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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 12:51:06 PM
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A couple weeks ago i didnt enough to pay for my stuff at the gas station and a nice lady covered it. That's like the second time that's happened and i just don't get what compels someone to do that for a stranger

I always find it weird and surprising that there are kind people in this world
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DarkBuster22904
09/09/21 12:54:59 PM
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I was at a drive thru once and the girl said that the driver in front of me paid for my order.

I went ahead and paid for the person behind me. Wonder how long, or even if, the chain kept going

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 12:55:39 PM
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Respect. That's cool that you paid for the next person
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
09/09/21 1:02:50 PM
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I've paid for people who have had their card decline or something and if they look to be struggling. (Elderly, disabled, etc. ) I've done it three times in the past year or so and it's never been over 20 bucks or so.

DarkBuster22904 posted...
I was at a drive thru once and the girl said that the driver in front of me paid for my order.

I went ahead and paid for the person behind me. Wonder how long, or even if, the chain kept going


I've NEVER been involved in one but they seem super fucking dumb. I get you're trying to be nice but all it does is force you to pay for an order you didn't order. Someone got yours? that was nice they covered the 10 bucks. The next person has a 30 dollar order though and you better keep it going! No. You shouldn't feel pressure to pay for theirs. Fuck that.

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:04:13 PM
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I dont think you "get" it if youre worrying about the price
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DarkBuster22904
09/09/21 1:07:12 PM
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WrkHrdPlayHrdr posted...
I've NEVER been involved in one but they seem super fucking dumb. I get you're trying to be nice but all it does is force you to pay for an order you didn't order. Someone got yours? that was nice they covered the 10 bucks. The next person has a 30 dollar order though and you better keep it going! No. You shouldn't feel pressure to pay for theirs. Fuck that
Not the point, dude.

They paid for my order, blind. That was nice, and made me feel good, but I didn't really need it.

All I did was kick the can down the road to someone else who may (or may not, idk) need it more.

Price isn't what I worried about. I didn't need it, so I passed the nice gesture along

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Giant_Aspirin
09/09/21 1:07:39 PM
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i had a random lady pay for my Chipotle the other weekend. i thanked her and she said she liked my mask. i didn't pay for the person behind me because fuck that obligation.

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Greekhand
09/09/21 1:08:49 PM
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Yes. I didn't pay for the person behind me, because it's a stupid, unfair tradition and people shouldn't do it

WorkHard and Giant Aspirin get it

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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
09/09/21 1:11:44 PM
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DarkBuster22904 posted...
Not the point, dude.

They paid for my order, blind. That was nice, and made me feel good, but I didn't really need it.

All I did was kick the can down the road to someone else who may (or may not, idk) need it more.

Price isn't what I worried about. I didn't need it, so I passed the nice gesture along


I get it. And if you have the extra cash to do it I won't knock you for doing it. My first sentence was about how I have paid for people who have had cards declined at various places.

However if you go to get a big mac meal for 8 bucks or whatever it is now and the chain starts when it comes to your turn to pay all of a sudden you're not on the hook for 8, you're POSSIBLY on the hook for whatever the person behind you ordered. You'll look like the asshole for saying "oh cool, thanks" when the cashier tells you that yours is paid for and you don't want to pay for the next guy. I just don't like the guilt it gives you and I don't think it's fair for people to feel it. Maybe I'm just weird.

Like it creates expectations that you didn't ask for and all you're trying to do is eat a burger.

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pkmnlord
09/09/21 1:11:48 PM
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I've never had it happen to me, but you can bet your ass I'd break the chain before it even got started lol I ain't got time for that.

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:15:33 PM
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Yall are bad people, or at the least lacking in empathy and emotional intelligence. Good grief
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Greekhand
09/09/21 1:17:19 PM
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Punished_Joseph posted...
Yall are bad people, or at the least lacking in empathy and emotional intelligence. Good grief
This thread was a long windup for this punchline. Just say in the op "I return the favor because I'm not a dick" and save people from doing the courtesy of thinking you wanted a discussion

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:17:22 PM
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Yall are completely missing the point here and its really lame you think youre being cool by pointing out you'd never pay for anyone else
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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:18:24 PM
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Greekhand posted...
This thread was a long windup for this punchline. Just say in the op "I return the favor because I'm not a dick" and save people from doing the courtesy of thinking you wanted a discussion
I legitimately was just trying to share in the goodness of human nature and i appreciate that mod who shared their wholesome experience
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sabrestorm
09/09/21 1:20:02 PM
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Bive never seen it myself but if I have a chance I will help someone

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:22:19 PM
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Good on you. Respect
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Fluttershy
09/09/21 1:22:24 PM
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i waved at some guy's dog and he paid for my stuff once.

