Poll of the Day > welp i realized im in an abusive relationship

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hamsarris_ 10/25/20 2:58:08 PM #1:	haha,, fuck so my fiancee just yells over every little thing. i do EVERYTHING in the relationship that involves anything above minimal effort. she accuses me of cheating on her like five times a week. shes said she would take everything from me if I leave what the fuck do i do --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946284267] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>haha,, fuck so my fiancee just yells over every little thing. i do EVERYTHING in the relationship that involves anything above minimal effort. she accuses me of cheating on her like five times a week. shes said she would take everything from me if I leave what the fuck do i do </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/25/20 3:00:42 PM #2:	Leave now You're young You don't need to settle for behavior you don't like --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:946284349] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Leave now You're young You don't need to settle for behavior you don't like </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smiffwilm 10/25/20 3:01:50 PM #3:	Make her WANT to leave. (remember to act surprised though) --- My Mario Maker 2 ID is 6RG-5XK-JCG <cite>Smiffwilm posted [p:946284386] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Make her WANT to leave. (remember to act surprised though) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FatalAccident 10/25/20 3:02:16 PM #4:	Jen0125 posted... You don't need to settle for behavior you don't like yep --- walks away <cite>FatalAccident posted [p:946284404] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote> You don't need to settle for behavior you don't like</quote>yep </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 10/25/20 3:04:21 PM #5:	If she is your fiance how is she going to take everything from you? Even if you were married in most states she couldn't do that. Anyway nothing in life is worth living with someone like that, and if she is threatening you then obviously she doesn't love you. Leave, start over if you have to, and find someone you actually are happy with. --- Tacobot 3000 "Saving the world from not having tacos." Friends don't make their friends die Hanz. Psychopathic friends do. <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:946284478] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>If she is your fiance how is she going to take everything from you? Even if you were married in most states she couldn't do that. Anyway nothing in life is worth living with someone like that, and if she is threatening you then obviously she doesn't love you. Leave, start over if you have to, and find someone you actually are happy with. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 10/25/20 3:08:55 PM #6:	Let someone else deal with that shit. --- C was right. <cite>zebatov posted [p:946284652] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Let someone else deal with that shit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanded 10/25/20 3:11:41 PM #7:	that doesn't sound like something you realize after several months lol just say she's abusive so bye and ring back plz ty, it's easy --- Puss in Boots was a good movie and it deserves more recognition <cite>Wanded posted [p:946284777] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>that doesn't sound like something you realize after several months lol just say she's abusive so bye and ring back plz ty, it's easy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OhhhJa 10/25/20 3:11:51 PM #8:	What is "take everything" exactly? She have some dirt on you or something? You aren't married so she can't just take your shit unless you let her <cite>OhhhJa posted [p:946284784] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>What is "take everything" exactly? She have some dirt on you or something? You aren't married so she can't just take your shit unless you let her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanded 10/25/20 3:13:44 PM #9:	OhhhJa posted... You aren't married so she can't just take your s* unless you let her apparently they can now if you cohabited long enough, it's feminists response to mgtow, maybe that's state dependent though i dunno --- Puss in Boots was a good movie and it deserves more recognition <cite>Wanded posted [p:946284858] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>OhhhJa posted... </cite> <quote>You aren't married so she can't just take your s* unless you let her</quote>apparently they can now if you cohabited long enough, it's feminists response to mgtow, maybe that's state dependent though i dunno </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smarkil 10/25/20 3:13:45 PM #10:	you could kill her --- I promise that if the game stinks I will make a topic about how I hate it and you can all laugh at me - Mead on Fallout 76 <cite>Smarkil posted [p:946284862] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>you could kill her </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 3:22:23 PM #11:	Smarkil posted... you could kill her alas i have taken the path of the mf airbenders now, shits pretty pog OhhhJa posted... What is "take everything" exactly? She have some dirt on you or something? You aren't married so she can't just take your shit unless you let her i mean she doesnt have anything incriminating on me but shes not above property damage --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946285190] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Smarkil posted... </cite> <quote>you could kill her</quote>alas i have taken the path of the mf airbenders now, shits pretty pog OhhhJa posted... </cite> <quote>What is "take everything" exactly? She have some dirt on you or something? You aren't married so she can't just take your shit unless you let her</quote>i mean she doesnt have anything incriminating on me but shes not above property damage </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/25/20 3:23:29 PM #12:	Let her damage your property and file a police report. It's not worth staying. Or move your stuff out suddenly and then tell her you're leaving. Or ghost her. