --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:966702448] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/2/4/0/AAJxOBAADeOg.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TentacleDemon 07/20/22 4:36:42 AM #86:	Cleo_II posted... Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy. My ex and I were very comfortable together. I'm talking about farting near each other or pooping while the other one is in the shower right next to you levels of comfort. Even then the compliments never stopped from me. If she bent over near me, I lovingly slapped her ass. If she were too far away for a touch, she got a "Mmmm" or a sexy growl. If she got undressed in front of me, I stopped what I was doing and she had my full attention. Or just walking up behind her, wrapping my arms around her waiste and flat out telling her she looks incredible. Even after three years of living together I took every single opportunity to make sure she knew that my desire for her was just as strong as ever. It sounds more like he was just playing a role until he got you locked down, then he dropped the facade. It doesn't mean the compliments weren't sincere. Just that he was pretending to be someone who cares enough to give compliments. <cite>TentacleDemon posted [p:966702464] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>Oh he was complimenting me like crazy at first. So hes obviously capable. He maybe stopped once we moved in together and got comfortable. But its something were going to dive deeper on in therapy.</quote> My ex and I were very comfortable together. I'm talking about farting near each other or pooping while the other one is in the shower right next to you levels of comfort. Even then the compliments never stopped from me. If she bent over near me, I lovingly slapped her ass. If she were too far away for a touch, she got a "Mmmm" or a sexy growl. If she got undressed in front of me, I stopped what I was doing and she had my full attention. Or just walking up behind her, wrapping my arms around her waiste and flat out telling her she looks incredible. Even after three years of living together I took every single opportunity to make sure she knew that my desire for her was just as strong as ever. It sounds more like he was just playing a role until he got you locked down, then he dropped the facade. It doesn't mean the compliments weren't sincere. Just that he was pretending to be someone who cares enough to give compliments. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Guide 07/20/22 4:41:40 AM #87:	TentacleDemon posted... It sounds more like he was just playing a role until he got you locked down, then he dropped the facade Probably not even intentional. Lots of people change once the norepinephrine wears off. --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU <cite>Guide posted [p:966702495] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>TentacleDemon posted... </cite> <quote>It sounds more like he was just playing a role until he got you locked down, then he dropped the facade</quote> Probably not even intentional. Lots of people change once the norepinephrine wears off. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
uthoria205 07/20/22 3:57:45 PM #88:	gunplagirl posted... You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in. They never feel right. Ill take a natual A or B cup over fake C or D cups any day. --- "This gold digging, low level, dime-a-dozen, mushy, pointless, dangling, overused, flappy fish market" <cite>uthoria205 posted [p:966713756] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in.</quote> They never feel right. Ill take a natual A or B cup over fake C or D cups any day. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CasualGuy 07/20/22 4:05:03 PM #89:	I get the boyfriend thing. I hate getting and receiving compliments as well. Parents and every adult in my life gave them out like candy growing up and now I just don't want to hear or give them anymore. I still do occasionally for the gf, but I could easily see not doing it after X years of marriage. Gotta compromise. He should try more and you should acknowledge that him wanting you sexually Is a positive affirmation. Dudes don't want sex with people they find unattractive ya know --- http://i.imgur.com/MoE9O68.gif <cite>CasualGuy posted [p:966713946] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I get the boyfriend thing. I hate getting and receiving compliments as well. Parents and every adult in my life gave them out like candy growing up and now I just don't want to hear or give them anymore. I still do occasionally for the gf, but I could easily see not doing it after X years of marriage. Gotta compromise. He should try more and you should acknowledge that him wanting you sexually Is a positive affirmation. Dudes don't want sex with people they find unattractive ya know </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
