Current Events > My life has been in decline since 2021

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Well more specifically, the Fall portion of 2021. I've learned that no matter how bad pf a day you have, the next day can surprise you be being freaking worse :)

tbh, your topics are usually negative, even when you were posting about a girlfriend who loved you, or about your family trying to offer you a really well-paying job, so your idea of "decline" could be someone else's good day.

g0ldie posted...

tbh, your topics are usually negative, even when you were posting about a girlfriend who loved you, or about your family trying to offer you a really well-paying job, so your idea of "decline" could be someone else's good day.

My ex was a toxic soul-draining spoiled brat. I never care to see that girl again lol. Yes a job to stay in Nashville, TN, the worst place in the world so yeah even hell doesn't have a price tag for me lol.

JBaLLEN66 posted...

Yes a job to stay in Nashville, TN, the worst place in the world so yeah even hell doesn't have a price tag for me lol.

WTF I thought Ohio was the worst place.

JBaLLEN66 posted...

My ex was a toxic soul-draining spoiled brat. I never care to see that girl again lol. Yes a job to stay in Nashville, TN, the worst place in the world so yeah even hell doesn't have a price tag for me lol.

at the time, you weren't talking about how toxic she was, though; you would just go on about how she wanted to be around you, and iirc, you would say that you loved her or something when people told you to end things.

as far as the TN thing goes, that would have still been an income that most people couldn't even hope for, and there are a lot worse places people can be with less options.

I'm not saying that you're not going through negative things, since I don't know your situation, but I also feel like you tend to see everything in a negative way.

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It's an overpriced racist **** hole of a cope city for people escaping the sticks of the decaying rust belt. In addition, the weather is god awful and extremely unpredictable. Last, I'm from there, so I hate dealing with high school & college skeletons lol.

Well, life would be boring if everyday was good.

g0ldie posted...

at the time, you weren't talking about how toxic she was, though; you would just go on about how she wanted to be around you, and iirc, you would say that you loved her or something when people told you to end things.

as far as the TN thing goes, that would have still been an income that most people couldn't even hope for, and there are a lot worse places people can be with less options.

I'm not saying that you're not going through negative things, since I don't know your situation, but I also feel like you tend to see everything in a negative way.

Yeah. It's usually a combination of both. I find those people who have so little and are always spreading joy anyway to be the heros. Not saying you gotta be like that or can be. It probably is largely based around your upbringing as a kid too, but it's something I strive for as I age. Being a positive energy even when everything around me could be twisted in a negative way.

I hear ya tc! Hang in there. Im trying to finally get my GED and Ive got 4 out of 5 tests completed and passedthen I caught Covid. Luckily, my next test is Wednesday and I should be done with quarantine. Imagine my frustration.

My life started declining around 2011-2014, was ascending from 2014-2016, then declining again from 2016-2020, and started going back up from 2020 til now.

g0ldie posted...

at the time, you weren't talking about how toxic she was, though; you would just go on about how she wanted to be around you, and iirc, you would say that you loved her or something when people told you to end things.

as far as the TN thing goes, that would have still been an income that most people couldn't even hope for, and there are a lot worse places people can be with less options.

I'm not saying that you're not going through negative things, since I don't know your situation, but I also feel like you tend to see everything in a negative way.

That relationship is something I don't want my worst enemies to experience. She knew how to press my buttons and completely destroy my mood, but she also knew how to make me feel good and the sex was that rough breakup sex quality lol.

Grinderpug posted...

I hear ya tc! Hang in there. Im trying to finally get my GED and Ive got 4 out of 5 tests completed and passedthen I caught Covid. Luckily, my next test is Wednesday and I should be done with quarantine. Imagine my frustration.

**** Covid lol. I didn't catch covid, but I caught type A influenza which I thought was covid and lost 3 PTO days because of it.

Turning down a well-paying job for a while to save money to go where you want, then complaining about it online. Okay

Oh, and your sig...oi vey

Welcome to the club. Mine has been declining since 2019.

JBaLLEN66 posted...

**** Covid lol. I didn't catch covid, but I caught type A influenza which I thought was covid and lost 3 PTO days because of it.

The flu sucks too and PTO is so precious! I went this whole pandemic without a Covid diagnosis. Bah!

Lost_All_Senses posted...

Yeah. It's usually a combination of both. I find those people who have so little and are always spreading joy anyway to be the heros. Not saying you gotta be like that or can be. It probably is largely based around your upbringing as a kid too, but it's something I strive for as I age. Being a positive energy even when everything around me could be twisted in a negative way.

Thats what Ive been trying to be. Just a positive vibes dude. I smoke weed like crazy and tell everyone on Facebook about it. They know I get stoned as fuck and go to school and my friends find it hilarious. Were all in our 30s or 40s now. Im the only one that didnt have kids so Im the crazy uncle.

Sometimes, it depends on how you present yourself, tc. Be more positive and goofy. Relax a bit. Maybe things wont be so negative if you concentrate on making others laugh.

aurlen posted...

Turning down a well-paying job for a while to save money to go where you want, then complaining about it online. Okay

I had absolutely zero desire to live in that city. Every day I was depressed and full of anger. Yes, times are hard right now, but I walk outside of my apartment smiling and in a good mood at least now.

Where is TC now thats so much better than Nashville?

BTW, I got transferred to my hometown for a job. I thought it was going to be hell dealing with people I grew up with. In the 2 years I was there I never saw a single person I really knew. And this was kind of a small town and involved dealing with the public. Still never saw a single one. So I wouldnt let that fear hold you back.

RedRanger posted...

Where is TC now thats so much better than Nashville?

BTW, I got transferred to my hometown for a job. I thought it was going to be hell dealing with people I grew up with. In the 2 years I was there I never saw a single person I really knew. And this was kind of a small town and involved dealing with the public. Still never saw a single one. So I wouldnt let that fear hold you back.

I live in Houston, in the Rice Village area. Yeah, unfortunately, I could not escape the hometown & college skeletons that haunted me. Everywhere I went, I saw people I didn't want to see or things that triggered bad memories.