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:946285234] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Let her damage your property and file a police report. It's not worth staying. Or move your stuff out suddenly and then tell her you're leaving. Or ghost her. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 3:25:01 PM #13:	I gotta save up hella money and fast may try to get a suv so i can pack more shit and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946285295] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>I gotta save up hella money and fast may try to get a suv so i can pack more shit and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JigsawTDC 10/25/20 3:28:19 PM #14:	hamsarris_ posted... and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them As someone who went back to live with parents after breaking up with the girl I was living with, I understand your desire not to go back to them. But if your relationship is as bad and abusive as you paint it to be here, you really should go back to your parents for a bit and just deal with the "I told you so" bs. Unless they're going to be abusive too <cite>JigsawTDC posted [p:946285425] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them</quote> As someone who went back to live with parents after breaking up with the girl I was living with, I understand your desire not to go back to them. But if your relationship is as bad and abusive as you paint it to be here, you really should go back to your parents for a bit and just deal with the "I told you so" bs. Unless they're going to be abusive too </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 3:29:13 PM #15:	JigsawTDC posted... As someone who went back to live with parents after breaking up with the girl I was living with, I understand your desire not to go back to them. But if your relationship is as bas and abusive as you paint it to be here, you really should go back to your parents for a bit and just deal with the "I told you so" bs. Unless they're going to be abusive too ding ding ding i was forced to go to college and they make me feel like ass in an attempt to get me to go --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946285469] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>JigsawTDC posted... </cite> <quote>As someone who went back to live with parents after breaking up with the girl I was living with, I understand your desire not to go back to them. But if your relationship is as bas and abusive as you paint it to be here, you really should go back to your parents for a bit and just deal with the "I told you so" bs. Unless they're going to be abusive too</quote>ding ding ding i was forced to go to college and they make me feel like ass in an attempt to get me to go </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 5:09:53 PM #16:	welp she and her mom are fighting BTW EVEN THOUGH I FUCKING PAYED RENT AT OUR OLD APARTMENT AND QUIT TO TAKE CARE OF HER, SHE EMAILED THE LANDLORD AND SAID WE WERENT PAYING RENT BECAUSE THE MAINTENANCE MAN DIDNT DO SHIT im fucking scared --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946289619] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>welp she and her mom are fighting BTW EVEN THOUGH I FUCKING PAYED RENT AT OUR OLD APARTMENT AND QUIT TO TAKE CARE OF HER, SHE EMAILED THE LANDLORD AND SAID WE WERENT PAYING RENT BECAUSE THE MAINTENANCE MAN DIDNT DO SHIT im fucking scared </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 10/25/20 5:15:22 PM #17:	If it's an old apartment why do you care? --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:946289844] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>If it's an old apartment why do you care? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 10/25/20 5:16:21 PM #18:	You should divorce your fiancee --- The Betrayer <cite>Mead posted [p:946289885] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>You should divorce your fiancee </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Noop_Noop 10/25/20 5:18:21 PM #19:	you sort of sound like a massive wuss homie. pack your shit and go. sleep in your fucking car if you gotta. --- I think there might be something wrong with you <cite>Noop_Noop posted [p:946289968] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>you sort of sound like a massive wuss homie. pack your shit and go. sleep in your fucking car if you gotta. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 5:19:16 PM #20:	Jen0125 posted... If it's an old apartment why do you care? Because I was on the lease and she kept landlord contact info away from me and she broke the lease, basically that shit will reflect on me Mead posted... You should divorce your fiancee im workin on it --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946290004] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Jen0125 posted... </cite> <quote>If it's an old apartment why do you care?