What_ 07/20/22 4:05:48 PM #90:	spikethedevil posted... Ive heard SoCals on a whole other level. Certain areas like Hollywood; of course. Most of the region is not. <cite>What_ posted [p:966713966] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>spikethedevil posted... </cite> <quote>Ive heard SoCals on a whole other level.</quote>Certain areas like Hollywood; of course. Most of the region is not. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/20/22 4:08:36 PM #91:	CasualGuy posted... Gotta compromise. He should try more and you should acknowledge that him wanting you sexually Is a positive affirmation. Dudes don't want sex with people they find unattractive ya know The bolded is not necessarily true. He really needs to try harder and I don't think she should compromise. At least not on this issue, as I am sure there are other areas where we she should compromise or already is. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966714043] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>CasualGuy posted... </cite> <quote>Gotta compromise. He should try more and you should acknowledge that him wanting you sexually Is a positive affirmation. Dudes don't want sex with people they find unattractive ya know</quote>The bolded is not necessarily true. He really needs to try harder and I don't think she should compromise. At least not on this issue, as I am sure there are other areas where we she should compromise or already is. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CasualGuy 07/20/22 4:14:37 PM #92:	bsp77 posted... The bolded is not necessarily true. He really needs to try harder and I don't think she should compromise. At least not on this issue, as I am sure there are other areas where we she should compromise or already is. Marriage is all about compromise homie. It doesn't work when the "this needs to be done my way and no other" kinda conversations start happening for basic things And it's a safe bet to assume it's true unless the marriage is failing. Which I doubt. This seems like a small problem that just needed to be vented. And I agreed he should try harder --- http://i.imgur.com/MoE9O68.gif <cite>CasualGuy posted [p:966714205] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>The bolded is not necessarily true. He really needs to try harder and I don't think she should compromise. At least not on this issue, as I am sure there are other areas where we she should compromise or already is.</quote> Marriage is all about compromise homie. It doesn't work when the "this needs to be done my way and no other" kinda conversations start happening for basic things And it's a safe bet to assume it's true unless the marriage is failing. Which I doubt. This seems like a small problem that just needed to be vented. And I agreed he should try harder </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 07/20/22 4:15:36 PM #93:	Unfake > fake fake --- Common sense said you can common my sense, ifyaknowwhatimeanwinkwink -smackems- some dudette named JimCarrysToe <cite>Smackems posted [p:966714232] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Unfake > fake fake </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bsp77 07/20/22 4:26:03 PM #94:	CasualGuy posted... Marriage is all about compromise homie. It doesn't work when the "this needs to be done my way and no other" kinda conversations start happening for basic things And it's a safe bet to assume it's true unless the marriage is failing. Which I doubt. This seems like a small problem that just needed to be vented. And I agreed he should try harder I explicitly said compromise is important (well, maybe implicitly). But if you think women should feel reassured because the man wants to have sex with her, then you know very little about women. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966714463] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>CasualGuy posted... </cite> <quote>Marriage is all about compromise homie. It doesn't work when the "this needs to be done my way and no other" kinda conversations start happening for basic things And it's a safe bet to assume it's true unless the marriage is failing. Which I doubt. This seems like a small problem that just needed to be vented. And I agreed he should try harder</quote>I explicitly said compromise is important (well, maybe implicitly). But if you think women should feel reassured because the man wants to have sex with her, then you know very little about women. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CasualGuy 07/20/22 4:30:15 PM #95:	Sounds like we agree then. And yes, if your partner very clearly wants you sexually, they are attracted to you lol. Not that different that saying it out loud to many men and women. Not rocket science. --- http://i.imgur.com/MoE9O68.gif <cite>CasualGuy posted [p:966714569] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like we agree then. And yes, if your partner very clearly wants you sexually, they are attracted to you lol. Not that different that saying it out loud to many men and women. Not rocket science. