Current Events > Majority of single women aren't dating.

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You keep saying this. Men don't care about this. As long as you're a good person that's all we want. We don't have a ridiculous amount of stipulations because we aren't looking for this. Most would be happy if our woman made more than us! It is unreasonable.

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It is. You're married, what do you actually know about the dating scene? Legit question. You seem to base it on ideals instead of reality.

You need looks money status if you wanna date

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did i say it was?

like i said, until what you're asking for is happening and lives up to your standards, women are still gonna get tons of suitors happy to fork out for dinners and dates.

even if those men don't end up living up to those standards women have set for themselves, women are still getting their absolute fill of the dating experience while men in general aren't even getting that, but the difference is that on top of all that women want more than that.

again that's a prime example of wanting your cake and eating it too.

if you truly want to level out the experience then girls should never accept a cent from men and only go out with somebody they can see themselves having a future with but that scenario is even more unlikely than men upping their educational and financial level.

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Stop applying ONE aspect of it to the whole.

This is petty as hell but for the love of God, some people here need to realize that "women" and "woman" are two different words.

Simply put it's because of Megatech.

Well the women have the upper hand with technology, careers being more oriented toward their skill sets, and gender ratios in certain areas. also queer acceptance

I used to wonder why I have so little luck in Seattle. but tech jobs have driven everything up financially. I was working my ass off just to survive and save a little. there are men coming from around the globe to work for the big tech companies. construction laws and material limitations limit affordable housing.

but more importantly, for every attractive woman in her 20s or 30s, I'm competing with every man aged 20-55 in the same metro area just to get their attention. Add in the fact that many of them are down with queer/trans and it's more like I'm competing against a 6:1 ratio. as an average guy, I have to date down to get any kind of consistent love. being more visible and attractive presentation wise has helped somewhat.

i need to move to a city where there are more women, simple as that

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and did they abandon dating due to lack of suitors and their willingness to part with money? if not the point still stands.

the first headline alone reads:

A majority of women say they have experienced harassing behavior from someone they went on a date with

so this is part of their dating experience but women are still getting outside trying to find somebody that meets their standards:

majorities of women say its hard to find someone looking for the same type of relationship as them and who meets their expectations.

what dating experience do you think most men have?

Many men say its difficult for them to approach people

answer: not even getting past "hello"

dave_is_slick posted...

Unrealistic expectations is likely the cause.

1337eye4n00bguy posted...

Have you met many men?

Sounds right to me, I resigned myself to lowering my standards almost a decade ago, almost accepting any woman who would bother to actually take the time and you know....ACTUALLY GIVE ME A CHANCE.

In the last half a year or so I've had at least half a dozen women agreed to go on dates with me and then stand me up. Like fuck you, if you didn't want to go on a date with me then just say so to begin with don't build up my hope.

That's why it's not worth trying to date because women are always holding out for these perfect men who are never going to go for anyone but dimes. And women will continue to do this until theyre past their prime because occasionally she gets some dude who's out of her league despite the last guy she was with flatup told her he was only dating her for her the sex.

StarDestroyer posted...

Simply put it's because of Megatech.

Thank god you're here to simply put things for us.

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but not lack of suitors, so my point still stands.
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ok, but my point still stands since you haven't refuted it: women actually get to date more which was my whole point.

what they experience on their date and what standards they encounter are irrelevant since the fact that they get to go on dates means they're already better off than most men who can't even get a date.

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not sure if obtuse or really missing the point.

"getting past hello" was meant to indicate that men in general are turned down regardless of what they say, something you provided nice examples of.

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I mean, aren't both sides to blame with this?

For men, they aren't improving on themselves. A lot of guys blame the world and women for being single, without self-improvement and lack of direction.

For women, they can be picky. Because more women are in the workforce, more of them are educated and don't need to rely on men either, they don't have the interest in finding one too.

Or will I be called an incel saying this?

MEN aren't improving themselves? Men? . That's some funny .

All I've done since I'm a teenager was first tried to improve my body so that I would be a prime candidate physically, but then when I was 21 and was told I was autistic for the first time in my life, I worked on improving my social skills.

You know how I was rewarded? A majority of the women who are either interested in me or actually followed through and did agree to see me were largely obese.

