Current Events > Over 30 year old virgins, ever thought about getting a hooker?

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pojr posted...

its illegal

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not everywhere

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I wouldnt mind soon once I'm in a better situation financially. And I manage to find a reputable escort service/site that I dont fear is being monitored by the police.

Aside from that idk why so many guys have a problem with it. Actually now that I think about it non virgins seem to be far more accepting of prostitution in general then virgins from my experiance.

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I don't care enough to bother at this point, and I don't even know where I'd find one.

Also not exactly a good idea during a pandemic regardless.

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I4NRulez posted...

pojr posted...

its illegal

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not everywhere

Arent most users on CE living in the US? It's illegal in 49 states here.
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Its legal where I live. I did it when I was 29. Was a pretty good experience.

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pojr posted...

its illegal

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It's illegal like weed is illegal. Just have to do basic research and use common sense and it's not a big deal.

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smoke_break posted...

It's illegal like weed is illegal. Just have to do basic research and use common sense and it's not a big deal.

i agree, but police still do stings for that shit even to this day

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Naysaspace posted...

Do starving people pick the corn out of a chunk of feces to eat?

jesus christ lmao

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Coloradough posted...

I find it strange that you think sex is the reason people have girlfriends

I find it strange you think that i think sex is why people have girlfriends.

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Naysaspace posted...

Do starving people pick the corn out of a chunk of feces to eat?

Yes.

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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Yes.

What about peanuts. Isnt it strange how you eat the peanut but when it comes out its whole.

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Conflict posted...

You're right, they should do it so they can now start obsessing with the fact that they had to pay for sex to get it, which will worsen their self-esteem even further. Great idea

You guys are more obsessed with virginity status than actual virgins are. Mad weird

You know, you're not a bad guy, but your defensive reflex can bring you to Reggie levels.

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There are quite a few girls that get a thrill out of taking a guys virginity. They kind of get immortalized. Like I got an unattractive buddy laid that was pushing 30 just by mentioning it to a girl in a bar. She wasn't looking for anything beyond that but was more than happy to help him out.

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SauI_Goodman posted...

What about peanuts. Isnt it strange how you eat the peanut but when it comes out its whole.

i chew my food

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Sure but Im not that interested in finding one

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Jiek_Fafn posted...

There are quite a few girls that get a thrill out of taking a guys virginity. They kind of get immortalized. Like I got an unattractive buddy laid that was pushing 30 just by mentioning it to a girl in a bar. She wasn't looking for anything beyond that but was more than happy to help him out.

Hot

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Conflict posted...

I'm not being defensive of anything. It doesn't apply to me

It's just dumb to suggest that people with already low self esteem do something that's going to make it even worse.

People can be offended even by concepts that don't involve them. Lots of people get real mad about cuckoldry, even when they've never done anything with it.

Lots of virgins are obsessed with the fact that they're virgins, that's pretty clearly what we're talking about here. Brute forced solution is the only way a lot of these guys here are gonna get any.

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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Lots of virgins are obsessed with the fact that they're virgins, that's pretty clearly what we're talking about here. Brute forced solution is the only way a lot of these guys here are gonna get any.

Eh, I understand what you meant, but I'm not sure "brute force" is the term I would have used given the subject matter.
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The Catgirl Fondler posted...

Eh, I understand what you meant, but I'm not sure "brute force" is the term I would have used given the subject matter.

Ugh fuck, you're right. I'm using it from a password cracker context, I just mean "the direct and simple approach", not literal, actual brute force, guys. Excuse me.

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Lol

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EnvoyOfTheLight posted...

Lots of virgins are obsessed with the fact that they're virgins, that's pretty clearly what we're talking about here.

100%
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Notti posted...

100%

Yeah, once they get the monkey off their back and realize sex isn't a big deal, they will stop stressing over it.

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Conflict posted...

I'm not being defensive of anything. It doesn't apply to me

It's just dumb to suggest that people with already low self esteem do something that's going to make it even worse.

Youre assuming that every 30+ virgin has low self esteem and you're also assuming that paying for sex will make their self esteem worse. I'm sure that the actual sex will make someone forget about how much they paid for it.

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Do not go for the street walkers. They're the ones that fit the bad stereotypes.

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Naysaspace posted...

Do starving people pick the corn out of a chunk of feces to eat?

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smoke_break posted...

It's illegal like weed is illegal. Just have to do basic research and use common sense and it's not a big deal.

I've never used weed either, and would have no idea where to get it. Keep the profile of homebodies who use GameFAQs in mind.
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The_Korey posted...

Do not go for the street walkers. They're the ones that fit the bad stereotypes.

Do you know this from experience?

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Graycap posted...

I've never used weed either, and would have no idea where to get it. Keep the profile of homebodies who use GameFAQs in mind.

What state do you live in?

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despair, michigan

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DoubleDare posted...

Yea, but then you dont worry whether you have to reject her or ghost her afterwards.

You're disgusting

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Coloradough posted...