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Thunder 07/20/22 4:45:16 PM #96:	CasualGuy posted... And yes, if your partner very clearly wants you sexually, they are attracted to you lol. Not that different that saying it out loud to many men and women. Not rocket science. I think he means (correct me if wrong, bsp) that being sexually desired generally doesn't mean as much to them since women generally get that all the time, making it lose meaning. Whereas verbal affirmations are more valuable as they show that you care about making them feel good rather than just showing that you want their p** (or other body part). --- aka Thunderjay - Jenshin Team: https://i.imgur.com/TtFLzT8.png Resident Synthwave enjoyer. <cite>Blue_Thunder posted [p:966714892] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>CasualGuy posted...</cite> <quote>And yes, if your partner very clearly wants you sexually, they are attracted to you lol. Not that different that saying it out loud to many men and women. Not rocket science. </quote> I think he means (correct me if wrong, bsp) that being sexually desired generally doesn't mean as much to them since women generally get that all the time, making it lose meaning. Whereas verbal affirmations are more valuable as they show that you care about making them feel good rather than just showing that you want their p** (or other body part).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caelthus 07/20/22 4:46:19 PM #97:	gunplagirl posted... You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in. You really gonna doubt that Neon hasn't seen enough boobs? Really? --- http://na.finalfantasyxiv.com/lodestone/character/3853476/ Neo Yokio is a masterpiece. - Popcorn_Fairy <cite>Caelthus posted [p:966714915] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>You've not seen enough fake ones, most surgically enhanced ones are modest and usually to even out things and maybe go up a cup size. Not enough you'd even know there's implants in.</quote>You really gonna doubt that Neon hasn't seen enough boobs? Really? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CasualGuy 07/20/22 4:51:16 PM #98:	Blue_Thunder posted... I think he means (correct me if wrong, bsp) that being sexually desired generally doesn't mean as much to them since women generally get that all the time, making it lose meaning. Whereas verbal affirmations are more valuable as they show that you care about making them feel good rather than just showing that you want their p** (or other body part). I never suggested otherwise. Some people need verbal affirmation and some need to not give/receive it. That was the whole conversation about compromising. --- http://i.imgur.com/MoE9O68.gif <cite>CasualGuy posted [p:966715009] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Blue_Thunder posted... </cite> <quote>I think he means (correct me if wrong, bsp) that being sexually desired generally doesn't mean as much to them since women generally get that all the time, making it lose meaning. Whereas verbal affirmations are more valuable as they show that you care about making them feel good rather than just showing that you want their p** (or other body part).</quote> I never suggested otherwise. Some people need verbal affirmation and some need to not give/receive it. That was the whole conversation about compromising. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 07/20/22 4:52:03 PM #99:	Btw. I been noticing people simultaneously say pretty girls have the easiest life, while constantly trying to say things that tear them down and make them not feel pretty enough. Rather it's on purpose or accidentally. It's like the goal is to make pretty girls like Cleo feel insufficient :/. When, to most of us, that's obviously not the case and we'd be really happy being around someone as pretty and cool as Cleo :3. Not that beauty should be why you hang out with others, but we can't pretend we don't take notice lol. You don't really even get to feel the privilege of being pretty when everyone is convincing you you're not good enough anyway. >_<. --- Name checks out "I don't wanna be the toughest, I just keep it 100 and think nothin of it"- Black Thought <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:966715020] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Btw. I been noticing people simultaneously say pretty girls have the easiest life, while constantly trying to say things that tear them down and make them not feel pretty enough. Rather it's on purpose or accidentally. It's like the goal is to make pretty girls like Cleo feel insufficient :/. When, to most of us, that's obviously not the case and we'd be really happy being around someone as pretty and cool as Cleo :3. Not that beauty should be why you hang out with others, but we can't pretend we don't take notice lol. You don't really even get to feel the privilege of being pretty when everyone is convincing you you're not good enough anyway. >_<. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jeff_AKA_Snoopy 07/20/22 4:53:16 PM #100:	The easiest lives are for white cis-men based on structural power of our culture. --- https://i.imgur.com/GWG5c3r.gif <cite>Jeff_AKA_Snoopy posted [p:966715045] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>The easiest lives are for white cis-men based on structural power of our culture. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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