The big reason women don't have to improve themselves IS because they're drowning in choices. They just want to be "accepted for how they are", even if that means being 250 -300lbs

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Papa John's

Men can pay $100 to a random escort to go on a date any time if they really want. When they refuse for the obvious reasons I'll make sure to point out that the problem is their standards aren't low enough.

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ok i'll rephrase. you have more opportunities to date. the fact that you turn down dates left and right means you're aware of your options, while men are struggling to even HAVE options.

They blend together because so many people are sending them.

which goes back to the tons of suitors point.

Most guys can get a date. The men who can't are in the minority of men.

"citation needed"... you're certainly not speaking from personal experience.

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so you're saying you have too many suitors that they've all started to blend together forcing you to turn them down left and right or worse yet, making you escape the dating scene altogether even though with a snap of a finger you can go out with literally anyone of them and most likely get them to pay for you?

what a hard life indeed.

I am the only woman left (unless I miss someone) providing my own experience. My experience is "Dating sucks for us too because.." and their response is "Your experience is invalid! Mine is more valid!"

the problem isn't that people think your opinion is invalid. the problem is that you somehow refuse to acknowledge the privileges that are inherent to your gender as part of dating in today's society. yes, dating might suck for you too, but it's a damn sight better than what we got.

Why deal with dating when you can get plowed whenever you want and be done with it?

Irony posted...

The average woman is getting blasted by limitless Bad Dragon

The average dude is unfuckable. Meanwhile Chad Bad Dragon is swimming in limitless vag.

These topics always out the incels XD

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how would you know that when you've already given up trying to differentiate between:

hi number 1 or hi number 242?

and ignored or blocked them?

They aren't suitors. I couldn't find a suitor. They didn't exist. No one wanted a serious relationship.

refer to the above.

How little you think of me. I don't care about someone paying for me. I wouldn't let them.

you not letting them is a decision on your part. the same goes for you letting them. the ball is already in your court to do with as you please which was my point.

Me: I want more men to be able to go to college, make more money, and have better careers. I think the current dating environment sucks for everyone involved.
You: You are unreasonable and refuse to accept that it's woman who are at fault. It is entirely on the fault with wonan.

yeah, this is just wrong and i already edited #187 with another response on what i actually think.

Idk how y'all can read the responses itt and think it's easy for a girl to find a man she'd actually want to date.

Like holy shit, imagine being a chick and having to deal with a guy like you. Be objective about it.

Sad_Face posted...

Society has problems

Such as your participation.

dave_is_slick posted...

You're married, what do you actually know about the dating scene? Legit question. You seem to base it on ideals instead of reality.

I think it goes way beyond that.

@Gladius_ seems like a decent person, but I dont think its possible for her to understand how unbalanced and difficult it can be for the majority of straight men to successfully date even just a handful of women. It would be like us, men, telling pregnant women that we know what its like to be pregnant and that its really not that bad because we read about it.

This doesnt mean women or anyone else should get rid of their preferences and expectations. Keep them because lowering your standards, regardless of how unreasonable they might be, still is no guarantee youll find happiness or contentment anyway.

What exactly do you want done about this?

Let's assume it's true that most women find the vast majority of men unattractive for whatever reasons. What do you want done?

You can't force them to find you attractive.

Seems like the only choice is to accept it.

Past a certain point there is more dignity in going without, then there is complaining about it constantly.

I never talked to any girls when I was in high school and now I really regret it. They all got married and have children now, so I'm waiting for the divorces as it's the next best thing.

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Sadly, it's not. It's a well known fact that it's extremely difficult to find childless women after 30 or 35 latest. I've accepted that and am willing to compromise and date women with baggage. Not what I prefer, but what can I do at this point?

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Sadly, it's not. It's a well known fact that it's extremely difficult to find childless women after 30 or 35 latest. I've accepted that and am willing to compromise and date women with baggage. Not what I prefer, but what can I do at this point?

Wow. What a keeper.

Has anyone on this board aka Current Events, on this website gamefaqs.gamespot.com fka gamefaqs.com, ever noticed it's impossible to impress average women because they're blasted by limitless chad dick?

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Awh leave him alone, hes only been waiting 14 years.