</quote>Because I was on the lease and she kept landlord contact info away from me and she broke the lease, basically that shit will reflect on me Mead posted... </cite> <quote>You should divorce your fiancee</quote>im workin on it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joe_Biden 10/25/20 6:21:03 PM #21:	hamsarris_ posted... im not putting up with the i told you so speech it sounds like they knew before you did so probably go listen to that speech --- "If we were in high school, I'd take him behind the gym and beat the hell out of him." <cite>Joe_Biden posted [p:946292595] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>im not putting up with the i told you so speech</quote>it sounds like they knew before you did so probably go listen to that speech </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClarkDuke 10/25/20 6:58:21 PM #22:	well, i always remember what billy bob thornton told me, if you want to get rid of a crazy person, fake a terminal illness so they leave you, ok? or, if it's a safer bet, act lazy, stop taking care of yourself, and get them to leave you, ok? --- https://imgur.com/qL0DHFI https://imgur.com/JL9rRLt https://youtu.be/dQw4w9WgXcQ <cite>ClarkDuke posted [p:946294238] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>well, i always remember what billy bob thornton told me, if you want to get rid of a crazy person, fake a terminal illness so they leave you, ok? or, if it's a safer bet, act lazy, stop taking care of yourself, and get them to leave you, ok? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/25/20 7:33:33 PM #23:	hamsarris_ posted... and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them That's really not a big deal. Your pride is worthless, swallow it and get yourself into a healthier situation. Living with your parents isn't a permanent thing; you'll be able to move out in due course. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:946295764] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>and i really cant go back to my parents, im not putting up with the i told you so speech or living with them</quote> That's really not a big deal. Your pride is worthless, swallow it and get yourself into a healthier situation. Living with your parents isn't a permanent thing; you'll be able to move out in due course. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 7:41:34 PM #24:	adjl posted... That's really not a big deal. Your pride is worthless, swallow it and get yourself into a healthier situation. Living with your parents isn't a permanent thing; you'll be able to move out in due course. I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that. --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946296147] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>adjl posted... </cite> <quote>That's really not a big deal. Your pride is worthless, swallow it and get yourself into a healthier situation. Living with your parents isn't a permanent thing; you'll be able to move out in due course.</quote>I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanded 10/25/20 7:43:36 PM #25:	hamsarris_ posted... im not putting up with the i told you so speech well....they DID tell you so though, maybe they can tell you more things you should know since they already have some track record of being right while you have a track record of being wrong, i don't know your parents but maybe if you admit they were right they would help you out which will save you a lot of money and hassle given you should be using your strength on dealing with your ex, seems more efficient --- Puss in Boots was a good movie and it deserves more recognition <cite>Wanded posted [p:946296255] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>im not putting up with the i told you so speech</quote>well....they DID tell you so though, maybe they can tell you more things you should know since they already have some track record of being right while you have a track record of being wrong, i don't know your parents but maybe if you admit they were right they would help you out which will save you a lot of money and hassle given you should be using your strength on dealing with your ex, seems more efficient </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Wanded 10/25/20 7:45:58 PM #26:	hamsarris_ posted... I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that. that has no correlation to whether anything they say is correct or false though --- Puss in Boots was a good movie and it deserves more recognition <cite>Wanded posted [p:946296359] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that.</quote>that has no correlation to whether anything they say is correct or false though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/25/20 7:49:57 PM #27:	Wanded posted... that has no correlation to whether anything they say is correct or false though heres the thing though theyre coming from a viewpoint of oh they arent x,y, or z, Im not giving them a chance, shit like that basically if they dont want the good ol days back they dont like em --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946296518] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Wanded posted... </cite> <quote>that has no correlation to whether anything they say is correct or false though</quote>heres the thing though theyre coming from a viewpoint of oh they arent x,y, or z, Im not giving them a chance, shit like that basically if they dont want the good ol days back they dont like em </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 10/25/20 7:51:19 PM #28:	leave. plenty of fish out there. yolo lifes too short <cite>teddy241 posted [p:946296571] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>leave. plenty of fish out there. yolo lifes too short </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pipebomb__sushi 10/25/20 7:52:21 PM #29:	bang her one last time without her knowing immediately after the bang, break up with her --- #pipebomb_phil https://imgur.com/atWQoAs <cite>pipebomb__sushi posted [p:946296615] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>bang her one last time without her knowingimmediately after the bang, break up with her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sarcasthma 10/25/20 7:55:37 PM #30:	I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice. --- What's the difference between a pickpocket and a peeping tom? A pickpocket snatches your watch. <cite>Sarcasthma posted [p:946296752] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RoboXgp89 10/25/20 7:55:46 PM #31:	my family is terrible and i've lived with them my whole life so are my neighbors and people from my town and all the woman i've had sex with I guess I'm a terrible person, my lucky day! --- You haven't set a signature for the message boards yet https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WErq2CBYTU <cite>RoboXgp89 posted [p:946296758] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>my family is terrible and i've lived with them my whole life so are my neighbors and people from my town and all the woman i've had sex with I guess I'm a terrible person, my lucky day! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 10/25/20 7:59:02 PM #32:	hamsarris_ posted... what the fuck do i do Buy a hamster and call him Dave. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:946296876] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>what the fuck do i do</quote> Buy a hamster and call him Dave. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OhhhJa 10/25/20 8:01:21 PM #33:	Sarcasthma posted... I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice. I think he didn't mean that the way it sounded <cite>OhhhJa posted [p:946296994] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Sarcasthma posted... </cite> <quote>I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice.</quote>I think he didn't mean that the way it sounded </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
adjl 10/25/20 8:45:52 PM #34:	hamsarris_ posted... I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that. Doesn't matter, it's better than getting further tangled up in this relationship. You need to cut ties with her and start your life over, and for that, you'll need a place to stay. Swallow your pride and work toward moving out on your own again. --- This is my signature. It exists to keep people from skipping the last line of my posts. <cite>adjl posted [p:946298852] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>I mean, if I knew they were coming from an actual place of love then yeah I would but nah man they honestly are fucking insane and want me to be just like them. fuck that.</quote> Doesn't matter, it's better than getting further tangled up in this relationship. You need to cut ties with her and start your life over, and for that, you'll need a place to stay. Swallow your pride and work toward moving out on your own again. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Revelation34 10/25/20 8:58:26 PM #35:	Sarcasthma posted... I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice. It's great advice though. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms <cite>Revelation34 posted [p:946299380] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Sarcasthma posted...</cite> <quote>I definitely do not recommend going with phils advice. </quote> It's great advice though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 10/25/20 9:09:47 PM #36:	I don't really have anything to add but that sucks. Hope you manage a clean break and life goes back to being pleasant relatively quickly. --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:946299909] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>I don't really have anything to add but that sucks. Hope you manage a clean break and life goes back to being pleasant relatively quickly. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosAzeroth 10/25/20 9:57:18 PM #37:	OhhhJa posted... I think he didn't mean that the way it sounded Sure hope not anyway. When I read it, I thought that could mean one of two different things tbh. <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted [p:946301800] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>OhhhJa posted... </cite> <quote>I think he didn't mean that the way it sounded </quote> Sure hope not anyway. When I read it, I thought that could mean one of two different things tbh. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gaawa_chan 10/25/20 10:59:54 PM #38:	I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior. --- Hi <cite>Gaawa_chan posted [p:946304170] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sarcasthma 10/25/20 11:06:36 PM #39:	Revelation34 posted... It's great advice though. The part about having non-consensual sex with her? --- What's the difference between a pickpocket and a peeping tom? A pickpocket snatches your watch. <cite>Sarcasthma posted [p:946304409] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Revelation34 posted... </cite> <quote>It's great advice though.</quote>The part about having non-consensual sex with her? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Revelation34 10/25/20 11:08:34 PM #40:	ChaosAzeroth posted... Sure hope not anyway. When I read it, I thought that could mean one of two different things tbh. Not sure how else it could be interpreted. He's saying to have sex with her and then break up immediately. If there's something else than that then I'm not getting it. Gaawa_chan posted... I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior. That would just make the courts side with her due to how shitty the system is. She could easily get a lawyer that would argue that the reaction was goaded. Sarcasthma posted... The part about having non-consensual sex with her? Wat. --- Gamertag: Kegfarms, BF code: 2033480226, Treasure Cruise code 318,374,355, Steam: Kegfarms <cite>Revelation34 posted [p:946304463] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>ChaosAzeroth posted...</cite> <quote> Sure hope not anyway. When I read it, I thought that could mean one of two different things tbh. </quote> Not sure how else it could be interpreted. He's saying to have sex with her and then break up immediately. If there's something else than that then I'm not getting it. Gaawa_chan posted...