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Will_VIIII
05/30/22 6:15:45 PM
#208:


And he's fine with "baggage"

Can't figure out why he's never been on a date.

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deoxxys
05/30/22 6:34:32 PM
#209:


Lmao who's the genius who suggested men can easily get dates because all they have to do is pay for an escort to go out with them ??



Like what kind of insipid dead-end logic is that?

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Zodd3224
05/30/22 6:41:37 PM
#210:


I wish the MGTOW types would truly just go their own way and abstain from society as a whole.

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pauIie
05/30/22 6:43:01 PM
#211:


Slowking199 posted...
I never talked to any girls when I was in high school and now I really regret it. They all got married and have children now, so I'm waiting for the divorces as it's the next best thing.
your baggage is probably your personality and views on things

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Anony1125
05/30/22 6:55:09 PM
#212:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

damn, I never thought about that before
gonna roll up on divorce court on Tuesdays like hey, wanna try again?

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Lorenzo_2003
05/30/22 8:32:50 PM
#214:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]


@Gladius_ thanks for your input. Like you said, at least youre a woman who is willing to participate in the discussion.

Something I hope youll consider is that a big reason why women are, perhaps unfairly, expected to not be promiscuous, to bear children and maintain a home is because those traits are becoming uncommon, even though thats what a lot of men are really hopeful for and what we are willing to trade our resources, time and services to get. A lot of my very educated female friends have a tough time wrapping their heads around this point because they think their high pay, prestigious titles and college degrees should be enough to arouse the men they meet. Seriously, they ask why dudes are not excited when they tell them they have a doctorate and own a house. We (generally speaking) dont care about that. We want our own kids, we want a spouse who isnt going to have sex with other guys, and she doesnt want to argue about everything. We already know were going to be expected to provide our own money and other things like protection and manual labor of some kind.

Of course this is not true of every relationship. Some men and women are cool with polygamy and having no kids, for example. I do think a lot of the conflict today happens because both sides want certain things but neither side thinks the transactions are equal.


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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 8:43:53 PM
#215:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
A lot of my very educated female friends have a tough time wrapping their heads around this point because they think their high pay, prestigious titles and college degrees should be enough to arouse the men they meet. Seriously, they ask why dudes are not excited when they tell them they have a doctorate and own a house. We (generally speaking) dont care about that.

LOL @Lorenzo_2003

Guess what buddy?

A mans money / resources doesnt sexually arouse a woman either.
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Tyranthraxus
05/30/22 8:47:18 PM
#216:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
LOL @Lorenzo_2003

Guess what buddy?

A mans money / resources doesnt sexually arouse a woman either.

Even if it does, men "shouldn't" want the type of woman who is predominantly interested in that.

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dave_is_slick
05/30/22 8:48:15 PM
#217:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
A lot of my very educated female friends have a tough time wrapping their heads around this point because they think their high pay, prestigious titles and college degrees should be enough to arouse the men they meet. Seriously, they ask why dudes are not excited when they tell them they have a doctorate and own a house.
To answer their questions, it tells us nothing about who they are. That tells us what they can do and it comes across like that's their entire personality.

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Lorenzo_2003
05/30/22 8:52:25 PM
#219:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
LOL @Lorenzo_2003

Guess what buddy?

A mans money / resources doesnt sexually arouse a woman either.

You know what really, really does not attract women?

Broke dudes. Especially broke dudes with no status and no connections. Cant pay for your dates meals when youre broke. Cant do a whole lot of things for her when youre broke. Dudes will absolutely date a broke woman who dropped out of high school, though.

Im sure you will find that one exception out of thousands who bucks that trend, and I say thats fine and good luck with that.

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Tyranthraxus
05/30/22 8:53:35 PM
#220:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
You know what really, really does not attract women?

Broke dudes. Especially broke dudes with no status and no connections. Cant pay for your dates meals when youre broke. Cant do a whole lot of things for her when youre broke. Dudes will absolutely date a broke woman who dropped out of high school, though.

Im sure you will find that one exception out of thousands who bucks that trend, and I say thats fine and good luck with that.

To quote a famous lyric or something like that....

"I ain't saying she's a gold digger... "

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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 9:00:50 PM
#221:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
You know what really, really does not attract women?

Broke dudes.

LMAO !!!! @Lorenzo_2003

You think that 10/10 babe on the beach is thinking about the stud lifeguards bank account when hes rolling by looking like a bronze Hercules?

You are absolutely delusional.

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CobraGT
05/30/22 9:01:27 PM
#222:


Surely after 5 pages of post the problem is solved.

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GS4Life
05/30/22 9:30:00 PM
#223:


when I was 18-22 I had more hair, was regularly working out, and girls still ignored me

they just aren't interested in mediocre looking dudes who aren't good talkers. Some of my friends tried to hook me up with not so great looking girls tbh a few times and I got shot down.

