Current Events > Ugh my chubby pic is plastered all over ig

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Cleo_II 07/18/22 11:50:47 AM #1:	Went to a bachelorette party for a friend out of town. Of course this is SoCal so they are all perfect looking. Skinny and/or fake boobs, fillers, botox, etc and I have my chubby postpartum body. Some of my pics are so unflattering I really wish I didnt go. I dont do social media but every other girl here does and sure enough they posted my pics on there and I look terrible. Ive been trying to be kind with myself and have been slowly losing weight but now Im spiraling and wish I didnt go. I dont really take pics of myself so I didnt realize just how bad I look until now and it feels bad. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966659007] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Went to a bachelorette party for a friend out of town. Of course this is SoCal so they are all perfect looking. Skinny and/or fake boobs, fillers, botox, etc and I have my chubby postpartum body. Some of my pics are so unflattering I really wish I didnt go. I dont do social media but every other girl here does and sure enough they posted my pics on there and I look terrible. Ive been trying to be kind with myself and have been slowly losing weight but now Im spiraling and wish I didnt go. I dont really take pics of myself so I didnt realize just how bad I look until now and it feels bad. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 07/18/22 11:58:50 AM #2:	We are all in the process of working to become the versions of ourselves we will love the most. This is just a pit stop. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:966659197] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>We are all in the process of working to become the versions of ourselves we will love the most. This is just a pit stop. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Poorly 07/18/22 12:02:53 PM #3:	U look better than any biblical angel I've ever seen. I have faith in u --- <cite>Poorly posted [p:966659295] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>U look better than any biblical angel I've ever seen. I have faith in u </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JuanCarlos1 07/18/22 12:03:55 PM #4:	fake boobs, botox is not a real body. To hell with the creepy valley stepford wives. --- Mas dicen, que en las dimensiones de nuestro ser... hay muchos detalles por conocer... <cite>JuanCarlos1 posted [p:966659317] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote> fake boobs, botox is not a real body. To hell with the creepy valley stepford wives. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 07/18/22 12:10:23 PM #5:	We are our own worst critics. I'm sure you don't look anywhere near as bad as you think you do. Especially if your only comparisons are plastic barbie doll figures. Just keep working towards your goals and don't feel bad about where you are now. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 \| i9-10900K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 3600 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:966659463] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>We are our own worst critics. I'm sure you don't look anywhere near as bad as you think you do. Especially if your only comparisons are plastic barbie doll figures. Just keep working towards your goals and don't feel bad about where you are now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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R1masher 07/18/22 12:16:36 PM #7:	Lets see them --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:966659587] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Lets see them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turtlebread 07/18/22 12:18:00 PM #8:	Whats your @ tho --- http://i.imgur.com/yCW15Zn.jpg <cite>Turtlebread posted [p:966659615] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Whats your @ tho </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/18/22 12:20:08 PM #9:	NoxObscuras posted... We are our own worst critics. I'm sure you don't look anywhere near as bad as you think you do. Especially if your only comparisons are plastic barbie doll figures. Just keep working towards your goals and don't feel bad about where you are now. No theyre pretty bad. My husband found me crying and tried to reassure me but when I showed him the pictures he even questioned if they purposely picked bad ones of me. I dont think they did I think though. Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966659663] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>NoxObscuras posted... </cite> <quote>We are our own worst critics. I'm sure you don't look anywhere near as bad as you think you do. Especially if your only comparisons are plastic barbie doll figures. Just keep working towards your goals and don't feel bad about where you are now.</quote>No theyre pretty bad. My husband found me crying and tried to reassure me but when I showed him the pictures he even questioned if they purposely picked bad ones of me. I dont think they did I think though. Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AzNDarkSamurai 07/18/22 12:22:33 PM #10:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] In case you didnt know, life in SoCal is materialistic and superficial --- Pinoy Pride, 1988 - the day I die! <cite>AzNDarkSamurai posted [p:966659715] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> In case you didnt know, life in SoCal is materialistic and superficial </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 07/18/22 12:22:58 PM #11:	I wish I could say I get where you come from as I continue to struggle with my own looks but the fact of the matter is being a woman in such an environment and having had a kid recently is basically Dante Must Die mode in comparison. Stay the course on your road to happiness. You're worth your own self esteem. Also no matter what I'll never stop seeing you as gorgeous. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:966659724] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I wish I could say I get where you come from as I continue to struggle with my own looks but the fact of the matter is being a woman in such an environment and having had a kid recently is basically Dante Must Die mode in comparison. Stay the course on your road to happiness. You're worth your own self esteem. Also no matter what I'll never stop seeing you as gorgeous. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HANGtheDJ_86 07/18/22 12:23:46 PM #12:	Cover your face next time --- Green is the Color <cite>HANGtheDJ_86 posted [p:966659736] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cover your face next time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 07/18/22 12:24:08 PM #13:	My bestie had a picture like that taken from ig and it's now used in a bunch of list articles as a reaction face. She hates it. So I guess it could be worse. Or I've now put the fear of the internet into you. Oops --- I don't believe in belts. There should be no ranking system for toughness. <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:966659743] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>My bestie had a picture like that taken from ig and it's now used in a bunch of list articles as a reaction face. She hates it. So I guess it could be worse. Or I've now put the fear of the internet into you. Oops </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DespondentDeity 07/18/22 12:28:10 PM #14:	What do you think it means that people are leaving likes on the photos? Im sorry youre going through this Cleo, body image issues are so devastating, and it breaks my heart to hear you expressing regret over a getaway that was supposed to just be a fun time with the girls, and a getaway that you definitely deserved to be able to take without having to stress about anything like this. Dont let the discouragement you feel over this get in the way of your goal, I know those last 10 pounds are gonna be the hardest, and probably take the most time as well, but be easy on yourself cuz youve been through a lot. I know youre feeling really low now, but this is just a hiccup, youre a strong and capable enough woman to make sure this is only temporary. I believe in you! --- SHE: In black of night, a die is cast, heavens overflow with stars HER: All is light, all is ash, you must become just as you are <cite>DespondentDeity posted [p:966659826] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>What do you think it means that people are leaving likes on the photos? Im sorry youre going through this Cleo, body image issues are so devastating, and it breaks my heart to hear you expressing regret over a getaway that was supposed to just be a fun time with the girls, and a getaway that you definitely deserved to be able to take without having to stress about anything like this. Dont let the discouragement you feel over this get in the way of your goal, I know those last 10 pounds are gonna be the hardest, and probably take the most time as well, but be easy on yourself cuz youve been through a lot. I know youre feeling really low now, but this is just a hiccup, youre a strong and capable enough woman to make sure this is only temporary. I believe in you! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gobstoppers12 07/18/22 12:32:42 PM #15:	Train yourself not to care one tiny bit about what other people feel about your appearance. It's none of their business and they don't matter. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. <cite>Gobstoppers12 posted [p:966659913] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Train yourself not to care one tiny bit about what other people feel about your appearance. It's none of their business and they don't matter. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MI4_REAL 07/18/22 12:33:36 PM #16:	you would be in socal. Only true beauties reside there. --- "Er...well, y'know. You can't make an omelette without um...destroying a forest.....or something" -Black Mage <cite>MI4_REAL posted [p:966659938] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>you would be in socal. Only true beauties reside there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 07/18/22 12:39:23 PM #18:	Cleo_II posted... No theyre pretty bad. My husband found me crying and tried to reassure me but when I showed him the pictures he even questioned if they purposely picked bad ones of me. I dont think they did I think though. Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them. If you are only 10 pounds above your goal weight, you can't possibly be that "chubby". I feel you are being hard on yourself. But I get it, as I can be that way about my appearance. --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966660059] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>No theyre pretty bad. My husband found me crying and tried to reassure me but when I showed him the pictures he even questioned if they purposely picked bad ones of me. I dont think they did I think though. Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them.</quote>If you are only 10 pounds above your goal weight, you can't possibly be that "chubby". I feel you are being hard on yourself. But I get it, as I can be that way about my appearance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MI4_REAL 07/18/22 12:40:23 PM #19:	You are really underscoring yourself Cleo. --- "Er...well, y'know. You can't make an omelette without um...destroying a forest.....or something" -Black Mage <cite>MI4_REAL posted [p:966660079] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>You are really underscoring yourself Cleo. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blue_Thunder 07/18/22 12:41:03 PM #20:	Cleo_II posted... Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them. I know this sounds hard atm but you can and will get through this. Even if it is getting seen now they won't remember it with time. Don't let it distract you from your journey. Jiek_Fafn posted... My bestie had a picture like that taken from ig and it's now used in a bunch of list articles as a reaction face. She hates it. I had one of me on FB used as shock humor by an acquaintance once. Can confirm it's not fun. --- aka Thunderjay - Jenshin Team: https://i.imgur.com/TtFLzT8.png Resident Synthwave enjoyer. <cite>Blue_Thunder posted [p:966660096] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote>Before this I was insecure but accepting of my body and working on things. Its slow going but I dropped 10 lbs since December. I have 10 more to go before my goal weight. But now I feel really terrible because all of our mutual friends and acquaintances have liked these pictures and seen them. </quote> I know this sounds hard atm but you can and will get through this. Even if it is getting seen now they won't remember it with time. Don't let it distract you from your journey. Jiek_Fafn posted...</cite> <quote>My bestie had a picture like that taken from ig and it's now used in a bunch of list articles as a reaction face. She hates it. </quote> I had one of me on FB used as shock humor by an acquaintance once. Can confirm it's not fun.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/18/22 12:42:19 PM #22:	DespondentDeity posted... What do you think it means that people are leaving likes on the photos? Im sorry youre going through this Cleo, body image issues are so devastating, and it breaks my heart to hear you expressing regret over a getaway that was supposed to just be a fun time with the girls, and a getaway that you definitely deserved to be able to take without having to stress about anything like this. Dont let the discouragement you feel over this get in the way of your goal, I know those last 10 pounds are gonna be the hardest, and probably take the most time as well, but be easy on yourself cuz youve been through a lot. I know youre feeling really low now, but this is just a hiccup, youre a strong and capable enough woman to make sure this is only temporary. I believe in you! I just wish other people I knew didnt see it. It would be one thing if we didnt have mutual friends and it was a bunch of strangers who saw them. Thanks for the words of encouragement though they are truly appreciated (and that goes to everyone here) bsp77 posted... If you are only 10 pounds above your goal weight, you can't possibly be that "chubby". I feel you are being hard on yourself. But I get it, as I can be that way about my appearance. I am 52 with a very small frame. I also tend to put weight in my mid section so thats where the majority of it sits and its not a good look right now. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966660126] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>DespondentDeity posted... </cite> <quote>What do you think it means that people are leaving likes on the photos? Im sorry youre going through this Cleo, body image issues are so devastating, and it breaks my heart to hear you expressing regret over a getaway that was supposed to just be a fun time with the girls, and a getaway that you definitely deserved to be able to take without having to stress about anything like this. Dont let the discouragement you feel over this get in the way of your goal, I know those last 10 pounds are gonna be the hardest, and probably take the most time as well, but be easy on yourself cuz youve been through a lot. I know youre feeling really low now, but this is just a hiccup, youre a strong and capable enough woman to make sure this is only temporary. I believe in you!</quote>I just wish other people I knew didnt see it. It would be one thing if we didnt have mutual friends and it was a bunch of strangers who saw them. Thanks for the words of encouragement though they are truly appreciated (and that goes to everyone here) bsp77 posted... </cite> <quote>If you are only 10 pounds above your goal weight, you can't possibly be that "chubby". I feel you are being hard on yourself. But I get it, as I can be that way about my appearance.</quote>I am 52 with a very small frame. I also tend to put weight in my mid section so thats where the majority of it sits and its not a good look right now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kingdrake2 07/18/22 12:42:43 PM #23:	R1masher posted... Lets see them https://i.imgur.com/2fomiyM.png --- It happens with literally every single generation, and now it's your turn. You are the modern version of a grandfather watching old war movies: Lionhartwolf <cite>kingdrake2 posted [p:966660131] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>R1masher posted...