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Rayman2
09/13/21 11:09:51 AM
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Fam_Fam
09/13/21 11:10:46 AM
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because young women can have sex with whoever they want, and this is made easier with the internet, and so they pick the best men available. also, the best men are often older, as they have more money, status, power, and stability
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Alteres
09/13/21 11:11:20 AM
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27%

Just looks like more people being honest.

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Rayman2
09/13/21 11:12:09 AM
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Fam_Fam posted...
because young women can have sex with whoever they want, and this is made easier with the internet, and so they pick the best men available. also, the best men are often older, as they have more money, status, power, and stability
You mean its because 50 year old bald dudes are banging all the hot womenM
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Xethuminra
09/13/21 11:12:38 AM
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Aaand

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TrollTrace
09/13/21 11:25:21 AM
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Everything is going online, but you cannot have sex online. Go figure.
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Prestoff
09/13/21 11:27:22 AM
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Alteres posted...
27%

Just looks like more people being honest.

This might also be the case as well. Like depression rates, it is entirely on self reports and back then you would have a liklier time to get made fun/shamed of if you claim you are a virgin or had mental issues.

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sabrestorm
09/13/21 11:29:55 AM
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Sex isnt the end goal to everything, maybe young men have more refined tastes now days

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NeoShadowhen
09/13/21 11:32:45 AM
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I would want to see the data on average number of sexual partners among men who have had sex over the same time period. I believe that would shed some light on whether or not technology based increases to the size of the potential dating pool is actually having an effect.
I suppose Id need the same data sets for women also.
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Mackorov
09/13/21 11:34:07 AM
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Just go look at dating apps where females reign so supreme they can ghost you the moment you made a small typo in your words

and you wonder why. Thank you washington post for shedding light on this
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smoke_break
09/13/21 11:34:49 AM
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It's harder to find a partner. I think online dating had the opposite effect and made dating more difficult, at least for young men.

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Perascamin
09/13/21 11:35:04 AM
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It's also just hard to approach women anymore because if a girl doesn't like something about you she can just call you creepy and put you on blast. This is a huge problem if you live in smaller towns.

People are also much more obese than they were in the past, which leads to major self esteem issues along with health issues

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ktownslayer16
09/13/21 11:35:43 AM
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the Incel uprising is (not) coming

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Rayman2
09/13/21 11:35:46 AM
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smoke_break posted...
It's harder to find a partner. I think online dating had the opposite effect and made dating more difficult.
It made dating more difficult for minorities lets be real if you are a minority dude women will ghost you
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Were_Wyrm
09/13/21 11:37:54 AM
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The rise of Chad

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Heartomaton
09/13/21 11:39:31 AM
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Were_Wyrm posted...
The rise of Chad

I hear that he's limitless.

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Winrawr
09/13/21 11:40:59 AM
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There is plenty of evidence to show that this trend is not exclusive to men at all. Women are also having far less sex

The reasons are

1. Needing to go to grad school to even getting a decent job
2. College students moving back home after college
3. Living with parents in general due to financial reasons

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Mackorov
09/13/21 11:41:10 AM
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ktownslayer16 posted...
the Incel uprising is (not) coming

ah yes, the term used to mask off and waive off a huge societal problem of gender imbalance that exists today but we don't want to acknowledge
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Rayman2
09/13/21 11:42:45 AM
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Mackorov posted...
ah yes, the term used to mask off and waive off a huge societal problem of gender imbalance that exists today but we don't want to acknowledge
They just don't want to admit its minority dudes who get the worst deal and thus its ok to put us down.

The US has always hated disenfranchised young men
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Mackorov
09/13/21 11:43:14 AM
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Winrawr posted...
There is plenty of evidence to show that this trend is not exclusive to men at all. Women are also having far less sex

The reasons are

1. Needing to go to grad school to even getting a decent job
2. College students moving back home after college
3. Living with parents in general due to financial reasons

I agree those are legitimate factors but it doesn't explain why MEN are having less sex than women. After all, isn't it MEN that naturally would want more sex? I'd also discount off the factor on gays since they only make up 1% of the population. so wouldnt affect survey data much... if they happen to made up the respondents

I've done some informal (of course, flawed) askings and my own surveys on random forums around and hoenstly I notice this trend too. Women are more likely to report having sexual encounters and more bodycounts than men do. I accounted for the factor that more men on the internet would tend to be the losers and stuff (ahem) but hey, it's the women on this same internet answering too.

All in all, the statistic holds up and poses the ultimate question, WHY? Even the media refuses to acknowledge it obviously, instead giving reasons that are only applicable to both genders
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ktownslayer16
09/13/21 11:43:55 AM
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how is it 'gender imbalance' ffs.

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Mackorov
09/13/21 11:46:57 AM
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Woozul posted...
i wouldn't say men want sex more, but I mean women tend to get less out of it unless the person knows what they're doing or will listen (they probably won't)

Men are inherently more desiring for sex. Just go on any dating app as a woman and put in your bio you're looking for a hookup. Your inbox will be practically flooded in a second.