</cite> <quote>I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior. </quote> That would just make the courts side with her due to how shitty the system is. She could easily get a lawyer that would argue that the reaction was goaded. Sarcasthma posted...</cite> <quote> The part about having non-consensual sex with her? </quote> Wat.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raddest_Chad 10/25/20 11:11:56 PM #41:	She sounds super low-quality. If this is how she is now, it's only gonna get worse. Clearly not a good fit. --- Formerly The Cyborg Ninja <cite>Raddest_Chad posted [p:946304570] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>She sounds super low-quality. If this is how she is now, it's only gonna get worse. Clearly not a good fit. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sarcasthma 10/25/20 11:11:57 PM #42:	Revelation34 posted... Wat. Is there some other way to interpret bang her without her knowing that Im missing? where u at, rev? --- What's the difference between a pickpocket and a peeping tom? A pickpocket snatches your watch. <cite>Sarcasthma posted [p:946304572] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Revelation34 posted... </cite> <quote>Wat.</quote>Is there some other way to interpret bang her without her knowing that Im missing? where u at, rev? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 10/25/20 11:24:38 PM #43:	Run! --- Society is built on a mass hallucination. <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:946305049] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Run! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 10/26/20 12:02:27 AM #44:	what did i miss jesus --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946306398] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>what did i miss jesus </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ZayKayWill 10/26/20 12:29:13 AM #45:	What is wrong with people? --- Bottom line love your self and what you do and GET THAT MONEY. **** every thing else! -shinwufang2 <cite>ZayKayWill posted [p:946307313] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>What is wrong with people? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YoukaiSlayer 10/26/20 12:40:02 AM #46:	Sarcasthma posted... Is there some other way to interpret bang her without her knowing that Im missing? I believe the person meant "bang her without her knowing you are going to break up with her". --- I'm ninja (you can't see me) <cite>YoukaiSlayer posted [p:946307619] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Sarcasthma posted... </cite> <quote>Is there some other way to interpret bang her without her knowing that Im missing?</quote>I believe the person meant "bang her without her knowing you are going to break up with her". </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 10/26/20 2:14:02 AM #47:	hamsarris_ posted... what did i miss jesus Stuff. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/YvP6isz <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:946309718] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>hamsarris_ posted... </cite> <quote>what did i miss jesus</quote>Stuff. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dedbus 10/26/20 2:32:04 AM #48:	You should really start moving your valued possessions out of there on the sly before you do the formal break up though. <cite>dedbus posted [p:946310019] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>You should really start moving your valued possessions out of there on the sly before you do the formal break up though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sarcasthma 10/26/20 3:39:15 AM #49:	YoukaiSlayer posted... I believe the person meant "bang her without her knowing you are going to break up with her". Ohhhhhh...okay. That sounds a lot less rapey. --- What's the difference between a pickpocket and a peeping tom? A pickpocket snatches your watch. <cite>Sarcasthma posted [p:946311040] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>YoukaiSlayer posted... </cite> <quote>I believe the person meant "bang her without her knowing you are going to break up with her".</quote>Ohhhhhh...okay. That sounds a lot less rapey. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hamsarris_ 11/02/20 9:53:45 AM #50:	Gaawa_chan posted... I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior. We left so quickly and i was never given contact info my health insurance should kick in this month currently living with her parents --- https://twitch.tv/hamsarris_ <cite>hamsarris_ posted [p:946611647] in welp i rea... [t:79062775]...</cite> <quote>Gaawa_chan posted... </cite> <quote>I might be able to give you a little advice. Just to be clear, though... Have you spoken to your landlords/etc? Do you have access to a therapist or legal counsel? Consider meeting with one to discuss your situation as they may have better advice than random people on the internet. There are some ways to speak to therapists free of charge but it depends entirely on where you live. Have you been documenting what's been happening? If not you need to start doing so, and if it is legal in your state you should start recording your arguments with her so that you can catch any threats she makes on tape. Are you living with her now? If so, consider changing the locks and putting her things outside while she's not around, then recording her reaction and if she makes any threats, taking it to the police and pursue getting a restraining order. It will help you if you make sure that neighbors witness what is going on between the two of you, so if you can, make sure your neighbors see/hear her behavior.</quote>We left so quickly and i was never given contact info my health insurance should kick in this month currently living with her parents </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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