</cite> <quote>Lets see them </quote> https://i.imgur.com/2fomiyM.png</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/18/22 12:56:48 PM #24:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Thank you. I think I just normally wear loose clothing and this was the first time I went out in a tight dress that I thought I looked good in. But when I saw the pictures I was really embarrassed. I legit look pregnant in them. Its not about numbers or weight but my body is hanging on to a big pooch no matter how much I keep losing. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966660417] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Thank you. I think I just normally wear loose clothing and this was the first time I went out in a tight dress that I thought I looked good in. But when I saw the pictures I was really embarrassed. I legit look pregnant in them. Its not about numbers or weight but my body is hanging on to a big pooch no matter how much I keep losing. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sackgurl 07/18/22 1:04:38 PM #25:	Cleo_II posted... I didnt realize just how bad I look until now always remember that nobody else realizes it either, they're too busy thinking about how they look it sucks that this happened, but i hope you can hang on to the knowledge that they wanted you there and your self-image doesn't change that --- LittleBigPlanet is like merging dress-up with a real game. <cite>Sackgurl posted [p:966660548] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Cleo_II posted... </cite> <quote>I didnt realize just how bad I look until now</quote>always remember that nobody else realizes it either, they're too busy thinking about how they look it sucks that this happened, but i hope you can hang on to the knowledge that they wanted you there and your self-image doesn't change that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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What_ 07/18/22 1:08:58 PM #27:	AzNDarkSamurai posted... In case you didnt know, life in SoCal is materialistic and superficial ~~Thats life everywhere~~ <cite>What_ posted [p:966660639] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>AzNDarkSamurai posted... </cite> <quote>In case you didnt know, life in SoCal is materialistic and superficial</quote>Thats life everywhere </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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spikethedevil 07/18/22 1:14:14 PM #29:	What_ posted... ~~Thats life everywhere~~ Ive heard SoCals on a whole other level. --- A garbage pod!? It's a smegging garbage pod! <cite>spikethedevil posted [p:966660749] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>What_ posted... </cite> <quote>Thats life everywhere </quote> Ive heard SoCals on a whole other level. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Suolevram 07/18/22 1:18:06 PM #30:	Flockaveli posted... We are all in the process of working to become the versions of ourselves we will love the most. This is just a pit stop. This 1000% --- fay ce que vouldras <cite>Suolevram posted [p:966660842] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>We are all in the process of working to become the versions of ourselves we will love the most. This is just a pit stop.</quote>This 1000% </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cleo_II 07/18/22 5:10:35 PM #34:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Its hard because he is so bad at giving me verbal affirmation. I knew this about him when I married him but now that I really need it and dont get it, its making my self esteem worse. Especially since he is always making comments about women he sees in the media and while that never bothered me before its now also contributing to how badly I feel about myself. I cannot watch any show with attractive women in it without him commenting about them (which he is now trying to stop doing). We were already struggling with this before these pictures got posted. And of course he sees me crying about it and offers to help cook more and go to the gym with me but he still cant tell me he finds still finds me attractive. [LFAQs-redacted-quote] Thank you so much for the kind words. I really needed that today <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966665997] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Its hard because he is so bad at giving me verbal affirmation. I knew this about him when I married him but now that I really need it and dont get it, its making my self esteem worse. Especially since he is always making comments about women he sees in the media and while that never bothered me before its now also contributing to how badly I feel about myself. I cannot watch any show with attractive women in it without him commenting about them (which he is now trying to stop doing). We were already struggling with this before these pictures got posted. And of course he sees me crying about it and offers to help cook more and go to the gym with me but he still cant tell me he finds still finds me attractive. <cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Thank you so much for the kind words. I really needed that today </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 07/18/22 5:20:28 PM #35:	Poorly posted... U look better than any biblical angel I've ever seen. I have faith in u Biblical Angels: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/2/AARLwzAADd6E.jpg --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:966666179] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Poorly posted... </cite> <quote>U look better than any biblical angel I've ever seen. I have faith in u</quote> Biblical Angels: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/9/3/2/AARLwzAADd6E.