Current Events > Women have it so much easier when dating

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All they have to do is exist, and they'll have at least a dozen guys in their orbit. Men are lucky to get even one.

/rant

Yeh its been about a week, we were due for this topic.

Slow day at work huh

I mean, sort of. It's more complicated than that, but women do sometimes have advantages.

Sigh.

Women also have it easier to be stalked, harassed, assaulted or raped

Yes, but you're probably picky like me.

How many women have messaged me first on Tinder, and never got a reply? A lot. How many did I talk to when I was drunk, and never talked to again the next day? A lot. How many did I pursue with 100% effort, all year long? Like 3.

They also have the disadvantage of insane amount of creepers going after them.

DespondentDeity posted...

Yeh its been about a week, we were due for this topic.

Probably a reason then why so common

chaos knight posted...

All they have to do is exist, and they'll have at least a dozen guys in their orbit. Men are lucky to get even one.

/rant

Men are lucky to get even one man in their orbit? They could totally get more if they tried harder tbh

TommyG663513 posted...

I mean, sort of. It's more complicated than that, but women do sometimes have advantages.

Always advantages.

chaos knight posted...

Always advantages.

Sorry, you can't get laid...

Respect women.

Yes, they have more options. But there a lot of creeps and losers in those options that they have to sort through.

Different struggle.

The downside is the risks that come with saying no.

Kind of surprised by this reaction from CE so far.

chaos knight posted...

Kind of surprised by this reaction from CE so far.

What that we think women don't have it great when it comes to dating?

Sorry dude.

chaos knight posted...

Kind of surprised by this reaction from CE so far.

I am actually proud of CE for once. I am sure the misogyny train will show up eventually to back you up though.

chaos knight posted...

Probably a reason then why so common

Yeah, cuz dudes like you have zero perspective.

Widen your gaze, Holmes.

When did CE turn like this? No sympathy at all any more.

chaos knight posted...

When did CE turn like this? No sympathy at all any more.

Talk about your dating struggles and I will provide sympathy. Plenty of us here will try to help people who want help or support and don't promote sexism.

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Yeah, I often say that women tend to be the gatekeepers for sex, but men often are the gatekeepers for serious commitment.

chaos knight posted...

When did CE turn like this? No sympathy at all any more.

Not for this stupid shit.

Eh, women have the advantage with getting the initial first dates... Not so much after that though.

Women have so many moments of "is it safe" that men generally don't have to worry about when meeting new women.

NoxObscuras posted...

Eh, women have the advantage with getting the initial first dates... Not so much after that though.

Women have so many moments of "is it safe" that men generally don't have to worry about when meeting new women.

It's really that bad?

Ah this again

chaos knight posted...

It's really that bad?

Did you really not consider that? I'm telling you, perspective is vital.

"dating"? like casual dating or relationship dating? because from what i've seen, they certainly don't have it any easier looking for an actual decent relationship

chaos knight posted...

All they have to do is exist, and they'll have at least a dozen guys in their orbit. Men are lucky to get even one.

/rant

Sure but, statistically speaking, as many as three or four of those guys in that womans orbit are likely to try to rape or assault her. Thats a very stressful way to live, imo.

Also, as others have mentioned, thats just guys who are in the orbit for hooking up. If a woman wants a real relationship she then also has to sift through to find a guy who isnt only interested in her as a sex object, and since dudes who see her only as a sex object have no qualms about lying to her to use her as a sex object, that leads to a lot of wasted time and energy on her part.

I just wanted to vent and I get this reaction. Where are my fellow peeps hiding?

Women have it easier getting dates. Obviously.

But getting dates is not exactly the ultimate goal a lot of times, I wager. No point in getting a date if the date sucks.

Drowning vs dying of dehydration. They both suck.

why do some guys think all there is to life is dating?

Seems weird to have never actually talked to a woman or been out of your house before. Try directing that anger somewhere else OP because you're wildly misguided.

chaos knight posted... I just wanted to vent and I get this reaction. Where are my fellow peeps hiding?

You're not venting, you're spewing some weak redpill shit.

Not going to lie. Was expecting a pity party, hence the topic. But every response has been the opposite of that. Sucks for me, but also kind of impressed

chaos knight posted...

I just wanted to vent and I get this reaction. Where are my fellow peeps hiding?

If you wanted to vent about your specific situation, then just say that. Of course if you generalize, you're going to get responses like this lol.

But trust me, I get it. Dating is tough. I'm currently trying to date and I only get a few women that reciprocate. Just have to work with what you got.

chaos knight posted...

That said, fuck CE.

If women won't fuck you, what makes you think CE wants to

Dam OP going at it...

Here before thread delete

CE was my home board for over a decade. This place changed

chaos knight posted...

CE was my home board for over a decade. This place changed

years of users whining about women is annoying and boring

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I was feeling bitchy. Sorry.

seems like you made this topic as bait and are disappointed that instead of successfully trolling they flipped the boat

if you eliminate from yourself the desire to whine that women have it easier

you will make it easier for you to find women

Nah, there are other sites that will have a more positive reception than here. I'll just repost there.

TC you're not trying to date in Seattle/Eastside are you? Because if you are stop that immediately. Either go north or south, but don't bother with Seattlites.

Also got modded twice for nothing. I'll talk in more favorable areas of the internet than here