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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 9:34:29 PM
#224:


GS4Life posted...
when I was 18-22 I had more hair, was regularly working out, and girls still ignored me

they just aren't interested in mediocre looking dudes who aren't good talkers. Some of my friends tried to hook me up with not so great looking girls tbh a few times and I got shot down.

Notice how you said was regularly working out implying that you dont do that anymore.

This is unattractive. You abandoned a good healthy routine. You drifted away from the thing that was going to make you more attractive.
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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 9:35:43 PM
#226:


Not attracting women at the age of 18 is normal. Youre pretty much still a boy at that point.
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Background_Guy
05/30/22 9:36:31 PM
#227:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
Notice how you said was regularly working out implying that you dont do that anymore.

This is unattractive. You abandoned a good healthy routine. You drifted away from the thing that was going to make you more attractive.
Most girls don't care that much if you work out or not, it's mostly guys who are into that stuff.
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GS4Life
05/30/22 9:39:32 PM
#228:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
Notice how you said was regularly working out implying that you dont do that anymore.

This is unattractive. You abandoned a good healthy routine. You drifted away from the thing that was going to make you more attractive.
It's not worth the effort if it doesn't get results, and it didn't. I didn't work out for the fun of it

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Living-Legendx8
05/30/22 9:43:50 PM
#230:


Background_Guy posted...
Most girls don't care that much if you work out or not, it's mostly guys who are into that stuff.
Absolutely delusional.

Guy A has a fat dad bod indicating poor health and physical inactivity.

Guy B is fit, muscular and looks like he could chop down a tree with 1 swing of an axe.

You are absolutely delusional if you think fitness is not one of if not THE MOST significant variables for sexual attraction.
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Background_Guy
05/30/22 9:46:38 PM
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Living-Legendx8 posted...
Absolutely delusional.

Guy A has a fat dad bod indicating poor health and physical inactivity.

Guy B is fit, muscular and looks like he could chop down a tree with 1 swing of an axe.

You are absolutely delusional if you think fitness is not one of if not THE MOST significant variables for sexual attraction.
And both of those are getting laid if they have good social skills

Taking an awkward CEman and throwing him in the gym will do nothing. There's a whole category of super-fit incels, they call them gymcels.
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GS4Life
05/30/22 9:53:40 PM
#233:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

I was living in the dorms and hanging out with a variety of different people more than ever. Had some female friends but go zero romantic interest out of girls.

Not even joking the only time I ever got hit on during my college days was by a male prostitute and I was very cut.

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Lorenzo_2003
05/30/22 10:04:15 PM
#235:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
LMAO !!!! @Lorenzo_2003

You think that 10/10 babe on the beach is thinking about the stud lifeguards bank account when hes rolling by looking like a bronze Hercules?

You are absolutely delusional.

@Living-Legendx8
First, theres no need for you to sound unhinged. Second, nobody said anything about physical attractiveness not being a factor.

If youre good looking, people will notice and respond. But this thread is about dating overall, not just hookups. In fact, TCs article looked at not only casual daters but also those looking for a commitment. Interestingly, you mentioned a stud lifeguard looking like a bronze Hercules. Ask yourself whats the percentage of men who resemble that. Is it 10 percent, maybe even just five percent or less of men? Conversely, do you think men are only aiming at the top 10 or five percent of women? Men are way, way more thirsty than that and it wouldnt be shocking if theyre Ok with whatever hits the 60 percent mark, and thats being generous by not including top tier dudes who can date anyone, anywhere, any time.

Keep in mind, that its perfectly fine to have these standards. But when some people imply that the standards arent actually high or that they arent skewed, then thats just being unreasonable.

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Ivany2008
05/30/22 10:09:17 PM
#237:


Living-Legendx8 posted...
Absolutely delusional.

Guy A has a fat dad bod indicating poor health and physical inactivity.

Guy B is fit, muscular and looks like he could chop down a tree with 1 swing of an axe.

You are absolutely delusional if you think fitness is not one of if not THE MOST significant variables for sexual attraction.

My ex-roommate was 5'4, 375 lbs. Brought home a new woman every week. You'd be surprised what someone can bring home if their charisma stat is maxed out. And now that he's dropping down most of his weight and is less than 300 lbs? I'm sure he's doing well for himself in the love department.
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bsp77
05/30/22 10:21:00 PM
#239:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Dudes will absolutely date a broke woman who dropped out of high school, though.
I won't

[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

This. And confidence makes men sexy.

GS4Life posted...
Not even joking the only time I ever got hit on during my college days was by a male prostitute and I was very cut.
While I have been hit on a few times, most of my success I made happen. You are probably too passive.