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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bsp77 07/19/22 9:41:28 AM #37:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] This is the impression I have received, especially with some post baby issues. It makes me sad, as Cleo seems great --- Currently playing: Fire Emblem Warriors: Three Hopes <cite>bsp77 posted [p:966680505] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> This is the impression I have received, especially with some post baby issues. It makes me sad, as Cleo seems great </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tyranthraxus 07/19/22 9:44:35 AM #38:	On Reddit the advice would be to divorce immediately. --- It says right here in Matthew 16:4 "Jesus doth not need a giant Mecha." https://i.imgur.com/dQgC4kv.jpg <cite>Tyranthraxus posted [p:966680558] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>On Reddit the advice would be to divorce immediately. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 07/19/22 10:47:30 AM #39:	This has happened to me a couple of times before too. I wonder if its filters that distorts pictures. Like the other day my girlfriend took a picture of me across the table from her at dinner. She showed me the picture and asked if she could post it. After she posted it and I saw it later that night I was shocked to see how gross I looked. My face looked so distorted. As long as she was happy with it thats all I needed. I know I am handsome. I guess my point of this story is that you are a beautiful woman, Cleo. you know this, CE knows this, and your husband knows this. Unflattering angles and/or filters can make anyone, beautiful celebrities included, looks terrible. Those pictures are not a good representation of who you are know. Im sure you did look incredible in that dress. Dont let the camera fool you into thinking otherwise. --- Genius, Thousandaire, Playboy, Philanthropist <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:966681779] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>This has happened to me a couple of times before too. I wonder if its filters that distorts pictures. Like the other day my girlfriend took a picture of me across the table from her at dinner. She showed me the picture and asked if she could post it. After she posted it and I saw it later that night I was shocked to see how gross I looked. My face looked so distorted. As long as she was happy with it thats all I needed. I know I am handsome. I guess my point of this story is that you are a beautiful woman, Cleo. you know this, CE knows this, and your husband knows this. Unflattering angles and/or filters can make anyone, beautiful celebrities included, looks terrible. Those pictures are not a good representation of who you are know. Im sure you did look incredible in that dress. Dont let the camera fool you into thinking otherwise. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 07/19/22 10:49:03 AM #40:	Have you considered getting ugly friends? --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:966681807] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Have you considered getting ugly friends? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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-BrokenSpiral- 07/19/22 10:50:26 AM #42:	JuanCarlos1 posted... fake boobs, botox is not a real body. To hell with the creepy valley stepford wives. Stfu body shaming <cite>-BrokenSpiral- posted [p:966681832] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>JuanCarlos1 posted... </cite> <quote>fake boobs, botox is not a real body. To hell with the creepy valley stepford wives.</quote> Stfu body shaming </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vegy 07/19/22 10:51:22 AM #43:	Aeriis posted... this is so bizarre to me, guy sounds super ungrateful. like literally, from what I remember you are significantly younger than him, you make way more than he does (iirc he was struggling keeping a good job?) and you've looked like a model since freaking 2006. How hard is it for the guy to not audibly thirst over girls on TV? like how does he have to make an effort to not do that?? and he won't even compliment you? I spend too much time on reddit but I wonder if he wants you to feel bad about yourself because it sounds like you're so out of his league <_< Dis so much You're beautiful cleo!! --- http://i.imgur.com/gt58G1y.gif http://i.imgur.com/Kdvuckz.png http://i.imgur.com/SYqReLE.gif https://i.imgur.com/MbgGQWx.jpg <cite>Vegy posted [p:966681849] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Aeriis posted...</cite> <quote> this is so bizarre to me, guy sounds super ungrateful. like literally, from what I remember you are significantly younger than him, you make way more than he does (iirc he was struggling keeping a good job?) and you've looked like a model since freaking 2006. How hard is it for the guy to not audibly thirst over girls on TV? like how does he have to make an effort to not do that?? and he won't even compliment you? I spend too much time on reddit but I wonder if he wants you to feel bad about yourself because it sounds like you're so out of his league <_< </quote> Dis so much You're beautiful cleo!