I find it strange that you think sex is the reason people have girlfriends

^ This. Sex is an important part of a relationship, but not the reason that relationship exists. You can't substitute a relationship with the sex from a sex worker.

I think its a ridiculous thing to suggest. I think if someones first time is with a prostitute its probably going to damage their first time with a proper girlfriend, and will likely become something they regret.

Most of us later on would have preferred our first time to have been with someone else, mainly because a lot of us kinda rush. Not necessarily regret, but would have preferred it if we had waited until a little. If that first time was with a prostitute then I think that might become a big regret.

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jon1012 posted...

Do you know this from experience?

Paid before, but not for a street walker. Some look nice, but I wouldn't risk it even for free.

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RedWhiteBlue posted...

I swear, most people have no idea what the hell it means to be an older virgin. Looking at the rule, and not the exceptions (asexuals, that one lucky fat friend who pulls left and right, etc) that people pull out as if it's the rule, you get very deep rooted issues that have affected people for all of history.

What does it mean to be an older virgin? It could mean many things: you weren't brought up well, socially held back, not attractive, possibly not motivated in life, depression, never been wanted or loved by anyone outside of family, rejection after rejection, obessession over a particular person for years, no time, no money, no confidence, too weird, the list just goes on and on.

If someone says they're a virgin, that's a fully loaded statement. It's not that they chose it (again, the rule and not the exception), it's not a personality trait in and of itself, but it has meaning to it that almost entirely consists of multiple issues. These people aren't just looking for a quick fuck. They don't wanna pay a couple hundred bucks, drive out, rent a hotel, anxiety over avoiding cops, etc. They want a relationship. They want to be loved. They want their existence validated. They're people, all of us are. And when such basic things aren't met, for years, far longer than most people, it wears on you. This isn't rocket science. So many people ignore the facts of mental health and psychology. Dating apps know these things and they've even posted undeniable proof of just how bad it is for the people who even bother searching, ignoring the even higher amount outside of them who have given up.

Legalizing sex work is good. I'm for it. But I also know that the people using it will almost entirely be composed of those who are already able to get sex. And it's also not uncommon to hear how someone regrets seeing a sex worker because it was their only option, because they weren't seen as valuable to the people they tried to date.

Give it 200 years, maybe people will take this seriously.

Summary of summary!

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RedWhiteBlue posted...

These people aren't just looking for a quick fuck. They don't wanna pay a couple hundred bucks, drive out, rent a hotel, anxiety over avoiding cops, etc. They want a relationship. They want to be loved. They want their existence validated.

This is the vibe I get from most "incels", tbh. All the more reason that name annoys me.

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I wouldn't, because even though I want sex eventually, real human connection is what I mainly want. However, I am not one of those people who constantly agonize about getting some and are constantly worrying about it. I know eventually it'll work out with somebody just because I am a good person with a personality and I have plenty of friends, so I know I am not actually some undateable loser. If I actually pushed myself to go out more(pre covid) I might have made it work by now.

Great post. 10/10. Liked. Followed. Subscribed.

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RedWhiteBlue posted...

And it's also not uncommon to hear how someone regrets seeing a sex worker because it was their only option, because they weren't seen as valuable to the people they tried to date.

Proof?

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I would like to bump this, thanks.

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You're welcome.

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Thank you again.

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DuranOfForcena posted...

this is exactly how i feel as a 34 year old virgin, and it really frustrates me when people just don't get it. when they say things like "oh yeah, you just gotta realize that sex isn't a big deal". it isn't a big deal to you, because you have been having it since a socially acceptable age and you know what it's like to make someone happy and for that someone to make you happy. it's like, step outside of your own goddamn experience a little bit, jfc.

So you've never had any kind of relationship with your desired sex?

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DuranOfForcena posted...

this is exactly how i feel as a 34 year old virgin, and it really frustrates me when people just don't get it. when they say things like "oh yeah, you just gotta realize that sex isn't a big deal". it isn't a big deal to you, because you have been having it since a socially acceptable age and you know what it's like to make someone happy and for that someone to make you happy. it's like, step outside of your own goddamn experience a little bit, jfc.

Yep, well said.

It's like, go to people who've always been homeless and act like having a home is nbd because you've never imagined/had life without it.

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DuranOfForcena posted...

this is exactly how i feel as a 34 year old virgin, and it really frustrates me when people just don't get it. when they say things like "oh yeah, you just gotta realize that sex isn't a big deal". it isn't a big deal to you, because you have been having it since a socially acceptable age and you know what it's like to make someone happy and for that someone to make you happy. it's like, step outside of your own goddamn experience a little bit, jfc.

Breh. I was a virgin til 28 or 29. Sex was a big deal, but then I changed my mind. Let's not make assumptions on everyone shrugging it off.

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DuranOfForcena posted...

but the point still stands. when you have never experienced it, and you want to, it IS a big deal that you have never experienced it.

It still stopped being a big deal before I experienced it, so the point does not stand.

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