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bsp77
05/30/22 10:21:49 PM
#240:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Who and what?

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bsp77
05/30/22 10:37:01 PM
#242:


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Oh, him. I am aware.

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deoxxys
05/30/22 10:43:26 PM
#243:


Lorenzo_2003 posted...
You know what really, really does not attract women?

Broke dudes. Especially broke dudes with no status and no connections. Cant pay for your dates meals when youre broke. Cant do a whole lot of things for her when youre broke. Dudes will absolutely date a broke woman who dropped out of high school, though.

Im sure you will find that one exception out of thousands who bucks that trend, and I say thats fine and good luck with that.
XD

Love it

That's game facts in a nutshell

"But but the grass isn't always green"


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Ivany2008
05/30/22 10:46:02 PM
#244:


deoxxys posted...
XD

Love it

That's game facts in a nutshell

"But but the grass isn't always green"

It's also total bullshit. Women will date men who are broke and done that for centuries.
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bsp77
05/30/22 10:47:04 PM
#245:


Ivany2008 posted...
It's also total bullshit. Women will date men who are broke and done that for centuries.
Yeah, Lorenzo has some extreme views to put it lightly

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ragnarokius
05/30/22 10:47:13 PM
#246:


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O.o

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deoxxys
05/30/22 10:49:13 PM
#247:


Ivany2008 posted...
It's also total bullshit. Women will date men who are broke and done that for centuries.
Yeah but only the handsome broke dudes
Like not the average guys
But like the gorgeous dudes

I would refute that for centuries part for very recent times. Because the difference in past times is we had smaller communities and our voices couldn't be heard from as far away. But now we have social media and social dating. So the dating pool is a lot bigger than if you just had to choose among the men in your town.


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Ivany2008
05/30/22 10:52:11 PM
#248:


deoxxys posted...
Yeah but only the handsome broke dudes
Like not the average guys
But like the gorgeous dudes

I would refute that for centuries part for very recent times. Because the difference in past times is we had smaller communities and our voices couldn't be heard from as far away. But now we have social media and social dating. So the dating pool is a lot bigger than if you just had to choose among the men in your town.

No, again I point out that Charisma is a key factor in many relationships. You can be an ugly piece of shit but if you know how to sweet talk someone you can get in even moreso than a lot of other men. Lets not forget that Ron Jeremy exists. Now, he isn't an asshole, but his charisma is through the roof. Even if he wasn't swinging a column between his legs he would still get a lot of women.
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WingsOfGood
05/30/22 10:52:22 PM
#249:


deoxxys posted...
Like not the average guys

what is an average guy?
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deoxxys
05/30/22 11:01:42 PM
#250:


WingsOfGood posted...
what is an average guy?
7/10

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deoxxys
05/30/22 11:05:11 PM
#251:


Ivany2008 posted...


No, again I point out that Charisma is a key factor in many relationships. You can be an ugly piece of shit but if you know how to sweet talk someone you can get in even moreso than a lot of other men
I don't really take exceptions into consideration because rare is the man who is ugly as f*** but his charisma is through the roof. It's like looking for a unicorn and still goes by the principle "but not all grass is green though".

It's just not a practical method for the average guy to try to attain in order to better himself.

I'm autistic so I have always had problems with social interactions. I've done my best to improve my social skills by watching help videos but there's only so much I can do without a certain level of awkwardness.

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HovaRex
05/30/22 11:05:26 PM
#252:


deoxxys posted...
7/10

You're not great at math are you?

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WingsOfGood
05/30/22 11:07:31 PM
#253:


deoxxys posted...
7/10

Maybe 6.5

what do these numbers signify?
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deoxxys
05/30/22 11:08:49 PM
#254:


WingsOfGood posted...
what do these numbers signify?
How good looking you are on a scale of 1 to 10


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VigorouslySwish
05/30/22 11:11:21 PM
#255:


Ivany2008 posted...
My ex-roommate was 5'4, 375 lbs. Brought home a new woman every week. You'd be surprised what someone can bring home if their charisma stat is maxed out. And now that he's dropping down most of his weight and is less than 300 lbs? I'm sure he's doing well for himself in the love department.

Id like to see pictures of those women

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deoxxys
05/30/22 11:15:21 PM
#256:


HovaRex posted...
HovaRex posted...
You're not great at math are you?
Got nothing to do with math

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WingsOfGood
05/30/22 11:16:05 PM
#257:


deoxxys posted...
Got nothing to do with math

7/10 is 70%

average would be 50%
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deoxxys
05/30/22 11:20:25 PM
#258:


WingsOfGood posted...
7/10 is 70%

average would be 50%
An average is the sum of all numbers divided by all entries

If an average was 50% that would assume people were actually giving out scores 1-5 as often as people give 6-10 but they don't, which is why the average is 7/10

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