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MegaTech 07/19/22 11:02:42 AM #44:	Guaranteed if we walked by each other I'd still break my neck doing a 180 to look at you. You're beautiful Cleo and it'll be true even if your husband won't say it. Hang in there and know you're as valuable a person can be. --- That one bloke with a haggard smirk, whereabouts unknown, puttin in that cloak and dagger work. https://i.imgur.com/c8xCRi7.png - CoolbeansAvi <cite>MegaTech posted [p:966682056] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>Guaranteed if we walked by each other I'd still break my neck doing a 180 to look at you. You're beautiful Cleo and it'll be true even if your husband won't say it. Hang in there and know you're as valuable a person can be. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 07/19/22 12:07:22 PM #45:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Aeriis always has the best takes :) Sorry to hear you are going through this.. and that you aren't getting the support you want/need. I'll echo some other poster's sentiments - not being good at verbal affirmation is completely different from saying things you know will trigger your partner. <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:966683425] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> Aeriis always has the best takes :) Sorry to hear you are going through this.. and that you aren't getting the support you want/need. I'll echo some other poster's sentiments - not being good at verbal affirmation is completely different from saying things you know will trigger your partner. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kamen_Rider_Blade 07/19/22 1:21:36 PM #46:	You're beautiful as you are Cleo. You're working on improving, that's all that matters. And you're gorgeous regardless of how your body is. There are HUGE downsides to "Breast Implants" that most women don't know about, especially Long Term! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/2/6/AAAFvAAADNmO.jpg And injecting Botox or other plastic stuff into your face will probably have long term consequences as well. It's best to be Au Naturale, no fakery! --- Are you a MexiCAN or a MexiCAN'T - Johnny Depp '*Once Upon A Time in Mexico*' <cite>Kamen_Rider_Blade posted [p:966684988] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>You're beautiful as you are Cleo. You're working on improving, that's all that matters. And you're gorgeous regardless of how your body is. There are HUGE downsides to "Breast Implants" that most women don't know about, especially Long Term! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/2/6/AAAFvAAADNmO.jpg And injecting Botox or other plastic stuff into your face will probably have long term consequences as well. It's best to be Au Naturale, no fakery! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sackgurl 07/19/22 1:47:32 PM #47:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] my working theory was he was on the spectrum or something because she's not presenting his actions here as intentional, but i guess exposure to toxic shit like the red pill kind of also is possible (usually those guys are not apologetic about what they're doing though) his comment on the photos is the dumbest thing i can imagine a guy saying --- LittleBigPlanet is like merging dress-up with a real game. <cite>Sackgurl posted [p:966685643] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> my working theory was he was on the spectrum or something because she's not presenting his actions here as intentional, but i guess exposure to toxic shit like the red pill kind of also is possible (usually those guys are not apologetic about what they're doing though) his comment on the photos is the dumbest thing i can imagine a guy saying </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 07/19/22 2:05:52 PM #48:	I dont think its intentional. He grew up with 4 brothers that he essentially raised. Then went to the military. Hes just generally bad at communicating, especially with women. Were looking to explore that more in therapy soon. Were open to each other about who we find attractive and thats never bothered me before. Ive pointed out guys as well. But now it is now that I feel insecure and hes learning to pull back. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:966686081] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>I dont think its intentional. He grew up with 4 brothers that he essentially raised. Then went to the military. Hes just generally bad at communicating, especially with women. Were looking to explore that more in therapy soon. Were open to each other about who we find attractive and thats never bothered me before. Ive pointed out guys as well. But now it is now that I feel insecure and hes learning to pull back. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sackgurl 07/19/22 2:16:31 PM #50:	i'm trying to imagine your first date with this guy and figuring out how he managed to not piss you off --- LittleBigPlanet is like merging dress-up with a real game. <cite>Sackgurl posted [p:966686323] in Ugh my chu... [t:80098400]...</cite> <quote>i'm trying to imagine your first date with this guy and figuring out how he managed to not piss you off </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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