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WrkHrdPlayHrdr
09/09/21 1:22:29 PM
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Punished_Joseph posted...
Yall are completely missing the point here and its really lame you think youre being cool by pointing out you'd never pay for anyone else

Personally I think it's lame that if I have 10 bucks and want to go get some food that somehow I'm an asshole because I don't want to pay more than the 10 bucks my food cost. I'd GLADLY say I'll pay my 10 for the next guy since my food is covered but I don't think they will let you do partial payments like that between customers.

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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:23:09 PM
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Calm down
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BlingBling22947
09/09/21 1:52:00 PM
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Never.

If I've ever been short a dollar or less (like a quarter or dime or something), someone has stepped in to provide but that's about it.

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modena
09/09/21 1:54:16 PM
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About 2 weeks ago a guy standing behind me in line at a gas station paid for my tall beer.

But I honestly think it was because I pulled out a pocket of change lol. Still very cool,because obviously I could of used it that day.

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Kanaya413
09/09/21 1:55:07 PM
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Yeah someone paid for my food once! Unfortunately I havent been able to do the same yet but maybe someday when we are better off
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Punished_Joseph
09/09/21 1:55:51 PM
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modena posted...
About 2 weeks ago a guy standing behind me in line at a gas station paid for my tall beer.

But I honestly think it was because I pulled out a pocket of change lol. Still very cool,because obviously I could of used it that day.
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One_Day_Remains
09/09/21 2:18:35 PM
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Yeah I remember a dude paying for my Subway sandwich when I was with friends and didn't have money for one.

Also I didn't have enough money on my card at Walgreens and dude behind me in line covered it
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gatorsPENSbucs
09/09/21 2:25:17 PM
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DarkBuster22904 posted...
I was at a drive thru once and the girl said that the driver in front of me paid for my order.

I went ahead and paid for the person behind me. Wonder how long, or even if, the chain kept going
Ive been to Starbucks like 4 times in my life and two of those times that happened to me, and same paid for the person after me.

Saw something the other day where someone said the person behind them was honking and being annoying, so at the first window they said theyd pay for the person behind them. 2nd window they said give me the food I paid for and dipped.

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Giant_Aspirin
09/09/21 2:27:29 PM
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Punished_Joseph posted...
Yall are completely missing the point here and its really lame you think youre being cool by pointing out you'd never pay for anyone else

that's not what i said at all. i just dont "continue the chain" for the exact reasons outlined in post #4

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CableZL
09/09/21 2:28:52 PM
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I've been a part of it at Starbucks and I started it once at a Chick Fil A.

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YookaLaylee
09/09/21 2:29:39 PM
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I thought that only happened on TV
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KingWhiteKnight
09/09/21 2:34:01 PM
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If I just got my oaycheck and im in a good mood I have zero problems paying for other people
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Ryven
09/09/21 2:37:19 PM
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I actually used to do this all the time. I stopped eating fast food years ago so trips to the drive thru are pretty rare. Though i will grab coffee from time to time, i should get back to doing it.

I had a cop in front of me one time who did it for me.

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Relient_K
09/09/21 2:42:35 PM
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I was getting donuts one morning and the person in front paid for my $3.14 order trying to pay down a gift card they didn't want. I did not even think about paying it forward until later, but a lot of people do coffee runs for their entire office and stuff like that and I'm not paying for that.

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Smackems
09/09/21 2:46:35 PM
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Yeah fuck that lol

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samurai bandit
09/09/21 3:49:36 PM
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What if paying it forward is a scam?

Cashier sees your order is only like $3, they make up someone paid for you but in reality the cashier will pay for you. Then you "pay for the next in line", but surprise that next in line is the cashier's friend who will order $50 worth of food.


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toadfan64
09/09/21 5:32:50 PM
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I've had it happen to me at Dunkin' twice actually. Both times I was only getting a $2 coffee, and while I was appreciative, I wasn't paying $10 for the next person.
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Hexenherz
09/09/21 5:34:27 PM
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Not for me but I did it once for this lady that let me in to the drive through line instead of cutting me off.

I felt awkward though because my order already took a long time to get and then they were confused with what I was trying to pay for lmao

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The-Apostle
09/09/21 5:34:43 PM
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A couple times someone paid for my groceries.

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