Current Events > Majority of single women aren't dating.

(+) Yeah! (+)

Unrealistic expectations is likely the cause.

They fuck whenever thry want.

Hope this means population declining

Why would you hope that?

Have you met many men?

That means more for me!

They're not doing that either.

Unrealistic expectations is likely the cause.

I mean, aren't both sides to blame with this?

For men, they aren't improving on themselves. A lot of guys blame the world and women for being single, without self-improvement and lack of direction.

For women, they can be picky. Because more women are in the workforce, more of them are educated and don't need to rely on men either, they don't have the interest in finding one too.

Or will I be called an incel saying this?

You should try reading the article because it explains why and it's not anything you said.

Holy shit I didn't even see a link there >_>

Single men are far more likely than single women to be looking for a relationship or dates 61% vs. 38%. This gender gap is especially apparent among older singles.

Among singles who are not looking to date, having more important priorities right now and just enjoying the single life are among the most common reasons cited. Non-daters younger than age 50 are particularly likely to say they have more important priorities at the moment.

Some men really don't know how to act after Metoo?

Only 9% of men said #metoo helped them identify creepy / harassing behaviors to avoid.

They're just not interested.

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/

Was referring to this:

A majority of the overall public (65%) says the increased focus on sexual harassment and assault in the last few years has made it harder for men to know how to interact with someone theyre on a date with.

I have no idea if this would translate to personal experience for men in London, but thats a staggering percentage.

men comprise of that too

If you have no faith in love then all your relationships will fail.

They're not doing that either.

Time for men to start fucking each other!

What does this even mean?

Thats just poetic nonsense tbh.

The article does not say what this topic title says

Honestly, me too has definitely changed how I interact with women. Yeah acting like a decent human is obvious, but I'm less likely to make the first physical move and hesitant or any suggestive comments

1. go get food together
2. Flirt
3. get a room at a motel for like $50
4. Bang
5. ?????????
6. profit

I mean, aren't both sides to blame with this?

For men, they aren't improving on themselves. A lot of guys blame the world and women for being single, without self-improvement and lack of direction.

If you have no faith in love then all your relationships will fail.

Unrealistic expectations is likely the cause.

What you just described "for men" is what is really BOTH SIDES with this phenomena. Plenty of modern women don't bother trying to keep themselves sexually attractive ACCORDING TO MEN'S STANDARDS and yet still expect to find exceptional male partners willing to overlook that. Many woman ALSO need to consider improving themselves to remain competitive just as they expect the men to. And naturally the women who choose not to take any of that into consideration are typically the one's ignored or used like tissue by top tier men they seek. Used, but never proposed to. Sex with successful attractive men no longer equates to being a high value woman with said men, not in the 21st century west. It just means a higher chance to get your foot in their door, nothing more.

To be a high value choice in the eyes of high value men (worth commitment) is a different ballgame compared to what women look for in a man. HV men are generally not looking at a woman's career, degrees, earnings, etc. They're looking at her physical fitness, beauty, social skills, aptitude, and femininity. That's what many of them care about, take it or leave it. She could be working at Burger King and be a considered a queen by a millionaire playboy if she's got those positive traits.

I'm saying if a college educated woman with a successful career making over 100k a year can still rate as an ugly toad in the eyes of successful educated high value men simply because she lacks fitness, friendliness (to men), and femininity. Those 3 F's a big deal when talking about male attraction to women. They're not the only attributes they look for, but they are vital in keeping their attraction.

No, a shitty boyfriend in the past just makes them disillusioned. I can see that with my sister, shed rather hang out with her friend group than get into another relationship.

That's one person.