Meanwhile do that as a man on a dating app and your match rate will be a graveyard
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Winrawr
09/13/21 11:47:41 AM
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Mackorov posted...
I agree those are legitimate factors but it doesn't explain why MEN are having less sex than women. After all, isn't it MEN that naturally would want more sex? I'd also discount off the factor on gays since they only make up 1% of the population. so wouldnt affect survey data much... if they happen to made up the respondents

I've done some informal (of course, flawed) askings and my own surveys on random forums around and hoenstly I notice this trend too. Women are more likely to report having sexual encounters and more bodycounts than men do. I accounted for the factor that more men on the internet would tend to be the losers and stuff (ahem) but hey, it's the women on this same internet answering too.

All in all, the statistic holds up and poses the ultimate question, WHY? Even the media refuses to acknowledge it obviously, instead giving reasons that are only applicable to both genders
Men aren't having less sex than women though. This is an incel narrative. I saw a really interesting research study on this: women arr having slightly more sex but young women are slightly more financially independent believe it or not
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Antifar
09/13/21 11:51:39 AM
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More young men are living with their parents since the recession.

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Mackorov
09/13/21 11:52:42 AM
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Antifar posted...
More young men are living with their parents since the recession.

and how's that any different from women?
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ROOTFayth
09/13/21 11:52:49 AM
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Rayman2 posted...
You mean its because 50 year old bald dudes are banging all the hot womenM
think prime for men is somewhere between 30 and 40
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DoctorPiranha3
09/13/21 11:56:30 AM
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Mackorov posted...
and how's that any different from women?
Women just need to have a vagina and dick will rain down on them. Facts of life!
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The_Yahtz09
09/13/21 12:13:25 PM
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Mackorov posted...
Men are inherently more desiring for sex. Just go on any dating app as a woman and put in your bio you're looking for a hookup. Your inbox will be practically flooded in a second.

Meanwhile do that as a man on a dating app and your match rate will be a graveyard
This speaks more about dating apps than it does about who desires sex more.

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Cocytus
09/13/21 12:20:46 PM
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Because it's too much bullshit to go through.
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ktownslayer16
09/13/21 12:28:23 PM
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Woozul posted...
Women have to be more careful. That's an aspect being left out of the conversation here.

This.

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Njolk
09/13/21 12:34:03 PM
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lol CE topic of the day

Ok, soft bodied video game hobbyists. I'm sure it's because of online dating

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Lost_All_Senses
09/13/21 12:38:24 PM
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I need a line for blowjobs as well before I jump to any rash conclusions.

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AngelsNAirwav3s
09/13/21 12:41:28 PM
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Why bother trying to date when you get far more mental/sexual stimulation just by scrolling through porn videos on your phone

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Lorenzo_2003
09/13/21 12:47:06 PM
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sabrestorm posted...
Sex isnt the end goal to everything, maybe young men have more refined tastes now days

Nah.

Young men are still, well, young men. Theyd have sex all day everyday, if they had women agreeing to it.

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AsucaHayashi
09/13/21 12:47:43 PM
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Makeup and plastic surgery along with social media has changed the status quo

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Hornswoggled
09/13/21 12:52:40 PM
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I think there are too many guys remaining virgins well into adulthood for the whole incel phenomenon to be chalked up to the individual failures of some men.
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Demon1050
09/13/21 12:56:03 PM
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Rayman2 posted...

You mean its because 50 year old bald dudes are banging all the hot womenM


Nah....think middle aged 30-50 but still damn good looking, well over 6 ft, and rich. Like Ashton Kutcher type guys. Obviously few will be -that- good looking, but plenty are "good enough" and ready to get wild.
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MartinBrodeur
09/13/21 12:56:17 PM
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Because for the most part (doesn't apply for every man) men are content with just jerking it off

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Mackorov
09/13/21 12:57:05 PM
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Woozul posted...
Women have to be more careful. That's an aspect being left out of the conversation here.

I'm pretty sure someone being open to having hookups is the most trustworthy though, no?
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Arcanine2009
09/13/21 12:57:59 PM
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I think technology and education has changed things drastically.

Over reliance on technology has made gen y and z socially awkward with each other and maybe not prioritize sex as much, since there is also so much more entertainment out there that people value over a relationship.

People are also more educated about sex now, so that could have an impact to push people to have sex later.

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Mackorov
09/13/21 12:59:51 PM
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Hornswoggled posted...
I think there are too many guys remaining virgins well into adulthood for the whole incel phenomenon to be chalked up to the individual failures of some men.

The problem is women equating any single man that admits his failure in dating as 'incel'. This means majority of these men do not dare to speak up about their troubles.

It's an invisible societal issues plaguing us the media doesn't want to address because journalism is dominated by progressive feminists
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Questionmarktarius
09/13/21 1:13:35 PM
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MartinBrodeur posted...
Because for the most part (doesn't apply for every man) men are content with just jerking it off
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Prestoff
09/13/21 1:23:11 PM
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Mackorov posted...
The problem is women equating any single man that admits his failure in dating as 'incel'. This means majority of these men do not dare to speak up about their troubles.

It's an invisible societal issues plaguing us the media doesn't want to address because journalism is dominated by progressive feminists

Anecdotally, I find it to be guys who have the tendency to make fun of other guys for being "virgins". This happened a lot in the locker rooms when I was playing basketball and football in highschool (wasn't good enough to do it at a college level unfortunately). For some reason, being a virgin is akin to being a loser and sleeping with more women is akin to basically holding a lot of trophies. The same cannot be said about women though where a women being a virgin is highly sought after ("pure") but a women who sleeps with men are considered whores.

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